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"If the couple are happy with what's going on, isn't that all that matters?" This! | |||
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"Please remember a bull is for life, not just for Christmas "Lol yes and also must agree that when involving more involved verbal participation from other men was an extra level of excitement. Just my experience. | |||
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"If the couple are happy with what's going on, isn't that all that matters?" Surely this is correct | |||
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"Just because the Hotwife enjoys it doesn’t make her a hotwife , a normal woman can enjoy a straight fuck but it’s not cuckolding though " I don't think we should be gatekeepers of how folks conduct their sex life | |||
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"I think the art of cuckolding has been missed in the mass media world we can access these days. Most of us cucks have evolved in our relationships ensuring the bull is fully fluffed, guiding him in, fondling his balls as he fucks your wife, interaction between the three is important, the hotwife saying how big the bull feels, the bull talking to the hotwife and cuck as he does his job of servicing the hotwife. Cuckolding can be an exhilarating experience for all concerned." Totally agree with this. | |||
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"...It's like they just tick the cuckolding box but have no idea how to do it properly " Yes, but it's not just cuckolding, go to a BDSM night and you find a bunch of people who think it means dress in black. Go to a spanking night and I've heard supposed Tops apologise if the bottom goes ouch!
It's almost like as soon as any activity turns towards the mainstream, it just dilutes itself. | |||
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"I’m a Bull have been for a number of years now and had some really good meets in the past, also met some very nice people along the way , I have seen lots of friend only videos and I have noticed one thing that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore, The bull doesn’t participate in the verbal communication between the Hotwife and cuckold, why are the Bulls not going into any details on what there going to do or what they are doing or how the hotwife feels to them or telling the cuck how much she prefers her lovers cock over his, I know some cucks may not like it but joining in with some chat along with the hotwife speaking as a couple together some I have met in the past love it, imagination without going with the cuckolding theme it’s basically just a straight fuck in front of the husband. Each to there own I know but it’s a sin not to get the best from a meet like a cuckolding meet , I suppose there are good bulls and wanabies then those who don’t think about what the cuckold wants shame really " It’s not the way I do it 😉 It’s also down to the wives too, I take my cues from them mostly when it’s a first meet or couple I’m not very familiar with and there hasn’t been much message chat beforehand . The best way is to initially talk to the cuckold about how good his wife feels, maybe step it up with “such a horny bitch” kind of chat.. see how it goes…  | |||
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"Just because the Hotwife enjoys it doesn’t make her a hotwife , a normal woman can enjoy a straight fuck but it’s not cuckolding though " Sounds like your describing a stag and vixen dynamic, which has it's differences to the hotwife/cuck/bull dynamic | |||
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"I think the art of cuckolding has been missed in the mass media world we can access these days. Most of us cucks have evolved in our relationships ensuring the bull is fully fluffed, guiding him in, fondling his balls as he fucks your wife, interaction between the three is important, the hotwife saying how big the bull feels, the bull talking to the hotwife and cuck as he does his job of servicing the hotwife. Cuckolding can be an exhilarating experience for all concerned." in my opinion this is entirely right and how i, as a bull, see it should be too by the way is there any other bull out there who is not entirely comfortable with the bull label ? | |||
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"Every dynamic is (or should be) different and be specific to those involved. Based on personal experience if the dynamic and communication takes place between the couple and the bull a great foundation can be built But having said that not everyone is looking for the longer term aspects and benefits. Have fun and be nice Dom. " " here here" | |||
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"When we search for bulls this is exactly what we state in our status. Unfortunately many seem lost when we discuss that we are looking for someone that can verbal." Verbal? In what way? | |||
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"I think the art of cuckolding has been missed in the mass media world we can access these days. Most of us cucks have evolved in our relationships ensuring the bull is fully fluffed, guiding him in, fondling his balls as he fucks your wife, interaction between the three is important, the hotwife saying how big the bull feels, the bull talking to the hotwife and cuck as he does his job of servicing the hotwife. Cuckolding can be an exhilarating experience for all concerned." Yes i agree with this and we both enjoy the experience of us three playing together. | |||
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"From my experience (Marty) i have enjoyed this with another couple but it's so much more than just fucking someone's wife. I enjoy exploring learning and sharing what we all want from it. As its about 3 people. Everyone is different in what they want fantasies etc Communication is so important. People like labels or read what's expected and that's not real life, just because one person wants to be told "his cock is so much bigger than yours" or the cuckold needs to clean them both when they finish doesn't mean for someone else this is to far and can ruin the whole thing. Being open honest with each other I really enjoy getting to know a couple what they both want or at least like the idea of trying. Being able to relax and have trust to open up about what everyone really wants from it. For me most men think it's a quick way to fuck a wife, they have no idea its so much more. " well put we are having a meeting Friday and the guy has taken time chatting with us about what we both want | |||
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"I think the art of cuckolding has been missed in the mass media world we can access these days. Most of us cucks have evolved in our relationships ensuring the bull is fully fluffed, guiding him in, fondling his balls as he fucks your wife, interaction between the three is important, the hotwife saying how big the bull feels, the bull talking to the hotwife and cuck as he does his job of servicing the hotwife. Cuckolding can be an exhilarating experience for all concerned. Yes i agree with this and we both enjoy the experience of us three playing together." Yes, cuckolding is best done if all three can get something from it, although other scenarios are possible (as the advert says). | |||
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"I’m a Bull have been for a number of years now and had some really good meets in the past, also met some very nice people along the way , I have seen lots of friend only videos and I have noticed one thing that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore, The bull doesn’t participate in the verbal communication between the Hotwife and cuckold, why are the Bulls not going into any details on what there going to do or what they are doing or how the hotwife feels to them or telling the cuck how much she prefers her lovers cock over his, I know some cucks may not like it but joining in with some chat along with the hotwife speaking as a couple together some I have met in the past love it, imagination without going with the cuckolding theme it’s basically just a straight fuck in front of the husband. Each to there own I know but it’s a sin not to get the best from a meet like a cuckolding meet , I suppose there are good bulls and wanabies then those who don’t think about what the cuckold wants shame really " Agree it is so horny when friendship develops and involves these things | |||
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"I’m a Bull have been for a number of years now and had some really good meets in the past, also met some very nice people along the way , I have seen lots of friend only videos and I have noticed one thing that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore, The bull doesn’t participate in the verbal communication between the Hotwife and cuckold, why are the Bulls not going into any details on what there going to do or what they are doing or how the hotwife feels to them or telling the cuck how much she prefers her lovers cock over his, I know some cucks may not like it but joining in with some chat along with the hotwife speaking as a couple together some I have met in the past love it, imagination without going with the cuckolding theme it’s basically just a straight fuck in front of the husband. Each to there own I know but it’s a sin not to get the best from a meet like a cuckolding meet , I suppose there are good bulls and wanabies then those who don’t think about what the cuckold wants shame really " Couldn't agree more. | |||
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"We been saying this for a long time now It's like they just tick the cuckolding box but have no idea how to do it properly " Is there really a way to do it? Fab doesn’t have a real way to filter people by their dynamic, and the cuckolding humiliation is the least sexy side of the kink for me. I don’t mind the bull speaking, but he doesn’t need to be an aggressive, overconfident berk to do a good job at getting her to finish line. He just needs to do the actual fucking well. I get off on seeing her overwhelmed and enjoying herself, not being told I’m shit and can’t possibly please her too. It’s horses for courses… but it would be nice if the “interests” was a little better at defining what someone was after. | |||
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"I do agree with the very first statement....but it depends what each cuck and bull feels comfortable with. I will admit the larger % of bulls we've met, kind of ignore and disregard the cuck in the room, there's the friendly chat at the start and small talk, but when it gets down to the action they totally focus the wife. Luckily for me, I personally have gotten to a point that thrive on the verbal humiliation aspect. But...from my misses only. I like the bull to dominate her - and like her to dominate/belittle me the cuck. So having her voice to me (in a nutshell) that he's everything I'm not, letting me know how she's been craving him for days, thinking and talking about him when we're alone and I'm rewarded with a bit of masterbation from her. Also when she performs sexual acts with the bull that she had never let me do to her in the past, this adds to my cuck angst and intense whirlwind of emotions, which by the end of the night, i think of it and think WOW that was incredibly exciting an don't know what to do with myself because I'm so full of adrenaline. What works for you guys?"
We are finding the same plenty of chat between us all before and after but during the play the guys ignore cuck. Especially new guys. Which we can understand if they are trying to understand our limits. But not if we have all met a few times. For us this can be off putting as I like to bring cuck into my play verbally and sometimes other. Cuck expects verbal Humiliation mild form I might add. We welcome it.
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"I think the art of cuckolding has been missed in the mass media world we can access these days. Most of us cucks have evolved in our relationships ensuring the bull is fully fluffed, guiding him in, fondling his balls as he fucks your wife, interaction between the three is important, the hotwife saying how big the bull feels, the bull talking to the hotwife and cuck as he does his job of servicing the hotwife. Cuckolding can be an exhilarating experience for all concerned." As a gay man, I find the idea of that really horny! | |||
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"so easy for someone to say''im a bull'' or ive loads of ''experience'' or ive been with ''other '' cuckold couples its safe to say that 90% is bullshite.. men will lie to get that wet hole is the goal ... i find the guys that have bull tendency's dont really claim to be a bull they get clever and via long chats listen to whats needed 3 ways and tend to not use the bull tag because they know the damage that tag carries now days with the bullshitters.. your only a bull to the couple youve been with when your with a new couple its a clean slate so being a ex bull makes no different it like guys who claim they were cucks in past relationships and still call themselves cucks erm your not not no more anyway .. i get it if its roleplay as there are way way more fantasy roleplay cuckold couples than real lifestyle so roleplay bulls must be why there are so many" I agree,but there is no right or wrong way Good communication is required | |||
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"so easy for someone to say''im a bull'' or ive loads of ''experience'' or ive been with ''other '' cuckold couples its safe to say that 90% is bullshite.. men will lie to get that wet hole is the goal ... i find the guys that have bull tendency's dont really claim to be a bull they get clever and via long chats listen to whats needed 3 ways and tend to not use the bull tag because they know the damage that tag carries now days with the bullshitters.. your only a bull to the couple youve been with when your with a new couple its a clean slate so being a ex bull makes no different it like guys who claim they were cucks in past relationships and still call themselves cucks erm your not not no more anyway .. i get it if its roleplay as there are way way more fantasy roleplay cuckold couples than real lifestyle so roleplay bulls must be why there are so many I agree,but there is no right or wrong way Good communication is required " to a degree yes if your roleplay/ fantasy then you do as please but if your lifestyle cuckold then somethings are a rule as such but i agree no 2 couples are the same | |||
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"I’m a Bull have been for a number of years now and had some really good meets in the past, also met some very nice people along the way , I have seen lots of friend only videos and I have noticed one thing that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore, The bull doesn’t participate in the verbal communication between the Hotwife and cuckold, why are the Bulls not going into any details on what there going to do or what they are doing or how the hotwife feels to them or telling the cuck how much she prefers her lovers cock over his, I know some cucks may not like it but joining in with some chat along with the hotwife speaking as a couple together some I have met in the past love it, imagination without going with the cuckolding theme it’s basically just a straight fuck in front of the husband. Each to there own I know but it’s a sin not to get the best from a meet like a cuckolding meet , I suppose there are good bulls and wanabies then those who don’t think about what the cuckold wants shame really " Well presented  | |||
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"I’m a Bull have been for a number of years now and had some really good meets in the past, also met some very nice people along the way , I have seen lots of friend only videos and I have noticed one thing that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore, The bull doesn’t participate in the verbal communication between the Hotwife and cuckold, why are the Bulls not going into any details on what there going to do or what they are doing or how the hotwife feels to them or telling the cuck how much she prefers her lovers cock over his, I know some cucks may not like it but joining in with some chat along with the hotwife speaking as a couple together some I have met in the past love it, imagination without going with the cuckolding theme it’s basically just a straight fuck in front of the husband. Each to there own I know but it’s a sin not to get the best from a meet like a cuckolding meet , I suppose there are good bulls and wanabies then those who don’t think about what the cuckold wants shame really " I totally agree with you and sometimes it's exactly what is wanted too | |||
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"If the couple are happy with what's going on, isn't that all that matters?" totally it's about reading the room and doing what's required | |||
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"Each Bull brings his own different excitment to the party, yes the comunication needs to be right. If every man was the same it would get boring. but when people talk about the verbal humiliation it comes to each and everybodies own needs and wants. We have tried a number of cuckolding ways and would like to try more. It's Fun for us both in our marridge." totally agree | |||
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"Just because the Hotwife enjoys it doesn’t make her a hotwife , a normal woman can enjoy a straight fuck but it’s not cuckolding though Sounds like your describing a stag and vixen dynamic, which has it's differences to the hotwife/cuck/bull dynamic" there's a very similar dynamic here and crossover is often the case, the fact is you talk and evolve with a couple and find what all three of you want and need from it | |||
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"I think the art of cuckolding has been missed in the mass media world we can access these days. Most of us cucks have evolved in our relationships ensuring the bull is fully fluffed, guiding him in, fondling his balls as he fucks your wife, interaction between the three is important, the hotwife saying how big the bull feels, the bull talking to the hotwife and cuck as he does his job of servicing the hotwife. Cuckolding can be an exhilarating experience for all concerned. Totally agree with this. " | |||
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"Very few guys actually play out the cuck bull dynamic in our experience. Most guys say they want to play that way but really just want the sex with fem. Only a handful of guys the last 25 years have ticked a real Bull box for us." Hi there, After reading through your profile, I'd very much like to hear of your adventures. Here's a link to mine! https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1117225#last | |||
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"We been saying this for a long time now It's like they just tick the cuckolding box but have no idea how to do it properly " We second this. Are there are real bulls out there that are not 200 miles away amd can accommodate?! | |||
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"Very few guys actually play out the cuck bull dynamic in our experience. Most guys say they want to play that way but really just want the sex with fem. Only a handful of guys the last 25 years have ticked a real Bull box for us." Our findings also ! | |||
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"I’m a Bull have been for a number of years now and had some really good meets in the past, also met some very nice people along the way , I have seen lots of friend only videos and I have noticed one thing that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore, The bull doesn’t participate in the verbal communication between the Hotwife and cuckold, why are the Bulls not going into any details on what there going to do or what they are doing or how the hotwife feels to them or telling the cuck how much she prefers her lovers cock over his, I know some cucks may not like it but joining in with some chat along with the hotwife speaking as a couple together some I have met in the past love it, imagination without going with the cuckolding theme it’s basically just a straight fuck in front of the husband. Each to there own I know but it’s a sin not to get the best from a meet like a cuckolding meet , I suppose there are good bulls and wanabies then those who don’t think about what the cuckold wants shame really " Cuckold play comes in many flavours but, in my experience, the greater the interaction and involvement of all involved, the greater the pleasure for everyone too. Chuckle play with a couple is one of the most intense, intimate and exciting experiences you can enjoy. There is so much to share and enjoy. | |||
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"For balance, any with positive feedback to share? "I have some good feedback from cuckolding couple's I meet, I seem to have a different approach | |||
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"Please see our profile , we have had 3 regular guys over nearly 15 yrs so difficult to find the right guys/groups even when we have a detailed profile with limits and requirements " We tried but you’ve blocked us for some reason | |||
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"It really does depend on the couple though, I love being a bull, but you have to play it the way the couple want. I’ve had one where the couple wanted me to humiliate her husband, even before the meets, so this would include whatapp messages of what I’m going to do to his wife, pictures of my cock, and after a few meets pictures of me fucking his wife, In the meet itself, he would sit there, and me and his wife would verbally abuse his, tell him how little his cock is worth, how much better sex was with me (and my mates sometimes, she was quite greedy). They would love it, and she would verbally abuse him as well has he cleaned up. They liked the anticipation and build up more than the act to be fair, and daily she would be sending me pics, for me to send her partner, saying look what your wife is sending me. Also she would randomly turn up at my house on her own, but would only give me a blow job or I would I’ve her oral, we would film it, and she would send it him. On the other side, I’ve had a couple, that only wanted me to cum in her. I would go to their house, he would open the door and tell me to go upstairs, she was laid in bed, I’d do the deed, he would then enter, clean her up whilst I recovered, then I’d go for round two with him watching, they didn’t say a word, I’d finish off, then I’d leave, leaving the couple too it. Being a bull and having a cuck relationship is very complex, like anything, everyone is different, I prefer the former to the latter as I’m quite dom, but I just enjoy sex, so will usually fit in with what the couple wants, ironically most of the time the couple has no idea what they want, and that’s when your experience will help them." Interesting the difference in the dynamics | |||
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