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By *ratedlad OP   Man
27 weeks ago

birmingham

Any couples fancy answering a few questions I have x

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple
27 weeks ago

Glasgow

What questions do you Have?

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By *ratedlad OP   Man
27 weeks ago

birmingham


"What questions do you Have?"

Shall I ask on here or can I message ?

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By *inkycoupleofscotsCouple
27 weeks ago

Stirling-ish


"What questions do you Have?

Shall I ask on here or can I message ? "

ask in here, more likely to get a rande of answers, happy to answer some

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By *ratedlad OP   Man
27 weeks ago

birmingham


"What questions do you Have?

Shall I ask on here or can I message ?

ask in here, more likely to get a rande of answers, happy to answer some"

So my close friend and his wife are known swingers and

I’ve been asked to join and she don’t know about this but he assures me that she has spoken about me before

I’m just a bit nervous at the fact if I get there and she says no

Or do couples who swing speak about all this and is this a bit of a role play fantasy type thing ??

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By *inkycoupleofscotsCouple
27 weeks ago

Stirling-ish


"What questions do you Have?

Shall I ask on here or can I message ?

ask in here, more likely to get a rande of answers, happy to answer some

So my close friend and his wife are known swingers and

I’ve been asked to join and she don’t know about this but he assures me that she has spoken about me before

I’m just a bit nervous at the fact if I get there and she says no

Or do couples who swing speak about all this and is this a bit of a role play fantasy type thing ?? "

we talk about people we see that we'd like to have fun with, we've had neighbours who have fallen in to that category, we've never had the guts to actually bring it up though!

I would say, if it's the guy asking, it's more likely that the chat has happened, just from our dynamic anyway

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By *ratedlad OP   Man
27 weeks ago

birmingham


"What questions do you Have?

Shall I ask on here or can I message ?

ask in here, more likely to get a rande of answers, happy to answer some

So my close friend and his wife are known swingers and

I’ve been asked to join and she don’t know about this but he assures me that she has spoken about me before

I’m just a bit nervous at the fact if I get there and she says no

Or do couples who swing speak about all this and is this a bit of a role play fantasy type thing ??

we talk about people we see that we'd like to have fun with, we've had neighbours who have fallen in to that category, we've never had the guts to actually bring it up though!

I would say, if it's the guy asking, it's more likely that the chat has happened, just from our dynamic anyway"

Thank you

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

27 weeks ago

O o O oo

It may be a fantasy they are playing out who knows but I would say if she doesn't know he has asked you then it is a red flag. Ask to speak to all involved would be my advice, you could still do whatever fantasy there may be after that.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
27 weeks ago

Leeds


"What questions do you Have?

Shall I ask on here or can I message ?

ask in here, more likely to get a rande of answers, happy to answer some

So my close friend and his wife are known swingers and

I’ve been asked to join and she don’t know about this but he assures me that she has spoken about me before

I’m just a bit nervous at the fact if I get there and she says no

Or do couples who swing speak about all this and is this a bit of a role play fantasy type thing ?? "

We talk about people we'd like to meet, but we are both aware of what's happening and when, one of us wouldn't arrange something without the others knowledge - if I came home to a randomer waiting to join in I wouldn't be impressed - but others like that stuff so it's difficult to judge.

Mrs

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
27 weeks ago

Staffordshire

If the worst that happened was she said no would that be so bad?

We often operate in this way, we’ve had a conversation about someone and then one of us has made it clear to that person that we’d like to have them join us.

Just roll with it if you find the idea appealing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

27 weeks ago

East Sussex

There's only one way to find out.

I'd be wary and want to speak to both before I went ahead.

Your comfort is as important as theirs, don't forget that.

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