FabSwingers.com forum: Bi women or simply enjoy group?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hiya,

I've noticed a bit of a trend and I'm curious if I'm totally wrong or not...

I am a bisexual female. I can enjoy one on one with another woman just as much albeit very different to one on one with a man. Yet I've noticed an increasing number of women seem to enjoy being with a woman when their partner is watching or in a free for all group scenario. And although there is nothing wrong with that, I do crave a woman who wants to be with a woman simply because she likes the taste...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiya,

I've noticed a bit of a trend and I'm curious if I'm totally wrong or not...

I totally agree with you on that. It is almost impossible to meet a bi fem who just wants 1 on 1 with another female without their other half watching!! I do think some women "play bi" more for others as opposed to actually wanting to be with another woman. Hey ho, we can live in hope though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am straight ish. I say ish as sometimes the mood takes me and I may kiss another woman but only in as you say group situations. It's kinda like the mood takes over. However I find licking a woman horrid so won't do it.

I do it because it's in the moment. Not to show off to a guy though. Guess many women are like me.

I have played with women at the request of my dominant though. I enjoyed it because he did. Hated actually playing like that. Above the waist is fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will only play with women in a group situation, being with a woman one on one does nothing for me at all, even being in a FFM is to much female contact for me, i like it if in a group where i can swap and change about between people so when ive had enough of a woman i can move onto a guy in without it really being noticed, i just see female sex as forplay, i love it as a build up before moving onto a guy and yes i admit i do like the effect it has on men watching, if it makes them more horny for me im happy to put on a show for them

I don't do it for anyone else tho as i have no one to please being single, we just all have our needs and likes

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

We have found that as well , but amazing how many women over 45 want to try a woman for the first time , weve had 5 like that , and they loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both...1 on 1 is reserved for very special women only though...group situations are what really turn me on because of the variety of activity i can participate in...it's not so much in group situations that I tend to find the "I just do that awful girl girl porn kissing but won't touch your lady bits" women but has been more couples...

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I like both as well but my 1-1 meets tend to be with girls I've already played with in a group situation

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

definitely like my 1 on 1 with ladies. Its just different, I love the way ladies respond and its so much fun.

Yes, I do it as FFM as well, but I'd rather concentrate on just one person at a time.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Jayne is very bi, and loves nothing better than to play with a lady, one on one or in a group, and she certainly doesn't do it "to please me" as I would hate that.

But even if it's a club or party, she still prefers it if I am involved in some way either with her and her playmate(s), or on the fringe playing with somone. I love watching her play, and I love being involved too, so I guess its a win-win for us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still to indulge... Its hard to find item not part of a couple... I want my first to be private, not a spectator opportunity....

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By *uncouple981Couple
over a year ago

ayrshire

I like to play on my own with a woman but like you find most women are doing it for their partners fantasy. I prefer to live out my own fantasies. X

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

"I like both as well but my 1-1 meets tend to be with girls I've already played with in a group situation"

same here,it's great meeting a fem again on my own.We both already know from the groupplay 'how bi' we both are

Only thing is:it's so hot and i'm dying for real cock after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women only here, met one on one with a few also in groups of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very bi and love one to ones with other bi ladies but they are really hard to find. I even changed my profile to straight because I got fed up of being contacted by men from couples who just want a show.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah it's good to see I'm not alone then. I too am in a relationship with a man and although I Reeeeally enjoy my masculine man, there can be something sensual and erotic with another woman. But I do think, especially if you've ever had a long term relationship that's ended regardless of how amicably, that women have a strong need to figure out and experience any and all things that tickle their fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will only play with women in a group situation, being with a woman one on one does nothing for me at all, even being in a FFM is to much female contact for me, i like it if in a group where i can swap and change about between people so when ive had enough of a woman i can move onto a guy in without it really being noticed, i just see female sex as forplay, i love it as a build up before moving onto a guy and yes i admit i do like the effect it has on men watching, if it makes them more horny for me im happy to put on a show for them

I don't do it for anyone else tho as i have no one to please being single, we just all have our needs and likes "

This

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I think there is a sort of sliding scale of "bi-ness" in swinging ladies.

Some at one end of the scale, are "bi-selfish", they recieve but don't give, and others, at the other end of the scale, prefer to play with other ladies, but do play with guys on occassion.

If it were a 1 to 10 scale, I think Jayne would be about a 9, she loves playing with ladies, but loves cock (and the guys attached) too.

This might go some way towards explaining why there is such a difference in the way in which bi-ladies are both percieved, and approached, depending on what experience the other party has had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not alone.

I like women and men,

I could live without pussy but not penis.

I do not need both at the same time.

If I am with a woman, it is because I want that woman.

I do not feel the need to put on a show nor do I play with women just to satisfy men.

I have and do, play with women and men, and yes men do enjoy the ff thing (most men) but I don't need a man if I am with a woman... if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are not alone.

I like women and men,

I could live without pussy but not penis.

I do not need both at the same time.

If I am with a woman, it is because I want that woman.

I do not feel the need to put on a show nor do I play with women just to satisfy men.

I have and do, play with women and men, and yes men do enjoy the ff thing (most men) but I don't need a man if I am with a woman... if that makes sense

Perfect sense

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

I prefer to play with women in group situations...love getting caught up in the moment and being able to play with everyone in the group. I've only ever played one to one with the woman who first brought me to the joys of playing with another woman and we've had some very special times both on our own and in group situations.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Hiya,

I've noticed a bit of a trend and I'm curious if I'm totally wrong or not...

I have not yet found one local woman to play with 1 on 1. All the gorgeous and sexy women I am chatting too are far away. What I have noticed is that the great majority of couples advertise a Bi fem just for the reason you give: to please their male partner, give them the golden FFM and for that reason, as much as I find it hard to meet another single woman to play with and have a sensual evening of pure pleasure and delight I will not contact couples. If a man wanted to join and receive what I consider a 'gift' of experiencing a FFM, he'd have to be seriously special to both of us, not just me.

Just my view and opinion. I have taken a broad view of couples and am well aware that they should not all be put in the same bucket, in the same way as single men should not either.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"I'm very bi and love one to ones with other bi ladies but they are really hard to find. I even changed my profile to straight because I got fed up of being contacted by men from couples who just want a show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the same boat as a few of you ladies here. I am in a couple tho I enjoy him being involved to a certain point. I long for one to one with a women a nice bottle of wine relax get comfortable and have real sensual fun with another women is better to me than having my bf or someone else's partner there breathing down our necks to me one to one is more relaxed

then on the plus I get to tell my bf what happend n blow his mind tho when I find a nice attractive lady on here who are "bi" it never really turns into anything!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been bisexual long before i joined this site and long before i got into a realtionship with Silk.

I like 1 on 1 and group with other women. I certainly do not play bi and will avoid meeting women/couples who view f on f play as foreplay or 'putting on a show' its just not for me.

MissD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I've spoken to lots of ladies from couples who contacted me saying they want to meet one to one, and then just when we arrange a meet Their other half suddenly wants to be there to just watch! Don't get me wrong, I'll never give up men but I want to choose which men I meet and not have them forced on me ad a condition of having fun with their partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi. I was in relationships with women before meeting Mr HC. I like the 'taste' of being with a women and often 'crave' being with one.

However, in my instance, now, I dont want to play with a woman alone. I don't want to play with a man on my own either.

For us swinging is about playing together with others. Not one on one.

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

I am very bi , having been in a gay relationship before I'm mainly on here looking for women to playwith sometimes my OH is involved other times not , but must admit it's nice to have a cock around from time to time .

Joanne x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi. I was in relationships with women before meeting Mr HC. I like the 'taste' of being with a women and often 'crave' being with one.

However, in my instance, now, I dont want to play with a woman alone. I don't want to play with a man on my own either.

For us swinging is about playing together with others. Not one on one."

The difference being you're honest about that

A lot of couples aren't until it comes to arranging a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good f on f session

shame I've not had many

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