FabSwingers.com forum: is it wrong for a man to ....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

....be open and honest about his sexuality or sexual likes and dislikes to a women he is chatting to ? or should just do anything she wants forgetting his needs/passions etc ?

No background to this as such - just interested to see the response

jon x

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

On a date or on here?

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

So... You mean should you be a human being or a robot? Lol. x

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

If and when the situation dictates that it is time then of course they should both be open about their sexual preferences. Communication is key...

How on earth do you establish sexual compatibility otherwise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't be open here about what you like/need/fantasise about...well where can you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....be open and honest about his sexuality or sexual likes and dislikes to a women he is chatting to ?

or should just do anything she wants forgetting his needs/passions etc ?

No no

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wouldn't want sex with someone who didn't know my needs and desires. And vice versa. Communication!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Firstly thanks for contributing

Secondly this was not about me - its just a general question, which as its roots born from a conversation with a male off here over easter break - he said he felt it was not right to tell a women he was Bisexual as he never meet anyone - my reply was as long as your honest and play safe; you be ok

he then went on to say most women he had met preferred to dominate him....now thats an area i have no experience in at all...

So happily take your replies back to him ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His personal needs and desires are his own buisness, he shouldn't disclose any personal info unless he feels totally comfortable doing so...

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

He could bring it up in conversion

Ie nice cock on that one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....be open and honest about his sexuality or sexual likes and dislikes to a women he is chatting to ? or should just do anything she wants forgetting his needs/passions etc ?

No background to this as such - just interested to see the response

jon x

If they are on here sexuality is displayed on profile so assuming they have been honest then that shouldnt be a problem. But for me if not on here I think they should tell the woman what they like and dont like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not wrong as it is often best to be honest. However saying that, I have list two great girlfriends by being to honest. I never learn

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

to be honest i think he is a twit as he shows himself as straight and is affraid to show bi because he fears he will not get any meets ...hense why he was speaking to me ie; he wanted to know why i got meets and he didnt ..etc etc...

does that make sense ?????

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"to be honest i think he is a twit as he shows himself as straight and is affraid to show bi because he fears he will not get any meets ...hense why he was speaking to me ie; he wanted to know why i got meets and he didnt ..etc etc...

does that make sense ?????

S'up to him what he puts but then it may put off people who actually WANT to meet bi guys.

Can't recall the number of times we've been contacted by "straight" men wanting to meet who then say differently when we point out we only want bi guys.

I know a lot of them do it to deter being contacted by other guys but as they will also hide veris from single men we then have to determine whether it's someone just SAYING what they think we want to hear to get close to Amy...

If he's not comfortable about it than fair enough, but it may hinder his chances of getting what he actually wants... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't recall the number of times we've been contacted by "straight" men wanting to meet who then say differently when we point out we only want bi guys.

It really is amazing the amount of straight guys who turn out to be bi when you tell them you only meet bi single guys.

We also really like the ones who reply to "our only wanting bi single male" messages by saying "well I'll fuck your husband up the arse but I ain't touching his cock"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, if you can't be honest on here then something is wrong. What's weird to some will be right up others streets xx

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"It really is amazing the amount of straight guys who turn out to be bi when you tell them you only meet bi single guys.

We also really like the ones who reply to our "only wanting bi single male" messages by saying "well I'll fuck your husband up the arse but I ain't touching his cock"

Yep, or, "I'm ok for him to suck me but I won't suck him".

How selfish is that?!

- Amy. x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"....be open and honest about his sexuality or sexual likes and dislikes to a women he is chatting to ? or should just do anything she wants forgetting his needs/passions etc ?

honesty......

anything she wants and forgetting my needs... NEVER

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've spent too many years in rubbish relationships with people who only cared about their own needs, and the sex was awful

Now I'm single I make sure it's a mutually satisfying event lol

Honesty is important and if a partner isn't interested in your needs then it's time to kick them to the kerb and find someone who is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Picking up on what "hornycouple" said above

I guess this whole thread centres around a person's confidence - and perhapes sexual motivation -

Some men wont say they are bi cuz they embarrassed

some say they are so they can try meet Bi couples

Some are just plain scared

Whereas some of us Bisexual men fit in to the .... "what the heck category - we love sex with all lets get down and dirty" brigade lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't want sex with someone who didn't know my needs and desires. And vice versa. Communication! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've spent too many years in rubbish relationships with people who only cared about their own needs, and the sex was awful

Now I'm single I make sure it's a mutually satisfying event lol

Honesty is important and if a partner isn't interested in your needs then it's time to kick them to the kerb and find someone who is

in my opinion Dee - of the "genuine" Bi men i have met either single or part of a couple; they tend to be far more considerate of the females needs - and us Bi men cant deny that we just enjoy company/cloeness of men at times....which is afterall not different than a Bi FF meetings

I would agree that the not so genuine men are fixated on one thing, tend to be shooting their load as quick as possible....

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