FabSwingers.com forum: Zero safe sex in evidence at latest club visit

By *olden_Road_to_Samarkand OP Man
24 weeks ago

London

First club visit in about nine months ...and everyone playing openly (c 80% of activity...it's a small club) was barebacking .... is this really a thing now? And if so why?

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
24 weeks ago

Next Door

Maybe most were couples?

They are happy to play without a condom

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By *oxy jWoman
24 weeks ago

taunton somerset

its alway been the case we do a club every month all over staying in hotels and bareback sex has always been the norm for most thats what we see anyway very few do safer sex

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By *elloWoman
24 weeks ago

alpha centauri

I've never had unsafe sex in a club unless I was having sex with my now ex partner.

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By *orkshire Couple2000Couple
24 weeks ago

Halifax

We went to a club last Saturday & condoms weren't being used. From what we could see everyone was in couples xx

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By *iss DevilWoman
24 weeks ago

Bedford

No, it's not the norm and please don't expect it to be a norm, always have well-fitting condoms on you when at a swingers club.

I go with my partner or my FWB, play with them bare as they are regulars. However, if at any point, we were getting a random guy join us, he would have to wear a condom if I wanted him to fuck me. No condom, no penetration for me for any random men met at clubs.

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
24 weeks ago

Yorkshire

We go to quite a few clubs- safe play has always been present unless they are a couple.

Any guy we interact with has to wear a condom - no play without it.

Some may bareback but it's individual preference. Keep yourself safe and what others do should have no impact on you

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By *hestyCharlotteWoman
24 weeks ago

blackpool

It would appear so , I’ve also witnessed people doing this on quite a few occasions and even seen men passing their wives etc round to be banged by several men one after the other without using condoms. No excuse whatsoever for such stupidity!

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By *olden_Road_to_Samarkand OP Man
24 weeks ago

London

It appears to be becoming more common. I thinkmany people are using PREP, but ignorung ghe ofher STDs...

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By *oxy jWoman
24 weeks ago

taunton somerset

problem being prep is for hiv only not other sexual infections ... i agree with what someone else has said you look after you and avoid others who dont fit what your looking for .... for me safe sex is a must in a club but ive seen alot of bare so im only going by what i see

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By *herry delightWoman
24 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

PREP is much safer option than condoms, If you read the literature they give with you.

The problem I do have is how many people use protection when doing oral sex. I never seen a dental dam being used.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I’ve noticed similar the last few times I’ve been in a club. I noticed it’s not couples only but swapping of couples. I watched a group of about 5-8 couples, swapping going on all over the place and all bareback.

This has really put me off clubs recently.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
24 weeks ago

chichester

Just worry about your own levels of protection and use a condom if you so wish and that’s if it’s compatible with other persons.

In my experience swinging has sways been pretty 50/50 bareback regardless of the nonsense you see wrote on forum posts / profiles.

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By *aomilatteCouple
24 weeks ago

Midlands

Who's using the used condoms we see in playroom bins in club's?

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
24 weeks ago

Carmarthen

"I’ve noticed similar the last few times I’ve been in a club. I noticed it’s not couples only but swapping of couples. I watched a group of about 5-8 couples, swapping going on all over the place and all bareback.

This has really put me off clubs recently.

Haven’t been to a club since the late 2000s when safety was the norm; barebacking puts me on edge and brings out my hypochondriacal anxieties.

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