FabSwingers.com forum: Is there some sort of natural pull?

By *otwife-Knickers OP Couple
30 weeks ago

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I’ve pondered this over the years…. Wondered if anyone had any thoughts?

Do people who share similar values re: sex/swinging attract others naturally?

Our adventures over the years have slowed down due to other things, however, back when we were more active/open, it seemed that we’d attract others who were to.

One couple, a friend, we had never discussed sharing partners, but after a few drinks, discovered both couples were open to this. And we had a one night thing.

A year or so later, met a couple through work and had a double date that I was meant to be a ‘normal’ one, however, they then told us they liked us and invited us to their bed. That became a regular thing. Since then, we’ve not been active and not attracted these types.

So it’s it a thing? Do swingers naturally attract/gravitate to each other? Or is it coincidence?