FabSwingers.com forum: Do winks float your boat?X

By *arkhelga OP Couple
25 weeks ago

leeds

Do they,are they a form of flirting,do you respond X

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By *agatoXXXMan
25 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

I don't know.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
25 weeks ago

Leeds

If I like the profile I'll respond they can be a good icebreaker.

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By *od ThrusterMan
25 weeks ago

Newport Pagnell

Yes, sure. If I get one I always check out the profile and make contact if they're of interest.

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By *wingAway79Couple
25 weeks ago

Surrey

wink away lol

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By *aizyWoman
25 weeks ago

west midlands

I send winks, I send them back as well when I remember to look at them, I don't have a problem with winks.

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By *rumguy1982Man
25 weeks ago

Birmingham

I think they are useful, just as an icebreaker, if someone winks back then get a conversation started

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By *bcplCouple
25 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

I rarely check ours I’d rather you just said hello

haha

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By *iniskirtCouple
25 weeks ago

Paisley

Yes we check ours and we think its a good way just to see if there is any initial attraction x

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By *ilfAndDilf24Couple
25 weeks ago

manchester

Yes we check ours often. We send as a way to say ‘hi we like the look of you’ and if we get one back then send a message

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By *inkycoupleofscotsCouple
25 weeks ago

Stirling-ish

"Yes we check ours often. We send as a way to say ‘hi we like the look of you’ and if we get one back then send a message "

we use them this way as well, just as an initial wee "hi"

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
25 weeks ago

Birmingham

nope, just mass delete them

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By *arry monk40Man
25 weeks ago

Telford

It's ideal but rarely gets a response

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
25 weeks ago

Sheffield

Yes we love a wink, can take us a bit to get back some time but a great ice breaker.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
25 weeks ago

manchester

Yep it’s the only way we interact with the male natives

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By *oxy jWoman
25 weeks ago

taunton somerset

i just mass delete every few days to me they are totally pointless

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By *aomilatteCouple
25 weeks ago

Midlands

We reply sometimes but it rarely leads to anything. A message with some substance is better.

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By *hared pleasuresMan
25 weeks ago

kells

If I'm interested in the sender, then I gonna respond to a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Yes, love winks, it’s a gentle way to flirt

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By *hapLeedsMan
25 weeks ago

Leeds

I don’t see a problem with winks…. a nice ice breaker… better than a “how’s you” message

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By *herry delightWoman
25 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I don't see why there is a wink feature on here. It's pointless winking me I mass delete them at the end of the week.

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By *rMonkeyMan
25 weeks ago

Somewhere

They do indeed

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By *artfordBlokeMan
25 weeks ago

Dartford

I think they're a great way of expressing interest if you're not 100% sure of reciprocation. It's like the old days when we used to go out to meet people, a little wink could go a long way back then. All this online stuff seems to have made a lot of people forget basic decency and social norms.

What was it Mike Tyson said about social media again?

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By *hunky GentMan
25 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"If I like the profile I'll respond they can be a good icebreaker."

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By *hunky GentMan
25 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I send them because I'm shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Always good to know someone has enjoyed your profile.

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By *onderlust69Couple
25 weeks ago

Central belt

We love getting/giving winks its a great way to let others know there is an initial attraction and a good ice breaker too x

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By *oadsafun1960Man
25 weeks ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

Winks are a harmless bit of fun, a non invasive flirt that shows an initial interest. If people don't like them then they can just delete without being inundated with loads of messages.

I look at them and view the profile and if of interest will wink back, if there's a mutual interest then it moves to messages. So winks can work as a good filter.

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By *_nwMan
25 weeks ago

northwest

Love a wink

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By *heeky_kikiWoman
25 weeks ago

Guisborough

I never check them

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By *hunky GentMan
25 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I never check them "

I imagine you get a lot.

You are cute.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I just delete winks without looking at who sent it

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By *omptationMan
25 weeks ago

liverpool

I think winks are good way of initiating contact, as that way you don’t have to worry about getting lost in a flooded inbox, or even have your inbox flooded and only have actual conversations there

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By *osey WalesMan
25 weeks ago

Surrey

I use them as a hey i like you, do you like me type thing.

Sometimes it leads to further conversation, sometimes it doesnt. A message is obviously better but messages and winks to many women on here are often ten a penny.

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By *andPextraCouple
25 weeks ago

North West

Don't bother with them. Why not just send a message

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By *linky1Couple
25 weeks ago

Sittingbourne

Yes. A good way of getting our attention and if we are interested then a wink back to hopefully start a conversation when ready.

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
25 weeks ago

Cheltnam

Wink is a great way to say Hi in a non intrusive or pushy way.

Especially with some of the very short profiles not giving much away.

Wink Wink Wink and an extra big WINK for those who don't like it Block because of it lol

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By *hilledguy2020Man
25 weeks ago

Gateshead

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By *hilledguy2020Man
25 weeks ago

Gateshead

Winkers always welcome! Great way to break the ice without a sledgehammer!

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By *dog59507718Man
25 weeks ago

Essex

For me i use it as a way to show appreciation. And if they wink back then normally engage in the conversation. I imagine women and couples get their inbox’s flooded so it’s a good way of making sure there’s a mutual liking first

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Yeh winks are good. 40 winks are better showing my age now.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Yes I look at winks, maybe one with catch my eye and I would send a message...

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By *hris 1000200Man
25 weeks ago

kells

Love a good aul wink

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By *odders88Man
25 weeks ago

Northampton

I use winks as a sign of intent but very rarely get any back!

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
25 weeks ago

peterborough

Not one bit. I ignore them because it's lazy.

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By *r99mr99Man
25 weeks ago

Ealing

"Not one bit. I ignore them because it's lazy. "

Why is it lazy ?

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By *aughtyTwosomeCouple
25 weeks ago

Kent

We like them and always check ours, it's just a simple way to get someone's attention. If they wink back we always follow with a message

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By * D 777Man
25 weeks ago

bathgate

i use a wink to show interest in the profile etc #[ few fabs} before messaging

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By *rayheresnowMan
25 weeks ago

Cardiff

Always happy to get a wink

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
25 weeks ago

peterborough

"Not one bit. I ignore them because it's lazy.

Why is it lazy ?"

I get loads, more so from men. It saves time writing a message. I DO feel sorry for guys on here, but it's still lazy. Even more so when they have a mono-sybillic profile. I think some of them must wink all night !!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I don’t look at them.

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By *r99mr99Man
25 weeks ago

Ealing

"Not one bit. I ignore them because it's lazy.

Why is it lazy ?

Interesting. I think personally I find winks more.pkayful, and as.ik.sure you are inundated with messages, I feel you can look at my wink and ignore if not interested, rather than feeling obliged to read a message, or read the message, be interested and then the profile disappoints.

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By *rotic angelsCouple
25 weeks ago

walsall

Waste of time we don't respond to winks because a message takes more effort

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I have a feeling those that want them don't receive enough, and those that aren't bothered receive too many

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By *emptusboth777Couple
25 weeks ago

oxford

We use them to show interest

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By *londebiguyMan
25 weeks ago

Southport

I like to get a wink.

An ice breaker .

It cheers the day up.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I mean I wouldn’t say it floats my boat, they are nice to get it means they they have taken time to look and sometimes I respond

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By *mudge1995Man
25 weeks ago

Hull

Use them to show I am interested

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By *bione_1Man
25 weeks ago

Broxbourne

I like a wink xx

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By *orbidden eastMan
25 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

I don’t think they really work, but is a good opener

I have got a message before from a wink, but that rarely happens

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By *pinningfasterWoman
25 weeks ago

Birmingham

I rarely check them

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By *hunky GentMan
25 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I rarely check them "

I bet yiu get plenty as well.

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By *wabathMan
25 weeks ago

Bath

Love a wink, nice ice breaker without pushing unwanted messages

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By *orl1971Couple
25 weeks ago

Glasgow

We look at winks and will wink back if we like the profile. Then we expect they’ll message.

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By *ilver_foxxx69Man
25 weeks ago

Falkirk

I’m open to winks. If I like who’s winked I’ll message back

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By *hunky GentMan
25 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"We look at winks and will wink back if we like the profile. Then we expect they’ll message. "

This. At least it's a starting point.

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By *lderguy4uMan
25 weeks ago

wirral

I always respond

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By *arriedwelshcoupleCouple
25 weeks ago

Cardiff

We like winks and if we like what we see we send a message

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
25 weeks ago

Merseyside

It can defo get al ones attention

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By *ardfun10Man
25 weeks ago

banbury

Winks can break the ice and you respond if interested

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By *rNaughty84Man
25 weeks ago

Derby

Theyre a great way of showing some interest

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
25 weeks ago

on the naughty side of the street

Sorry but it's a no from me.

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By *eroLondonMan
25 weeks ago

Mayfair

I find winks superfluous and I rarely look at my winks, or even send them.

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By *eroLondonMan
25 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Winks can break the ice and you respond if interested "

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It would take more than a wink to break the ice with me. If she's unable to handle a conversation better than she can handled a cock then I'm not interested.

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By *lacksausageMan
23 weeks ago

Birmingham Airport

Another point on which people could get cancelled. Let's carry on.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
23 weeks ago

andover

We love winks from women and couples, will always wink back if interested x

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By *amasoporkyCouple
23 weeks ago

midlands

Love a wink x

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
23 weeks ago

Thurrock

It’s a good way to show initial interest, if someone winks us and we are interested we will send a message

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By * D 777Man
23 weeks ago

bathgate

i always send a wink to show some interest or fab here an there then a message .

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By *enny4itCouple
23 weeks ago

Central Scotland

love receiving a wink! x

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By *ab50Man
23 weeks ago

bexhill

Love a wink, but I see a lot of profiles seem to think a wink is "Lazy"...

Shame there's not a "Nudge" option.. ??

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By *elshnewbies69Couple
23 weeks ago

cardiff

Great way of showing intention and opening a potential convo

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By *ragonbaitCouple
23 weeks ago

Reading and Aberdare

Simple introduction,

Testing the waters.

Shows interest to see if it’s reciprocated

Nothing wrong and no harm done by sending or relieving

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By *adforit1304Man
23 weeks ago

Limerick/Clare

A wink is a start to hopefully more

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By *herry delightWoman
23 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I don't look if anyone has winked me. It's a pointless thing as far as I am concerned, don't see why anyone would wink.

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By *ostguy321Man
23 weeks ago

Bucks

It's a great way to show interest and hopefully lead to messaging if both sides are keen.

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By *lirtingentMan
23 weeks ago

Stroud

I love flirting...its an art form. So a cheeky little wink is perfect to show interest, and give a little tease...to me, it is a message, saying 'hi, you look nice...'

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By *amcpl4Couple
23 weeks ago

Liverpool

We like them, they're a good way to start a conversation

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By *tYourPleasure_80Man
23 weeks ago

Newcastle

For me it shows someone has an interest, if the profile matches what I'm also looking for I'll reply

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By *heonixrising500Man
23 weeks ago

Barnsley

I usually message if only to say thank you

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By *oingMan
23 weeks ago

co. antrim

I enjoy a good wink

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By *andy cane321Couple
23 weeks ago

Aylesbury

We don't mind a wink, and we send a few. It signifies that we are intrested or we like your profile and vice versa xxx

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By *ilvelicker60Man
23 weeks ago

kettering

Good ice breaker to show interest

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Yes as it shows someone you’re interested in especially if they find it hard to start a conversation

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
23 weeks ago

Carmarthen

Well, I do check them and they are a non-intrusive way of expressing interest (in both directions).

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By *ewby01327Man
23 weeks ago

Daventry

Quite like them, they can be a way of showing interest and a way to break the ice

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By *xydadbodMan
23 weeks ago

Milton keynes

I always thought they were a form of ice breakers, to let other people know they are interested or something along those lines but I don't think this thought is universal so who knows? Still hoping it opens up a portal to some unknown undiscovered fabworld dimension where the party is 24/7 but one can live and hope

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By *s2walesCouple
23 weeks ago

Gwent...

Like a wink it's like saying 'Hi'

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Always love receiving a cheeky wink

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By *nesCouple
23 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

Don’t tend to take any notice of them - prefer messaging

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By *lik and PaulCouple
23 weeks ago

cahoots

We prefer messages so just delete winks and we've never sent a wink either

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