FabSwingers.com forum: Talking after play

By *ot_so_newbies OP Couple
20 weeks ago

Lancs

Just seeing if anyone is in the same boat as us.

We tend to only play after having a few drinks for Dutch courage. It is always both our decision to play and we pick partners together, always people whom we are both sexually attracted too. After reclaim play we always talk about it and how we'd like to push boundaries going forward etc.

However this tends to only be on the night/morning after play and then rarely discussed in the cold light of day. Up until we decide we want to play again and the cycle restarts.

Any other couples in the same boat or is this because we are still relatively new to the scene and will "grow out of it"?

By *reenleavesCouple
20 weeks ago

North Wales

I think this is pretty normal. We'd talk about a club night on the drive home and then might not mention it again until we were on our way to the next club night. It's almost like it's an alter ego thing with us.