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" If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40. " Its not looking good for you then op. | |||
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"The reason we have 30+ is we don't want to meet people who we intend to have sex with that are around the same age as our kids." I see this a lot and it is of course your prerogative to choose who you want to meet. But do all guys younger than 30 look like your kid? Surely I don't? | |||
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger. Including ourselves." That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina. | |||
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"The reason we have 30+ is we don't want to meet people who we intend to have sex with that are around the same age as our kids. I see this a lot and it is of course your prerogative to choose who you want to meet. But do all guys younger than 30 look like your kid? Surely I don't?" I think it is more about association and life arena than looks... unless I missed the part where they mentioned physical resemblance. | |||
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s. Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40. I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s?" OP you say this but your not exactly selling your best self on here either are you so maybe change your profile up a bit for some to be even interested in you | |||
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" we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina." who has filled your head with this rubbish? | |||
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s. Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40. I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s? OP you say this but your not exactly selling your best self on here either are you so maybe change your profile up a bit for some to be even interested in you " | |||
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s. Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40. I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s?" I prefer to connect on a mental and emotional level with my sexual partners. Someone in their 30s or 40s for me is often at a similar place in their career and with their family. They'll remember all the old nostalgia from my youth. I've also found that - on average - I get treated much better by older gentlemen. The last conversation I had with a man in his 20s on Fab involved words to the effect of "I want to fuck you but I don't want to meet for a social because you're trans and my dickhead wee mates will take the piss". (I might have paraphrased a little here) After that encounter I just changed my age preferences and haven't had any issues since. I'm sure you're awesome. Keep hunting. You'll do great xxx  | |||
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If they’re not looking for your age group move on and find people that are  | |||
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"It's not a hatred, it's called preference " Absolutely! | |||
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"People’s preferences are not hatred OP. They’re preferences
If they’re not looking for your age group move on and find people that are "Yep, this! | |||
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" Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. " Not for me (Flik) as I've always preferred older men as for me, older men are more attractive. | |||
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"I bloody love fab forums, 4 weeks in and picking faults in people for having preferences I salute you sir for making me laugh out loud in the pub garden "I can toys being thrown out of his pram as we speak  | |||
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger. Including ourselves. That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina." I disagree with everything you’ve said there apart from youthful, There are many men on here older with amazing bodies. Attractive faces that’s not down to age. Stamina if you really knew about all there is to know about sex stamina isn’t always required. Youthful makes me think of a teenager so not my preference. | |||
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"That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina." If this is true then what are you doing on here ! women should be throwing themselves at you ... ?? You have been on this site for 4 weeks and all you do is post wind - ups. Keep smiling the sun is shining ...  | |||
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"It's not a hatred, it's called preference " this its so easy to be negative when your getting nowhere ... its a lifestyle scene swinging is about extras with people your attracted to and compactable with its not what quite a few see it as a sex site for free for all sex look at all the post from guys too old too youing too tall to short beard no beard ts of kink no kink bi no bi its guys trying to find excuse's for why they are getting nowhere ... the number one issue for most men is there far too many of you compared to couples and women add in no ones going to meet you unless they want too then thats alot of disappointed men.. there zero point in being negative or blaming others you can only be you just as others can only be themselves ... this scene is very much a rejection scene first n formost as selection is very personal | |||
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s. Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40. I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s?" Just because you aren’t what people are looking for, doesn’t mean they hate you. | |||
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger. Including ourselves. That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina." And this right here is why I don't want to meet a guy in his 20's. | |||
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger. Including ourselves. That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina. And this right here is why I don't want to meet a guy in his 20's. " Too much stereotyping..then goes on to stereotype in the same sentence. | |||
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger. Including ourselves. That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina." Fella it's comments like that with an attitude that puts older couples off | |||
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s. Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40. I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s?" attractiveness is more than just the physical side of a person. I'm a different person to who I was when I was 25. Life does that. Dealing with your shit does that. Tbf I didn't know that at 25. In my experience (self brag) people who have soft preferences may flex, and if they like you they will reach out. If not, qué sara sara. | |||
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger. Including ourselves. That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina." Why do you think people in their 40s, 50s and older are seeking youthfulness in our sexual partners? I've been young and fucked plenty of young men. Now I'm middle aged I want men who are middle aged. | |||
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just because you don't fit someone's preferences doesn't mean you're hated. There's people that prefer older, others younger and others same age! Just because you don't fit with people's preferences doesn't meant they hate you even if clearly bruises your ego
Honestly, just do your best to try and find people that resonate with you and you'll see you'll have a better time.
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"Don't mistake preference for hatred. I prefer dogs but that doesn't mean I hate cats. " Oh no I hate cats lol | |||
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger. Including ourselves. That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina." I guess it's tough for most guys on here not just 24 year olds ,no point complaining about it just keep on messaging people who are interested in meeting you ,good luck . | |||
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"If physical attractiveness reduces with age, as you claim, you’ll be delighted most older people are blocking your age group won’t you? " | |||
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"So this is how this comes across to me - Guy in 20's claiming to me mature but spits dummy out because of "hatred" (preferences) shouts but "we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina" why won't you pick me? "I don't look nothing like your kids" "older people aren't attractive anyway you've aged, have mediocre bodies & no stamina!" "but I still wanna fuck you" he walks off & sits in corner sulking. Mature dude really mature!" It does come across as very that | |||
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"So this is how this comes across to me - Guy in 20's claiming to me mature but spits dummy out because of "hatred" (preferences) shouts but "we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina" why won't you pick me? "I don't look nothing like your kids" "older people aren't attractive anyway you've aged, have mediocre bodies & no stamina!" "but I still wanna fuck you" he walks off & sits in corner sulking. Mature dude really mature!" Nicely said | |||
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"It's not a hatred, it's called preference " This! I'm here for my pleasure, not to teach someone how to pleasure a woman. I'd much rather meet an older gentleman as I know they had (hopefully!) enough time to gain experience and learn, and (again, hopefully!) not get all their knowledge from porn. Saying that, I have met exceptional younger men since I started swinging but overall prefer men around my age or older. | |||
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger. Including ourselves. That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina." And tons of arrogance, by the sound of it!  | |||
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s. Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40. I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s?" 1 it's not hatred it's preference 2 the fact that you think people should chose you over a man in his 40s based solely on your physical appearance is very
3 this post isn't helping you beat the "25 year old aren't immature" allegations | |||
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" Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. " Firstly... different people are attracted to different things, and as we get older we become less shallow and more interested in personality. Secondly, getting older is the very definition of gaining maturity, and this thread is quite a good demonstration of the type of maturity and respect that is often lacking from younger folk. Ultimately, if you have the personality, maturity and respect that is required by any individual then they will see that. Telling them that their preference is wrong is both immature and disrespectful. Obviously age is just a number and not an accurate measure of personality traits, but it's the closest thing we have on here. Cal | |||
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"Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina." I think I speak for myself when I say LOL | |||
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger. Including ourselves. That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina." Well there you go, at least you will have something to look forward too when you grow up like us less youthful less attractive faces and less stamina folk lol | |||
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger. Including ourselves. That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina." Therein lies part of the problem, you are focusing on aesthetics. This alone shows your youth. Plenty of women want maturity and unfortunately not all young men have it. | |||
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" when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina." Utter bollocks. Plenty of men, myself included have good bodies better than a lot of guys in their 20s. | |||
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" I see this a lot and it is of course your prerogative to choose who you want to meet. But do all guys younger than 30 look like your kid? Surely I don't?" Hard to tell most of single guys have got no face photos anyway ?????? | |||
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" when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina. Utter bollocks. Plenty of men, myself included have good bodies better than a lot of guys in their 20s." and a tux photo too! Women like men, who dress well. | |||
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s. Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40. I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s?" take no notice of what people are saying | |||
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" Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? I'm fit, respectful, and courteous " That made us laugh. | |||
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"If physical attractiveness reduces with age, as you claim, you’ll be delighted most older people are blocking your age group won’t you? " hahhaha awesome reply | |||
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"Seen plenty of woman and couples looking for younger. Including ourselves. That is good to hear. It is tough out here for guys in their 20s. Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina." In that case your profile pic isn't showing you in best light, tbh I thought that at your age but isn't absolutely true and I'd wager you thought you were going to get meet after meet on here but that's not the case for most guys no matter what age, always someone fitter, better stamina, better looking, bigger cock and many guys don't get any meets, welcome to fab it chews arrogance up and spits it out. | |||
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s. Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40. I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s?" Most people have some sort of boundaries… even you mr”18 to 60” 
See what I did there………
Anyway plane truth is that some people are not comfortable playing with some people young enough to be their son or daughter…… conversely some people are not comfortable enough to play with people old enough to be their mum or dad!
So if you want people to respect your boundaries may I suggest you respect theirs… cause moaning about it isn’t the greatest first impression you want to give out there! | |||
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" we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina. who has filled your head with this rubbish?" lol | |||
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At best in 15yrs you'll read this back and think Wow I was a great wind up merchant, but probably it will be more "Doh !!"
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"Too much stereotyping when we have the fittest bodies, most youthful, attractive faces and the greatest stamina. I think I speak for myself when I say LOL" A joke init like being in the play ground all over again | |||
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"I see it all the time. Couples saying "30+ or 40+ only". People saying "I would never meet with someone who is the age of my kids". Profiles blocking messages from guys who are in their 20s. Doesn't physical attractiveness (both face and body) reduce with age? A guy at the age of 40 is more often than not going to have a worse body than a guy who is 25. Also, I don't see how going from the age of 25 to 40 can cause someone to gain maturity or respect. If you are immature and push boundaries at the age of 25 you will likely be doing the same at the age of 40. I'm fit, respectful, and courteous yet people stereotype me because of my age. Really? Why the lack of fondness for guys in their mid 20s? OP you say this but your not exactly selling your best self on here either are you so maybe change your profile up a bit for some to be even interested in you " OP I’m glad you took note your profile is much better now happy swinging | |||
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