FabSwingers.com forum: Face pic requests.

By *WINGStars23 OP Couple
27 weeks ago

Northwest

Seen a lot of profiles lately with no photos at all, demanding face photos with first messages.

I find it a bit cheeky.

What are your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Yeah its really cheekys if ypu want a face pic ypu must be willing to send one

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By *imbob85Man
27 weeks ago

inverness

I get it all the time don’t have any on my profile but will send on request

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By *andD300Couple
27 weeks ago

london

If a couple without face pics want to chat or send us a friend request we’ll ask them give them the chance to send us a face pic. If they refuse then they’re blocked.

I think on our profile it mentions that if people contact us then they must have face pic. C.

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By *andPextraCouple
27 weeks ago

North West

Its laughable isnt it.

Please send face pic, inside leg measurement, list of last three meals consumed, have photos of you from every angle and a detailed precis of what you are looking for. Also include our magic word in your response, failure to comply with this will mean your message is DELETED!!!!!! (their caps and exclamation marks, not mine.)

All to a blank profile, with zero pictures and info.

I’d love to set one up as an experiment to see what the response rate is.

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By *ackwoody11Man
27 weeks ago

swansea

Happens all the time no reply unless face message but none of themselves and if they do start chatting the moment you ask them for one they block you

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By *allandathleticMan
27 weeks ago

Asgard

"I'll show the Internet the parts I can't show in public, but I won't show the parts I show in public on the internet"

Funny old world isn't it?

*for what it's worth my private gallery is mainly face pictures. Or pictures with my face in at least

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By *ot to giggleWoman
27 weeks ago

Coventry

I only ask if im going to.meet someone

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"Seen a lot of profiles lately with no photos at all, demanding face photos with first messages.

I find it a bit cheeky.

What are your thoughts?"

Totally agree, not to mention the aggressive attitude that goes with it.

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By *hipdaleCouple
27 weeks ago

Greenhithe

No pictures we scroll by we won't even reply to a message with no pictures

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By *eekingfwbWoman
27 weeks ago

kent

I don’t display my face due to work however I will send a few messages in as I don’t want to waste anyone’s time if there’s no attraction there.

Equally I receive a lot of messages even with filters on so I do tend to reply to those that have included a face pic for the same purpose… I get it’s a swinging site but I still need to be attracted to a person.

It’s much easier to say after 5/6 messages exchanged I’m sorry your not my type then few days in of communication.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
27 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

Not forgetting the face pic request but being unwilling to send theirs first

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By *ustyb555Couple
27 weeks ago

leeds

Can't belive people ask for them without sending theirs first, if we ask for face pics we send ours first

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By *allandathleticMan
27 weeks ago

Asgard

"Not forgetting the face pic request but being unwilling to send theirs first

It's only polite if you going to ask to give. So mine is sent along with a long apology and a request for one in return, that is, if they haven't set fire to their eyeballs already

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By *oewes69Man
27 weeks ago

wakefield

Yeh its laughable. Also profiles that say need to make good convo but have nothing else written. How can you make convo when theirs nothing to work off. Some people. I dont care ill send face pics because ive nothing to hide. Bet they have though

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
27 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

"Can't belive people ask for them without sending theirs first, if we ask for face pics we send ours first"

Happened to us recently, so we blocked them and moved on!

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
27 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

"Not forgetting the face pic request but being unwilling to send theirs first

It's only polite if you going to ask to give. So mine is sent along with a long apology and a request for one in return, that is, if they haven't set fire to their eyeballs already

Is that a new kink (not that I'm shaming here)

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By *riel13Woman
27 weeks ago

Northampton

My face, until recently, has almost always been visible but even now, when it's not... I won't often reply without seeing someone's face... I try not to interact with people I don't find attractive as when I have, it's assumed that they are getting somewhere... They, more often than not, aren't... I find it odd when someone hasn't seen your face but says you're gorgeous and they want to have sex with you... It's weird

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By *endalshaggersCouple
27 weeks ago

Kendal

It's very cheeky, agreed - especially on profiles who have absolutely zero pictures whatsoever (ie no public nor friends only).

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By *ark n kimCouple
27 weeks ago

Durham

If we message anyone we will send a face pic of us both.if we get messaged we expect them to send a face pic.

As far as blank profiles,we just don't entertain them at all.

The amount of people that think fill in later is going to get them meets is astounding,especially when they have been on the site for more than a few months.

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
27 weeks ago

Thurrock

Exactly this! For us it’s just good etiquette for the people initiating the conversation to share first.

"If we message anyone we will send a face pic of us both.if we get messaged we expect them to send a face pic.

As far as blank profiles,we just don't entertain them at all.

The amount of people that think fill in later is going to get them meets is astounding,especially when they have been on the site for more than a few months."

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By *ealitybitesMan
27 weeks ago

Belfast

My thoughts are that I don't have any thoughts.

Even if they had facepics on their profile I still wouldn't be sending them one.

Now that I think of it, that was a thought.....

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
27 weeks ago

cardiff

Shouldn’t be asking for anything you’re not willing to give xx

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By *z20Man
27 weeks ago

Swindon

I open most dialogue with a picture of my face, I only withhold from the masses due to a modicum of discretion.

Although if anyone I know outside of here were to see my profile I’d be pretty sure they would know who I am straight away.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
27 weeks ago

Leeds

Having a public face pic is vastly different to having one sent in private.

I want a face pretty quickly I don't demand one but I'm happy to send, what's the point in endless conversation of the attraction isn't there?

If you don't want to send your faces those profiles aren't for you it's that simple.

They aren't in the wrong by asking.

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By *hiversMan
27 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

I'm happy enough to share in private very early on, but yeah, there's no way we are meeting if you aren't willing to reciprocate.

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By *WINGStars23 OP Couple
27 weeks ago

Northwest

I'm talking about profiles with no photos at all. Who say no photo no reply.

We are happy to send a face photo or verification photo. But when they don't have any themselves. It's cheeky.

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By *ularliWoman
27 weeks ago

Worcester

I only ask for face pictures if I’m going to meet someone.

If im not attracted to their face then there is no meet and I would think that goes both ways

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By *hiversMan
27 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

"I'm talking about profiles with no photos at all. Who say no photo no reply.

We are happy to send a face photo or verification photo. But when they don't have any themselves. It's cheeky."

Fair, I tend not to really talk to the profiles with zero pics at all tbh

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By *ootyfruityCouple
27 weeks ago

andover

We send after a few messages. We don’t tend to chat to people with no photos at all.

Although we do show our face in the cam rooms

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By *otwifeHusband888Couple
27 weeks ago

Within touching distance

"Seen a lot of profiles lately with no photos at all, demanding face photos with first messages.

I find it a bit cheeky.

What are your thoughts?"

Yeah but even the ones who don't ask for face pics and send a vague message. No profile info or pics and say "let me know if you wanna meet" how would we know? We haven't saw you and have one or two sentences to go on. Honestly cracks us up.

Can't see how that would ever work.

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By *oxy jWoman
27 weeks ago

taunton somerset

i think the best way is to spell it out on your profile ..

for me its if you message first you show the cface pic first and if i message you first then ill do the face pics first and it simple if other dont agree im fine with it i just end the chat ..

and yes if i see a guy i like the look of i will message

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
27 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

They can ask op, but you don't have to send them.

Many women are swamped on here with messages, so asking for a face pic right away is a good filter.

I don't ask for one immediately, but I use filters and my mail is manageable.

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By *riel13Woman
27 weeks ago

Northampton

"I'm talking about profiles with no photos at all. Who say no photo no reply.

We are happy to send a face photo or verification photo. But when they don't have any themselves. It's cheeky."

Don't send them then...

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Probably they're hiding behind a fake account?

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By *allandathleticMan
27 weeks ago

Asgard

I request a face pic please?

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By *bwwifesharerCouple
27 weeks ago

coventry

We have face pics in our private gallery, really dont see the point of not sharing face pics, how can you know there is an attraction without them?

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By *lappyMan
27 weeks ago

Manchester

I’m happy to show my face on my profile as I feel it helps with the introduction xx

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By *orbidden eastMan
27 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

I have sent face pictures before, and still don’t get a reply or was that to myself

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By *lueDressWoman
27 weeks ago

Bath

Im perfectly happy to provide a face photo and a webcam 2 webcam, if Im feeling they could be a potential fun pal.

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
27 weeks ago

Leicester

We have face pics and happy to send on request but have to keep hidden due to MR KS’s job.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Asking for face pics straightaway seems crass and disingenuous; but that's only my opinion!

If a sender wishes to voluntarily send that seems reasonable enough...

What do others think/feel?

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