FabSwingers.com forum: dose size matter? (femaile)

By *obblybits OP Couple
over a year ago

huddersfield

so we have done the size of the men.

so dose the size of the lovely ladies matter.

is there a too thin, thin,plump, big, very big, very very big! in size what do the men want?? I know difrent people like difrent people?

just was wondering?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pulse

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By *obblybits OP Couple
over a year ago

huddersfield

[Removed by poster at 21/12/09 14:26:28]

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

i love women of all sizes its the personality and the confidance that does it for me so if theres any northwest message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think attraction rules no matter what size a person is, if you fancy them you fancy them no matter

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

no matter what size the lady is there will be loads of men who like her size for her to chose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no matter what size the lady is there will be loads of men who like her size for her to chose from

The very fact that the OP brings up size and people reply regarding size shows that it does indeed MATTER.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Incidentally ........ when I get a message or see a profile that says ...... Any age Any size... I never respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Incidentally ........ when I get a message or see a profile that says ...... Any age Any size... I never respond. "

It's something that is pretty much exclusive to the swinging world and does say rather a lot about that person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mike likes curvy girls he's not really into skinny girls, mind you he's a sucker for big boobs so if girl turned up and was skinny with big boobs , im sure he would bend the rule a bit..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You dont respond to people who have 'any age any size' on there profile yet you have put age is immaterial on yours

I think size does matter, i like curvy girls but there is a massive difference in being curvy and being obese. Although some women dont seem to grasp this, i wouldnt go with some one who is huge. Sorry to sound like a snob.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I always get the impression these kind of posts are from people who lack confidence or are new to the scene. Sweetheart, have a look around you at the women on here(even just in the forums) they all come in different shapes and sizes and there all having fun. If you put a post up on here your going to get limited replies. Instead of asking on a thread try enjoying the social side of things. You will soon learn that in swinging MOST people will accept people for who they are and there are enough men/women/couples for everyonexx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I presume that was aimed at me so i will reply, if it wasnt, apologies but...

If anything the insecurites and lack of confidence are showing through your reply.

My post wasnt aimed at anybody, nor to offend anyone. A question was asked and i responded with my opinion. It all comes down to personal preference. Thats mine. Should i start whining about women who prefer black guys or ridiculously well endowed guys? Er no, thats there choice.

For MOST people as you put it, there has to be a mental as well as a physical attraction. And sorry to say, fat, obese women are not my thing. Like they or me are going to lost any sleep over it.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

And we are back to the "I don't like fat women" stance.........

Maddie sits back, glad she's taking a break, gets the popcorn and waits for the insults to start flying......

One piece of advice matey.......It doesn't make one iota of difference to anyone on here what your preferences are..... but don't display them on the forum where it can be open season for insults.

**and a useful fact for you..... Diamond is one of the most confidence and secure women I know ....... Don't ever judge a book by it's cover in the swinging world..... you'll fall flat on ya face!!**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I presume that was aimed at me so i will reply, if it wasnt, apologies but...

If anything the insecurites and lack of confidence are showing through your reply.

For MOST people as you put it, there has to be a mental as well as a physical attraction. And sorry to say, fat, obese women are not my thing. Like they or me are going to lost any sleep over it. "
I dont think Diamonds response was aimed at you but the original poster. Oh I think size matters, and I agree with those that will sleep with anyone regardless of age, size etc: I prefer playmates with discerning tastes! I'm fat but dont like men that are short, fat, hairy, have small cocks it's my preference and my playtime. I am not going to berate someone if they dont like fat women!! Thing is I get a lot of grief from men that are short, fat who are offended I dont want to play with them!! It's a funny old world!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I presume that was aimed at me so i will reply, if it wasnt, apologies but...

If anything the insecurites and lack of confidence are showing through your reply.

For MOST people as you put it, there has to be a mental as well as a physical attraction. And sorry to say, fat, obese women are not my thing. Like they or me are going to lost any sleep over it. "

lol my post wasnt aimed at you at all lol. I was refering to the op. Just cause you dont like big women thats your preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair does, my defenses are up today

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Oh and when i was talking about MOST people i ment MOST people will accept you for who you are i wasnt actually refereing to having sex but the friendship side of things

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Fair does, my defenses are up today

Maybe your the one lacking in confidence. You dont like to play with big ladies far enough but not sure why you feel the need to have to defend yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Madchick you are obviously not the brightest spark eh.

The post wasnt aimed at me which i originally thought was, but i havnt gone on to attack or insult that poster in my reply although i did find it slightly patronising.

The whole point to an open forum is about viewing others opinions. So if you dont like to here other peoples opinions which you might disagree with, you no where to go.

Where have i even gone on to have a pop or insult larger people? As i said, they nor me will lose any sleep over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am totally of the opinion that everyone and anyone can find some fun on this site - no matter what your size, shape, colour, creed, religion, kinks etc etc etc.

All you need is the right attitude and a smile.................. xxx

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair does, my defenses are up today

Maybe your the one lacking in confidence. You dont like to play with big ladies far enough but not sure why you feel the need to have to defend yourself. "
Must admit to thinking the same thing. Your choice who you play with, no need to get defensive as we have our choices too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, i thought the post was aimed at me as i couldnt really see who else it could be aimed at, hence why i replied. Who doesnt reply to a post they think is to them?

The fact a number of people seem to be getting worked up over what was a moderate post from me not liking obese women, says it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am totally of the opinion that everyone and anyone can find some fun on this site - no matter what your size, shape, colour, creed, religion, kinks etc etc etc.

All you need is the right attitude and a smile.................. xxx

xxx"
And they do! You only have to read the forum posts to see everyone is having a brilliant time!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"No, i thought the post was aimed at me as i couldnt really see who else it could be aimed at, hence why i replied. Who doesnt reply to a post they think is to them?

The fact a number of people seem to be getting worked up over what was a moderate post from me not liking obese women, says it all

What do you mean you couldnt really see who else it was aimed at??????? Funnily enough when someone replies to a thread its usually the person that has started it. The only reason anyone is having a go at you now was you was that noone had even noticed your comment until you decided to get all defencive for apparently no reason anyone else can see. Guess you think people should of reacted to you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, i thought the post was aimed at me as i couldnt really see who else it could be aimed at, hence why i replied. Who doesnt reply to a post they think is to them?

The fact a number of people seem to be getting worked up over what was a moderate post from me not liking obese women, says it all

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Matter of perception I guess as to me it was obviously aimed at the original poster.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Madchick you are obviously not the brightest spark eh.

The post wasnt aimed at me which i originally thought was, but i havnt gone on to attack or insult that poster in my reply although i did find it slightly patronising.

The whole point to an open forum is about viewing others opinions. So if you dont like to here other peoples opinions which you might disagree with, you no where to go.

Where have i even gone on to have a pop or insult larger people? As i said, they nor me will lose any sleep over it.

Oh and as for _adchick not being the brightest spark, if only you knew what irony that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair does, my defenses are up today

Maybe your the one lacking in confidence. You dont like to play with big ladies far enough but not sure why you feel the need to have to defend yourself. Must admit to thinking the same thing. Your choice who you play with, no need to get defensive as we have our choices too x"

I agree in general what you are saying. I basically put that in other words on my reply.

You are failing to grasp that i thought the post was to me. If someone posts something to you, you reply, just like i did? Just a case of crossed wires on my part, no big deal.

If people actually take the time out to read what ive put theyll see im not having a pop at anyone. *Cough* Madchick *cough*

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"Madchick you are obviously not the brightest spark eh."

Trying to insult me personally will do you no good, it's just boring!

"The post wasnt aimed at me which i originally thought was, but i havnt gone on to attack or insult that poster in my reply although i did find it slightly patronising. "

It was obvious Diamonds post wasn't aimed at you...... however, you did 'try' and insult her with your quote "If anything the insecurites and lack of confidence are showing through your reply." line.....

"The whole point to an open forum is about viewing others opinions. So if you dont like to here other peoples opinions which you might disagree with, you no where to go. "

I know perfectly well what an open forum is...... I, as well as others, are entitled to our opinions. I don't have to like what other's have written but it is their opinion/choice but that is the point of open forums, to discuss and debate...... you have no right to tell me "you no where to go"...... (and if you wish to try and insult me, get your spelling and grammer correct at least) **how's that for childish?**

"Where have i even gone on to have a pop or insult larger people? As i said, they nor me will lose any sleep over it.

I never said you had a pop at larger people, try reading my post correctly and read the grammer that has been inserted.

I personally wouldn't care less if you or anyone else lost any sleep over this thread, because I know it won't happen.

However, after many years on forums, the "size" debate has never yet failed to disintegrate into verbal abuse/all out war and childish accusations.

Now read my post again and I think you will see that I was actually saying that.... and trying to give you some serious advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would i expect a reaction out of what i put, its hardly ground breaking stuff thats going to cause a stir is it?

You are looking into it to much now. Ive already said it was crossed wires on my part in terms of who my post was aimed at but obviously my opinion is still the same.

Cant be arsed getting into a tit for tat arguement now. If you dont like it or me, tough.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

[Removed by poster at 21/12/09 17:55:31]

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Why would i expect a reaction out of what i put, its hardly ground breaking stuff thats going to cause a stir is it?

You are looking into it to much now. Ive already said it was crossed wires on my part in terms of who my post was aimed at but obviously my opinion is still the same.

Cant be arsed getting into a tit for tat arguement now. If you dont like it or me, tough.

I have no opinion of you either way apart from the fact i cant believe someone thought a post was put on about them.

Basic forum rules, usually when one is refering to anything but the opening post in a thread they quote the post they where refering to.

Now hope you wont come back in a couple of months complaining that noone wants to play with a 21 year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My god, i replied to someone when i shouldnt have.

Can you feel the worlds entire population stopping in silence at this horrifying news

If nobody wants to play on this site with me because of this, i will simply just run into a dark corner and cry for weeks on end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pulse

Hu ya fussy git lol xx

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By *ayc_BigballsMan
over a year ago

Derby

personal preference i guess. Dont like skinny, like bone thin matchsticks, but like slim, also like curves but not into bbw's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since we have been swinging,I've played with tall girls, short girls, big girls and small girls, (was gonna write little girls there but would have got linched, lol), and the level of my enjoyment was in no way related to body shape or body size. My best memories are of the girls who have made it fun.

Incidently, isn't "fun" what we're all looking to experience ?

xx Jack

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By *obblybits OP Couple
over a year ago

huddersfield

god sorry I switched off after the nice post close to the top getting a dig at my spelling. I have got insecurities however not so much about my Waite. now I am a little smaller I am feeling sexy in my new found asda clothing wear.

thank you for all your replies.

the post was an opposite of dose size matter on a man. not a give me attention type way.

most of your are lovely and friendly on hear. to them I look forwards to chatting to you but there is one or two I do not.

(this is not meant to the people who have difrent sexual preferences but the people who are nasty and will take a pop at people for the downfalls)

oh and I have spell checked this but I know there will still me a lot wrong about it

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I am awful, it was indescriblably cruel to pick on the Op's spelling!

But isn't this the bloke who was trying to force his wife into swinging? I could be wrong, I don't think I am!!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I am awful, it was indescriblably cruel to pick on the Op's spelling!

But isn't this the bloke who was trying to force his wife into swinging? I could be wrong, I don't think I am!!!!

Think you may have gotten mixed up as this is a genuine swinging couple and its the lady talking

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"I am awful, it was indescriblably cruel to pick on the Op's spelling!

But isn't this the bloke who was trying to force his wife into swinging? I could be wrong, I don't think I am!!!!

you're def wrong - similar name but quite different couple

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I like thin petite women, purely due to i love corsets and am of the opinion that a 6"-12" gap in the lace, does not a sexy sight make..

Saying that I have met some very atractive women, who dressed incredibly sexy, as they knew that correct size and comfy, beats 3 sizes to small anyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You dont respond to people who have 'any age any size' on there profile yet you have put age is immaterial on yours

Why are you blushing?

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By *obblybits OP Couple
over a year ago

huddersfield

ha ha ha ha pmsl. my husband dose not forse me in to anything. It was my idea. he loves it and so do I. you must have been thinking about someone ells. but hay thank you for the mesg if infact there is any truth in it!!

you will no if it is the femaile member of this couple because I can not spell. hubby is a good speller and fussy on grammer.

but yeah you were out of order

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By *cite6662002Couple
over a year ago

glos

curvy girls are grate but fat-obese

is just not good

but you fat-obese girls are lucky if you

go out on the pull there will aways be

a pissed up guy that will fuck them

then thay think thay are BBW

just ask the men on here that have stod

there (ha mate that one yours)

sorry to put it like this but that is the way it is

just wish you pissed up girls fuck us fat men but it just dont work that way?????????????

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"curvy girls are grate but fat-obese

is just not good

but you fat-obese girls are lucky if you

go out on the pull there will aways be

a pissed up guy that will fuck them

then thay think thay are BBW

just ask the men on here that have stod

there (ha mate that one yours)

sorry to put it like this but that is the way it is

just wish you pissed up girls fuck us fat men but it just dont work that way?????????????

that's pretty offensive

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"curvy girls are grate but fat-obese

is just not good

but you fat-obese girls are lucky if you

go out on the pull there will aways be

a pissed up guy that will fuck them

then thay think thay are BBW

just ask the men on here that have stod

there (ha mate that one yours)

sorry to put it like this but that is the way it is

just wish you pissed up girls fuck us fat men but it just dont work that way?????????????

that's pretty offensive"

nar, not offensive. Narrow minded and childlike. Thank god hes not into big women other wise one of us may have inadvertantly shagged the arse hole

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"curvy girls are grate but fat-obese

is just not good

but you fat-obese girls are lucky if you

go out on the pull there will aways be

a pissed up guy that will fuck them

then thay think thay are BBW

just ask the men on here that have stod

there (ha mate that one yours)

sorry to put it like this but that is the way it is

just wish you pissed up girls fuck us fat men but it just dont work that way?????????????

that's pretty offensive

nar, not offensive. Narrow minded and childlike. Thank god hes not into big women other wise one of us may have inadvertantly shagged the arse hole"

lol - love you sweetie - the voice of reason! Z xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"[Removed by poster at 22/12/09 00:58:22]"

?????????????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 22/12/09 00:58:22]

?????????????????"

pmsl..to dumbfounded to post.. think he is just off his tits on a whiff of the barmans apron...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 22/12/09 00:58:22]

?????????????????

pmsl..to dumbfounded to post.. think he is just off his tits on a whiff of the barmans apron...

And what a alternative and interesting profile ????...the more cynical amoungst us could be forgiven for questioning the reality of mrs x cite...

...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh it's amazing how serious these forum things can get!

I personally don't generally find slim women attractive. Maybe it's cause I have huge breasts and a big firm ass I am spoilt

I have played with some slender women and would definately say that personality plays a big part, but on the whole I find those curves damn fine!

I also think that one mans view on curves would be another mans view of fat.

I guess probably it would be fair to say that from my point of view, size matters. But only in relation to your sense of humour. The bigger the better!!! xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"curvy girls are grate but fat-obese

is just not good

but you fat-obese girls are lucky if you

go out on the pull there will aways be

a pissed up guy that will fuck them

then thay think thay are BBW

just ask the men on here that have stod

there (ha mate that one yours)

sorry to put it like this but that is the way it is

just wish you pissed up girls fuck us fat men but it just dont work that way?????????????

"
Whoa!!! Such venom!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a glint in their eye

a personality

a strong and independant mind

flair and creativity....

and I am gagging ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a glint in their eye

a personality

a strong and independant mind

flair and creativity....

and I am gagging ........

You are too easily pleased!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own when it comes to size, taste and everything!

I am lucky to have playmates who like a bit of meat and flesh on their ladies

But then, they won't be playmates if they don't! Not rocket science, really!

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"curvy girls are grate but fat-obese

is just not good

but you fat-obese girls are lucky if you

go out on the pull there will aways be

a pissed up guy that will fuck them

then thay think thay are BBW

just ask the men on here that have stod

there (ha mate that one yours)

sorry to put it like this but that is the way it is

just wish you pissed up girls fuck us fat men but it just dont work that way?????????????

Whoa!!! Such venom!!! "

Venom, aye! ZoeRose's just asked me the "Do you think am fat?" question. My answer? showed her the trailer to "Bringing Down the House" (Steve Martin and Queen Latifah, 2003) - yes, curves are beautiful and it should not be any one physical trait that defines a person, like big dicks on black guys.

Speaking of dick size... Why oh why do the venom-poster's have "Not interested in big cock" as well as "Only soft swinging" on profile? I thought soft swinging didn't involve penetration hence cock size (if any cock at all) was irrelevant? Or have I got the wrong end of the shaft... I mean... stick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"curvy girls are grate but fat-obese

is just not good

but you fat-obese girls are lucky if you

go out on the pull there will aways be

a pissed up guy that will fuck them

then thay think thay are BBW

just ask the men on here that have stod

there (ha mate that one yours)

sorry to put it like this but that is the way it is

just wish you pissed up girls fuck us fat men but it just dont work that way?????????????

Whoa!!! Such venom!!!

Zoe Rose= curvy and beautiful.... inside and out...

One of the things I love about swinging is the number of big curvy confident fabulous women..who genuinely love their curves...and the guys that adore these women.

Anyone knocking the peeps that celebrate our diversity as a community should go and spend some time in an eating disorders unit...and see the pain and misery caused to the peeps there by striving for the "perfect" size zero...whatever size you are and whatever size your preference of playmate.. HAPPY with themseves is a bloody attractive starting point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a glint in their eye

a personality

a strong and independant mind

flair and creativity....

and I am gagging ........

You are too easily pleased!

takes me ages to get 'pleased'....

as long as partner is 'pleased over and over again'.....

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