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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago

Ok you lovely horny lot.

We're a young (ish) couple, we are curious about the myth and if its true. Was there ever actually a time where couples and singles put their car keys in a big pot and would genuinely go home with who ever picked them out ?

Would anyone be intrested in play that game again ? we find the thought of it quite a thrill.

Obviously if you picked our keys that would mean you get us as a couple.

Thoughts ??

Sarah xx

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By *punk n gushCouple
23 weeks ago

deal

My husband used to go to a club beforehand meet me that was excatly like you say key in Bowl and you played with whoever key you picked

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By *asterMeliodasMan
23 weeks ago

Newmill


"Ok you lovely horny lot.

We're a young (ish) couple, we are curious about the myth and if its true. Was there ever actually a time where couples and singles put their car keys in a big pot and would genuinely go home with who ever picked them out ?

Would anyone be intrested in play that game again ? we find the thought of it quite a thrill.

Obviously if you picked our keys that would mean you get us as a couple.

Thoughts ??

Sarah xx"

I've definitely heard stories of times this was how it happened at parties. I'd totally be up for something like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"My husband used to go to a club beforehand meet me that was excatly like you say key in Bowl and you played with whoever key you picked "

OMG it's actually true ???

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By *ittycock400Couple
23 weeks ago

Bristol

We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting. "

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

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By *asterMeliodasMan
23 weeks ago

Newmill


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx"

It's a great equaliser, too. Everyone gets included, no one is left out or made to feel like they're less than any other attendee.

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By *essTTWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx"

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

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By *ittycock400Couple
23 weeks ago

Bristol


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?"

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

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By *wonsamediMan
23 weeks ago

stockport

I just thought it was what you saw in the movies.

Imagine the awkwardness if you got someone's keys and you didn't want to fuck them

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
23 weeks ago

Port Talbot


"I just thought it was what you saw in the movies.

Imagine the awkwardness if you got someone's keys and you didn't want to fuck them"

Well you never have to fuck anyone ever. So if that happened, you’d make your excuses, leave, get a Chinese and go home to watch Match of the day!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

It's a great equaliser, too. Everyone gets included, no one is left out or made to feel like they're less than any other attendee."

Exactly !! and this is part of the thrill, no staying inside the circle of pals you already have.

No leaning towards your typical "type".

A way to go outside of your comfort zone, let go of control and possibly be pleasantly suprised.

The thought gets me so horny xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party. "

exactly xx

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By *essTTWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party. "

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Tbf I kinda find this kinky

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By *wonsamediMan
23 weeks ago

stockport


"I just thought it was what you saw in the movies.

Imagine the awkwardness if you got someone's keys and you didn't want to fuck them

Well you never have to fuck anyone ever. So if that happened, you’d make your excuses, leave, get a Chinese and go home to watch Match of the day! "

Is match of the day still on?

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By *asterMeliodasMan
23 weeks ago

Newmill


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?"

Presumably when arranging it, it would be made clear that it's a random result, and that you'd have to be attracted to everyone else going in order for it to work. It wouldn't really make sense to do this style of party without ascertaining that beforehand, as it would lead to awkward situations like this and that wouldn't make for a fun night.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
23 weeks ago

Newmill

Either that or it would have to be made clear to attendees that participation is entirely optional and they may well be rejected regardless of who their keys end up with, and they'd have to confirm that they're okay with that possibility in order to be allowed in.

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By *herry delightWoman
23 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?"

You are only having sex not expected to spend the night together or form a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?"

We're into kink, so for us, if we didn't find them attractive I'd put a full face mask on them, jump on that stiff cock and think of Russia hahahaha xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?

You are only having sex not expected to spend the night together or form a relationship.

"

Ohhhhhh I love this response.

Sarah xx

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By *asterMeliodasMan
23 weeks ago

Newmill


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?

We're into kink, so for us, if we didn't find them attractive I'd put a full face mask on them, jump on that stiff cock and think of Russia hahahaha xx"

The important question that needs to be asked here is: would it be a novelty Hugh Jackman mask?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?

We're into kink, so for us, if we didn't find them attractive I'd put a full face mask on them, jump on that stiff cock and think of Russia hahahaha xx

The important question that needs to be asked here is: would it be a novelty Hugh Jackman mask?"

Hahahaha now that is funny !! you made us both actually laugh out loud.

Actually, I kind of have a old school black and white movie kink going on at the moment so it would be a James Dean mask...

either that or Santa xx

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By *essTTWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?

You are only having sex not expected to spend the night together or form a relationship.

"

This response makes no sense because you would still need to find them attractive to have sex with them no?

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By *essTTWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?

We're into kink, so for us, if we didn't find them attractive I'd put a full face mask on them, jump on that stiff cock and think of Russia hahahaha xx"

This kinda of make sense although I'd be mortified if someone was only having sex with me because it's 'rules' and not because they genuinely wanted to

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By *asterMeliodasMan
23 weeks ago

Newmill


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?

We're into kink, so for us, if we didn't find them attractive I'd put a full face mask on them, jump on that stiff cock and think of Russia hahahaha xx

The important question that needs to be asked here is: would it be a novelty Hugh Jackman mask?

Hahahaha now that is funny !! you made us both actually laugh out loud.

Actually, I kind of have a old school black and white movie kink going on at the moment so it would be a James Dean mask...

either that or Santa xx"

I'm mainly here to make people laugh, so I'll chalk today in the win column. :D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?

We're into kink, so for us, if we didn't find them attractive I'd put a full face mask on them, jump on that stiff cock and think of Russia hahahaha xx

This kinda of make sense although I'd be mortified if someone was only having sex with me because it's 'rules' and not because they genuinely wanted to "

Tess, do you have quite high standards ?

I'm 25, i'm a gymnast so i have an athletic body, i am told I'm good looking, not everyone I play with has to be Ryan Reynolds.

I'm secure in myself and in my marriage... sometimes it's just about taking some stiff cock and closing my eyes untill I cum.

I'm not knocking you, it's a legitimate question about your standards, perhaps I should raise mine haha xx

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By *essTTWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?

We're into kink, so for us, if we didn't find them attractive I'd put a full face mask on them, jump on that stiff cock and think of Russia hahahaha xx

This kinda of make sense although I'd be mortified if someone was only having sex with me because it's 'rules' and not because they genuinely wanted to

Tess, do you have quite high standards ?

I'm 25, i'm a gymnast so i have an athletic body, i am told I'm good looking, not everyone I play with has to be Ryan Reynolds.

I'm secure in myself and in my marriage... sometimes it's just about taking some stiff cock and closing my eyes untill I cum.

I'm not knocking you, it's a legitimate question about your standards, perhaps I should raise mine haha xx"

I don't think wanting to have sex with someone i find attractive is having high standards?

The same way I wouldn't expect anyone to have sex with me if they didn't find me attractive.

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By *essTTWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?

We're into kink, so for us, if we didn't find them attractive I'd put a full face mask on them, jump on that stiff cock and think of Russia hahahaha xx

This kinda of make sense although I'd be mortified if someone was only having sex with me because it's 'rules' and not because they genuinely wanted to

Tess, do you have quite high standards ?

I'm 25, i'm a gymnast so i have an athletic body, i am told I'm good looking, not everyone I play with has to be Ryan Reynolds.

I'm secure in myself and in my marriage... sometimes it's just about taking some stiff cock and closing my eyes untill I cum.

I'm not knocking you, it's a legitimate question about your standards, perhaps I should raise mine haha xx"

It's also worth noting I didn't say anything about looks or body shape, so Ryan reynolds comment is irrelevant. I said "someone I find attractive"

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By *oiluvfunMan
23 weeks ago

Penrith


"Ok you lovely horny lot.

We're a young (ish) couple, we are curious about the myth and if its true. Was there ever actually a time where couples and singles put their car keys in a big pot and would genuinely go home with who ever picked them out ?

Would anyone be intrested in play that game again ? we find the thought of it quite a thrill.

Obviously if you picked our keys that would mean you get us as a couple.

Thoughts ??

Sarah xx"

I absolutely love the idea of this, but with a modern twist;

One hotel, all the ladies are in the rooms, and the guys pick room cards out of a pot, with just the room number on, then off upstairs to meet whoever they pulled out of the pot…..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"Ok you lovely horny lot.

We're a young (ish) couple, we are curious about the myth and if its true. Was there ever actually a time where couples and singles put their car keys in a big pot and would genuinely go home with who ever picked them out ?

Would anyone be intrested in play that game again ? we find the thought of it quite a thrill.

Obviously if you picked our keys that would mean you get us as a couple.

Thoughts ??

Sarah xx

I absolutely love the idea of this, but with a modern twist;

One hotel, all the ladies are in the rooms, and the guys pick room cards out of a pot, with just the room number on, then off upstairs to meet whoever they pulled out of the pot….. "

I love this idea, bit we're a couple who doesn't play separately so if a guy picks our card it woukd be a MFM, would that still work ???

I genuinely love your idea touch I might arrange a hotel take over like this xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?

We're into kink, so for us, if we didn't find them attractive I'd put a full face mask on them, jump on that stiff cock and think of Russia hahahaha xx

The important question that needs to be asked here is: would it be a novelty Hugh Jackman mask?

Hahahaha now that is funny !! you made us both actually laugh out loud.

Actually, I kind of have a old school black and white movie kink going on at the moment so it would be a James Dean mask...

either that or Santa xx

I'm mainly here to make people laugh, so I'll chalk today in the win column. :D"

Then consider yourself winning sir ... haha xx

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By *orthmanMan
23 weeks ago

Kendal

Somehow I knew about this as a teenager. That and pampas grass.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"Somehow I knew about this as a teenager. That and pampas grass."

what is pampas grass ? xx

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By *exy_HornyCouple
23 weeks ago

Leigh

Love this idea.

We can find something attractive in most people.

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By *itygamesMan
23 weeks ago

UK


"Somehow I knew about this as a teenager. That and pampas grass.

what is pampas grass ? xx"

we used to call it a bullrush i think

bamboo type stem with a fluffy top

there some old wives tale if youve got it growing in ya front garden ya a swinger lol load of old tosh

usually found near ponds i think

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By *oxy jWoman
23 weeks ago

taunton somerset

when we first joined the scene 30 +++ years ago the swingers who showed us the ropes were mostly in there 50s/60s age bracket who were nearly all private party goers back then as the southwest had no real clubs and they all say that the never saw the keys in a bowl and until the advert it was just another bullshit rumour ....

ive/we've never seen it either and we been to 100s of private parties and never seen it in clubs all over uk and euro zone ...

but to the subject theres no way in hell im playing witj someone from a draw sorry id puke ..i need sexual attraction at the very least to have fun hubs is the same and everyone i know on this scene would not either most of our friends wont even go in a dark room neither id be sick with the thought of anyone touching me

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

Absolutely not after reading the comments, I need attraction to fuck someone - if it's not there I ain't doing it because I'm expected to.

Any holes a goal isn't for me.

Fuck anyone putting a bag over my head just so they could do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"when we first joined the scene 30 +++ years ago the swingers who showed us the ropes were mostly in there 50s/60s age bracket who were nearly all private party goers back then as the southwest had no real clubs and they all say that the never saw the keys in a bowl and until the advert it was just another bullshit rumour ....

ive/we've never seen it either and we been to 100s of private parties and never seen it in clubs all over uk and euro zone ...

but to the subject theres no way in hell im playing witj someone from a draw sorry id puke ..i need sexual attraction at the very least to have fun hubs is the same and everyone i know on this scene would not either most of our friends wont even go in a dark room neither id be sick with the thought of anyone touching me "

That's so intresting to me, so is it a myth do you think ?? or did it actually happen ??

Curious that you guys are seasoned swingers yet have never seen this. That makes me think it's just a Myth or urban story ? xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"Love this idea.

We can find something attractive in most people."

us to, there is something beautiful in everyone xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"Somehow I knew about this as a teenager. That and pampas grass.

what is pampas grass ? xx

we used to call it a bullrush i think

bamboo type stem with a fluffy top

there some old wives tale if youve got it growing in ya front garden ya a swinger lol load of old tosh

usually found near ponds i think"

Ohhhh I see.

I think the modern version is an upside pineapple sticker on a camper van... if that's true ? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Bar we went to in Amsterdam had exactly that the night before we went along. K

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
23 weeks ago

Hyde


"I just thought it was what you saw in the movies.

Imagine the awkwardness if you got someone's keys and you didn't want to fuck them"

^^This would just be our luck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"I just thought it was what you saw in the movies.

Imagine the awkwardness if you got someone's keys and you didn't want to fuck them

^^This would just be our luck!! "

Back rubs are nice too K

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By *izandpaulCouple
23 weeks ago

merseyside

Most parties we attend it's up to each individual if they play or not.

We've been in this swingers game for over 30 years and never seen keys in a bowl at any party we have attended.

As to feeling an attraction, I do need to feel some form of attraction at a party, club or holiday situation but not at a blindfolded gang bang, just need to perform at these meets.

Meets with bi ladies, I prefer ladies about the same size as me, around size 14.

Not set in stone but I'm honestly not sexually drawn to the larger lady. In a social setting don't care what you look like as long as you are open, funny, chatty, baggage and drama free.

To be fair our last party we

would be happy to throw keys in a bowl as all attendees were lovely.

We are after recreational sex, not long term friends or any form of relationship, got a great marriage and husband.

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
23 weeks ago

Hyde


"

Back rubs are nice too K"

Very true .... tho I would be mortified to be so obvious to do this to someone or have it done to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"Bar we went to in Amsterdam had exactly that the night before we went along. K"

Gosh...I'm going to be honest, I forgot your comment after seeing your profile and pictures... I'm mean WOW, what a truly passionate srxy couple xx

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By *ilver Fox 60Man
23 weeks ago

Southport

Yes it is true. But usually you wouldn't 'go home' with someone, just into another room or any space you fancied.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"I just thought it was what you saw in the movies.

Imagine the awkwardness if you got someone's keys and you didn't want to fuck them

^^This would just be our luck!! "

We'd take your keys and fuck the s#*t out of both of you... sexy sexy sexy xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"Yes it is true. But usually you wouldn't 'go home' with someone, just into another room or any space you fancied."

Ohhhh OK, that makes more sence. So it did happen ? it's not a myth ?

But you'd play in a room not actually got 'home' with someone makes more sense xx

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By *ilver Fox 60Man
23 weeks ago

Southport

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By *ilver Fox 60Man
23 weeks ago

Southport

From memory in the 70s, these were not 'random' meets. You were usually with a group of people who you knew and had probably played with before, so you fancied them anyway.

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By *tripper9Man
23 weeks ago

Blackburn


"I just thought it was what you saw in the movies.

Imagine the awkwardness if you got someone's keys and you didn't want to fuck them

^^This would just be our luck!!

We'd take your keys and fuck the s#*t out of both of you... sexy sexy sexy xx"

I’d put my keys in your bowl ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"I just thought it was what you saw in the movies.

Imagine the awkwardness if you got someone's keys and you didn't want to fuck them

^^This would just be our luck!!

We'd take your keys and fuck the s#*t out of both of you... sexy sexy sexy xx

I’d put my keys in your bowl ?? "

Is that a metaphor ? hahaha xx

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By *ilver Fox 60Man
23 weeks ago

Southport

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By *ickie76XXXMan
23 weeks ago

dartford

Couples have told me about this from before in the 70’s/80’s. As silver fox says above it wasn’t necessarily go home together generally people used to take turns to host a party at their place and they would stay and play with whoever they all picked out. It wasn’t the only thing they did just one of the games they would play to make it a bit more random and fun.

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By *lfa RomeoMan
23 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

I'd definitely give it ago. I might actually get some action hahahaha

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By *ilver Fox 60Man
23 weeks ago

Southport

Remember, there was no internet in those days. Things took time to organise (sometimes via contact magazines and sending pics through the post). As I've said, you usually knew the other players or had at least seen pics of them. But yes, it was incredibly exciting!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"Couples have told me about this from before in the 70’s/80’s. As silver fox says above it wasn’t necessarily go home together generally people used to take turns to host a party at their place and they would stay and play with whoever they all picked out. It wasn’t the only thing they did just one of the games they would play to make it a bit more random and fun.

"

Intresting !!!

So, was it random or pre-planned ? was the place and people pre arranged ?

or more like a dogging meet ? just random.

Honestly, this has me so wet xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"Remember, there was no internet in those days. Things took time to organise (sometimes via contact magazines and sending pics through the post). As I've said, you usually knew the other players or had at least seen pics of them. But yes, it was incredibly exciting!"

WHAT ??? MAGAZINES ???? what so you mean ? omg that is wild ??? is that true? xx

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By *ilver Fox 60Man
23 weeks ago

Southport

You could sometimes buy these mags from the 'top shelf' of a newsagent. Or send a cheque to the publisher and they would send you a copy. The pics people posted were mainly in black and white and not brilliant quality. If you liked the look of someone you would write them a letter and enclose a pic. The letter would be posted to the publisher and they would forward it to the poster. If you got a reply, you were in!

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By *ickie76XXXMan
23 weeks ago

dartford


"Couples have told me about this from before in the 70’s/80’s. As silver fox says above it wasn’t necessarily go home together generally people used to take turns to host a party at their place and they would stay and play with whoever they all picked out. It wasn’t the only thing they did just one of the games they would play to make it a bit more random and fun.

Intresting !!!

So, was it random or pre-planned ? was the place and people pre arranged ?

or more like a dogging meet ? just random.

Honestly, this has me so wet xx "

I don’t think it was totally random as they would have known one another as silver fox says. There may of been an element where people took other people that would have been new to some of the people there. It certainly wasn’t as easy as it is now but it definitely went on. Lots of bushy triangle pubes out back then lol. X

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By *ickie76XXXMan
23 weeks ago

dartford


"Remember, there was no internet in those days. Things took time to organise (sometimes via contact magazines and sending pics through the post). As I've said, you usually knew the other players or had at least seen pics of them. But yes, it was incredibly exciting!

WHAT ??? MAGAZINES ???? what so you mean ? omg that is wild ??? is that true? xx"

Believe it or not in the 80’s my mum and dad used to have “friends” and his wife used to like scrabble and the husband liked backgammon. My mum liked backgammon and my dad liked scrabble. On a Saturday evening my dad would say “are we playing games tonight to my mum” if she said yes he would ring them on the land line and ask exactly that “fancy playing games tonight?” Then he would leave and a while later the husband would appear at our house. Not a scrabble board or backgammon set in sight lol. Even as a kid I thought it was a bit strange but now looking back I think it was blatantly obvious. They used to live a nudist beach too. It must be in the blood lol.

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By *orkshire Couple2000Couple
23 weeks ago

Halifax

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By *orkshire Couple2000Couple
23 weeks ago

Halifax


"Couples have told me about this from before in the 70’s/80’s. As silver fox says above it wasn’t necessarily go home together generally people used to take turns to host a party at their place and they would stay and play with whoever they all picked out. It wasn’t the only thing they did just one of the games they would play to make it a bit more random and fun.

Intresting !!!

So, was it random or pre-planned ? was the place and people pre arranged ?

or more like a dogging meet ? just random.

Honestly, this has me so wet xx "

We're close by to you guys and would love to swap keys with you

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By *etropolitainMan
23 weeks ago

Redworth Co Durham

I did the swap keys when I was in married quarters in Army’s

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By *eturn of curiouscpleCouple
23 weeks ago

Guildford

I've had the impression that when it was popular back in the day, in mostly happened at peoples houses after a dinner party, potentially therfore involving the hosts neighbours and friends. Probably d*unk, but how Awwwkward the following day... Eeeek

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"Bar we went to in Amsterdam had exactly that the night before we went along. K

Gosh...I'm going to be honest, I forgot your comment after seeing your profile and pictures... I'm mean WOW, what a truly passionate srxy couple xx"

wow, thank you! X

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By *herrybakewellCouple
23 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I'm so glad the scene has changed.

Imagine getting someone key and they're horrific.

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By *ake and BeckyCouple
23 weeks ago

Gravesend


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?

We're into kink, so for us, if we didn't find them attractive I'd put a full face mask on them, jump on that stiff cock and think of Russia hahahaha xx

This kinda of make sense although I'd be mortified if someone was only having sex with me because it's 'rules' and not because they genuinely wanted to

Tess, do you have quite high standards ?

I'm 25, i'm a gymnast so i have an athletic body, i am told I'm good looking, not everyone I play with has to be Ryan Reynolds.

I'm secure in myself and in my marriage... sometimes it's just about taking some stiff cock and closing my eyes untill I cum.

I'm not knocking you, it's a legitimate question about your standards, perhaps I should raise mine haha xx

It's also worth noting I didn't say anything about looks or body shape, so Ryan reynolds comment is irrelevant. I said "someone I find attractive""

I'm not really sure this party is for you tbh.

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By *hortishblondeWoman
23 weeks ago

Essex

Years ago I met someone and when we chatted we said if we meet instead of saying yes we would put our keys on the table...

It worked

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By *rin when you SwingCouple
23 weeks ago

Newcastle

Keys are jangling in my hand, where is this pot? lol xx

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By *hortishblondeWoman
23 weeks ago

Essex

Lol

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
23 weeks ago

Scarborogh


"I'm so glad the scene has changed.

Imagine getting someone key and they're horrific. "

Imagine the only key left belonged to the clapped out moped in the car park

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
23 weeks ago

near you...


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?"

That's the bit that puts me off. I think guys would fuck any of the women but it's rare for me to find every guy at a party or club attractive.

Also - I'd want to play with the women too so how would that work?

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By *arkus1812Man
23 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"Couples have told me about this from before in the 70’s/80’s. As silver fox says above it wasn’t necessarily go home together generally people used to take turns to host a party at their place and they would stay and play with whoever they all picked out. It wasn’t the only thing they did just one of the games they would play to make it a bit more random and fun.

Intresting !!!

So, was it random or pre-planned ? was the place and people pre arranged ?

or more like a dogging meet ? just random.

Honestly, this has me so wet xx

I don’t think it was totally random as they would have known one another as silver fox says. There may of been an element where people took other people that would have been new to some of the people there. It certainly wasn’t as easy as it is now but it definitely went on. Lots of bushy triangle pubes out back then lol. X"

My experience of Keys in the bowl parties goes back to the late 1960s and into the 1970s, we had no internet, no mobile phones and not many people had access to a land line. The local pub was where it all happened, groups of people got together on a regular basis, someone would come in and announce that his parents were going away for a few days and the house would be empty, a party/clique would be 4 or 5 couples all known to each other, The car keys would be put into a bowl by the male, the female would then take a set out and they would disappear upstairs.My then girlfriend and I would usually go to one or two parties a month depending on availability of venues.

All parties were by invitation and I do not remember any random visitors.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Always thought you’d want to attach a decent car brand’s key ring to the keys in question. Don’t think any lass would choose me/ the kia… an Aston though

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By *ickie76XXXMan
23 weeks ago

dartford


"Always thought you’d want to attach a decent car brand’s key ring to the keys in question. Don’t think any lass would choose me/ the kia… an Aston though "

lol, you don’t get to look at the keys and choose you just put your hand in so it’s like a lucky dip. If you could choose it kind of defeats the object.

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By *izandpaulCouple
23 weeks ago

merseyside


"Remember, there was no internet in those days. Things took time to organise (sometimes via contact magazines and sending pics through the post). As I've said, you usually knew the other players or had at least seen pics of them. But yes, it was incredibly exciting!"

Very true.

Years ago, it was difficult to get a private party invite.

You had to put yourself about, mainly clubs, you would get to know the couples and singles who actually play.

It took time and effort, timewasters were almost unheard of because effort tends to keep timewasters away.

Clubs, contact mags, letters containing Polaroid photographs and £1 fee to forward each contact.

Can you imagine FAB charging a fee to pass on each message, no forums or chat rooms. Tends to only attract serious players.

But how great is it to have the enormous amount of clubs, swingers holidays, parties and places like FAB showing who is actually close by and off on holiday at certain destinations and dates, club events etc.

It's a great time to be in the swinging scene, if there isn't something that takes your interest, it's never going to happen.

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By *eirdscienceMan
23 weeks ago

Postwick

Wife and I have done keys in a bowl before....some you win some you lose lol

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Reading some of the answers from younger people has reminded me of how much times have changed.

Swinging was such an underground thing.

Thank goodness it’s slightly less secretive and easier to find likeminded people these days!

Can’t say I ever came across the key scenario though.

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By *herry delightWoman
23 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?

You are only having sex not expected to spend the night together or form a relationship.

This response makes no sense because you would still need to find them attractive to have sex with them no?"

No not necessarily after all it's just sex. A very enjoyable activity.

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By *JandCMCouple
23 weeks ago

cardiff

Pretty sure it happed in the 70's n 80's n if I remember correctly you were blindfolded when picking out the car keys.

But not for me, wouldn't be to happy with someone else driving my car n knowing my luck I'd pick my own keys out of the bowl.

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By *umagain58Man
23 weeks ago

London


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?"

I have been going to private parties for years. Did do sometimes and was fun. No you did not have to sleep with like it should always be. This was a way of mixing things up to introduce people. What happened was entirely down to all and how you got on

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
23 weeks ago

Norwich


"We would be up for giving it a go. The pot luck element is exciting.

Isn't it just ? there is something so horny about giving yourself to pure chance xx

So if someone pulls your keys you have to sleep with them regardless if you find them attractive or not?

Presumably you would only invite people you are attracted to to attend the party.

OK but what if 2 of you attendees matched and didn't find each other attractive?

You are only having sex not expected to spend the night together or form a relationship.

This response makes no sense because you would still need to find them attractive to have sex with them no?"

Surely the idea is to fuck regardless, part of the excitement

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By *os19Man
23 weeks ago

Edmonton

I believe these type of parties did happen in the 70’s & 80’s perhaps after a few glasses or bottles of wine where inhibitions are a bit more relaxed.A couple of years ago at a adult club to get things started a lady suggested playing spin the with a bottle of water.Whoever the bottle pointed to she would have give a blow job to.After about 3-4 spins of the bottle it developed into a gang bang. I guess it only takes one to get a party started.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
23 weeks ago

Sheffield

It’s not my cuppa tea. I like going to clubs and finding that mutual attraction.

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By *umagain58Man
23 weeks ago

London

I wonder if there are any who would host a party so we can relive past key swapping

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By *entlemanPMan
23 weeks ago

Grantham

I think it's a good idea. Maybe someone different to who you'd normally go for x

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By *umagain58Man
23 weeks ago

London


"I think it's a good idea. Maybe someone different to who you'd normally go for x"

Oh yes nice. That’s you and us going. More please

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By *eyond PurityCouple
23 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We want a circle of friends that we can do this type of thing with.

Complete randoms where you know nothing of them and get what you’re given would be

K

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By *ndypandy69Man
23 weeks ago

Telford


"From memory in the 70s, these were not 'random' meets. You were usually with a group of people who you knew and had probably played with before, so you fancied them anyway."
I heard that a village with group of couples on the Staffordshire border was known for its parties where Sunday morning would have smartly dressed ladies scurrying back to their respective homes having spent the night with whoever they picked out from the key bowl - it was a smallish groups of 6-8 couples who obviously knew each other and lived near each other. Very much the "wife swapping" scenario

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By *izandpaulCouple
23 weeks ago

merseyside


"Reading some of the answers from younger people has reminded me of how much times have changed.

Swinging was such an underground thing.

Thank goodness it’s slightly less secretive and easier to find likeminded people these days!

Can’t say I ever came across the key scenario though."

I disagree a little.

Parties years ago, the people who attended had been personally invited by the host, mostly to their own home.

All of us had been met previously, either at a club, social or in our case a couple approached us at another party and asked if we would be interested in attending a party at their home.

We can remember it well, the garden backed onto fields so nakedness inside and out was the norm.

The effort this couple had gone to was amazing, just the food they offered was fab.

Timewasters, dreamers, drama queens didn't get a look in and it was so exciting to get these invites, made you feel somewhat special.

I don't think there was anyone at the parties who weren't attractive and/or engaging but there was never any pressure to play and the parties where single guys attended they had been invited too, not just randoms.

Parties on canal boats was a laugh too.

All in all the ease of todays swinging scene has the disadvantage of attracting huge amounts of timewasters, dreamers and delusional.

Like most things in life, a bit of effort can sort out the wheat from the chaff.....

Liz. xx

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By *nick52Man
23 weeks ago

Warrington

these types of parties were in an age pre computors . it took weeks to make a meet through contact mags, or you risked your reputation by asking people face to face , so when these parties were arranged it was with people that were known to yourself and to others , not like today when you put a meet up on here and see who turns up . but if there was a selection of keys with someone that you really were not keen on you still went of with them but respectfully told them and just waited out a respectfull time before re emerging into the group, no foul no harm done.as i say it was a long process to meet people then so keeping in touch with people to meet again or to meet others in each others circle was a given , unlike now when its all instant and you set more rules and can be more selective . other parties were without the keys being selected it just turned into a naked swingers party were all got nude together then drifted off to play as they wished much like a club now adays.

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By *punk n gushCouple
23 weeks ago

deal


"My husband used to go to a club beforehand meet me that was excatly like you say key in Bowl and you played with whoever key you picked

OMG it's actually true ???

"

Yes very the Mr

Nowadays can't even get a mf mf straight couple for sexy fun times let alone keys in a bowl lol

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By *ue and robCouple
23 weeks ago

ware

Keys in a bowl was hiw we started

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By *ilver Fox 60Man
23 weeks ago

Southport


"Reading some of the answers from younger people has reminded me of how much times have changed.

Swinging was such an underground thing.

Thank goodness it’s slightly less secretive and easier to find likeminded people these days!

Can’t say I ever came across the key scenario though.

I disagree a little.

Parties years ago, the people who attended had been personally invited by the host, mostly to their own home.

All of us had been met previously, either at a club, social or in our case a couple approached us at another party and asked if we would be interested in attending a party at their home.

We can remember it well, the garden backed onto fields so nakedness inside and out was the norm.

The effort this couple had gone to was amazing, just the food they offered was fab.

Timewasters, dreamers, drama queens didn't get a look in and it was so exciting to get these invites, made you feel somewhat special.

I don't think there was anyone at the parties who weren't attractive and/or engaging but there was never any pressure to play and the parties where single guys attended they had been invited too, not just randoms.

Parties on canal boats was a laugh too.

All in all the ease of todays swinging scene has the disadvantage of attracting huge amounts of timewasters, dreamers and delusional.

Like most things in life, a bit of effort can sort out the wheat from the chaff.....

Liz. xx"

Spot On!

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By *opman121Man
23 weeks ago

stoke on trent

Swingers party’s I guess key in bowl

Lucky dip

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By *ostguy321Man
23 weeks ago

Princes Risborough

Haha love this, sounds like lots of gin would be needed and lots of fingers crossed

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By *tripper9Man
18 weeks ago

Blackburn

Happy to put my keys in the bowl and leave my clothes as I enter

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By *oandjohnCouple
18 weeks ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

We went to a couples party that had a couple of extra single guys in the late nineties where the evening started off with drinks and nibbles, along with a bit of raunchy dancing and then all the guys had to put their car keys in to a bowl and the woman had to pick out the keys for a slow and raunchy dance. When the song was over they could come of the dance floor and the ladies could have a dip into the bowl for another male partner where they would go on the dance floor again for another slow dance, snog, wondering hands etc….. and then come back off the dance floor for a drink and another luck dip and off they would go again until people were just shagging everywhere.

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By *elshcouple331Couple
18 weeks ago

cardiff

The idea of a keys in a bowl party does sound fun xx

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