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By *razyfool0909 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

shirley

Has anyone come across rude replies to a first opening message?

I’ve had a couple over the last few days.

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By *ack FrostyMan
27 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

What do you define as rude

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Dont even get replies ??

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
27 weeks ago

Next Door


"What do you define as rude "

Probably someone who didn't reply or say thanks but no thank you

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By *ittlebirdWoman
27 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Has anyone come across rude replies to a first opening message?

I’ve had a couple over the last few days. "

Not sure what defines rude in this context OP. And what the opening message was.

More info needed to answer

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By *razyfool0909 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

shirley

Not replying isn’t rude in my eyes… as a couple and a woman on here I can imagine the amount of message received can be huge so a reply to every one isn’t doable.

So I have said… hey hope you’ve had a great day and have made the most of the glorious weather, attached 2 face pictures

I’ve had a

“not fucking interested”

“I’m not interested”

“ Put some effort in to your messages!”

I class all 3 as rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago


"Not replying isn’t rude in my eyes… as a couple and a woman on here I can imagine the amount of message received can be huge so a reply to every one isn’t doable.

So I have said… hey hope you’ve had a great day and have made the most of the glorious weather, attached 2 face pictures

I’ve had a

“not fucking interested”

“I’m not interested”

“ Put some effort in to your messages!”

I class all 3 as rude. "

out of curiosity, what would have made the “I’m not interested” polite?

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By *razyfool0909 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

shirley


"Not replying isn’t rude in my eyes… as a couple and a woman on here I can imagine the amount of message received can be huge so a reply to every one isn’t doable.

So I have said… hey hope you’ve had a great day and have made the most of the glorious weather, attached 2 face pictures

I’ve had a

“not fucking interested”

“I’m not interested”

“ Put some effort in to your messages!”

I class all 3 as rude.

out of curiosity, what would have made the “I’m not interested” polite?

"

Maybe a little more polite about it… after all we are all human.

I’m not interest but thanks maybe a bit more polite

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By *ack FrostyMan
27 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

So if someone has the courtesy to reply “I’m not interested” that’s classed as rude.

You do realise they don’t have to answer but then I guess you’d find that rude as well

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By *anceAloneWoman
27 weeks ago

Adjacent to him

You would rather no reply than "I'm not interested"?

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By *razyfool0909 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

shirley

I think you’re missing the point in the other 2 and focusing on this 1.

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By *ack FrostyMan
27 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Okay so the other 2

Saying to put some effort into a message…you’ve given no context of what you messaged.

Swearing…yes I’d say that was unnecessary

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By *anceAloneWoman
27 weeks ago

Adjacent to him

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago


"I think you’re missing the point in the other 2 and focusing on this 1.

"

Well you did state all three are rude. Two seem plausible. The other one is a bit more difficult to understand how that’s classed as rude and I response is tolerable.

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By *riel13Woman
27 weeks ago

Northampton

Not really sure what the point of your message was tbh... But only the first reply was a bit rude... To me, anyway

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By *anceAloneWoman
27 weeks ago

Adjacent to him


"I think you’re missing the point in the other 2 and focusing on this 1.

"

You chose to add it to your list of rude replies?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
27 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"I think you’re missing the point in the other 2 and focusing on this 1.

"

I mean using the word fucking is up to them really but don’t see anything wrong with the rest of the responses. They’re not rude

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By *ullsfan77Man
27 weeks ago

Torquay

“Thanks but no thanks “ I have had a few of. That’s fine-they do not owe me an explanation. I simply just move on. I don’t consider it to be rude.

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By *4bimMan
27 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

anything you get that you consider rude just delete it and block the profile.

posting about it on the forum will not help and likely get ridiculed for it.

so delete/block and move on. not another thought.

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By *razyfool0909 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

shirley


"anything you get that you consider rude just delete it and block the profile.

posting about it on the forum will not help and likely get ridiculed for it.

so delete/block and move on. not another thought."

Haha I will do from now on… lesson learnt

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By *layfullsamMan
27 weeks ago

Solihull


"Has anyone come across rude replies to a first opening message?

I’ve had a couple over the last few days. "

Remember a % of profiles are blokes getting kicks out of pretending to be women or a couple I would suggest rude replies are probably from them.

If you were friendly and polite and didn’t message if you didn’t read the profile I can’t see why you’d get a rude reply.

Remember no reply is a no thank you it’s in the group advice bit

Block smile and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago


"Not replying isn’t rude in my eyes… as a couple and a woman on here I can imagine the amount of message received can be huge so a reply to every one isn’t doable.

So I have said… hey hope you’ve had a great day and have made the most of the glorious weather, attached 2 face pictures

I’ve had a

“not fucking interested”

“I’m not interested”

“ Put some effort in to your messages!”

I class all 3 as rude. "

We've had 19 first time messagers today talking about the weather, it gets a bit old.

"Not Interested" is to the point and quick. Block and move on if you're not happy.

1000's more on here. Block the ones who annoy you, make it easier for yourself x

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By *Silver-Man
27 weeks ago

Mold

You had a reply?

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By *WB85Man
27 weeks ago

Staffordshire

A reply is a reply......I'm kinda jealous!!!!

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
27 weeks ago

Southampton


"A reply is a reply......I'm kinda jealous!!!! "

I'd reply to you

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By *ongAndThick123Man
27 weeks ago

Leeds


"Has anyone come across rude replies to a first opening message?

I’ve had a couple over the last few days. "

Sorry you’ve had that. But what was your opening message?

I’ve given a few rude replies before. I feel they were well deserved though.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
27 weeks ago

oxford

Talking from personal experience we have only had a good response to a polite no thank you.

On occasions we don’t reply if we have too many messages and just delete the messages that have clearly not read the profile or just sent very lazy messages.

But on occasions we have politely said no and then for days and days after are send rubbish messages, so you can see why people get frustrated and snap a response.

We try to give people a chance before just blocking them.

If you get this response from lots of different people it could be you and not entirely them.

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