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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all you lovely lot (& to the not so lovely).

Does any1 else find it frustrating that they get chatting to sum1 new,... Mail just starts getting to the stage where you see a potentially great meet evolving, then for no reason that's obvious.... BAM!! No reply,... Almost like your respondent has been cut off.!! WTF...??

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Someone else just beat you to it

Move on and remember not to waste your time in an endless chit chat with the next person

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

All sorts of things could have happened, but like Exo said, ping pong messages tend to get you nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember, it's a sweetie shop here for girls, just accept that a sweeter sweet has come along and beaten you to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All sorts of things could have happened, but like Exo said, ping pong messages tend to get you nowhere "

They can do as its all about the messages and how you come across

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the conversation comes to an end because there is nothing further to say maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's disgraceful behaviour! You need to stalk the woman in question for the next few months and rummage through her dustbin etc. to get further info.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it doesn't frustrate us in the least. if the chat leads to a meet that's great but if it doesn't it's no big deal.

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We have much more important things in life to frustrate us than a chat on a tinpot swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it doesn't frustrate us in the least. if the chat leads to a meet that's great but if it doesn't it's no big deal.

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We have much more important things in life to frustrate us than a chat on a tinpot swingers site "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had messages come to a stop, I just figure they will respond should they wish, and if they don't well good luck to them...

I hate people that put time constraints on response times

Equally I have chatted with some and decided they weren't for me after all

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

As stated above.

Sometimes I have nothing more I can add, another good morning/evening is not going to add more to the conversation.

But mostly I have changed my mind.

I have a couple I chat to on a regular basis, but only because I am in the process of persuading them to meet with me as they don't live close. But apart from that, I only chat if I intend to meet them soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont suppose it's crossed your mind that it may have been getting good for you but for alot of women and couples its just another of many similar conversations about sex

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Dont suppose it's crossed your mind that it may have been getting good for you but for alot of women and couples its just another of many similar conversations about sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's disgraceful behaviour! You need to stalk the woman in question for the next few months and rummage through her dustbin etc. to get further info. "

And don't forget to put a dead bunny rabbit in a pot on her cooker on a slow boil

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It happens quite a lot. Some people struggle to communicate via the written word, some just change their mind but I think the vast majority either get cold feet or have no intention of ever meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes the conversation comes to an end because there is nothing further to say maybe"

I've had this, message for a few days and it starts to fizzle out. I do like to chat via messages on here for a while, but there had yo be a spark of interest, if it's not there, I do let the conversation die a natural death. However I kinda know if it's ever going to lead to a meet within 5 or 6 messages, if it's not I make it clear, but I am happy still chatting, there the conversations that usually die x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't find it frustrating as not all conversations will lead somewhere. I have been suprised by it a few times though.

Especially when they have kept returning to my page on a regular basis afterwards.

Some people like to window shop

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