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By *oxy j OP   Woman
14 weeks ago

somerset

a question for couples and women often do you look to play ..

every day

weekly

monthly

or 2 or 3 times a year

just couples and women please if poss its just out of interest to how often other play

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By *winging_couple300Couple
14 weeks ago

Doncaster

2 or 3 times a year, added spice not the norm

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By *ellinever70Woman
14 weeks ago

Ayrshire

If you mean actively looking to meet from here...occasionally.

I'd find it pretty soul destroying to be constantly on the look out

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
14 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

We don't actively look to play. If we're at a club and it feels right then we may, otherwise happy to socialise and dance the night away!

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By *he love catsCouple
14 weeks ago

South Wales

We would like to meet once a week but it's finding spare time when we are both available, so realistically it's twice a month we aim for.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
14 weeks ago

Leeds

2/3 times a year.

I don't have the time nor need for lots of meets.

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
14 weeks ago

Thurrock

Monthly if we can, we have limited weekends free so it’s not always to make diaries align with people

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By *lym4realCouple
14 weeks ago

plymouth

Not really looking to play but if it does happen after a meet it's a very nice bonus and all depends on so many things it just feel forced if you do set out to play but that's just us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Health permitting 3/4 time a year or maybe everycouple of months

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By *T SwingersCouple
14 weeks ago

Brazil

2/3 times a year if we are lucky more when we travel but no plans this year to do so.

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By *inkerbell_and_dadbodCouple
14 weeks ago

London

We get to play 2/3 times a year as we don't get many chances to be together, and we value quality over quantity. We have been exceptionally lucky with all our playmates and would happily meet them all again.

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By *iss DevilWoman
14 weeks ago

Bedford

With my partner - every weekend.

With one of my FWBs- usually once a week.

With another FWB- once or twice a month.

Club, with either my partner or my FWB - 2-3 times a month, happy to just play with whoever I went with, don't need any strangers joining (but could be nice).

Random strangers off the internet, particularly ones with no pic or just a pic of cock- never, thanks.

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By *n1cornHa1redDJWoman
14 weeks ago

MiddleofMyStreet

I would love to have once a week.. but sadly time is not being nice to give me the time to do so ... so roughly once a fortnight/maybe once a month... depending on situation at the time. xx

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By *reason69Couple
14 weeks ago

Blackburn

When we get the time , time is very precious to us we prefer to meet at a nice hotel, we meet people about 3 to 4 times a year. Only wish we could meet cpls that dont expect we are going to fuck the night away , we like to be relaxed and also like them to feel the same. Xxx

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By *ooroo2019Woman
14 weeks ago

Chester

A few times a year generally. I tend to have a break during the winter.

I did a few 1-1’s last year, but now my son is living me, my 2024 is likely to just be clubs and maybe parties.

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
14 weeks ago

somerset

me opps should have said in my post its weekly but sometimes several days that week but thats with a friend we've known for 30++ years who 100% understands us strange thing is hes not a swinger at all ... and no hes not exclusive as he knows i swing because hubs is cuck and really cannot give me the good fucking i need with a limp cock ..

with others its as often as i can a have a couple of fwb again long term then we do clubs once a month all over the uk book hotel nearby as for guys fro fab its getting quite rare maybe 4 or 5 times a year .... but ive never been sort of lovers ive always had them and thats the great thing about lifestyle cuckold im happy cucks happy

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By *ellinever70Woman
14 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"me opps should have said in my post its weekly but sometimes several days that week but thats with a friend we've known for 30++ years who 100% understands us strange thing is hes not a swinger at all ... and no hes not exclusive as he knows i swing because hubs is cuck and really cannot give me the good fucking i need with a limp cock ..

with others its as often as i can a have a couple of fwb again long term then we do clubs once a month all over the uk book hotel nearby as for guys fro fab its getting quite rare maybe 4 or 5 times a year .... but ive never been sort of lovers ive always had them and thats the great thing about lifestyle cuckold im happy cucks happy"

Don't you ever get the scunner with being so sex busy and just want some time to potter around doing other stuff?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
14 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We play maybe twice a month - we have a regular single lady we meet up with and we are looking for a regular single gent.

Chatting to a couple that we have connected with and seeing about meeting.

Does it define our lives? - no, although we like that it spices things up now and again.

We are certainly not prolific

K

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
14 weeks ago

Cheshire

We don’t actively look.

Last time we “met” as in played was three years ago. We have been clubs since (although not regular) but just not happened.

Incidentally we are at a club later and will attend with zero expectation.

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
14 weeks ago

Bedale

As in other than with each other?

It's hard to say really. We do like it a lot; I suspect in an ideal world if we were attractive enough to enough people and could find the right people, we would probably settle on a nice figure of once a month. Maybe a touch more on occasion.

But we tend to maintain relationships with our playmates over time. So the odds are good that would actually manifest in quarterly meetings with 3 regular sets of playmates rather than 12 individuals

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By *kyblue2Couple
14 weeks ago

Coventry

Few times a year if we are in PDI on holiday most nights if the chance arises x

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
14 weeks ago

Tamworth

We normally look to play with others every few months So about 5 or 6 times a year. We struggle to find time, during the summer months.

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By *uenevereWoman
14 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I'm not looking to meet alone at all at the moment.

As a couple we go to clubs a few times a year and see what happens. We don't actively look for meets on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Sometimes I can go months or even year between wanting to meet and play with someone from fab.

Other times I may have a few socials in a month to see if anyone I want to play with.

Then if I do find someone to play with ... may do so every few weeks for a few months ... rarely lasts longer than that before one of us decides we want to move on.

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By *inUpProWoman
14 weeks ago

Liverpool

Ideally, I'd like to meet weekly. Realistically it's more like once a month

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Fits and spats depending on how much escape time we can make. We have a darling of a single fem friend who in all honesty is more than simply a friend. She can accommodate small groups so as and when we can we escape and meet whomsoever is at hers - quite a variety of people really.

Early days we made a good single guy friend who again is more than simply a fab friend and a couple that we have been on holiday with.

We have been away from the site for a while but popped back to see what is going on. Matching with other couples here both as a good fit and mutually available is practically impossible so unsurprisingly little in the way of adding new more than friends has materialized.

Would we do it most weeks given the freedom of choice? No because we've got so many other hobbies to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Happy go lucky, if the chemistry feels right then ready to get down and sticky, whenever I've free time...!

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