FabSwingers.com forum: Amount of sexual partners

By *earmegrowl OP Man
35 weeks ago

wolves

Has any of you ever lied to a partner, (this is probably more if it was a vanilla relationship) about the amount of sexual partners you have had??? I know have

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Genuinely don’t think amy of my mates have been truthful about their body count to their partner, for different reasons too

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By *undayGirl 69Woman
35 weeks ago

Coalville

I wouldn’t and don’t reveal an approx body count to any future prospects. It’s my business. Exactly the same reason I don’t have my veris showing.

I did however give an indication in a d*unk convo with randomers at a boozer on Saturday night… (it was one of them late night adult conversations) I won’t be doing that again!

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By *earmegrowl OP Man
35 weeks ago

wolves

"Genuinely don’t think amy of my mates have been truthful about their body count to their partner, for different reasons too"

I do think quite a few are in anilla relationships if people are prim nd proper types

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By *ister_EMan
35 weeks ago

Hayling Island

Nobody's buisness. I have no need nor desire to share that kind of information with anyone

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By *earmegrowl OP Man
35 weeks ago

wolves

"I wouldn’t and don’t reveal an approx body count to any future prospects. It’s my business. Exactly the same reason I don’t have my veris showing.

I did however give an indication in a d*unk convo with randomers at a boozer on Saturday night… (it was one of them late night adult conversations) I won’t be doing that again! "

Opps to the pub and I get it's your business and no one else's,

And personally I love to see someone's body count on here I find it more attractive when I see a good number, lol

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
35 weeks ago

Hell

Id be honest and say I’ve not counted, but it’s a lot. Being jealous over someone’s past before they met you is a serious red flag, I’d rather know as early as possible

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
35 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

No.

I'm pretty open and happy with my sexual history.

Exact numbers or personal details aren't anyone else's business, but I won't lie about the general

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By *ellinever70Woman
35 weeks ago

Ayrshire

It's not a question I'd even entertain answering

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
35 weeks ago

Chislehurst

Who even remembers there own numbers

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By *parkle1974Woman
35 weeks ago

Leeds

Never lied about it, don't feel the need to x

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By *rispyDuckMan
35 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I tell them what they want to hear

Majority of times ‘vanilla folks’ think they can handle the truth but they can’t haha. And that’s why I don’t ask the same question either!

Their body count is their own private past & so is mine

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Nope. I would say if asked. But it would be a guess. Who remembers every detail and person. I remember my first. But after that it's a blur until more recent encounters.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

It's on the list of reasons why I don't want a partner as I don't want to lie or go into details about my sex life.

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
35 weeks ago

St Neots

Lied to an ex about it. And even the number I gave her was too high

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
35 weeks ago

Bedale

No, I've always been honest. Mainly because the number is fairly boring. Neither interestingly high or low. Just standard mileage for my age haha

I do think it's something a partner has a right to know though.

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By *ellinever70Woman
35 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"No, I've always been honest. Mainly because the number is fairly boring. Neither interestingly high or low. Just standard mileage for my age haha

I do think it's something a partner has a right to know though. "

Why?

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
35 weeks ago

Wolvo

As others have said its my business. I accept folk arent virgins when i meet them. I also agree body count worries are a vanilla world problem. I sometimes feel folk are judged on fab for having lots of meets/veri/being active.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
35 weeks ago

Sheffield

I don’t have a partner. But it’s not something I’d see as been a relevant discussion with a potential partner.

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By *ea monkeyMan
35 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I really don’t have a clue how many people I’ve had sex with! Clubs, groups, repeat meets and one on ones… I’m fairly certain that it’s over a hundred but i have no clue as to exact numbers.

If people don’t want to meet me or that puts them off, that’s their issue

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
35 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Has any of you ever lied to a partner, (this is probably more if it was a vanilla relationship) about the amount of sexual partners you have had??? I know have "
I did with my 2nd husband.. when he commented that a lady he knew had been with over 100 guys. I said it was more than him but not by many. I later enjoyed telling him that I may have greatly underestimated my figures

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
35 weeks ago

Bedale

"No, I've always been honest. Mainly because the number is fairly boring. Neither interestingly high or low. Just standard mileage for my age haha

I do think it's something a partner has a right to know though.

Why?"

Because people are allowed to care about and prioritise whatever facts they like in making the decision of whether to pair bond with you.

You have the right to say no, they have the right to ask. If that issue isn't going to have a satisfactory outcome by whatever method then you are two people who don't need to be together.

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By *4bimMan
35 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

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By *4bimMan
35 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Past doesn't matter.

Fact they with you now does

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Yep and that’s all I have to say about that

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By *earmegrowl OP Man
35 weeks ago

wolves

"Yep and that’s all I have to say about that"

Very forest gump lol

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
35 weeks ago

Bedale

"Past doesn't matter.

Fact they with you now does "

It doesn't matter to you.

It does to others.

Just because you have an opinion doesn't make it a fact

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Why lie? Your partner likes you for the person you are and your past is part of how you got to be that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I love the term body count!

I have been asked, I haven’t answered but I honestly don’t know! I would have to really think and even then probably forget some.

I remember being asked on a boozy work function once and I asked first ‘men or women?’ My boss laughed and said she didn’t need to know more.

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By *erICorknowCouple
35 weeks ago

cork

I’ve told the truth when asked, it is what it is can’t change it. Not that massively high anyway xx

Himself

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By *ecretmeetshotmanMan
35 weeks ago

I used to lie and exaggerate it when I was younger……for the last 20 yrs I’ve lied and said a fraction of it. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I never ask for a body count so I won't disclose it either. Its no ones business but mine

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By *mmaleiaWoman
35 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I’ve not lied, I don’t discuss my history with anybody, it’s the past, I live in the present

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By *erICorknowCouple
35 weeks ago

cork

Perfectly ok.. it’s always what you’re comfortable sharing.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
35 weeks ago

tamworth

I was with my Husband, it was at 5 then, including him and tbh I was a little embarrassed about it being so low.

Until now, I've never given a figure out to anyone else though

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By *uckingFutzMan
35 weeks ago

Plymouth

Rule of 2,, exact science!!

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Nope...and I certainly wouldn't judge a partner about it. Frankly to me...it's a non issue...

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I've never really understood why anyone would keep a tally , to me it shows a complete lack of maturity and proves their more interested in racking up notches , also if anyone was to ask me they'd be told it's none of their buisness just as theirs is none of mine .

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Yep and that’s all I have to say about that

Very forest gump lol"

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