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By *ratedlad OP   Man
4 days ago

birmingham

It’s a must for me what about everyone else and if not why not ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 days ago

Carlisle usually

If I don't want to kiss someone I don't want to fuck them

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By *osey WalesMan
4 days ago

Surrey


"If I don't want to kiss someone I don't want to fuck them "

Same

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By *ingerSpiceBombCouple
4 days ago

Bedfordshire

Best as the orgasm is happening

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By *aomilatteCouple
4 days ago

Midlands

We don't kiss when we're doing doggy or spooning, we manage without sometimes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 days ago

East Sussex

No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.

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By *itten and her lucky LoveCouple
4 days ago

somewhere

It can depend! Sometimes it's really hot to be very intimate and romantic and sweet; sometimes it can be very hot to take what you want and stare them down daring them to cum first

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By *ensualplay69Man
4 days ago

slough


"It’s a must for me what about everyone else and if not why not ? "
I have good lips so I tend to use them and if I don't that means I'm not into it

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By *aniel20231000Man
4 days ago

Broxbourne

Definitely a must

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
4 days ago

wonderland.


"It’s a must for me what about everyone else and if not why not ? "
its not a must for me with casual sex.. on fact I actively avoid it.. love kissing just not a random sex partner. It doesn't do it for me x

Cali

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By *oxy jWoman
4 days ago

somerset

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple
4 days ago

Reigate


"Best as the orgasm is happening "

This 100%

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By * D 777Man
4 days ago

bathgate

i enjoy it ,but only if persons are in favour of it and depending whom

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By *elboy1978Man
4 days ago

Jarrow

I like kissing adds to the excitement

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
4 days ago

Hertfordshire

I can fuck someone without love, but my desire to kiss someone is definitely linked to my emotions towards them, so although I won't rule it out completely, I have very little desire or enthusiasm to kiss anyone I don't have feelings for - Hubby's kisses set fireworks off in my body whereas everyone else is just disappointing...You also have the issue that unless you're an EXCEPTIONAL kisser, it's likely to turn me off. So I do prefer not to...

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
4 days ago

Sherwood Forest

It's literally the key to unlocking my knickers... no kissing and it's a no go for us I'm afraid

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By *ratedlad OP   Man
4 days ago

birmingham

Love that x

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By *orthern BeardMan
4 days ago

Preston

Definitely a must

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By *outhMancMaleMan
4 days ago

manchester

Fuckin love it

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By *angerouslemaisonsMan
4 days ago

Peterborough


"If I don't want to kiss someone I don't want to fuck them "

100% this

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
4 days ago

South West London

Kissing is nice during sex although I prefer to do it with a woman Im exclusive with

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By *WB85Man
4 days ago

Staffordshire

Sex with no kissing.....I'm not the guy for you.

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By *xfordjohnMan
4 days ago

Oxford

Definitely love kissing. Sadly the couple I meet most often don't, so when it happens with others, it's very exciting and a real plus.

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By *bcplCouple
4 days ago

Aberdeenshire

Deffo a must for me I need the sensual side of things as well as a good fuck

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By *ot to giggleWoman
4 days ago

Coventry

yes please!!!

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By *teve691000Man
4 days ago

sutton coldfield

Kissing for me is another part of the fore play. Guaranteed to get me in the mood

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By *howpanMan
4 days ago

Cheshire


"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed."

Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet?

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By *iablo soloWoman
4 days ago

Southside


"Kissing for me is another part of the fore play. Guaranteed to get me in the mood"

Absolutely, same.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
4 days ago

wonderland.


"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.

Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet?"

what's that got to do with anything??

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By *hil153Man
4 days ago

Bournemouth


"Kissing for me is another part of the fore play. Guaranteed to get me in the mood"

100% agree..kissing is a must

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By *howpanMan
4 days ago

Cheshire


"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.

Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything?? "

Everything I would have thought?

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
4 days ago

wonderland.


"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.

Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??

Everything I would have thought?"

nope... why would there be any correlation...

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By *tsmaMan
4 days ago

Chester

Surely kissing is must, followed by neck kissing and ear nibbling

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By *avexxMan
4 days ago

cheshire

kissing is a must for me..

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By *histle do nicelyMan
4 days ago

Glasgow South

Love it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

4 days ago

East Sussex


"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.

Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet?"

Yes.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
4 days ago

stockport

Love to be kissed

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By *holenutsnchillCouple
3 days ago

Everywhere

Kiss ? We want tongues twisting and wresting n all that

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By *umagain58Man
3 days ago

London

Yes nice and intimate kissing on lips and body all over. Always prefer but understand not for all

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By *inUpProWoman
3 days ago

Liverpool

Gotta have kissing during sex!

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By *omptationMan
3 days ago

liverpool

I love kissing as part of sex, however I had a MMF recently where that was reserved solely for her man and I found it so erotic to watch them kiss while I fucked her from behind…

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By *icohxxxMan
3 days ago

Wolverhampton

I wouldn't meet anyone if they refused to kiss

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By *ussex team upCouple (MM)
3 days ago

Sussex

During our mfm meets the hotwife we meet generally don't want us to kiss. I do really miss that side of things ....

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By *d4funtimesMan
3 days ago

Cambridge

Kissing is a must during sex, whether it involves playful tongue action or not.

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By *emptusboth777Couple
3 days ago

oxford

It's a definite must for us

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
3 days ago

douglas

It’s a must from me

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By *asycouple1971Couple
3 days ago

midlands

We do

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By (user no longer on site)
3 days ago

Enjoys a good smooch

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By *avexxMan
3 days ago

cheshire

thow must not kiss

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
3 days ago

St Neots


"I love kissing as part of sex, however I had a MMF recently where that was reserved solely for her man and I found it so erotic to watch them kiss while I fucked her from behind…"

Yeah that's hot

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By *oneyBee200Woman
3 days ago

Kent

I wouldn't have sex without it. My profile mentions kissing so if people don't like it, give me a miss!

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By *howpanMan
3 days ago

Cheshire


"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.

Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??

Everything I would have thought?nope... why would there be any correlation...

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Is the act of kissing a prelude to advancing intimacy. It’s called fore play I think?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

3 days ago

East Sussex


"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.

Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??

Everything I would have thought?nope... why would there be any correlation...

Is the act of kissing a prelude to advancing intimacy. It’s called fore play I think?"

There are many, many forms of foreplay, it's not mandatory to partake in all of them or even any if you don't want to.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
3 days ago

wonderland.


"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.

Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??

Everything I would have thought?nope... why would there be any correlation...

Is the act of kissing a prelude to advancing intimacy. It’s called fore play I think?"

I have more tools in my box that one method of foreplay.... I manage very well without kissing for casual partners...

And I still don't see the corelation to oral ... which I normally skip receiving from men .. they don't seem to complain when I use my hands / fingers and mouth on their bodies and cocks... just not to kiss

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By *rjay224Man
3 days ago

south west

Kissing is a must it’s the most sensual thing to do

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By *londebiguyMan
3 days ago

Southport


"It’s a must for me what about everyone else and if not why not ? "

Oh yes.

Love it.

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By *mber SkiesWoman
3 days ago

.

No just no

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
3 days ago

Bridlington.

Kissing is for many more intimate than genital sex. I can understand if they exclude it from meets.

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By *icketToRudeCouple
3 days ago

Wellingborough

For us, kissing is so something intimate and only for us so when we talk to potential meets we always discuss this and make them aware. Not had any issues so far.

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By *herry delightWoman
3 days ago

Ilfracombe

It depends on the type of sex the location , the dynamics of the sex. There is a lot of factors to consider.

It would be very boring to have the same sex every time just to incorporate kissing.

I have had amazing sex where there has been no kissing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 days ago

East Sussex

It's interesting that this is one of very few (legal and safe) preferences that people consistently question.

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By *arry monk40Man
3 days ago

Telford

It's a must

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By *ay40xMan
3 days ago

Bromley

Oh yes has to involve kissing and lots of it otherwise what’s the point

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By *herry delightWoman
3 days ago

Ilfracombe

What if you are in a sex swing?

The one I have it's very difficult to get close enough to kiss.

What about when you are being fucklicked ?

Then any kissing would be part of the foreplay not the sexy act.

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By *allipygousMan
3 days ago

Leicester

If it's a private 1-on-1, 2-on-1 encounter then I find I need to kiss to get me going.

If I'm observing a couple having a genuine (and by that I mean not the fake moaning some women put on when being observed) horny encounter and I'm invited to join in then kissing isn't necessary for me to be turned on.

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By *herry delightWoman
3 days ago

Ilfracombe

Kissing is more foreplay then something done when having sex.

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By *eekingfwbWoman
3 days ago

kent

A must for me!

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By *emptme1993Man
3 days ago

manchester

If I want to fuck you I definitely want to kiss you

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By *illybeachboyMan
3 days ago

Guernsey

No kissing no sex.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
3 days ago

Castlebar


"No kissing no sex. "

Absolutely. If there is no kissing it's gonna be drier than the Sahara down there!

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By *quirrel!Man
3 days ago

L

Before, during, after - lips, neck, tits, tummy, pussy!

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By *ot_so_newbiesCouple
3 days ago

Lancs

Not a must for us but we do prefer kissing in a meet. Just adds to the intimacy in our opinion.

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By *andy LickerMan
3 days ago

inverness

Kissing is a must for me

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
3 days ago

Gloucester

We like the kissing, it doesn't seem right without

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By *inkywife1981Couple
3 days ago

A town near you

Yes passionate snogging is a must for me!

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By *sj75Couple
3 days ago

castleford

I insist My Mrs kisses either the male or female

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By *sj75Couple
3 days ago

castleford


"Yes passionate snogging is a must for me!"
it's the only way x

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By *sj75Couple
3 days ago

castleford


"We like the kissing, it doesn't seem right without "
exactly x

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By *helseaJimmy1975Couple
2 days ago

uk

It’s a yes from us

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By *edhotkinkCouple
2 days ago

Lancashire

J loves kissing and I love watching and listening to her kiss, it's more erotic than the sex

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By *punk n gushCouple
2 days ago

Walmer,

Nope not a fan of kissing full stop

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By *am882Man
2 days ago

Northampton

It’s a yes from me. I love intimate kissing

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By *ucka39Man
2 days ago

Newcastle

It starts with kissing leading to forking

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By *howpanMan
2 days ago

Cheshire


"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.

Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??

Everything I would have thought?nope... why would there be any correlation...

Is the act of kissing a prelude to advancing intimacy. It’s called fore play I think? I have more tools in my box that one method of foreplay.... I manage very well without kissing for casual partners...

And I still don't see the corelation to oral ... which I normally skip receiving from men .. they don't seem to complain when I use my hands / fingers and mouth on their bodies and cocks... just not to kiss "

Perhaps there is a perception that performing oral sex has a greater degree of intimacy than kissing?

Or am I being simplistic?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

2 days ago

East Sussex


"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.

Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??

Everything I would have thought?nope... why would there be any correlation...

Is the act of kissing a prelude to advancing intimacy. It’s called fore play I think? I have more tools in my box that one method of foreplay.... I manage very well without kissing for casual partners...

And I still don't see the corelation to oral ... which I normally skip receiving from men .. they don't seem to complain when I use my hands / fingers and mouth on their bodies and cocks... just not to kiss

Perhaps there is a perception that performing oral sex has a greater degree of intimacy than kissing?

Or am I being simplistic?"

That may be your perception. It isn't everyone's

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By *riental_brit_studMan
2 days ago

London

Horniest thing of all for me. Love it during foreplay and undressing a horny hotwife.

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By *howpanMan
2 days ago

Cheshire


"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.

Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??

Everything I would have thought?nope... why would there be any correlation...

Is the act of kissing a prelude to advancing intimacy. It’s called fore play I think? I have more tools in my box that one method of foreplay.... I manage very well without kissing for casual partners...

And I still don't see the corelation to oral ... which I normally skip receiving from men .. they don't seem to complain when I use my hands / fingers and mouth on their bodies and cocks... just not to kiss

Perhaps there is a perception that performing oral sex has a greater degree of intimacy than kissing?

Or am I being simplistic?

That may be your perception. It isn't everyone's"

I did qualify the statement?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

2 days ago

East Sussex


"No it isn't a must for us. It's on our profile so nobody gets disappointed.

Interestingly do you perform oral sex when you meet? what's that got to do with anything??

Everything I would have thought?nope... why would there be any correlation...

Is the act of kissing a prelude to advancing intimacy. It’s called fore play I think? I have more tools in my box that one method of foreplay.... I manage very well without kissing for casual partners...

And I still don't see the corelation to oral ... which I normally skip receiving from men .. they don't seem to complain when I use my hands / fingers and mouth on their bodies and cocks... just not to kiss

Perhaps there is a perception that performing oral sex has a greater degree of intimacy than kissing?

Or am I being simplistic?

That may be your perception. It isn't everyone's

I did qualify the statement?"

You did. My response was a way of saying 'yes, in my opinion to are being simplistic '

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By *abonTedCouple
2 days ago

Midlands & Cheltenham

To be lost in that moment, wanting to eat that mouth, to drink and consume every part of them. Mouths open, hungry, wanting and being explored by tongue.

Other times it might be fingers pushing past lips and feeling and leading the body by mouth.

Other times might just be talking

All ways connected

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By *oots11Couple
2 days ago

wirral

If we don’t kiss we don’t have fun !!

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
2 days ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"If I don't want to kiss someone I don't want to fuck them "

Pretty much this...

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By * F 2018Couple
2 days ago

shropshire


"Kissing for me is another part of the fore play. Guaranteed to get me in the mood"

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By *ady7Woman
2 days ago

Hereford

Kissing is a must for me. Can't have sex with no kisding

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By *corpioboyMan
2 days ago

Glasgow

It’s essential for me too. Kissing and lots of foreplay

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By *ixitfelixgirlWoman
2 days ago

South Wales

I love kissing! If someone’s kiss doesn’t make me want more I don’t do more!

Doesn’t mean I need to kiss my play partner the whole time during sex but it’s always got a place.

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By *amanthabWoman
2 days ago

UK

Love kissing also, from soft and sensual to hard with driving tongues

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By *ittle_blondie_xWoman
2 days ago

Manchester

Essential for me, love kissing

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By *lutty_FetgeekWoman
1 day ago

Wallasey

I love kissing x

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By *yesgreenMan
14 hours ago

north and south


"I love kissing x"
kissing yes , But it’s peoples choice and we have to respect them , Kissing booth now that would be nice

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By *reg332Man
13 hours ago

mid Cornwall

Kissing is hot...so absolutely necessary

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By *oadsafun1960Man
13 hours ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

I love kissing and much prefer it as part of the overall experience, but for some people kissing us more intimate than sex so they save that for their partners only.

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By *rMindandMrsCuriousCouple
13 hours ago

Bristol

caveat with the fact we are FFM only, but its definitely a must for wifey - she loves the intimacy of kissing other women and is a huge turn on for her as part of foreplay.

I would forego the pleasure with the other woman if she didnt want to (beards turn people on or off...) but preference would definitly be to kiss our 3rd party as well.

Just something incredibly erotic about 3 way kissing...especially after lots of oral....

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By *linky1Couple
12 hours ago

Sittingbourne

No kissing is far too cold for us.

Dislike playing with guys who will not kiss after oral either.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
12 hours ago

Leeds


"If I don't want to kiss someone I don't want to fuck them "

Exactly this.

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