FabSwingers.com forum: Well how would we know

By *empted23 OP Couple
26 weeks ago

countryside

Looking for couples

This is so absurdly common

We get a message , hey guys

Wanna meet

We look at their profile —-as a couple — 700 profiles of her in all Manner of sexy outfits and poses

1 close up , weird angle ,, dick pick of him

Well how can we possibly know !

Given there is a full swap expectation

How can -female of us - have the slightest idea

If she wants to play with him

We can decide we both do or don’t like her

But cannot begin to consider a meet as we can’t see anything of him

We fully appreciate total face pic is unlikely

But more than a couple full body pics would be a good start

Why is this so uncommon ??

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
26 weeks ago

on the naughty side of the street

"Looking for couples

This is so absurdly common

We get a message , hey guys

Wanna meet

We look at their profile —-as a couple — 700 profiles of her in all Manner of sexy outfits and poses

1 close up , weird angle ,, dick pick of him

Well how can we possibly know !

Given there is a full swap expectation

How can -female of us - have the slightest idea

If she wants to play with him

We can decide we both do or don’t like her

But cannot begin to consider a meet as we can’t see anything of him

We fully appreciate total face pic is unlikely

But more than a couple full body pics would be a good start

Why is this so uncommon ?? "

Numerous reasons.

1. He is shy and she is more confident

2. He worships his misses

3.He is punching above his weight

4, not an actual couples

Just a guy pretending

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"Looking for couples

This is so absurdly common

We get a message , hey guys

Wanna meet

We look at their profile —-as a couple — 700 profiles of her in all Manner of sexy outfits and poses

1 close up , weird angle ,, dick pick of him

Well how can we possibly know !

Given there is a full swap expectation

How can -female of us - have the slightest idea

If she wants to play with him

We can decide we both do or don’t like her

But cannot begin to consider a meet as we can’t see anything of him

We fully appreciate total face pic is unlikely

But more than a couple full body pics would be a good start

Why is this so uncommon ?? "

Exactly! Then you chat for a while and eventually get a picture of the male and often have to politely decline.

Hence why we have a couple of full body pics of Charlie.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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26 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Use it as a filter. No pics of him gives you nothing to go on. It's common for the women in couples to be the bait to get interest.

It's really not hard to take a full body shot using a phone camera on a timer. Or for her to take a photo or two of him. Plenty of couples do manage it. Focus on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"Use it as a filter. No pics of him gives you nothing to go on. It's common for the women in couples to be the bait to get interest.

It's really not hard to take a full body shot using a phone camera on a timer. Or for her to take a photo or two of him. Plenty of couples do manage it. Focus on them. "

Good point, well made.

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By *andy CanesWoman
26 weeks ago

candy cane lane

"Use it as a filter. No pics of him gives you nothing to go on. It's common for the women in couples to be the bait to get interest. Definitely this

It's really not hard to take a full body shot using a phone camera on a timer. Or for her to take a photo or two of him. Plenty of couples do manage it. Focus on them. "

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
26 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple and this used to really frustrate me.

We have lots of my partner on our profile,as both of us are involved.

Many couples looking to meet other couples,have 57 pics of her and often none of him or one cock pic.

Now, if a profile like that contacts us, we just hit delete.

I'm straight and as lovely as the lady may be, I would have no interest in just seeing her and we no longer ask, as it can take ages to get a pic of the man.

It is a good filter, if just the lady meets, I can totally understand why they have no pics of the man.

Before anyone says it, yes we can all choose what to have on our profiles. However female heavy profiles are often the ones moaning that men just address the Mrs or asking why they can't attract women or couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

We share face pics and more of us both when we chat.

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
26 weeks ago

Gloucester

We like to have pics of us both, but don't see that with others so much. We like to see what we might have fun with, and we prefer to have some connection with both.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

We have more pictures of Mrs than Mr but there’s few of him which give a good idea of what he’s like xx

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By *andb69Couple
25 weeks ago

leeds

As I keep saying, people use their profile as they wish. If it works for them that's fine. If it doesn't work for you, that's fine too. Just find one that does. No one has the right to expect that any profile should show what they want to see.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Central

I can't ever understand how a profile that includes a woman, seems to have no perception of what another woman in a couple, would actually need, as a bare minimum starting point. Lacking in empathy and foresight

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
25 weeks ago

Leeds

It's my biggest issue with looking for couples, I just don't bother on here anymore.

The men either don't exist or are nothing but a close up cock.

It's impossible to guage attraction & even the odd few we've responded to getting a pic via inbox is like pulling teeth.

If there's no pics of him I won't bother anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

This is an intresting post. Feel free to check out our profile guys, constructive criticism is always welcome xx

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By *otally BenettonCouple
25 weeks ago

shropshire

I think you have to accept that every couple has their own dynamic and approaches kink in different ways. For us, I’m (Rob) the one on fab and I’m the one with the camera whilst Grace would be at the fore during a meet. That’s part of our vibe but we are happy to chat and swap photos if we get along.

I’ve added a photo of myself having read this thread but tge vast majority of our private and friends only photos are of Grace and that’s completely natural for us.

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By *rpeggioCouple
25 weeks ago

Baughurst

That's two separate things here. One, the fact that anyone can have in their profile whatever they want. Amen to that. The second is that couples with F-only pix profiles are approaching couples who show both halves stopping for a meet.

We always respond similarly: thanks, we are flattered, but we don't do blind dates. No more explanations, no attempt to engage. You'd be surprised how many times they come back with pictures of him.

Myb opinion is that These profiles are created by the male in the couple and are the couples' equivalent of the single men profiles that only show dick pics. They assume that any couple here has a female desperate for sex and so any cock will do as long as the females are good looking.

Could not be more wrong

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By *empted23 OP Couple
25 weeks ago

countryside

"Looking for couples

This is so absurdly common

We get a message , hey guys

Wanna meet

We look at their profile —-as a couple — 700 profiles of her in all Manner of sexy outfits and poses

1 close up , weird angle ,, dick pick of him

Well how can we possibly know !

Given there is a full swap expectation

How can -female of us - have the slightest idea

If she wants to play with him

We can decide we both do or don’t like her

But cannot begin to consider a meet as we can’t see anything of him

We fully appreciate total face pic is unlikely

But more than a couple full body pics would be a good start

Why is this so uncommon ??

Exactly! Then you chat for a while and eventually get a picture of the male and often have to politely decline.

Hence why we have a couple of full body pics of Charlie."

Yes this is why we make sure we have full body pics of J . So a lady of another couple can atleast make an educated guess

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By *empted23 OP Couple
25 weeks ago

countryside

"I can't ever understand how a profile that includes a woman, seems to have no perception of what another woman in a couple, would actually need, as a bare minimum starting point. Lacking in empathy and foresight "

Entirely Agree

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By *offandTimCouple
25 weeks ago

Glasgow

Entirely Agree

This 100%.

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