FabSwingers.com forum: This site can be a lonely place.

By *rofmoriarty OP Man
1 week ago

Nearby

I’d firstly like to caveat that this is not a whinge, or a moan, or an attempt to have a go at the females/couples on here. More of an attempt to reach out to my fellow single guys and say ‘I know’

We know the ratio of single males to females/couples is very skewed on fab, and females/couples (and others) are inundated with messages and it would be impossible to reply to everyone.

However, It can be a lonely site for a single guy, lots of rejection, and sometimes good conversations and meets can be few and far inbetween.

If you’re struggling with self-esteem or loneliness, or if you want to tell the single guys to keep the faith and don’t get knocked, let’s make this thread a place of positivity where we have each others back.

You are a king!

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By *rofmoriarty OP Man
1 week ago

Nearby

Maybe this thread will just prove my point in a really sad way haha

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By *J-87Man
1 week ago

Donington

Keep plugging away. Took nearly two years for my first meet on here!

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By *lue morphoCouple
1 week ago

Manchester

Carry on with your polite manner & you’ll find your way

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By *rofmoriarty OP Man
1 week ago

Nearby

Thanks guys. Although the threads not specifically aimed at me, it’s for all the guys.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 week ago

S. Herts

I don’t understand why anyone would stay on here if it made them feel this way.

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By *entfootloverMan
1 week ago

Sevenoaks

"I don’t understand why anyone would stay on here if it made them feel this way. "

Same reason many people buy lottery tickets despite the odds

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
1 week ago

on the naughty side of the street

The biggest advice is

Get offline and attend a swingers club or social meets.

You will meet like minded people in a safe setting, let the party hosts know your nervous.

They will look after you and you will be with people who share your interest in the swinging world.

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By *rofmoriarty OP Man
1 week ago

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"I don’t understand why anyone would stay on here if it made them feel this way. "

I find it can be addictive, chasing that feeling of being desired.

I also genuinely enjoy the lifestyle and want to be part of the community.

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
1 week ago

on the naughty side of the street

Sadly message to women will get lost as we are inundated.

Engage in the forums and chat rooms too.

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By *rofmoriarty OP Man
1 week ago

Nearby

"The biggest advice is

Get offline and attend a swingers club or social meets.

You will meet like minded people in a safe setting, let the party hosts know your nervous.

They will look after you and you will be with people who share your interest in the swinging world. "

Great advice

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By *rofmoriarty OP Man
1 week ago

Nearby

"Sadly message to women will get lost as we are inundated.

Engage in the forums and chat rooms too. "

Exactly this!

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By *rofmoriarty OP Man
1 week ago

Nearby

"Keep plugging away. Took nearly two years for my first meet on here!"

Was similar for me

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By *raveltwoCouple
1 week ago

brighton

Why are you a king? What does that even mean????

Yes it must be hard being a single guy but c’mon a little effort, a little smarts and maybe all that rejection will be replaced with some interest?

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By *WB85Man
1 week ago

Staffordshire

One day we will get noticed.

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