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By *risboy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

What's your opinion on verifications?

Do you even take any notice of them/ write them?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Useful to see that someone turned up on time etc.

But just because it happened that day doesn't mean it will always happen.

My next meet is with an unverified guy! Hopefully it goes well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Helps to see if they are real at the very least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your opinion on verifications?

Do you even take any notice of them/ write them?"

I think they are very important, they are a goid indicator on a profiles authenticity , however they can be faked so be carefull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently had concerns over this, but come to conclusion that you just make your own minds up at a meeting/sociaal that way you sort out the genuine ones

couple of things i look out for;

1. how long they been on site and if they have any meets

2. whether they are active

3. the veri's own veri's - if you understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think so because i met 3 men from another site, i didnt like them and they didnt have verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really important to me. Occasionally seen verifications for people from people looking for bb etc so I won't meet them. Plus you can often get a good idea about the person from them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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3. the veri's own veri's - if you understand

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I think a lot are that way you see phone profiles and they are obvious fake profiles giving fake varis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so important to me. I just use them to see if the person actually exists. If they DON'T have a veri, then it may take a smidgeon longer to arrange a meet. After all, we ALL started out on here WITH NO veris ourselves. So why not give them a chance to prove themselves.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Its nice to know they turn up and be who they say they are. Don't understand people being on here for over a year and not having verification.s

is that a fake thing or just don't like people to know who or what they get up to. We prefer to see veri.s so we sort of know they are legitimate or at least hope so

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Everything if you don't have them

Nothing if you do

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Really important to me. Occasionally seen verifications for people from people looking for bb etc so I won't meet them. Plus you can often get a good idea about the person from them too"

spot on for us too Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most seem trust worthy and you can usually spot the fakers. Personally I won't verify anyone unless we've spoken on cam or met in person. I'd never ask for a verification either. Mine are real but for me rather than anyone else!

Btw quit feeling it then!! or warm your hands up lol :p

K xxx

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

I can appreciate the benefit of verifications but..

for the beginner it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy of not meeting.

I've managed to meet a few people on here but as we were all unverified there's no proof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without veri's they cant email me.

I don't search profiles, so wouldn't email them.

I look at veri's, cam/phone ones don't hold any water in my eyes.

I rarely look at the veri's veri's, Only if its an undecided, or if I have a nosey (rare)

The actual wording of the veri is not important, I personally make clear if it was a social meet or a more intimate one, other than that, what happens on a meet stays with the people involved on the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can appreciate the benefit of verifications but..

for the beginner it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy of not meeting.

I've managed to meet a few people on here but as we were all unverified there's no proof."

You could ask someone verified to meet you for a coffee only, or socially, then they would verify you.

Club owners will verify you.

Any social will have verified members.

Party organisers, party guests etc

Not getting verified I guess you get out, that, that you put in...

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I only write them for someone I have met that has none....

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Not so important to me. I just use them to see if the person actually exists. If they DON'T have a veri, then it may take a smidgeon longer to arrange a meet. After all, we ALL started out on here WITH NO veris ourselves. So why not give them a chance to prove themselves."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really important to me. Occasionally seen verifications for people from people looking for bb etc so I won't meet them. Plus you can often get a good idea about the person from them too"

can do a lot of back research from veris. They do have their benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to look them up as sometimes I wonder and it gives me good idea not necessary about if he turns out on time but other things. Just the other day saw profile where the guy had verifications from three days running, two from one day and few from one week, surely I'm not meeting somebody like him! I like myself and respect myself way too much

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

We only use them as a guide to the people actually showing up.

We also judge after 6 months or so on the site if no verifications then the probability of a show is quite remote.

Lets be honest nobody is going to show a bad verification !

We find the ones who take the time to read the profile are the ones who are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look them up as sometimes I wonder and it gives me good idea not necessary about if he turns out on time but other things. Just the other day saw profile where the guy had verifications from three days running, two from one day and few from one week, surely I'm not meeting somebody like him! I like myself and respect myself way too much "

See I don't get that. We're all on here for sex not relationships aren't we, so what difference does it make how often people meet others? I wouldn't expect people to put restrictions on my activities, so I wouldn't do it to them. I don't necessarily see it that they're unworthy in any way and if they hadn't shown all their veri's you'd be none the wiser.

I only look at people's veri's to see if they have met in person. I generally don't read them though as I find them to be the same old thing. And no one is ever going to show averi that sshows them in a bad light.

But each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look them up as sometimes I wonder and it gives me good idea not necessary about if he turns out on time but other things. Just the other day saw profile where the guy had verifications from three days running, two from one day and few from one week, surely I'm not meeting somebody like him! I like myself and respect myself way too much

See I don't get that. We're all on here for sex not relationships aren't we, so what difference does it make how often people meet others? I wouldn't expect people to put restrictions on my activities, so I wouldn't do it to them. I don't necessarily see it that they're unworthy in any way and if they hadn't shown all their veri's you'd be none the wiser.

I only look at people's veri's to see if they have met in person. I generally don't read them though as I find them to be the same old thing. And no one is ever going to show averi that sshows them in a bad light.

But each to their own "

I agree, is she implying that someone who had had a lot of meets has less self respect, utter drivel.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What's your opinion on verifications?

Do you even take any notice of them/ write them?"

Total strangers opinion on another stranger to decide whether they get into my home and knickers?!!

Yeah...right!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look them up as sometimes I wonder and it gives me good idea not necessary about if he turns out on time but other things. Just the other day saw profile where the guy had verifications from three days running, two from one day and few from one week, surely I'm not meeting somebody like him! I like myself and respect myself way too much "

Oh the irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look them up as sometimes I wonder and it gives me good idea not necessary about if he turns out on time but other things. Just the other day saw profile where the guy had verifications from three days running, two from one day and few from one week, surely I'm not meeti@ng somebody like him! I like myself and respect myself way too much

See I don't get that. We're all on here for sex not relationships aren't we, so what difference does it make how often people meet others? I wouldn't expect people to put restrictions on my activities, so I wouldn't do it to them. I don't necessarily see it that they're unworthy in any way and if they hadn't shown all their veri's you'd be none the wiser.

I only look at people's veri's to see if they have met in person. I generally don't read them though as I find them to be the same old thing. And no one is ever going to show averi that sshows them in a bad light.

But each to their own

I agree, is she implying that someone who had had a lot of meets has less self respect, utter drivel. "

We'll she's entitled to her opinion and preferences like everyone else. My point really is that this isn't the best place to look for people who don't put it about lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your opinion on verifications?

Do you even take any notice of them/ write them?

Total strangers opinion on another stranger to decide whether they get into my home and knickers?!!

Yeah...right!!! "

But another persons opinion is better than the profile writers opinion , surely?? I know verifications tend to be generic and as previously mentioned tend to be OTT, however they do provide more information than an unverified profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without the verification system we would all spend a lot more time turning up for meets and complaining about timewasters .

Having said that we are known for meeting newbies and giving them their first veri !

Use them , don't use them - your choice , but it's a nice choice to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look them up as sometimes I wonder and it gives me good idea not necessary about if he turns out on time but other things. Just the other day saw profile where the guy had verifications from three days running, two from one day and few from one week, surely I'm not meeti@ng somebody like him! I like myself and respect myself way too much

See I don't get that. We're all on here for sex not relationships aren't we, so what difference does it make how often people meet others? I wouldn't expect people to put restrictions on my activities, so I wouldn't do it to them. I don't necessarily see it that they're unworthy in any way and if they hadn't shown all their veri's you'd be none the wiser.

I only look at people's veri's to see if they have met in person. I generally don't read them though as I find them to be the same old thing. And no one is ever going to show averi that sshows them in a bad light.

But each to their own

I agree, is she implying that someone who had had a lot of meets has less self respect, utter drivel.

We'll she's entitled to her opinion and preferences like everyone else. My point really is that this isn't the best place to look for people who don't put it about lol "

Fair enough, but to state that she would need less self respect to meet someone who had multiple verifications is both naive and hints at a level of insecurity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't met anyone yet to be able to get any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And as for looking at verifications and deciding that they put it about too often ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look them up as sometimes I wonder and it gives me good idea not necessary about if he turns out on time but other things. Just the other day saw profile where the guy had verifications from three days running, two from one day and few from one week, surely I'm not meeti@ng somebody like him! I like myself and respect myself way too much

See I don't get that. We're all on here for sex not relationships aren't we, so what difference does it make how often people meet others? I wouldn't expect people to put restrictions on my activities, so I wouldn't do it to them. I don't necessarily see it that they're unworthy in any way and if they hadn't shown all their veri's you'd be none the wiser.

I only look at people's veri's to see if they have met in person. I generally don't read them though as I find them to be the same old thing. And no one is ever going to show averi that sshows them in a bad light.

But each to their own

I agree, is she implying that someone who had had a lot of meets has less self respect, utter drivel.

We'll she's entitled to her opinion and preferences like everyone else. My point really is that this isn't the best place to look for people who don't put it about lol

Fair enough, but to state that she would need less self respect to meet someone who had multiple verifications is both naive and hints at a level of insecurity "

I agree that it's naive to feel that way about people on a sex site, when she's on here for the same thing, but I don't see where you'd think she was insecure? She just has preferences like everyone else

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What's your opinion on verifications?

Do you even take any notice of them/ write them?

Total strangers opinion on another stranger to decide whether they get into my home and knickers?!!

Yeah...right!!!

But another persons opinion is better than the profile writers opinion , surely?? I know verifications tend to be generic and as previously mentioned tend to be OTT, however they do provide more information than an unverified profile ."

Not for me! I always meet socially, sometimes more than once. It's my home and my body. For me the influence or opinion of anyone on here (total strangers) in deciding who I meet is ludicrous.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"And as for looking at verifications and deciding that they put it about too often ......

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Oh come on, didn't you giggle at the irony?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look them up as sometimes I wonder and it gives me good idea not necessary about if he turns out on time but other things. Just the other day saw profile where the guy had verifications from three days running, two from one day and few from one week, surely I'm not meeting somebody like him! I like myself and respect myself way too much "
Well you wont meet us then.lol.we got 95 last count.i can't wait to get to a hundred.we show them all.poppyxx

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

Fair enough, but to state that she would need less self respect to meet someone who had multiple verifications is both naive and hints at a level of insecurity "

Wouldnt say insecure, but to imply that the other women have less self respect is outta order!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look them up as sometimes I wonder and it gives me good idea not necessary about if he turns out on time but other things. Just the other day saw profile where the guy had verifications from three days running, two from one day and few from one week, surely I'm not meeti@ng somebody like him! I like myself and respect myself way too much

See I don't get that. We're all on here for sex not relationships aren't we, so what difference does it make how often people meet others? I wouldn't expect people to put restrictions on my activities, so I wouldn't do it to them. I don't necessarily see it that they're unworthy in any way and if they hadn't shown all their veri's you'd be none the wiser.

I only look at people's veri's to see if they have met in person. I generally don't read them though as I find them to be the same old thing. And no one is ever going to show averi that sshows them in a bad light.

But each to their own

I agree, is she implying that someone who had had a lot of meets has less self respect, utter drivel.

We'll she's entitled to her opinion and preferences like everyone else. My point really is that this isn't the best place to look for people who don't put it about lol

Fair enough, but to state that she would need less self respect to meet someone who had multiple verifications is both naive and hints at a level of insecurity

I agree that it's naive to feel that way about people on a sex site, when she's on here for the same thing, but I don't see where you'd think she was insecure? She just has preferences like everyone else "

People who won't meet someone purely because they have had multiple meets and then state it's due to having respect for themselves is deluded If your confident in yourself and are on here for NSA what does it matter who people have met on the other hand if you lack confidence maybe you think you can't match up or compete with their other 'meets', just a theory though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be a very false indicator and to be honest too easily faked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Fair enough, but to state that she would need less self respect to meet someone who had multiple verifications is both naive and hints at a level of insecurity

Wouldnt say insecure, but to imply that the other women have less self respect is outta order!!! "
Lol.i have total respect for myself but it's NSA and if I want to show my 94 verifications I will.i aiming for a hundred to piss off all the people that tell me I have too any and too many pics too.they should concentrate on having fun themselves.poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your opinion on verifications?

Do you even take any notice of them/ write them?

Total strangers opinion on another stranger to decide whether they get into my home and knickers?!!

Yeah...right!!!

But another persons opinion is better than the profile writers opinion , surely?? I know verifications tend to be generic and as previously mentioned tend to be OTT, however they do provide more information than an unverified profile .

Not for me! I always meet socially, sometimes more than once. It's my home and my body. For me the influence or opinion of anyone on here (total strangers) in deciding who I meet is ludicrous.

"

Ludicrous?? Are you sure, I am not suggesting you base your opinion entirely on verifications but it does help , do you ever read reviews on trip advisor or which??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can be a very false indicator and to be honest too easily faked"

True, why do you display one in your profile then

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

Fair enough, but to state that she would need less self respect to meet someone who had multiple verifications is both naive and hints at a level of insecurity

Wouldnt say insecure, but to imply that the other women have less self respect is outta order!!! Lol.i have total respect for myself but it's NSA and if I want to show my 94 verifications I will.i aiming for a hundred to piss off all the people that tell me I have too any and too many pics too.they should concentrate on having fun themselves.poppyxx "

And so you should!

To hell with what others think!

They dont like it? Their problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look them up as sometimes I wonder and it gives me good idea not necessary about if he turns out on time but other things. Just the other day saw profile where the guy had verifications from three days running, two from one day and few from one week, surely I'm not meeti@ng somebody like him! I like myself and respect myself way too much

See I don't get that. We're all on here for sex not relationships aren't we, so what difference does it make how often people meet others? I wouldn't expect people to put restrictions on my activities, so I wouldn't do it to them. I don't necessarily see it that they're unworthy in any way and if they hadn't shown all their veri's you'd be none the wiser.

I only look at people's veri's to see if they have met in person. I generally don't read them though as I find them to be the same old thing. And no one is ever going to show averi that sshows them in a bad light.

But each to their own

I agree, is she implying that someone who had had a lot of meets has less self respect, utter drivel.

We'll she's entitled to her opinion and preferences like everyone else. My point really is that this isn't the best place to look for people who don't put it about lol

Fair enough, but to state that she would need less self respect to meet someone who had multiple verifications is both naive and hints at a level of insecurity

I agree that it's naive to feel that way about people on a sex site, when she's on here for the same thing, but I don't see where you'd think she was insecure? She just has preferences like everyone else

People who won't meet someone purely because they have had multiple meets and then state it's due to having respect for themselves is deluded If your confident in yourself and are on here for NSA what does it matter who people have met on the other hand if you lack confidence maybe you think you can't match up or compete with their other 'meets', just a theory though "

And that's your opinion which you are also entitled to. I don't agree with the other ladies thoughts either but I'm not going to resort to personal attacks as I don't feel it's necessary.

As much as you Or I don't agree with her, she is still entitled to use this site as she wants to, and if she doesn't want to meet people who have met lots of others then that's her choice!

I think she might be a bit lonely though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Fair enough, but to state that she would need less self respect to meet someone who had multiple verifications is both naive and hints at a level of insecurity

Wouldnt say insecure, but to imply that the other women have less self respect is outta order!!! Lol.i have total respect for myself but it's NSA and if I want to show my 94 verifications I will.i aiming for a hundred to piss off all the people that tell me I have too any and too many pics too.they should concentrate on having fun themselves.poppyxx

And so you should!

To hell with what others think!

They dont like it? Their problem

"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't go on verifs we wud rather see person on cam or have social meet

Yes we have been on this site for over a yr but only recently have decided to look for lady for threesome. So would b unfair to assume we are not genuine as we have no verifications as we have pics together and are prepared to cam or meet with those we are interested in fun with!

Lots on this site with verifs are fakes but not all I know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look them up as sometimes I wonder and it gives me good idea not necessary about if he turns out on time but other things. Just the other day saw profile where the guy had verifications from three days running, two from one day and few from one week, surely I'm not meeti@ng somebody like him! I like myself and respect myself way too much

See I don't get that. We're all on here for sex not relationships aren't we, so what difference does it make how often people meet others? I wouldn't expect people to put restrictions on my activities, so I wouldn't do it to them. I don't necessarily see it that they're unworthy in any way and if they hadn't shown all their veri's you'd be none the wiser.

I only look at people's veri's to see if they have met in person. I generally don't read them though as I find them to be the same old thing. And no one is ever going to show averi that sshows them in a bad light.

But each to their own

I agree, is she implying that someone who had had a lot of meets has less self respect, utter drivel.

We'll she's entitled to her opinion and preferences like everyone else. My point really is that this isn't the best place to look for people who don't put it about lol

Fair enough, but to state that she would need less self respect to meet someone who had multiple verifications is both naive and hints at a level of insecurity

I agree that it's naive to feel that way about people on a sex site, when she's on here for the same thing, but I don't see where you'd think she was insecure? She just has preferences like everyone else

People who won't meet someone purely because they have had multiple meets and then state it's due to having respect for themselves is deluded If your confident in yourself and are on here for NSA what does it matter who people have met on the other hand if you lack confidence maybe you think you can't match up or compete with their other 'meets', just a theory though

And that's your opinion which you are also entitled to. I don't agree with the other ladies thoughts either but I'm not going to resort to personal attacks as I don't feel it's necessary.

As much as you Or I don't agree with her, she is still entitled to use this site as she wants to, and if she doesn't want to meet people who have met lots of others then that's her choice!

I think she might be a bit lonely though lol "

Fair enough, maybe I went to far, but the line about having to much respect riled me a little, I can't be doing with these do righteous types who judge others and their actions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look them up as sometimes I wonder and it gives me good idea not necessary about if he turns out on time but other things. Just the other day saw profile where the guy had verifications from three days running, two from one day and few from one week, surely I'm not meeti@ng somebody like him! I like myself and respect myself way too much

See I don't get that. We're all on here for sex not relationships aren't we, so what difference does it make how often people meet others? I wouldn't expect people to put restrictions on my activities, so I wouldn't do it to them. I don't necessarily see it that they're unworthy in any way and if they hadn't shown all their veri's you'd be none the wiser.

I only look at people's veri's to see if they have met in person. I generally don't read them though as I find them to be the same old thing. And no one is ever going to show averi that sshows them in a bad light.

But each to their own

I agree, is she implying that someone who had had a lot of meets has less self respect, utter drivel.

We'll she's entitled to her opinion and preferences like everyone else. My point really is that this isn't the best place to look for people who don't put it about lol

Fair enough, but to state that she would need less self respect to meet someone who had multiple verifications is both naive and hints at a level of insecurity

I agree that it's naive to feel that way about people on a sex site, when she's on here for the same thing, but I don't see where you'd think she was insecure? She just has preferences like everyone else

People who won't meet someone purely because they have had multiple meets and then state it's due to having respect for themselves is deluded If your confident in yourself and are on here for NSA what does it matter who people have met on the other hand if you lack confidence maybe you think you can't match up or compete with their other 'meets', just a theory though

And that's your opinion which you are also entitled to. I don't agree with the other ladies thoughts either but I'm not going to resort to personal attacks as I don't feel it's necessary.

As much as you Or I don't agree with her, she is still entitled to use this site as she wants to, and if she doesn't want to meet people who have met lots of others then that's her choice!

I think she might be a bit lonely though lol

Fair enough, maybe I went to far, but the line about having to much respect riled me a little, I can't be doing with these do righteous types who judge others and their actions. "

Oh you'll have fun on here then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We gave an unverified couple a chance last night and they were fab one of our best meets ever.yummy.poppyxx

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

Im taking less and less notice about the verifications meaning someones genuine. In the last week I have spotted a few fake verifications, reported and nothings done so I don't really go by the verifications now, I just go by my own instinct when chatting to someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really important to me. Occasionally seen verifications for people from people looking for bb etc so I won't meet them. Plus you can often get a good idea about the person from them too

can do a lot of back research from veris. They do have their benefits"

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"I recently had concerns over this, but come to conclusion that you just make your own minds up at a meeting/sociaal that way you sort out the genuine ones

couple of things i look out for;

1. how long they been on site and if they have any meets

2. whether they are active

3. the veri's own veri's - if you understand

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I recently had concerns over this, but come to conclusion that you just make your own minds up at a meeting/sociaal that way you sort out the genuine ones

couple of things i look out for;

1. how long they been on site and if they have any meets

2. whether they are active

3. the veri's own veri's - if you understand

"

Same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a great verification by a couple, seemed that more were willing to exchange MSG's which led to a few more meets so for me they were invaluable

Then on the flip side I got a meet cancelled because I got a veri a week before I met her as I was obvious just trying to work my way through fab lol!!!

Win some lose some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im taking less and less notice about the verifications meaning someones genuine. In the last week I have spotted a few fake verifications, reported and nothings done so I don't really go by the verifications now, I just go by my own instinct when chatting to someone"

How do you spot a 'Fake veri' ?

I'm pretty damn good with fake pics, sussing when a couple is a single or a fem is a guy - but never come up with a viable way of gauging whether a veri is real or not!

Would be pretty useful!

If the last veri is from over a year ago and the status updates are raving about last weekends meet - bad sign. If there's just webcam/old phone veri's - to me they're pretty worthless. And if there's multiple, consecutive veri's all from the same profile - warning sign.

If I see a good mix of meets, spread over a reasonable timeline based on the length of time they've been on site then I'm happy they're genuine. As for the 'quality' of the feedback - useful to know opinions but no-one shows a bad veri and I'll always assume my opinion my vary!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well, no one would meet me if I had mine on show!

The last one is dated May last year, and my last meet didn't leave one from last November/December.

But I have a regular friend I see, wouldn't expect him to verify me every time just to keep them up to date!

But, I do try and meet new people, it just doesn't seem to be happening but I'll keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And as for looking at verifications and deciding that they put it about too often ......

Oh come on, didn't you giggle at the irony?!! "

Yeah , guess we did lol

We only publish maybe half our verifications and more often than not in clubs .

So I guess we are the wrong type anyway !!!

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk


"How do you spot a 'Fake veri' ?"

Check pics, if pics are fake and you have someone verifying them as genuine theres a good chance of being fake veris.

Ive sort of noticed a pattern that you get someone on a main account, gives a verification to the fake account, return the verification and the other profile then doesn't get used again and the alternate profiles always seem to have similar sounding names.

Other one I know of gave me a fake verification and I alerted admin about it. They removed the false one from my profile which im glad about and removed the user and hes back doing the same thing all over again so id say just about any verification left by that user would be fake

There is ways to spot fakes, just a case of keeping an eye out for signs, same with spotting fake singles, couples etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you spot a 'Fake veri' ?

Check pics, if pics are fake and you have someone verifying them as genuine theres a good chance of being fake veris.

Ive sort of noticed a pattern that you get someone on a main account, gives a verification to the fake account, return the verification and the other profile then doesn't get used again and the alternate profiles always seem to have similar sounding names.

Other one I know of gave me a fake verification and I alerted admin about it. They removed the false one from my profile which im glad about and removed the user and hes back doing the same thing all over again so id say just about any verification left by that user would be fake

There is ways to spot fakes, just a case of keeping an eye out for signs, same with spotting fake singles, couples etc"

I have visions of you in a room full of whiteboards like that mathematician in "Numbers" now, creating flow charts and spidergrams!

Except you'd be less hairy and wearing slinky lingerie!

But I see what you mean - I must start back checking a little deeper!

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk


"How do you spot a 'Fake veri' ?

Check pics, if pics are fake and you have someone verifying them as genuine theres a good chance of being fake veris.

Ive sort of noticed a pattern that you get someone on a main account, gives a verification to the fake account, return the verification and the other profile then doesn't get used again and the alternate profiles always seem to have similar sounding names.

Other one I know of gave me a fake verification and I alerted admin about it. They removed the false one from my profile which im glad about and removed the user and hes back doing the same thing all over again so id say just about any verification left by that user would be fake

There is ways to spot fakes, just a case of keeping an eye out for signs, same with spotting fake singles, couples etc

I have visions of you in a room full of whiteboards like that mathematician in "Numbers" now, creating flow charts and spidergrams!

Except you'd be less hairy and wearing slinky lingerie!

But I see what you mean - I must start back checking a little deeper! "

Damn my secrets out lol Its not that complicated most of it is common sense and observations, might be wrong with some but probably right with most

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I like to read veries.. then check out who wrote them and who verified them.. Its quite an incestuous place really if you check out people in a certain area they all knocking off each other. LOL makes me smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, no one would meet me if I had mine on show!

The last one is dated May last year, and my last meet didn't leave one from last November/December.

But I have a regular friend I see, wouldn't expect him to verify me every time just to keep them up to date!

But, I do try and meet new people, it just doesn't seem to be happening but I'll keep trying "

I will do you one when you land at the airport and I've got home

(book flights woman)

Im sure we will get a few over that weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your opinion on verifications?

Do you even take any notice of them/ write them?"

I'll read them and the profile as they are a good starting point to find out about someone, but I'd never meet/not meet based solely on them. They may help me decide whether or not I'd like to chat further though

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What's your opinion on verifications?

Do you even take any notice of them/ write them?

Total strangers opinion on another stranger to decide whether they get into my home and knickers?!!

Yeah...right!!!

But another persons opinion is better than the profile writers opinion , surely?? I know verifications tend to be generic and as previously mentioned tend to be OTT, however they do provide more information than an unverified profile .

Not for me! I always meet socially, sometimes more than once. It's my home and my body. For me the influence or opinion of anyone on here (total strangers) in deciding who I meet is ludicrous.

Ludicrous?? Are you sure, I am not suggesting you base your opinion entirely on verifications but it does help , do you ever read reviews on trip advisor or which??"

Reading Trip Advisor to ascertain whether the hotel I'm thinking about has lifts and not a building site is hardly in the same bracket as using "he licked my pussy and made me cum loads, til the next time babe" in deciding to let a stranger into my home!

To ME that is ludicrous.

Would you leave your child in a nursery without going there personally, looking at the facilities, talking to the staff, getting a feel for the place? Or if you have pets, would you kennel your dog without going there personally and checking out the facilities?

I have children and pets and would not hand either over without personally checking who I'm leaving them with: I apply that same care to who I meet off the internet to invite into my home for sex.

Just like I've said when meeting socially I travel no more than 100m, it won't suit everyone but it works perfectly for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your opinion on verifications?

Do you even take any notice of them/ write them?

Total strangers opinion on another stranger to decide whether they get into my home and knickers?!!

Yeah...right!!!

But another persons opinion is better than the profile writers opinion , surely?? I know verifications tend to be generic and as previously mentioned tend to be OTT, however they do provide more information than an unverified profile .

Not for me! I always meet socially, sometimes more than once. It's my home and my body. For me the influence or opinion of anyone on here (total strangers) in deciding who I meet is ludicrous.

Ludicrous?? Are you sure, I am not suggesting you base your opinion entirely on verifications but it does help , do you ever read reviews on trip advisor or which??

Reading Trip Advisor to ascertain whether the hotel I'm thinking about has lifts and not a building site is hardly in the same bracket as using "he licked my pussy and made me cum loads, til the next time babe" in deciding to let a stranger into my home!

To ME that is ludicrous.

Would you leave your child in a nursery without going there personally, looking at the facilities, talking to the staff, getting a feel for the place? Or if you have pets, would you kennel your dog without going there personally and checking out the facilities?

I have children and pets and would not hand either over without personally checking who I'm leaving them with: I apply that same care to who I meet off the internet to invite into my home for sex.

Just like I've said when meeting socially I travel no more than 100m, it won't suit everyone but it works perfectly for me."

Verifications are good at giving people basic information, so in a way you can compare them to trip advisor etc. I agree that social meets are the best way to get to know someone , but even then how can you tell how good they are in bed whilst having a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would we write them down? No big deal if someone's isn't verified though I don't consider those that have been here a year, no pictures, no verifications, one line profile and a long list of friends, maybe they meet at clubs but I would still expect someone to be verified in those cases

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have written a few, but never claimed that anyone sucks like a dyson

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What's your opinion on verifications?

Do you even take any notice of them/ write them?

Total strangers opinion on another stranger to decide whether they get into my home and knickers?!!

Yeah...right!!!

But another persons opinion is better than the profile writers opinion , surely?? I know verifications tend to be generic and as previously mentioned tend to be OTT, however they do provide more information than an unverified profile .

Not for me! I always meet socially, sometimes more than once. It's my home and my body. For me the influence or opinion of anyone on here (total strangers) in deciding who I meet is ludicrous.

Ludicrous?? Are you sure, I am not suggesting you base your opinion entirely on verifications but it does help , do you ever read reviews on trip advisor or which??

Reading Trip Advisor to ascertain whether the hotel I'm thinking about has lifts and not a building site is hardly in the same bracket as using "he licked my pussy and made me cum loads, til the next time babe" in deciding to let a stranger into my home!

To ME that is ludicrous.

Would you leave your child in a nursery without going there personally, looking at the facilities, talking to the staff, getting a feel for the place? Or if you have pets, would you kennel your dog without going there personally and checking out the facilities?

I have children and pets and would not hand either over without personally checking who I'm leaving them with: I apply that same care to who I meet off the internet to invite into my home for sex.

Just like I've said when meeting socially I travel no more than 100m, it won't suit everyone but it works perfectly for me.

Verifications are good at giving people basic information, so in a way you can compare them to trip advisor etc. I agree that social meets are the best way to get to know someone , but even then how can you tell how good they are in bed whilst having a coffee "

How can you tell if someone elses "best bj I've ever had" would ring true for you? You're comparing apples to oranges.

How other people choose their playmates is not my concern. All I'm stating is for ME, using YOUR opinion, someone I don't know in deciding who I invite into my home, a home I share with my daughters is ludicrous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your opinion on verifications?

Do you even take any notice of them/ write them?

Total strangers opinion on another stranger to decide whether they get into my home and knickers?!!

Yeah...right!!!

But another persons opinion is better than the profile writers opinion , surely?? I know verifications tend to be generic and as previously mentioned tend to be OTT, however they do provide more information than an unverified profile .

Not for me! I always meet socially, sometimes more than once. It's my home and my body. For me the influence or opinion of anyone on here (total strangers) in deciding who I meet is ludicrous.

Ludicrous?? Are you sure, I am not suggesting you base your opinion entirely on verifications but it does help , do you ever read reviews on trip advisor or which??

Reading Trip Advisor to ascertain whether the hotel I'm thinking about has lifts and not a building site is hardly in the same bracket as using "he licked my pussy and made me cum loads, til the next time babe" in deciding to let a stranger into my home!

To ME that is ludicrous.

Would you leave your child in a nursery without going there personally, looking at the facilities, talking to the staff, getting a feel for the place? Or if you have pets, would you kennel your dog without going there personally and checking out the facilities?

I have children and pets and would not hand either over without personally checking who I'm leaving them with: I apply that same care to who I meet off the internet to invite into my home for sex.

Just like I've said when meeting socially I travel no more than 100m, it won't suit everyone but it works perfectly for me.

Verifications are good at giving people basic information, so in a way you can compare them to trip advisor etc. I agree that social meets are the best way to get to know someone , but even then how can you tell how good they are in bed whilst having a coffee

How can you tell if someone elses "best bj I've ever had" would ring true for you? You're comparing apples to oranges.

How other people choose their playmates is not my concern. All I'm stating is for ME, using YOUR opinion, someone I don't know in deciding who I invite into my home, a home I share with my daughters is ludicrous. "

Fair enough, each to their own and all that , here's a statistic, 60% of murders and violence are committed by people you know, therefore you have less chance of being harmed by a stranger. An irrelevant statistic but it does make you think

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why would we write them down? No big deal if someone's isn't verified though I don't consider those that have been here a year, no pictures, no verifications, one line profile and a long list of friends, maybe they meet at clubs but I would still expect someone to be verified in those cases"

I'm curious. Fab, is the only site I use with a verification system. If the owners withdrew the option would people stop meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would we write them down? No big deal if someone's isn't verified though I don't consider those that have been here a year, no pictures, no verifications, one line profile and a long list of friends, maybe they meet at clubs but I would still expect someone to be verified in those cases

I'm curious. Fab, is the only site I use with a verification system. If the owners withdrew the option would people stop meeting?"

I doubt that'd be the case, I reckon a lot if people see the veri's as 'they're real and they do turn up' nothing more.

I don't read huge amounts into a verification, some are far too graphic. I like a little mystery from people I'm meeting.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What's your opinion on verifications?

Do you even take any notice of them/ write them?

Total strangers opinion on another stranger to decide whether they get into my home and knickers?!!

Yeah...right!!!

But another persons opinion is better than the profile writers opinion , surely?? I know verifications tend to be generic and as previously mentioned tend to be OTT, however they do provide more information than an unverified profile .

Not for me! I always meet socially, sometimes more than once. It's my home and my body. For me the influence or opinion of anyone on here (total strangers) in deciding who I meet is ludicrous.

Ludicrous?? Are you sure, I am not suggesting you base your opinion entirely on verifications but it does help , do you ever read reviews on trip advisor or which??

Reading Trip Advisor to ascertain whether the hotel I'm thinking about has lifts and not a building site is hardly in the same bracket as using "he licked my pussy and made me cum loads, til the next time babe" in deciding to let a stranger into my home!

To ME that is ludicrous.

Would you leave your child in a nursery without going there personally, looking at the facilities, talking to the staff, getting a feel for the place? Or if you have pets, would you kennel your dog without going there personally and checking out the facilities?

I have children and pets and would not hand either over without personally checking who I'm leaving them with: I apply that same care to who I meet off the internet to invite into my home for sex.

Just like I've said when meeting socially I travel no more than 100m, it won't suit everyone but it works perfectly for me.

Verifications are good at giving people basic information, so in a way you can compare them to trip advisor etc. I agree that social meets are the best way to get to know someone , but even then how can you tell how good they are in bed whilst having a coffee

How can you tell if someone elses "best bj I've ever had" would ring true for you? You're comparing apples to oranges.

How other people choose their playmates is not my concern. All I'm stating is for ME, using YOUR opinion, someone I don't know in deciding who I invite into my home, a home I share with my daughters is ludicrous.

Fair enough, each to their own and all that , here's a statistic, 60% of murders and violence are committed by people you know, therefore you have less chance of being harmed by a stranger. An irrelevant statistic but it does make you think "

I don't know what point you're trying to make really. Statistically partners murder partners, parents their children more often than it being an act perpetrated by a stranger!

What bearing does that have on what we're discussing?!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" people see the veri's as 'they're real and they do turn up' "

...and for ME, someone prepared to travel to meet under my (inflexible) terms just for a coffee shows ME they're real and likely to turn up for a play meet!

Whatever works for us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use them as a benchmark generally. Gut instinct is more important. If sonething feels off there is usually a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" people see the veri's as 'they're real and they do turn up'

...and for ME, someone prepared to travel to meet under my (inflexible) terms just for a coffee shows ME they're real and likely to turn up for a play meet!

Whatever works for us! "

Fancy a brew then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would we write them down? No big deal if someone's isn't verified though I don't consider those that have been here a year, no pictures, no verifications, one line profile and a long list of friends, maybe they meet at clubs but I would still expect someone to be verified in those cases

I'm curious. Fab, is the only site I use with a verification system. If the owners withdrew the option would people stop meeting?"

I like the verification system. I use it as a bit of a benchmark to help me decide. If someone hasnt got any I doubt very much I would go to meet them. Just one would do even its just a cam one, its still a confirmation. I check out the other person who verified them too, it tells me if the person they met looks decent then they have got some consideration for themselves. Also, its just a good thing to do I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your opinion on verifications?

Do you even take any notice of them/ write them?

Total strangers opinion on another stranger to decide whether they get into my home and knickers?!!

Yeah...right!!!

But another persons opinion is better than the profile writers opinion , surely?? I know verifications tend to be generic and as previously mentioned tend to be OTT, however they do provide more information than an unverified profile .

Not for me! I always meet socially, sometimes more than once. It's my home and my body. For me the influence or opinion of anyone on here (total strangers) in deciding who I meet is ludicrous.

Ludicrous?? Are you sure, I am not suggesting you base your opinion entirely on verifications but it does help , do you ever read reviews on trip advisor or which??

Reading Trip Advisor to ascertain whether the hotel I'm thinking about has lifts and not a building site is hardly in the same bracket as using "he licked my pussy and made me cum loads, til the next time babe" in deciding to let a stranger into my home!

To ME that is ludicrous.

Would you leave your child in a nursery without going there personally, looking at the facilities, talking to the staff, getting a feel for the place? Or if you have pets, would you kennel your dog without going there personally and checking out the facilities?

I have children and pets and would not hand either over without personally checking who I'm leaving them with: I apply that same care to who I meet off the internet to invite into my home for sex.

Just like I've said when meeting socially I travel no more than 100m, it won't suit everyone but it works perfectly for me.

Verifications are good at giving people basic information, so in a way you can compare them to trip advisor etc. I agree that social meets are the best way to get to know someone , but even then how can you tell how good they are in bed whilst having a coffee

How can you tell if someone elses "best bj I've ever had" would ring true for you? You're comparing apples to oranges.

How other people choose their playmates is not my concern. All I'm stating is for ME, using YOUR opinion, someone I don't know in deciding who I invite into my home, a home I share with my daughters is ludicrous.

Fair enough, each to their own and all that , here's a statistic, 60% of murders and violence are committed by people you know, therefore you have less chance of being harmed by a stranger. An irrelevant statistic but it does make you think

I don't know what point you're trying to make really. Statistically partners murder partners, parents their children more often than it being an act perpetrated by a stranger!

What bearing does that have on what we're discussing?!! "

Like I said it was a slightly irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would we write them down? No big deal if someone's isn't verified though I don't consider those that have been here a year, no pictures, no verifications, one line profile and a long list of friends, maybe they meet at clubs but I would still expect someone to be verified in those cases

I'm curious. Fab, is the only site I use with a verification system. If the owners withdrew the option would people stop meeting?

I like the verification system. I use it as a bit of a benchmark to help me decide. If someone hasnt got any I doubt very much I would go to meet them. Just one would do even its just a cam one, its still a confirmation. I check out the other person who verified them too, it tells me if the person they met looks decent then they have got some consideration for themselves. Also, its just a good thing to do I think"

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I just think the veri's are often funny and admit I enjoy reading them. Seems majority of females give the best BJ ever and the majority of males the best oral!! I tend to use them as a very loose guide but have to say the best guy I've ever met on here was a new guy with no verifications and I was his first meet and the worst was a guy with several raving reviews!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just think the veri's are often funny and admit I enjoy reading them. Seems majority of females give the best BJ ever and the majority of males the best oral!! I tend to use them as a very loose guide but have to say the best guy I've ever met on here was a new guy with no verifications and I was his first meet and the worst was a guy with several raving reviews!!!"
that just about sums it up spot on. Don't forget the 'cocks or pussies to die for'.

A sort of verification bingo game. How many cliche quotes can you spot

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