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Dirty mind, clean house

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder how many people have agreed to meet at another couple or single's house and arrived to find the place a bit dirty and unkept. Could be anything from unwashed clothes strewn about the bedroom to mould on bathroom walls. Or worse.

Has it put you off? Walked away?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean is good, but very clean is a bit creepy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had a meet like that but have been put of by the backgrounds of some peoples pics lol! Either really messy or just awful decorating!!

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By *ancs30Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many people have agreed to meet at another couple or single's house and arrived to find the place a bit dirty and unkept. Could be anything from unwashed clothes strewn about the bedroom to mould on bathroom walls. Or worse.

Has it put you off? Walked away?

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i am a bit crazy and actually look in the background of peoples pics to get an idea of their house, I will not meet someone who has a fag burned sofa and threadbare carpets. Bad housekeeping doesn't bode well for personal hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many people have agreed to meet at another couple or single's house and arrived to find the place a bit dirty and unkept. Could be anything from unwashed clothes strewn about the bedroom to mould on bathroom walls. Or worse.

Has it put you off? Walked away?

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I'd be out of there in a shot as I'm a bit OCD or I'd end up cleaning up for them

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I've left a meet cos the house was filthy. I'm certainly not a clean freak in fact I'm quite untidy myself cos there's much better things to do than clean constantly but there's a limit!!!!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many people have agreed to meet at another couple or single's house and arrived to find the place a bit dirty and unkept. Could be anything from unwashed clothes strewn about the bedroom to mould on bathroom walls. Or worse.

Has it put you off? Walked away?

i am a bit crazy and actually look in the background of peoples pics to get an idea of their house, I will not meet someone who has a fag burned sofa and threadbare carpets. Bad housekeeping doesn't bode well for personal hygiene"

Nothing crazy about it.

I look at the background on people pics and I also crop mine down if they show something I don't want on them.

I took a couple of impromptu pics of myself last year on my mobile which were really good, but then I noticed you could see washing drying a clothes airer in the background.

I couldn't crop it out as it was directly behind my head on the pics and therefore they were never made public.

Living in a 1 bed flat obviously I have to have somewhere to dry washing which is usually near a radiator in the living room, but if someone saw that they would think 'scruffy sod' because they don't know the whole story and make such assumptions.

I know I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never happened to us yet as people have always come to us, i'd be ashamed to have a dirty house, i wouldn't like to walk into a dirty house, if they cant find time to clean there home can they find time to clean themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many people have agreed to meet at another couple or single's house and arrived to find the place a bit dirty and unkept. Could be anything from unwashed clothes strewn about the bedroom to mould on bathroom walls. Or worse.

Has it put you off? Walked away?

i am a bit crazy and actually look in the background of peoples pics to get an idea of their house, I will not meet someone who has a fag burned sofa and threadbare carpets. Bad housekeeping doesn't bode well for personal hygiene

Nothing crazy about it.

I look at the background on people pics and I also crop mine down if they show something I don't want on them.

I took a couple of impromptu pics of myself last year on my mobile which were really good, but then I noticed you could see washing drying a clothes airer in the background.

I couldn't crop it out as it was directly behind my head on the pics and therefore they were never made public.

Living in a 1 bed flat obviously I have to have somewhere to dry washing which is usually near a radiator in the living room, but if someone saw that they would think 'scruffy sod' because they don't know the whole story and make such assumptions.

I know I would."

but at least you know it mate, some people just dont care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never happened to us yet as people have always come to us, i'd be ashamed to have a dirty house, i wouldn't like to walk into a dirty house, if they cant find time to clean there home can they find time to clean themselves."

my sentiments exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Backgrounds in pics have put me off once or twice. I won't say mine are perfect, but i do try and make an effort..

If i was to turn up at someone's place and it be slightly untidy i wouldn't really bother me to much. Now if it was unclean.. I'd be out of there quicker than they can blink!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a bit of a clean freak but in others 'lived in' is acceptable to me. Everyone has those friends who are beyond untidy, that friend you would never eat a meal at theirs. May have a probkem if it was like that or I guess if I turned up for a meet and it looked like a scene from A Life of Grime I may leave sharpish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only ever been to one persons home that's been that bad ive been scared to sit down, the living room was that bad he took me to the bedroom to sit on the bed to have a drink and chat as it was the only empty space, he asked me if I waned to drink and I hope this don't sound cruel but I said I was ok as I was scared to drink anything, I went to the loo and that was the tipping point where I left, I have never been to another house that's been unclean, every other home ive been to has been clean and tidy, now I don't live in a show home, I have kids and my house has things acattered about at times but theres a difference between lived in and dirty and this was just pure filth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have gone to lived in homes, and we don't mind that.

but then we have seen untidy homes, more the last minute what to wear and running late, clothes about pots not done type of thing, don't mind that.

But dirty homes are a no no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually legged it from a meet once. I should have read the warning signs when I turned up at her house and stood reading the graffiti all over her Porch. I thought maybe she was a 'liberal mother' type that didn't mind her kids expressing themselves lol. When I entered I was speechless. I thought she'd been burgled. She led me into what I think was the living room although she had painstakingly recreated a replica 'landfill' makeover. She went to make tea whilst I surveyed the scene. I was 99% sure I was leaving when I spotted the open cages. Judging by the droppings scattered outside I guessed Rabbit or Rat. See ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many people have agreed to meet at another couple or single's house and arrived to find the place a bit dirty and unkept. Could be anything from unwashed clothes strewn about the bedroom to mould on bathroom walls. Or worse.

Has it put you off? Walked away?

i am a bit crazy and actually look in the background of peoples pics to get an idea of their house, I will not meet someone who has a fag burned sofa and threadbare carpets. Bad housekeeping doesn't bode well for personal hygiene"

I do this. Drawn to the background first, then look at the person in the pic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread made me check my pictures, seem to be okay! *relieved* haha.

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

I had to leg it from a meet just the once. She had 4 cats. I'm not a massive fan of cats as they make me sneeze, but the house STANK - I think the litter trays hadn't been emptied for a while. Every time I inhaled, the smell just stuck at the back of my throat.

I told a half-truth about being allergic to cat hair, made my excuses and left

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

I think there's a big difference between a dirty house and one where the decor may not be to your taste or the carpets worn out, I wouldn't assume someone was dirty if their carpet was worn, maybe they just can't afford a new one.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

One of the reasons i always meet at home. I know what my house is like i dont know what theres is going to be like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many people have agreed to meet at another couple or single's house and arrived to find the place a bit dirty and unkept. Could be anything from unwashed clothes strewn about the bedroom to mould on bathroom walls. Or worse.

Has it put you off? Walked away?

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Well I wouldn't stop as I just wouldn't enjoy it.

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By *onboy777Man
over a year ago

Newark

I've had a few comments from women and the letting agent on how clean my house is for a single man ??? I don't have OCD either !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been put off chatting to people that have looked at us if their homes filthy - and i dont mean just a carpet that needs a bit of a hoover - i mean black walls and greasy looking ''things''- we love filthy minds but not going near a filthy body - and if youcant keep your home clean can you find time for yourself - ugh shudders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to entertain at home as I know its clean and tidy

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


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Has it put you off? Walked away?

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Yes....both counts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many people have agreed to meet at another couple or single's house and arrived to find the place a bit dirty and unkept. Could be anything from unwashed clothes strewn about the bedroom to mould on bathroom walls. Or worse.

Has it put you off? Walked away?

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Twice and made my excuses and left. A little untidiness is fine but plain grubby just puts you off taking your clothes off never mind anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read gas/electric meters for a living and you wouldn't believe some of the houses I have been into. Whilst 99% of them are very well looked after and very clean and tidy, there is that 1% of them that have made me feel sick and that is when the door has just been opened. I went into one house on a very nice new build estate, the lady of the house opened the door and I couldn't see the halway carpet never mind anything else. And the smell inisde there was enough to make anyone sick. I couldn't get in there to read the meter and get out quick enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i go into a lot of homes with my job (mental health support) and will never judge a person by just their home - sounds a tad cantradictory to what i said before - but these arent people im going to be intimate with nor are they advertising themselves for that - but some homes are horrendous and on t

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a guys house once and it stunk of dog... Probably cos it was a small property and the guy had a huge alsatian and the hair was everywhere! Worksurfaces in the kitchen, sofa.... bathroom.... I had to perch my backside right on the edge of the sofa cushion not to get covered.

I was just thinking the house needs a going over with a Dyson when I realised he smelt of dog too and it was totally game over.

The thing is, he had several veris who had been to the house before me.... Jesus, I like dogs, but if if I'd have done any rolling around there I could have gone undercover as Lassie.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Perhaps they are having too much fun for mundane things like housework. Mmmm my place could do with a good dusting.

I keep looking at it but its not magically disappearing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would put us off too.

We have a toddler so my house is normally untidy with toys everywhere but it is always clean, and if we are having someone over I do my best to hide all the toys away.

We are moving shortly due to damp that the landlord won't fix, because of this some paint is flaking off the walls, I'm embarrased by it in a big way as I know it makes the house look dirty.

I do have a touch of ocd when it comes to cleaning and if we went into a dirty house I'd feel the need to get me marigolds out!

Kay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id describe ours as lived in due to our young boys, it isnt dirty and its not immaculate, i have an obsession with cleaning the windows and toilets, the boys put finger prints all over the windows and miss the toilet like little boys do Donna has a hoovering and ironing fetish, all in all its a normal looking family home

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