FabSwingers.com forum: Single guy at sex clubs

By *he year of 69 OP Man
15 weeks ago

Bury

Hi. I'd really like to go to a sex club but I'm a single guy and worried they all just get viewed as pervs and dangerous. Has anyone been? Did you go alone or go with another male m or female friend (as mates) to help break the ice?

If anyone goes to any around Manchester let me know what they are really like? Thanks

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By *iss DevilWoman
15 weeks ago

Bedford

First of all, don't confuse swingers clubs and sex clubs.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
15 weeks ago

wonderland.

Mr used to do very well as a single guy at swingers clubs x

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I go to a club in Blackpool regularly as a single guy and as long as you don’t act like a perv or a stalker you’ll be fine. Chat to the bar staff when you get there and just get used to the surroundings and vibe. Be polite, be well mannered and don’t appear ridiculously hungry straight away and you’ll be fine fella

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By *arl17Man
15 weeks ago

Central Portugal

"First of all, don't confuse swingers clubs and sex clubs. "

Good advice ??

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By *iss DevilWoman
15 weeks ago

Bedford

Secondly, yes, of course single men go to swingers clubs, many women and couples do seek single, respectful men to have sex in a club with. They are by no means seen as pests or pervs, unless they behave like that. Meaning touch without permission, follow women or couples around, don't take "no" for an answer, just stare at women, cock in hand, wanking furiously. If you're not in any of those groups, and you're happy to chat to people, you'd be fine.

And go on your own - then you're your own boss.

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
15 weeks ago

Thurrock

Plenty of clubs welcome single guys what matters is how you behave. Don’t go expecting sex go to enjoy the atmosphere and view it as making friends/connections. Be polite, make conversation with people. A simple _ello and smile can make all the difference. Don’t go and sit right next to people while they play and just stare at them or start playing with yourself.

We recently visited Adam & Eves and there were quite a few single guys there, it was a nice club with friendly staff and Kerry the owner was amazing it’s worth a try if you get the chance.

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By *oiluvfunMan
15 weeks ago

Penrith

Living in Bury OP, you have several clubs within easy reach. I can recommend No.3 in Chorley, as a great place to try first, I found them the friendliest of all the clubs in the NW I visited, I felt very welcome there as a solo guy.

As a solo guy, you will be limited to when you are ‘allowed’ to visit any club, so do check in advance. Also take note of membership/entry fees, bearing in mind higher costs do not mean a ‘better’ club, nor does any entry fee guarantee any kind of sexual play.

Overall; you will usually meet more women in your local Wetherspoons than a swinger club, but you can’t spend the night in Wetherspoons in your boxer shorts. You pays your money, you takes your choice…..

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By *elloWoman
14 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Don't act pervy and dangerous and then people won't view you as pervy and dangerous .

Wandering around not talking to people with your hands in your pockets rummaging for god knows what, will definitely be off putting to people.

Just find a friendly group, approach them in a noncocky, likable manner and introduce yourself. I say approach a group because that shows you're greeting them to be social rather than approaching a single or a couple who think you're only approaching to play, always treat a club night as an opportunity to socialise and any play that occurs is a bonus my expected.

Introduction in a swingers club are no different than attending a regular vanilla situation.

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By *arl17Man
14 weeks ago

Central Portugal

"Secondly, yes, of course single men go to swingers clubs, many women and couples do seek single, respectful men to have sex in a club with. They are by no means seen as pests or pervs, unless they behave like that. Meaning touch without permission, follow women or couples around, don't take "no" for an answer, just stare at women, cock in hand, wanking furiously. If you're not in any of those groups, and you're happy to chat to people, you'd be fine.

And go on your own - then you're your own boss. "

Well put..

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By *uckslut and MCouple
14 weeks ago

Poole

We like single guys in clubs, as we goto gg or gb nights. However, don't be a dick! Be lead by the couple. Don't exspect it to be a sure thing your get sex on a gg night. The woman still has the right to say no, or stop at any time. As all the other replies have said, be polight and respectful.

If you pair up as a 'couple' just for courage to to get in cheaper. Some will pick up on this and avoid you.

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By *ddingextraspiceCouple
14 weeks ago

cumbria

My wife loves single guys coming up and just chatting to her in clubs, it’s the ones who just chat normally without being pushy who end up fucking her.

Guys that follow her about or make crude comments, get nothing from her.

Normal conversation and pay her a few compliments is the way to go everytime.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
14 weeks ago

oxford

We tend to only go to club nights where there are single men, so go and take the advice from the posts above and you will have a great time regardless of playing or not

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
14 weeks ago

Bristol

The only single guy who came up to us in a club and chatted to us is the only one we ever took it further with. Makes so much difference compared to someone who just appears and the only thing they have said to you all evening is "can I join you?". I mean there's no guarantees that chatting to people will get you anywhere, for us there has to be some mutual attraction as well, but it does go a long way.

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By *he year of 69 OP Man
14 weeks ago

Bury

Thank you very much everyone. Really good advice and I really appreciate it. The difference between sex club and swingers is something I didn't know. Thanks for the club recommendations too. Partners is my nearest one but don't know if best to go a little further away?

Again.. Thank you all x

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