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what advice would you give?

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By *obblybits OP   Couple
over a year ago

huddersfield

what one main piece of advice would you a new couple/fuckbuddies to start off.

our freind is joining with a freind of hers we don't feel we have been heer long anough to give much advice so was wondering if you would give me some.. I have told her about fab and said it would be good for them to join

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just say be honest and ready for the decent people and the idiots, set up a decent profile saying exactly what their after and see the first few weeks as a learning curve.

There are lots of decent folk on here who can give advise and I'm sure they'll be along shortly

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By *obblybits OP   Couple
over a year ago

huddersfield

thank you I hope so and not just things like ! lurn to spell I am sure that wouldnt help them

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I think I would give anyone the same advice, be that couple, single lady or a single bloke...

just take it all at your own pace, never feel pressured into doing anything, and only if you are 110% happy do anything....

think that about covers it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thank you I hope so and not just things like ! lurn to spell I am sure that wouldnt help them"

Don't worry about your spelling I could read and understand your post's as well as everyone else could, most remarks are made tongue in cheek so dont take it to heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont take the car,you'll kill yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What _abio said, with the addition of grow a thick skin

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Be confident and secure within themselves, if they are, good luck to them, if they're not, then “maybe” swinging is not the right time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take everything to do with this lifestyle with a very big pinch of salt

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Take everything to do with this lifestyle with a very big pinch of salt "
i agree there are loads of liers out there

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ok, my advice would be. Only do the things your comfortable with when their a little more confident work on exploring more. Maybe befriend some experienced swinging people(just as friends) and pick up some tips from then and maybe attend a club with them

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love


"what one main piece of advice would you a new couple/fuckbuddies to start off.

our freind is joining with a freind of hers we don't feel we have been heer long anough to give much advice so was wondering if you would give me some.. I have told her about fab and said it would be good for them to join "

Don't take it to serious, go as far as you feel comfortable and don't let people push you in to doing some thing you are not comfortable with,above all enjoy it and have lots of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take everything to do with this lifestyle with a very big pinch of salt i agree there are loads of liers out there "

Dan you said you wouldnt tell

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

You have to be secure together (it doesn't fix a broken relationship) and communication is the key to success and lots of fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure it's something you really want to do. Take time in getting to know someone and dont be rushed into doing something you dont feel comfortable with. Remember it's about fun so dont be afraid to clearly state what you want. If you dont want to meet hairy people say, most people will respect your wishes, but be prepared for those that dont. Grow a thick skin and develope a sense of humour. Remember you wont appeal to everyone so dont take it to heart if someone says no: you also reserve the right to say no. Also remember a positive attitude is alluring, so relax, have fun and enjoy x!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say:

"Be discriminate. Talk about exactly what sort of people you want to meet and express that in your profile. Pay close attention to your first correspondence with new contacts. If conversation is like pulling teeth now do you really want to have sex with them? Take your time, be patient and look for the right people, not the first people."

Seems to work for us

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Get all ya shagging done before ya 50 lol

sorry that was the advice my dad gave to me as a lad

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe a club or party is a great place to start off as you can see what happens and take things at your own pace. Personally i would advise soft swing together in a room full of others to start of with until you both find your comfort zone and want and decide on the best way forward, sometimes talking about doing it and actually doing it are two completely different things and sometimes fantasy should be left as fantasy..... but just my tuppence worth. Anyway happy christmas folks xxxxxxx

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