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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a newbie single man, what is the feeling of using your real name or not?

I'm a professional person in a high profile job and need to be discreet but still want a damn good life in this community.

I have swung before but as a couple and never used names previously but now I want and need to appear genuine as I have already experienced how false people can be...especially the male variety...lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's entirely up to you but if you need to be discreet for whatever reason I wouldn't recommend it.

We were contacted by a guy I work with and knew immediately because he had a full face picture in his profile and had used his real name, so for us it was very useful as we would rather not meet people we see on a day to day basis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Blimey...can't imagine seeing anyone from work on here, just couldn't picture any of them doing it...lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

If someone posted their real name I would just automatically assume it was a false name anyway, so really doesnt bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One guy contacted us the other day using three different names, ie his username was 'Robert123', the name he'd given on his profile was Brian and the name he'd signed off on his message with was Thomas (just examples)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Blimey...can't imagine seeing anyone from work on here, just couldn't picture any of them doing it...lol "

Lol well it took me back a bit I can tell you. I always smile inwardly when I see him and think "good on ya".

L

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I think it all depends on how unusual your name is!

There is nothing worse than chatting to someone who introduces themselves as Dave and then you meet and they say, oh btw my name is really Mike, and yes I have had this (I've changed the names to protect their identity)

But it did piss me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it all depends on how unusual your name is!

There is nothing worse than chatting to someone who introduces themselves as Dave and then you meet and they say, oh btw my name is really Mike, and yes I have had this (I've changed the names to protect their identity)

But it did piss me off "

Same here,

It's easier to use your name or nickname

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah, I can see all the points here.

I've just left it as an initial and decide when I talk to someone. Just never want to be false...I'm no secret agent! lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think it all depends on how unusual your name is!

There is nothing worse than chatting to someone who introduces themselves as Dave and then you meet and they say, oh btw my name is really Mike, and yes I have had this (I've changed the names to protect their identity)

But it did piss me off "

My name is very unusual so I wouldn't use it. If my name was a Jane it wouldn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it all depends on how unusual your name is!

There is nothing worse than chatting to someone who introduces themselves as Dave and then you meet and they say, oh btw my name is really Mike, and yes I have had this (I've changed the names to protect their identity)

But it did piss me off

My name is very unusual so I wouldn't use it. If my name was a Jane it wouldn't matter. "

Can we guess?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I think it all depends on how unusual your name is!

There is nothing worse than chatting to someone who introduces themselves as Dave and then you meet and they say, oh btw my name is really Mike, and yes I have had this (I've changed the names to protect their identity)

But it did piss me off

My name is very unusual so I wouldn't use it. If my name was a Jane it wouldn't matter. "

My name isn't overly unusual, but my spelling is! So I normally just sign off with my initial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno what i was thinking when i thought of WASP. Although my last name was WOOPS

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it all depends on how unusual your name is!

There is nothing worse than chatting to someone who introduces themselves as Dave and then you meet and they say, oh btw my name is really Mike, and yes I have had this (I've changed the names to protect their identity)

But it did piss me off

My name is very unusual so I wouldn't use it. If my name was a Jane it wouldn't matter.

My name isn't overly unusual, but my spelling is! So I normally just sign off with my initial "

Yeah my name is unusual too so I'll keep it all simple lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not being false, I answer to Ruby and introduce myself as Ruby. I'm not there to give my life story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My names real but then Paul is such a common name I'm not worried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is due to where I was born and the chinese year I was born in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my real name, doesn't bother me at all people knowing it and I would more than likely forget whatever pseudonym I used!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To clear up any confusion. Mine has NOTHING to do with Dr Who. I have a stage name (when I play with one of my bands) and my username is based on that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Name is Jon Peter ..... so i use Jon Pete .. simples

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