FabSwingers.com forum: Why do people block you.

By *oewes69 OP Man
50 weeks ago

wakefield

After some recent sent messages i find i just get blocked. Nothing nasty said. Really polite. All that jazz. So why would some one is my question. If its my profile what can i do to improve?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
50 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Because they don't think you're compatible, and blocking means neither of you waste time forgetting and messaging again or having searches full of people that already know they're not the right fit.

Don't take it to heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Because they aren't interested, it's as simple as that.

I block for so many reasons - too local, don't like their pics, don't want to see them in my updates & ones I'm just not compatible with.

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By *e-funcoupleCouple
50 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

We generally do it when it’s clear people haven’t bothered reading the profile or when people are simply abrupt, rude, crass or arrogant.

Why do men think a message saying ‘I’d smash your lass’ is somehow worthy of a reply.

Most men on here don’t really understand what the site is about.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

In terms of your profile of maybe look at improving the pics, the profile one looks like your sat on the toilet.

Body shots and not just close up cock would be good, dressed/in boxers/ towel etc.

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By *issmorganWoman
50 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

People block for all sorts go reasons op, but there generally is always a reason.

They decided you weren't compatible, or maybe realised the chat wasn't going anywhere.

Sometimes real life happens.

In regards to your profile, I'd remove your first pic as its off putting to have a dick there straight away.

Maybe take some other pics and add them.

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By *ugeDRyanMan
50 weeks ago

London

Don’t take it personally fella, I block some people as if we’re not right, it saves time for both parties in the future! With your messages, make sure you read their profile, see their interests and see if yours align with theirs

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By *ellhungvweMan
50 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Who cares why they block you? Just counter block and move on. Its their loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

We only really block people that are rude or pushy or if we think the aren’t who they say they are.

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By *aughtynottsCouple
50 weeks ago

Outside Nottingham

They simply change their mind or they aren't getting an interesting vibe you'll get along from the messages, it literally can be anything and sometimes its easier mid convo to block as some* men don't easily except women changing their mind and often come back with abuse, insults or sarcasm or even worse begging.

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By *aughtynottsCouple
50 weeks ago

Outside Nottingham

Just to add is that a picture of you sitting on the toilet as your main one

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By *awpleasureMan
50 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

"Just to add is that a picture of you sitting on the toilet as your main one

Definitely this. Get some better pics

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By *punk n gushCouple
50 weeks ago

deal

"We generally do it when it’s clear people haven’t bothered reading the profile or when people are simply abrupt, rude, crass or arrogant.

Why do men think a message saying ‘I’d smash your lass’ is somehow worthy of a reply.

Most men on here don’t really understand what the site is about. "

Excatly the same as us

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
50 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

Do t worry to much about it, just be yourself... we block every male within a 10mile radius of us which is nothing personal to them it's just something we do.

People click for different reasons and we find ourselves blocked from people but we tend not to give it a 2nd thought as that's the choice and they must have there reason which is cool with us

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

People block for all kind of reasons OP. I wouldn't take it to heart.

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By *ecky and justCouple
50 weeks ago

Godalming

Several reasons.

Either they don’t fit what we’re looking for or us them. Or we find them off putting in some way.

It’s just a filter.

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By *andKCouple
50 weeks ago

Wrea Green

Change up your pictures, maybe something like you fully dressed but with your head covered or cropped out.

The comment about being clean & fresh and not smelly is a turn off. Hygiene is a must and doesn't need calling out.

You're one single guy amongst hundreds of others. Patience and perseverance are your friends. V

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By *andKCouple
50 weeks ago

Wrea Green

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By *hortishblondeWoman
50 weeks ago

Essex

I only block people if they keep messaging and I haven't replied...don't they get no reply means no!

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By *avexxMan
50 weeks ago

cheshire

i wouldnt worry about op.. it happens

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
50 weeks ago

Bristol

We only used to block if people were rude/sending particularly explicit and uninvited messages etc.

However, people need to make better use of the notes function and keep track of those who have told you they aren't interested.

Getting a message and scrolling down and seeing you declined them 3 weeks ago, and again 3 months ago, and again 4 months ago etc gets pretty old.

Keep hounding us and you get blocked

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By *uri00620Woman
50 weeks ago

Croydon

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By *oewes69 OP Man
50 weeks ago

wakefield

Thank you all for the reply. I can deffo see what you mean about the profile pic lmao not im not on the loo aha. I dont take it to heart at all. Seems the best answer here is to do with filtering out profiles and not wasting time now or in the future. I will improve my profile by the suggestions you all have made. Thanks for the advise all.

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By *oewes69 OP Man
50 weeks ago

wakefield

"We generally do it when it’s clear people haven’t bothered reading the profile or when people are simply abrupt, rude, crass or arrogant.

Why do men think a message saying ‘I’d smash your lass’ is somehow worthy of a reply.

Most men on here don’t really understand what the site is about. "

Yeh im not one of them. Woildnt dream of putting anything like that. Im very respectful especially with couples.

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By *aizyWoman
50 weeks ago

west midlands

You are never going to know why you were blocked OP, so no point worrying about it.

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By *raveltwoCouple
50 weeks ago

Brighton

As others have said don’t take it personally you’re just not for them

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
50 weeks ago

North West

I block everyone I’m not interested in.

Nothing personal, just don’t need my profile to be accessible to everyone for no reason

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
50 weeks ago

Coleraine

We block people who

1. Message like children

2. Endlessly pester us

3. Insult us

4. Lie to us

5. Fail to show up

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"You are never going to know why you were blocked OP, so no point worrying about it."

Pretty much this. They don’t need to justify why they’ve done it, it’s there to be used. Don’t worry, move on, have fun.

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