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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My wife can't orgasm unless she rubs her clit while we fuck, she has never cum just with my cock( I know I'm small ) but her ex only managed it once and he's 9''. Anyone any ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try her with another cock, I'm available to help anytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as she cums whats the problem? its not about how we achieve Orgasm its the fact that we do

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Lots of woman don't cum thru penetrative sex alone. No matter what the cock size.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"As long as she cums whats the problem? its not about how we achieve Orgasm its the fact that we do "

Completely agree.

it's nothing to do with the size if your cock. Some women come through penetration some don't, enjoy what you can achieve and stop worrying about what you can't. In my experience the more you try to achieve something sexually the less likely it is to happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also don't think too much about her ex and his 9 inch cock making her cum. Otherwise it will be you having trouble cumming lol.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

women achieve orgasm in many differerent ways. Size is rarely the issue..

clitoral orgasms are the most common type.

stop stressing and have fun....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi again. Not stressing , just thought I'd ask the question , I must admit I like taking about her ex, a big turn on, I will keep the tongue and fingers going on her then lol.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Hi again. Not stressing , just thought I'd ask the question , I must admit I like taking about her ex, a big turn on, I will keep the tongue and fingers going on her then lol. "

Get her a bullet...a swear by mine..NEVER fails to get me over the finishing line....and will save on arthritis...lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi again. Not stressing , just thought I'd ask the question , I must admit I like taking about her ex, a big turn on, I will keep the tongue and fingers going on her then lol.

Get her a bullet...a swear by mine..NEVER fails to get me over the finishing line....and will save on arthritis...lol.."
Bloody ell shooting her is a bit extreme.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is our experience.

With us just banging away will not make my wife cum. If I alter the technique so that every 2 or 3 strokes I slow down and press onto her clit with my pubes makes her cum quite easily. Try doing a circular motion there also.

It helps to have plenty of lube around the clit area.

hope this helps

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers I will need to grow pubes lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Cheers I will need to grow pubes lol "

Many women never cum from penetration alone. There needs to be some level of clit stim. For me it needs to be a fair bit - just grinding into it whilst fucking does not do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never reached orgasum thro penetrative, I can only cum tho clit stimulation, we are all different, I don't think theres anything wrong with me and I doubt you Mrs needs help either, just concentrate on what does make her cum rather than what does not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite obvious it's because your cock is to small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U could try different positions, like her on top and u propped up a bit so that she can still get the clit stimulation from rubbing against u rather than fingers!!! Worth a try xx

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By *illycarrolCouple
over a year ago

n/cle on tyne


"It's quite obvious it's because your cock is to small"
i suppose im lucky gotta canny size cock so caroll says ,but her most intense/best/mindblowing orgasms are with my tiny toungue which is only a cpl inches stop fretting get licking all women are different

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

On top is best for me

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I find that only certain positions work for me. Scissors seems to hit the right spot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thx gilly

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

It took me a long time to get to orgasm by penetrative sex...and its not a given every time. There are other ways of reaching climax and your wife has found one. A lot of foreplay and teasing of every part of her body might be what she needs

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By *ounggun432Man
over a year ago

east mids


"It's quite obvious it's because your cock is to small"

Way to make a man feel great about himself hahaah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's quite obvious it's because your cock is to small

Way to make a man feel great about himself hahaah"

Well it just seems like another attention seeking thread to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't cum through sex alone I have to be rubbing my clit at the same time or have a buzzing toy

It doesn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my wife only cums with penetration in one position, lay on ur back let her sit on you and grind her pussy on ur cock, and let her do the work ,also get her to lean forward try variations works for us everytime ?

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield


"Hi again. Not stressing , just thought I'd ask the question , I must admit I like taking about her ex, a big turn on, I will keep the tongue and fingers going on her then lol.

Get her a bullet...a swear by mine..NEVER fails to get me over the finishing line....and will save on arthritis...lol.."

Same for us^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women just naturally need clit stimulation as well as penetration. Everyone's different. Try using one of those 'magic wand' vibrators on her clit & vagina without the penetration now & again. She'll have one of the best orgasms she's ever had. Then you can combine the wand with the penetration and see what happens. Check out my pictures!! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gilly, do one...... Thanks to other peeps for advise cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vibrating cock ring. Girl on top grinding forwards and backwards with you pushing your hips up. Make sure she's comfortable to let herself go. Makes my mrs cum every time she rarely ever cums from just in and out fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More you both focus on her not cumming this way less chance there is that she will as she'll be so focused on trying to cum that she just isn't relaxed enough to actually do it...I used to struggle because I was always worried about being too loud. Once I relaxed and started to just enjoy sex without worrying about orgasms or being quiet or anything else then I found that I could cum. Wasn't every time at first but now I can cum from clitoral stimulation or penetration and have cum from anal once or twice too now.

Maybe make her cum from clitoral stimulation and if she can carry on after that then go for penetration...women generally stay at that level of arousal longer than men do so it's possible that whilst she's still 'on the crest' of an orgasm she'll have one from penetration too. Not guaranteed, but worth a try x

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