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""most" single women and couples... Quite a sweeping statement and we don't agree with it at all. There are some but certainly not anywhere near most, in our view." Want trying to imply that most profiles are set out like the examples above. I just meant that most women and couples get a lot of attention (which i feel is a fair statement based on the conversations i have had on this site), and that some of these decide to alter their profiles to put off time wasters and those that dont match their profiles. I was suggesting that these types of profiles do little to deter those that they seek to avoid, and only put off those that they might be interested in. | |||
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"Eek. What a typo to make!! Sti should be still. Bloody iPhone!" A good workmen never blames his/her tools | |||
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""most" single women and couples... Quite a sweeping statement and we don't agree with it at all. There are some but certainly not anywhere near most, in our view. Want trying to imply that most profiles are set out like the examples above. I just meant that most women and couples get a lot of attention (which i feel is a fair statement based on the conversations i have had on this site), and that some of these decide to alter their profiles to put off time wasters and those that dont match their profiles. I was suggesting that these types of profiles do little to deter those that they seek to avoid, and only put off those that they might be interested in." It is a theory certainly but not one that can easily be proved or disproved. What would you suggest that people put in their profiles instead? | |||
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"Eek. What a typo to make!! Sti should be still. Bloody iPhone! A good workmen never blames his/her tools " Fat fingers and typing to fast, bad combination | |||
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"" It is a theory certainly but not one that can easily be proved or disproved. What would you suggest that people put in their profiles instead?" Like i said, not trying to give a solution, just typing out my rambling thoughts really. People should just put what they want on their profiles. Let it be an expression of them. Was just trying to point out that those that do use these tactics may do more harm to their cause than good. As you said though, no real way of proving whether that's true or not | |||
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"I seem to do ok. I have seen plenty of profiles on here with short descriptions and no pictures, yet they have a list of veris as long as your arm. I must admit that, although a profile is the first thing that people on here see of us, it doesn't take into account the people successful at socials, clubs, and parties. Not everyone on here is desperate for a shag." | |||
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"" It is a theory certainly but not one that can easily be proved or disproved. What would you suggest that people put in their profiles instead? Like i said, not trying to give a solution, just typing out my rambling thoughts really. People should just put what they want on their profiles. Let it be an expression of them. Was just trying to point out that those that do use these tactics may do more harm to their cause than good. As you said though, no real way of proving whether that's true or not" 7 Ok. I suppose its true of many situations in life the more you try to control it the less likely it is to go your way. | |||
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"I think some of us get the balance more or less right lol. " I'd say you are one of those that have it spot on | |||
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"We've had to add a negative aspect to our profile today due to people lacking the ability to read and comprehend the words written within. We've had to write we don't cuck or seek bulls and that we have no colour preferences. To many negative messages have forced us to alter our profile. Before that I thought ours hit all the right notes." So by adding a sentence into your profile you can be absolutely certain that you will never receive negative messages from now on - I doubt that very much. All of us get messages from people outside of our criteria. I get countless messages from people asking if its ok if they can come round, I don't accommodate. I just ignore the messages. If I wrote this in my profile text it would not stop people messaging saying the same thing. | |||
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"I seem to do ok. Not everyone on here is desperate for a shag." ...and there you have it! | |||
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"I think different profiles just reflect the different people on here. Some are here just to have a perv so won't really bother with their profile cos they are not really serious about meeting. Others are here cos their other half wants it but they don't really so they impose so many restrictions that its impossible to find a meet and others just get caught up in their own hype that they think they are gods gift!! Then finally there are the genuine ones who want to swing and do so successfully and those not managing it as although genuine they are bogged down by all of the above I could be completely wrong but that's how I see the mad bad world of fab which I love " You're not alone in your views! | |||
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"A profile is a direct reflection of someone's personality, if you don't like their profile the chances are you wont like them, all tell people what to put will do is reflect someone else's personality on their profile so defeat the object of reading a profile to see if they're what your looking for " ^^^^^This! | |||
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"the thing is people can set out a profile how they see fit.... if they want to make people jump thru hoops to meet.. so be it... if they set out demands they are not people I am likely to want to meet anyway those things only work if they find enough people desperate enough to meet, to jump thru said hoops.... if you are desperate enough to jump thru hoop.. thats on you... if you aren't, move on..... no one is holding gun to head making you... if they aren't getting the replies they want... they will change it... or they will complain here! and then a million and one people will make the "knights" move, slather and say "well i am different!!!".... people make their own way on the site... if they make mistakes, they learn from them... if an approach fails, they change it... " ...in a nutshell! | |||
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