FabSwingers.com forum: hotel meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys....looking for a bit of guidance here. If a person and there fb were heading to another city in the same country for a weekend break (dirty weekend lol) and they posted that they wanted to meet other swingers while away, in their hotel room, what would the script be about sharing the hotel room cost??? I don't have a problem helping out......but have just got the biggest slap on the face from female half of a couple......they wanted a couple of hours fun in hotel bedroom.....I offered a decent sum to help out and was told that wouldn't cover their petrol.......!!!!!!!!!!! Got the impression they wanted the room paid for the weekend......and they were meeting other folk. Am I being a bit naive here?????? Comments please!!!!!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't meet in hotels.. But if I did.

If the hotel was already booked by someone and they were going there anyway, then as far as I'm concerned they pay for it.

If the hotel is booked for the sole purpose of us meeting, them 50/50

If I expect to spend the night and for them to leave after any fun, I would pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if we were in a hotel on a break and decided on some fun with others we wouldn't expect any contribution.

why would we? we're already staying there. are some people that tight?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

When I travelled and stayed in hotels, as it was my hotel that I was staying in I didn't expect any money towards it. A bottle of wine was always appreciated though.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I don't meet in hotels.. But if I did.

If the hotel was already booked by someone and they were going there anyway, then as far as I'm concerned they pay for it.

If the hotel is booked for the sole purpose of us meeting, them 50/50

If I expect to spend the night and for them to leave after any fun, I would pay"

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My take on paying for hotels is if I arrange to meet someone and we book a hotel for that meet then I will pay half, if they are booking the hotel and staying in it anyway regardless of if I join them or not I wont, reason being is this type are usually guys working away and im not covering the cost of a room their work is more than living paying for anyway

I would tell that couple I didn't intend to pay for their petrol anyway

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

If they booked a weekend away ..then decided to invite you in for a couple of hours fun .. I would imagine a couple bottles of wine or one of spirit should be enough..

Not really understanding who had the hotel from your comment.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"I don't meet in hotels.. But if I did.

If the hotel was already booked by someone and they were going there anyway, then as far as I'm concerned they pay for it.

If the hotel is booked for the sole purpose of us meeting, them 50/50

If I expect to spend the night and for them to leave after any fun, I would pay"

This

If you invited someone over to your house you wouldn't charge them for part of the mortgage!

If its an agreed meet between 2 people 50/50 is fair although as the gent I often book and pay for it to be honest unless the lady insists

I think hotel meets are quite sexy, seems to add to the feeling of naughtiness

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

If it was me - if a couple invited me to a hotel room they had booked for a few hours of fun - I'd expect them to foot the bill, but would take a gift - some nice fizz and flowers for the lady.

Does sound a bit like they want their dirty weekend away paid for by others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it was me - if a couple invited me to a hotel room they had booked for a few hours of fun - I'd expect them to foot the bill, but would take a gift - some nice fizz and flowers for the lady.

Does sound a bit like they want their dirty weekend away paid for by others."
thank god you agree......my thoughts exactly!!!!!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"thank god you agree......my thoughts exactly!!!!! "

Maybe I'm just a cynic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, hotel costs should be borne by the person who expects to spend the night there.

If I invite someone, then it is MY hotel room - I pay 100% and I expect to have the right to eject him if things don't go as I hoped.

If someone invites ME, then it is HIS hotel room - he pays 100% and I expect to walk away if things don't go as I hoped. (Of course, if things DO go as I hoped, I might offer him a bit more than just breakfast in the morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they wanted a 5* hotel suite with all the trimming, only meet I ever did in a hotel the bill was split 50/50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet in hotels.. But if I did.

If the hotel was already booked by someone and they were going there anyway, then as far as I'm concerned they pay for it.

If the hotel is booked for the sole purpose of us meeting, them 50/50

If I expect to spend the night and for them to leave after any fun, I would pay

Exactly this! "

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

If they invited you and already had the room booked, I think a small present would be appropriate. Like a bottle of wine. No more.

Why should you be expected to pay, is it because you are a single guy and obviously desperate to meet this very sexy couple? Hmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy I used to meet regular arranged to meet a couple, they told him he had to pay for the room and they expected him to leave by midnight as they had invited another guy over for after their meet had done, when he told them where to get off they called him a time waster and blocked him lol

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

so he had to book the room, but he had to get out afterwards and they get to keep it overnight lol!

some people have no idea, I bet they had no concept of why people were telling them to sod off!

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By *mmaRichardsTV/TS
over a year ago

Warrington

Very cheeky, seems like everyone is In agreement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had 4 hotel meets. Two of them the guy paid for and I offered to go half but they said no. Other 2 was being covered by their company so I didnt offer to pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so he had to book the room, but he had to get out afterwards and they get to keep it overnight lol!

some people have no idea, I bet they had no concept of why people were telling them to sod off!"

I also bet my life had my friend gone along with this they would have taken money off the second guy for the room too

you could make a living out of this if you did a meet a night lol

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York

If you invited someone over to your house you wouldn't charge them for part of the mortgage!

Hey good idea, any meets at our house from now on and you must pay 1/30 of the mortgage & 1/30 houshold contents insurance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive met a guy a few times over the past month and we take it in turns he pays for the room one meet I pay the other, seems fair to me

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"so he had to book the room, but he had to get out afterwards and they get to keep it overnight lol!

some people have no idea, I bet they had no concept of why people were telling them to sod off!

I also bet my life had my friend gone along with this they would have taken money off the second guy for the room too

you could make a living out of this if you did a meet a night lol"

you get the room for 12 hours overnight, one every 3 hours and con each one

yes you might be knackered and walking with a bit of a limp in the morning but you'd get 4 times the cost of the room lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thing is.......... it was a Hilton 5 star hotel in Glasgow!!!!! Now Glasgow ain't short of a few hotels, so i deffo think they were at it BIGTIME!!!!!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Thing is.......... it was a Hilton 5 star hotel in Glasgow!!!!! Now Glasgow ain't short of a few hotels, so i deffo think they were at it BIGTIME!!!!!"

;) heheheh if you're paying for that, I may be persuaded to break my female only play rule

(joke)

Sounds to me like they've seen single guys as a way to payroll their fun. Well shot hun - there are genuine people who want to play not fleece ya

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We book rooms at the Hilton Heathrow, its a 4* and we invite singles and couples to join us and we ask NOTHING to come play with us - we even provide vodka, soft drinks, tea, coffee and water, if they want anything else to drink they can bring it with them.

If someone invited us to their hotel room and asked for some money we'd tell them where to go and stick it.

We think hotels are going to be our only way to meet from now on. Cheaper than a night out at a club, we get to choose who comes (and cums

Who could ask for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we book a hotel and then invite someone to join us would not expect them to pay as we would be staying there regardless of wether we met them or not. Seems some people are incredibly greedy on here I would be embarrassed to ask for money.

MissD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha, do not pay them anything pal!

Like others have said, if you're paying, you stay there, let them pop over for fun and then send them on their way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you could make a living out of this if you did a meet a night lol"

This....this...happens, very regularly, along with £60 "contributions" to parties.

If that's what folks want to do, good luck to them i say, but at least be open and honest and don't string people along

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