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By *pinner10 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

Newcastle/Durham/Northumberland

I’m a Bull have been for a number of years now and had some really good meets in the past, also met some very nice people along the way , I have seen lots of friend only videos and I have noticed one thing that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore, The bull doesn’t participate in the verbal communication between the Hotwife and cuckold, why are the Bulls not going into any details on what there going to do or what they are doing or how the hotwife feels to them or telling the cuck how much she prefers her lovers cock over his, I know some cucks may not like it but joining in with some chat along with the hotwife speaking as a couple together some I have met in the past love it, imagination without going with the cuckolding theme it’s basically just a straight fuck in front of the husband. Each to there own I know but it’s a sin not to get the best from a meet like a cuckolding meet , I suppose there are good bulls and wanabies then those who don’t think about what the cuckold wants shame really

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By *iganpairCouple
35 weeks ago

Wigan, Lancs.

We been saying this for a long time now

It's like they just tick the cuckolding box but have no idea how to do it properly

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By *ee And MikeCouple
35 weeks ago

Cannock

I think the art of cuckolding has been missed in the mass media world we can access these days.

Most of us cucks have evolved in our relationships ensuring the bull is fully fluffed, guiding him in, fondling his balls as he fucks your wife, interaction between the three is important, the hotwife saying how big the bull feels, the bull talking to the hotwife and cuck as he does his job of servicing the hotwife.

Cuckolding can be an exhilarating experience for all concerned.

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By *ellinever70Woman
35 weeks ago

Ayrshire

If the couple are happy with what's going on, isn't that all that matters?

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
35 weeks ago

coleraine


"If the couple are happy with what's going on, isn't that all that matters?"

This!

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By *eedsmale36Man
35 weeks ago

Leeds

Please remember a bull is for life, not just for Christmas

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By *lippy02Man
35 weeks ago

edinburgh


"Please remember a bull is for life, not just for Christmas "

Lol yes and also must agree that when involving more involved verbal participation from other men was an extra level of excitement. Just my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I’m inexperienced as a cuck only happened once in turkey & the guy did all the verbal

Humiliation of me

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By *pinner10 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

Newcastle/Durham/Northumberland

But part of actual cuckolding is not to just tick a box it’s to play an active verbal role joining the Hotwife in the important communication between the three , that’s why I think wannabe bulls don’t have the mindset needed ie putting himself in the cucks shoes and making it happen in a verbal way

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I can only speak from

My experience

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By *umplayerMan
35 weeks ago

Chester


"If the couple are happy with what's going on, isn't that all that matters?"

Surely this is correct

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By *pinner10 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

Newcastle/Durham/Northumberland

Just because the Hotwife enjoys it doesn’t make her a hotwife , a normal woman can enjoy a straight fuck but it’s not cuckolding though

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By *ayd100Man
35 weeks ago

clitheroe

Being a good cuck or bull is like a science.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I’d like you to cuck my wife for sure

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By *ellinever70Woman
35 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"Just because the Hotwife enjoys it doesn’t make her a hotwife , a normal woman can enjoy a straight fuck but it’s not cuckolding though "

I don't think we should be gatekeepers of how folks conduct their sex life

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
35 weeks ago

southam

I like to be teased and humiliated as she flirts with her chosen stud and prepares to offer her body to him but am happy to let them concentrate on their mutual pleasure as he fucks her

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By *wguy100Man
35 weeks ago

Exeter

Every dynamic is (or should be) different and be specific to those involved.

Based on personal experience if the dynamic and communication takes place between the couple and the bull a great foundation can be built

But having said that not everyone is looking for the longer term aspects and benefits.

Have fun and be nice

Dom.

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By *achel_paulCouple
26 weeks ago

Birmingham

Each Bull brings his own different excitment to the party, yes the comunication needs to be right. If every man was the same it would get boring. but when people talk about the verbal humiliation it comes to each and everybodies own needs and wants.

We have tried a number of cuckolding ways and would like to try more. It's Fun for us both in our marridge.

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By *r_LickCouple
26 weeks ago

aberdeen


"I think the art of cuckolding has been missed in the mass media world we can access these days.

Most of us cucks have evolved in our relationships ensuring the bull is fully fluffed, guiding him in, fondling his balls as he fucks your wife, interaction between the three is important, the hotwife saying how big the bull feels, the bull talking to the hotwife and cuck as he does his job of servicing the hotwife.

Cuckolding can be an exhilarating experience for all concerned."

Totally agree with this.

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By *elshnewbies69Couple
26 weeks ago

cardiff

I like seeing my wife enjoy herself and not there to be talked down or belittled we do this because we both enjoy sex and sharing the experience together

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

We new to this,but both excited about it.

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By *omCoyoteMan
26 weeks ago

Northern England

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By *omCoyoteMan
26 weeks ago

Northern England

As others have said here, everyone has different needs. Speaking personally, I find being Dominant and bi adds an extra frisson of excitement to the proceedings - especially if cucky likes his humiliation with a side order of sissification!

Speaking personally - finding that perfect couple is the challenging part.

Incidentally, I do find the term "bull" pejorative - probably due to its association with a certain four letter word, and connotations with people making unsubstantiated claims about themselves.

I prefer to be refered to as the wife's lover, although I was known to the cuckold husband of a couple I saw for a number of years as her "Paramour".

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By *iberius61Man
26 weeks ago

Pontefract


"...It's like they just tick the cuckolding box but have no idea how to do it properly "

Yes, but it's not just cuckolding, go to a BDSM night and you find a bunch of people who think it means dress in black.

Go to a spanking night and I've heard supposed Tops apologise if the bottom goes ouch!

It's almost like as soon as any activity turns towards the mainstream, it just dilutes itself.

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By *tew008Man
26 weeks ago

edinburgh

Honestly I think my kinky DnD days at uni opened up any skills in this regard. As we had to put on show essentially

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By *urbo321123Man
26 weeks ago

BEWDLEY

There is obviously degrees of things and in this case it's humiliation. I don't think everyone wants the same level. "Ahh the good old days when bulls were bulls" etc. Not sure why anyone would care about what other people do.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
26 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I’m a Bull have been for a number of years now and had some really good meets in the past, also met some very nice people along the way , I have seen lots of friend only videos and I have noticed one thing that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore, The bull doesn’t participate in the verbal communication between the Hotwife and cuckold, why are the Bulls not going into any details on what there going to do or what they are doing or how the hotwife feels to them or telling the cuck how much she prefers her lovers cock over his, I know some cucks may not like it but joining in with some chat along with the hotwife speaking as a couple together some I have met in the past love it, imagination without going with the cuckolding theme it’s basically just a straight fuck in front of the husband. Each to there own I know but it’s a sin not to get the best from a meet like a cuckolding meet , I suppose there are good bulls and wanabies then those who don’t think about what the cuckold wants shame really "

It’s not the way I do it 😉 It’s also down to the wives too, I take my cues from them mostly when it’s a first meet or couple I’m not very familiar with and there hasn’t been much message chat beforehand . The best way is to initially talk to the cuckold about how good his wife feels, maybe step it up with “such a horny bitch” kind of chat.. see how it goes…

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By *issBlackedCouple
26 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Just because the Hotwife enjoys it doesn’t make her a hotwife , a normal woman can enjoy a straight fuck but it’s not cuckolding though "

Sounds like your describing a stag and vixen dynamic, which has it's differences to the hotwife/cuck/bull dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"I think the art of cuckolding has been missed in the mass media world we can access these days.

Most of us cucks have evolved in our relationships ensuring the bull is fully fluffed, guiding him in, fondling his balls as he fucks your wife, interaction between the three is important, the hotwife saying how big the bull feels, the bull talking to the hotwife and cuck as he does his job of servicing the hotwife.

Cuckolding can be an exhilarating experience for all concerned."

in my opinion this is entirely right and how i, as a bull, see it should be too

by the way is there any other bull out there who is not entirely comfortable with the bull label ?

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By *oxy jWoman
26 weeks ago

somerset

most real cuckold couples ie lifestyle cuckolds dont seek or use the term bull you'll find most of that is with the roleplay / fantasy cuckolds ..

my lovers are lovers simple as that hate the bull tag because it goes hand in hand with shite

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By *hesgotagreatassCouple
26 weeks ago

Ashford

For us it’s an impossible dream.

Maybe us, or maybe just can’t find a local regullar bull type.

You’d think it be easy but genuine guys seem hard to come by.

We would like a respectful guy to take control of the wife’s sex life and dominate her so she becomes submissive to him. There needs to be trust and whilst we are not looking for the complete cuckhold setup, we are looking for a guy who can take control, who knows what he wants and is dominate. Not a dreamer but a something we can build over time.

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By *luesindminorMan
26 weeks ago

Birmingham

I found out the hard way, in the beginning, that communication between us all was key. There are three in the dynamic, something I didn’t appreciate at first.

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By *UCKfuncouple34Couple
12 weeks ago

Kent


"Every dynamic is (or should be) different and be specific to those involved.

Based on personal experience if the dynamic and communication takes place between the couple and the bull a great foundation can be built

But having said that not everyone is looking for the longer term aspects and benefits.

Have fun and be nice

Dom. "


" here here"

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By *arried_slutCouple
12 weeks ago

london

When we search for bulls this is exactly what we state in our status. Unfortunately many seem lost when we discuss that we are looking for someone that can verbal.

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By *icelee9Man
12 weeks ago

manchester

I suppose the experience needs to be bespoke for each couple ,

Lee

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By *lasgowgent35Man
12 weeks ago

Glasgow


"When we search for bulls this is exactly what we state in our status. Unfortunately many seem lost when we discuss that we are looking for someone that can verbal."

Verbal? In what way?

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By *UCKfuncouple34Couple
12 weeks ago

Kent

I do agree with the very first statement....but it depends what each cuck and bull feels comfortable with.

I will admit the larger % of bulls we've met, kind of ignore and disregard the cuck in the room, there's the friendly chat at the start and small talk, but when it gets down to the action they totally focus the wife.

Luckily for me, I personally have gotten to a point that thrive on the verbal humiliation aspect. But...from my misses only. I like the bull to dominate her - and like her to dominate/belittle me the cuck. So having her voice to me (in a nutshell) that he's everything I'm not, letting me know how she's been craving him for days, thinking and talking about him when we're alone and I'm rewarded with a bit of masterbation from her.

Also when she performs sexual acts with the bull that she had never let me do to her in the past, this adds to my cuck angst and intense whirlwind of emotions, which by the end of the night, i think of it and think WOW that was incredibly exciting an don't know what to do with myself because I'm so full of adrenaline.

What works for you guys?

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By *lasgowgent35Man
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

love the idea of a ‘indecent proposal’ scenario. the rough idea is I’d arrange the meet, I’d book a hotel room and arrange for us to meet at the bar. I’d have explained the outfit exactly that I’d like the woman to wear for meeting. Idea would be we meet for a few drinks, ease the nerves and have a few laughs together first. I’d love to (pretend) offer a fee for us to go to the room the the female has to do as I request. I’m not into anything weird or wonderful I’ll be clear about that lol. I just really love the idea of being in control and explore something they wouldn’t normally do

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By *ay_jessCouple
12 weeks ago

Wallington


"I think the art of cuckolding has been missed in the mass media world we can access these days.

Most of us cucks have evolved in our relationships ensuring the bull is fully fluffed, guiding him in, fondling his balls as he fucks your wife, interaction between the three is important, the hotwife saying how big the bull feels, the bull talking to the hotwife and cuck as he does his job of servicing the hotwife.

Cuckolding can be an exhilarating experience for all concerned."

Yes i agree with this and we both enjoy the experience of us three playing together.

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By *tefe-MartyCouple
12 weeks ago

Cambs

From my experience (Marty) i have enjoyed this with another couple but it's so much more than just fucking someone's wife.

I enjoy exploring learning and sharing what we all want from it. As its about 3 people.

Everyone is different in what they want fantasies etc Communication is so important.

People like labels or read what's expected and that's not real life, just because one person wants to be told "his cock is so much bigger than yours" or the cuckold needs to clean them both when they finish

doesn't mean for someone else this is to far and can ruin the whole thing.

Being open honest with each other I really enjoy getting to know a couple what they both want or at least like the idea of trying. Being able to relax and have trust to open up about what everyone really wants from it.

For me most men think it's a quick way to fuck a wife, they have no idea its so much more.

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By *nlyessexCouple
12 weeks ago

Hornchurch


"From my experience (Marty) i have enjoyed this with another couple but it's so much more than just fucking someone's wife.

I enjoy exploring learning and sharing what we all want from it. As its about 3 people.

Everyone is different in what they want fantasies etc Communication is so important.

People like labels or read what's expected and that's not real life, just because one person wants to be told "his cock is so much bigger than yours" or the cuckold needs to clean them both when they finish

doesn't mean for someone else this is to far and can ruin the whole thing.

Being open honest with each other I really enjoy getting to know a couple what they both want or at least like the idea of trying. Being able to relax and have trust to open up about what everyone really wants from it.

For me most men think it's a quick way to fuck a wife, they have no idea its so much more. "

well put we are having a meeting Friday and the guy has taken time chatting with us about what we both want

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By *ee And MikeCouple
12 weeks ago

Cannock


"I think the art of cuckolding has been missed in the mass media world we can access these days.

Most of us cucks have evolved in our relationships ensuring the bull is fully fluffed, guiding him in, fondling his balls as he fucks your wife, interaction between the three is important, the hotwife saying how big the bull feels, the bull talking to the hotwife and cuck as he does his job of servicing the hotwife.

Cuckolding can be an exhilarating experience for all concerned.

Yes i agree with this and we both enjoy the experience of us three playing together."

Yes, cuckolding is best done if all three can get something from it, although other scenarios are possible (as the advert says).

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By *oxy jWoman
12 weeks ago

somerset

also a;ot of cuckold couples mix it up ie cuck does not always see the action live ie i go to one of my lovers house cuck is not involved until i get home then gets his kick if lucky ... i do record the meet but he'll not see that for a few days just to play with cucks mind

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By *ings Road GentlemanMan
12 weeks ago

Kings Road, Chelsea.

Always up for a social around Chelsea or close by if anyone is looking. Can host.

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By *t112Man
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

Wife chat on snap or WhatsApp pm me

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By *lippy02Man
12 weeks ago

edinburgh


"I’m a Bull have been for a number of years now and had some really good meets in the past, also met some very nice people along the way , I have seen lots of friend only videos and I have noticed one thing that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore, The bull doesn’t participate in the verbal communication between the Hotwife and cuckold, why are the Bulls not going into any details on what there going to do or what they are doing or how the hotwife feels to them or telling the cuck how much she prefers her lovers cock over his, I know some cucks may not like it but joining in with some chat along with the hotwife speaking as a couple together some I have met in the past love it, imagination without going with the cuckolding theme it’s basically just a straight fuck in front of the husband. Each to there own I know but it’s a sin not to get the best from a meet like a cuckolding meet , I suppose there are good bulls and wanabies then those who don’t think about what the cuckold wants shame really "

Agree it is so horny when friendship develops and involves these things

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By *ayd100Man
12 weeks ago

clitheroe


"I’m a Bull have been for a number of years now and had some really good meets in the past, also met some very nice people along the way , I have seen lots of friend only videos and I have noticed one thing that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore, The bull doesn’t participate in the verbal communication between the Hotwife and cuckold, why are the Bulls not going into any details on what there going to do or what they are doing or how the hotwife feels to them or telling the cuck how much she prefers her lovers cock over his, I know some cucks may not like it but joining in with some chat along with the hotwife speaking as a couple together some I have met in the past love it, imagination without going with the cuckolding theme it’s basically just a straight fuck in front of the husband. Each to there own I know but it’s a sin not to get the best from a meet like a cuckolding meet , I suppose there are good bulls and wanabies then those who don’t think about what the cuckold wants shame really "
Couldn't agree more.

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By *kinkycpleCouple
12 weeks ago

Birmingham

Totally agree about the power of verbal however perhaps the lack of it in videos is to protect privacy. I know we care careful what we post and tend to only post videos with no talking on.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"We been saying this for a long time now

It's like they just tick the cuckolding box but have no idea how to do it properly "

Is there really a way to do it? Fab doesn’t have a real way to filter people by their dynamic, and the cuckolding humiliation is the least sexy side of the kink for me. I don’t mind the bull speaking, but he doesn’t need to be an aggressive, overconfident berk to do a good job at getting her to finish line. He just needs to do the actual fucking well. I get off on seeing her overwhelmed and enjoying herself, not being told I’m shit and can’t possibly please her too.

It’s horses for courses… but it would be nice if the “interests” was a little better at defining what someone was after.

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By *pringbok95Couple
12 weeks ago

Limavady


"I do agree with the very first statement....but it depends what each cuck and bull feels comfortable with.

I will admit the larger % of bulls we've met, kind of ignore and disregard the cuck in the room, there's the friendly chat at the start and small talk, but when it gets down to the action they totally focus the wife.

Luckily for me, I personally have gotten to a point that thrive on the verbal humiliation aspect. But...from my misses only. I like the bull to dominate her - and like her to dominate/belittle me the cuck. So having her voice to me (in a nutshell) that he's everything I'm not, letting me know how she's been craving him for days, thinking and talking about him when we're alone and I'm rewarded with a bit of masterbation from her.

Also when she performs sexual acts with the bull that she had never let me do to her in the past, this adds to my cuck angst and intense whirlwind of emotions, which by the end of the night, i think of it and think WOW that was incredibly exciting an don't know what to do with myself because I'm so full of adrenaline.

What works for you guys?"

We are finding the same plenty of chat between us all before and after but during the play the guys ignore cuck. Especially new guys. Which we can understand if they are trying to understand our limits. But not if we have all met a few times. For us this can be off putting as I like to bring cuck into my play verbally and sometimes other. Cuck expects verbal Humiliation mild form I might add. We welcome it.

So guys don't ignore the cuck

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By *ull2getherMan
12 weeks ago

Milton Keynes


"I think the art of cuckolding has been missed in the mass media world we can access these days.

Most of us cucks have evolved in our relationships ensuring the bull is fully fluffed, guiding him in, fondling his balls as he fucks your wife, interaction between the three is important, the hotwife saying how big the bull feels, the bull talking to the hotwife and cuck as he does his job of servicing the hotwife.

Cuckolding can be an exhilarating experience for all concerned."

As a gay man, I find the idea of that really horny!

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By *t112Man
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *arriedspicycpleCouple
9 weeks ago

Sussex

Totally agree with your comments. They have no idea of the concept.

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By *oxy jWoman
9 weeks ago

somerset

so easy for someone to say''im a bull''

or ive loads of ''experience'' or ive been with ''other '' cuckold couples its safe to say that 90% is bullshite..

men will lie to get that wet hole is the goal ... i find the guys that have bull tendency's dont really claim to be a bull they get clever and via long chats listen to whats needed 3 ways and tend to not use the bull tag because they know the damage that tag carries now days with the bullshitters..

your only a bull to the couple youve been with when your with a new couple its a clean slate so being a ex bull makes no different it like guys who claim they were cucks in past relationships and still call themselves cucks erm your not not no more anyway ..

i get it if its roleplay as there are way way more fantasy roleplay cuckold couples than real lifestyle so roleplay bulls must be why there are so many

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By *ister1Man
9 weeks ago

north west


"so easy for someone to say''im a bull''

or ive loads of ''experience'' or ive been with ''other '' cuckold couples its safe to say that 90% is bullshite..

men will lie to get that wet hole is the goal ... i find the guys that have bull tendency's dont really claim to be a bull they get clever and via long chats listen to whats needed 3 ways and tend to not use the bull tag because they know the damage that tag carries now days with the bullshitters..

your only a bull to the couple youve been with when your with a new couple its a clean slate so being a ex bull makes no different it like guys who claim they were cucks in past relationships and still call themselves cucks erm your not not no more anyway ..

i get it if its roleplay as there are way way more fantasy roleplay cuckold couples than real lifestyle so roleplay bulls must be why there are so many"

I agree,but there is no right or wrong way

Good communication is required

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By *oxy jWoman
9 weeks ago

somerset


"so easy for someone to say''im a bull''

or ive loads of ''experience'' or ive been with ''other '' cuckold couples its safe to say that 90% is bullshite..

men will lie to get that wet hole is the goal ... i find the guys that have bull tendency's dont really claim to be a bull they get clever and via long chats listen to whats needed 3 ways and tend to not use the bull tag because they know the damage that tag carries now days with the bullshitters..

your only a bull to the couple youve been with when your with a new couple its a clean slate so being a ex bull makes no different it like guys who claim they were cucks in past relationships and still call themselves cucks erm your not not no more anyway ..

i get it if its roleplay as there are way way more fantasy roleplay cuckold couples than real lifestyle so roleplay bulls must be why there are so many

I agree,but there is no right or wrong way

Good communication is required "

to a degree yes if your roleplay/ fantasy then you do as please but if your lifestyle cuckold then somethings are a rule as such but i agree no 2 couples are the same

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By *yeSureMan
6 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I’m a Bull have been for a number of years now and had some really good meets in the past, also met some very nice people along the way , I have seen lots of friend only videos and I have noticed one thing that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore, The bull doesn’t participate in the verbal communication between the Hotwife and cuckold, why are the Bulls not going into any details on what there going to do or what they are doing or how the hotwife feels to them or telling the cuck how much she prefers her lovers cock over his, I know some cucks may not like it but joining in with some chat along with the hotwife speaking as a couple together some I have met in the past love it, imagination without going with the cuckolding theme it’s basically just a straight fuck in front of the husband. Each to there own I know but it’s a sin not to get the best from a meet like a cuckolding meet , I suppose there are good bulls and wanabies then those who don’t think about what the cuckold wants shame really "

Well presented

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By *rankie bricksMan
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Hub here interested in chatting with other hub or bull , interested in gaining knowledge, experience ect

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By *unandcuriousCouple
6 weeks ago

Antrim

Always good to get chatting with others

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By *ulldipadovaMan
6 weeks ago

Amsterdam

I have lived the lifestyle for 8 years. I found that a great communication with hotwife and hubby is always the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I totally agree...I am shocked when cucks tell me that they are not used to being spoken too.

Communication is key and is part of the dynamic I find and something I totally enjoy

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By *ick_08Man
6 weeks ago

Brighton

The Bull Has the responsibility to see ever ones needs are slatted

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By *t112Man
6 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *ulian701Man
5 weeks ago

Bicester


"I’m a Bull have been for a number of years now and had some really good meets in the past, also met some very nice people along the way , I have seen lots of friend only videos and I have noticed one thing that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore, The bull doesn’t participate in the verbal communication between the Hotwife and cuckold, why are the Bulls not going into any details on what there going to do or what they are doing or how the hotwife feels to them or telling the cuck how much she prefers her lovers cock over his, I know some cucks may not like it but joining in with some chat along with the hotwife speaking as a couple together some I have met in the past love it, imagination without going with the cuckolding theme it’s basically just a straight fuck in front of the husband. Each to there own I know but it’s a sin not to get the best from a meet like a cuckolding meet , I suppose there are good bulls and wanabies then those who don’t think about what the cuckold wants shame really "
I totally agree with you and sometimes it's exactly what is wanted too

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By *ulian701Man
5 weeks ago

Bicester


"If the couple are happy with what's going on, isn't that all that matters?"
totally it's about reading the room and doing what's required

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By *ulian701Man
5 weeks ago

Bicester


"Each Bull brings his own different excitment to the party, yes the comunication needs to be right. If every man was the same it would get boring. but when people talk about the verbal humiliation it comes to each and everybodies own needs and wants.

We have tried a number of cuckolding ways and would like to try more. It's Fun for us both in our marridge."

totally agree

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By *ulian701Man
5 weeks ago

Bicester


"Just because the Hotwife enjoys it doesn’t make her a hotwife , a normal woman can enjoy a straight fuck but it’s not cuckolding though

Sounds like your describing a stag and vixen dynamic, which has it's differences to the hotwife/cuck/bull dynamic"

there's a very similar dynamic here and crossover is often the case, the fact is you talk and evolve with a couple and find what all three of you want and need from it

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By *aughtyloversCouple
5 weeks ago

Hull


"I think the art of cuckolding has been missed in the mass media world we can access these days.

Most of us cucks have evolved in our relationships ensuring the bull is fully fluffed, guiding him in, fondling his balls as he fucks your wife, interaction between the three is important, the hotwife saying how big the bull feels, the bull talking to the hotwife and cuck as he does his job of servicing the hotwife.

Cuckolding can be an exhilarating experience for all concerned.

Totally agree with this. "

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By *aughtycple50Couple
5 weeks ago

a place

Very few guys actually play out the cuck bull dynamic in our experience.

Most guys say they want to play that way but really just want the sex with fem.

Only a handful of guys the last 25 years have ticked a real Bull box for us.

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By *omCoyoteMan
5 weeks ago

Northern England


"Very few guys actually play out the cuck bull dynamic in our experience.

Most guys say they want to play that way but really just want the sex with fem.

Only a handful of guys the last 25 years have ticked a real Bull box for us."

Hi there,

After reading through your profile, I'd very much like to hear of your adventures. Here's a link to mine!

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1117225#last

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By *etitehotwife4uCouple
5 weeks ago

wirral


"We been saying this for a long time now

It's like they just tick the cuckolding box but have no idea how to do it properly "

We second this. Are there are real bulls out there that are not 200 miles away amd can accommodate?!

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By *inks_n_GigglesMan
5 weeks ago

Basingstoke

As part of my BDSM sub/Dom play I thrive on the additional element cuckold meets offer. Understanding what stimulates the mind of both the wife and the cuck to meet their needs is the only way to ensure the sex is as good. 90% of a cuckold meet occures prior to the actual meeting.

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By *etitehotwife4uCouple
5 weeks ago

wirral


"Very few guys actually play out the cuck bull dynamic in our experience.

Most guys say they want to play that way but really just want the sex with fem.

Only a handful of guys the last 25 years have ticked a real Bull box for us."

Our findings also !

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By *yeSureMan
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

For balance, any with positive feedback to share?

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By *ensualgent38Man
5 weeks ago

London & Edinburgh


"I’m a Bull have been for a number of years now and had some really good meets in the past, also met some very nice people along the way , I have seen lots of friend only videos and I have noticed one thing that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore, The bull doesn’t participate in the verbal communication between the Hotwife and cuckold, why are the Bulls not going into any details on what there going to do or what they are doing or how the hotwife feels to them or telling the cuck how much she prefers her lovers cock over his, I know some cucks may not like it but joining in with some chat along with the hotwife speaking as a couple together some I have met in the past love it, imagination without going with the cuckolding theme it’s basically just a straight fuck in front of the husband. Each to there own I know but it’s a sin not to get the best from a meet like a cuckolding meet , I suppose there are good bulls and wanabies then those who don’t think about what the cuckold wants shame really "

Cuckold play comes in many flavours but, in my experience, the greater the interaction and involvement of all involved, the greater the pleasure for everyone too.

Chuckle play with a couple is one of the most intense, intimate and exciting experiences you can enjoy. There is so much to share and enjoy.

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By *ulian701Man
5 weeks ago

Bicester


"For balance, any with positive feedback to share? "
I have some good feedback from cuckolding couple's I meet, I seem to have a different approach

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
5 weeks ago

Sheffield

Please see our profile , we have had 3 regular guys over nearly 15 yrs so difficult to find the right guys/groups even when we have a detailed profile with limits and requirements

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By *randmrsfuntobehadCouple
5 weeks ago

manchester


"Please see our profile , we have had 3 regular guys over nearly 15 yrs so difficult to find the right guys/groups even when we have a detailed profile with limits and requirements "

We tried but you’ve blocked us for some reason

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By *randmrsfuntobehadCouple
5 weeks ago

manchester

We’ve had one semi regular, one awkward around cuck, one great but lived too far away and one local but will only meet once.

We’ve been let down so many times it’s unreal. Puts us off booking hotels now and the clubs aren’t really our scene although we aim to try some this year

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By *dz69247Man
5 weeks ago

Manchester

It really does depend on the couple though, I love being a bull, but you have to play it the way the couple want.

I’ve had one where the couple wanted me to humiliate her husband, even before the meets, so this would include whatapp messages of what I’m going to do to his wife, pictures of my cock, and after a few meets pictures of me fucking his wife,

In the meet itself, he would sit there, and me and his wife would verbally abuse his, tell him how little his cock is worth, how much better sex was with me (and my mates sometimes, she was quite greedy). They would love it, and she would verbally abuse him as well has he cleaned up.

They liked the anticipation and build up more than the act to be fair, and daily she would be sending me pics, for me to send her partner, saying look what your wife is sending me. Also she would randomly turn up at my house on her own, but would only give me a blow job or I would I’ve her oral, we would film it, and she would send it him.

On the other side, I’ve had a couple, that only wanted me to cum in her. I would go to their house, he would open the door and tell me to go upstairs, she was laid in bed, I’d do the deed, he would then enter, clean her up whilst I recovered, then I’d go for round two with him watching, they didn’t say a word, I’d finish off, then I’d leave, leaving the couple too it.

Being a bull and having a cuck relationship is very complex, like anything, everyone is different, I prefer the former to the latter as I’m quite dom, but I just enjoy sex, so will usually fit in with what the couple wants, ironically most of the time the couple has no idea what they want, and that’s when your experience will help them.

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By *yeSureMan
5 weeks ago

Glasgow


"It really does depend on the couple though, I love being a bull, but you have to play it the way the couple want.

I’ve had one where the couple wanted me to humiliate her husband, even before the meets, so this would include whatapp messages of what I’m going to do to his wife, pictures of my cock, and after a few meets pictures of me fucking his wife,

In the meet itself, he would sit there, and me and his wife would verbally abuse his, tell him how little his cock is worth, how much better sex was with me (and my mates sometimes, she was quite greedy). They would love it, and she would verbally abuse him as well has he cleaned up.

They liked the anticipation and build up more than the act to be fair, and daily she would be sending me pics, for me to send her partner, saying look what your wife is sending me. Also she would randomly turn up at my house on her own, but would only give me a blow job or I would I’ve her oral, we would film it, and she would send it him.

On the other side, I’ve had a couple, that only wanted me to cum in her. I would go to their house, he would open the door and tell me to go upstairs, she was laid in bed, I’d do the deed, he would then enter, clean her up whilst I recovered, then I’d go for round two with him watching, they didn’t say a word, I’d finish off, then I’d leave, leaving the couple too it.

Being a bull and having a cuck relationship is very complex, like anything, everyone is different, I prefer the former to the latter as I’m quite dom, but I just enjoy sex, so will usually fit in with what the couple wants, ironically most of the time the couple has no idea what they want, and that’s when your experience will help them."

Interesting the difference in the dynamics

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By *ice_genuine_guyMan
5 weeks ago

lincoln

Cuckolding is more about the non bedroom activities, there has to be a dynamic in the couple that is open about it. In my experience 3 way group chats are a great way for the cuck too see the build up and wants/desires of the hotwife and bull.

Also love the bull telling cuck what lingerie to buy the hotwife etc. including all is the most fun and longer relationship

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By *ottsjake05Man
5 weeks ago

nottingham

Always wanted to explore being a cuck, would anyone want to help with this? I’ll give you my gfs snap and see if she’s a slut

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By *ovetoplease2471Man
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Love this - The build up in a group chat is as horny for me as the actual event. Love getting to know a couples dynamic and flexing my own responses.

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By *eventhheaven2022Couple
4 weeks ago

accrington


"I’m a Bull have been for a number of years now and had some really good meets in the past, also met some very nice people along the way , I have seen lots of friend only videos and I have noticed one thing that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore, The bull doesn’t participate in the verbal communication between the Hotwife and cuckold, why are the Bulls not going into any details on what there going to do or what they are doing or how the hotwife feels to them or telling the cuck how much she prefers her lovers cock over his, I know some cucks may not like it but joining in with some chat along with the hotwife speaking as a couple together some I have met in the past love it, imagination without going with the cuckolding theme it’s basically just a straight fuck in front of the husband. Each to there own I know but it’s a sin not to get the best from a meet like a cuckolding meet , I suppose there are good bulls and wanabies then those who don’t think about what the cuckold wants shame really

It’s not the way I do it 😉 It’s also down to the wives too, I take my cues from them mostly when it’s a first meet or couple I’m not very familiar with and there hasn’t been much message chat beforehand . The best way is to initially talk to the cuckold about how good his wife feels, maybe step it up with “such a horny bitch” kind of chat.. see how it goes… "

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By *eventhheaven2022Couple
4 weeks ago

accrington


"I’m a Bull have been for a number of years now and had some really good meets in the past, also met some very nice people along the way , I have seen lots of friend only videos and I have noticed one thing that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore, The bull doesn’t participate in the verbal communication between the Hotwife and cuckold, why are the Bulls not going into any details on what there going to do or what they are doing or how the hotwife feels to them or telling the cuck how much she prefers her lovers cock over his, I know some cucks may not like it but joining in with some chat along with the hotwife speaking as a couple together some I have met in the past love it, imagination without going with the cuckolding theme it’s basically just a straight fuck in front of the husband. Each to there own I know but it’s a sin not to get the best from a meet like a cuckolding meet , I suppose there are good bulls and wanabies then those who don’t think about what the cuckold wants shame really

It’s not the way I do it 😉 It’s also down to the wives too, I take my cues from them mostly when it’s a first meet or couple I’m not very familiar with and there hasn’t been much message chat beforehand . The best way is to initially talk to the cuckold about how good his wife feels, maybe step it up with “such a horny bitch” kind of chat.. see how it goes… "

Totally Agree with this xx

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By *awtywifeCouple
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

So many different levels to cucking,it depends on the cpl and what they want to enjoy

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By *yeSureMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Northallerton

The Bull has to fully understand what specifically the couple would like of him.

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By *wguy100Man
3 weeks ago

Exeter


"The Bull has to fully understand what specifically the couple would like of him."

I agree

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By *mudge354Man
3 weeks ago

Mid Sussex

The dynamic all depends on the mood of everyone. I used to meet a couple many years ago and sometime he joined in others just watched and take pictures. The lady used to degrade him and others is was very living. Like moat have said as long as it ticks the boxes for all involved then its right and fun.

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By *reekNyouMan
3 weeks ago

London


"The Bull has to fully understand what specifically the couple would like of him."

Absolutely.

This is vital to the whole dynamic.

Effectively, a good bull is there to serve the couples needs.

I'm happy to adapt. Humiliation if that's their thing, rough, pics and vids, tag team.

No issues. Just want all to be happy and fulfilled.

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By *igtasty121!Man
3 weeks ago

funtown


"We’ve had one semi regular, one awkward around cuck, one great but lived too far away and one local but will only meet once.

We’ve been let down so many times it’s unreal. Puts us off booking hotels now and the clubs aren’t really our scene although we aim to try some this year "

I mean what’s a guy meeting a cuck couple if he’s shy about sex in front of hubby.. surely that’s the whole point..

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By *neeyedwillieMan
3 weeks ago

Darlington

I've done the meeting a hot wife thing, I've done the stag and vixen thing. Done a few other things as well.

Never been asked (yet) to tell the cuck anything (not that I don't ask) or tell him what im going to do. I'm quite prepared to do certain things but..never been asked.

Only thing I have been asked for is cucks physical involvement in a bisexual manner which I'm not interested in.

I'm in complete agreement that when its couples you have to involve both. Same with my wife..she's a cuck herself but when I'm meeting someone else then I make sure she gets what she needs from it.

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By *iGuy197747Man
3 weeks ago

Stamford

I think there's a lot of fantasy on both sides of the equation. Guys typing with their cock in their other hand.

I've been a cuck and enjoyed it and now Bull as my wife is no longer in the lifestyle.

I used to get so many messages from Bulls that were simply "going to fuck your wife, cucky". Instant block and delete for me, although I accept that works for some couples. For me it's all about connection and pleasing the Hotwife, so the two sides of the equation aren't so different. I do always also make sure the cuck gets what he needs too, it's a delicate and nuanced relationship.

That's just my experience of course, and every couple is different. I just think the reality is very different from the porn / fantasy for most in the lifestyle.

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By *ulian701Man
2 weeks ago

Bicester


"I think the art of cuckolding has been missed in the mass media world we can access these days.

Most of us cucks have evolved in our relationships ensuring the bull is fully fluffed, guiding him in, fondling his balls as he fucks your wife, interaction between the three is important, the hotwife saying how big the bull feels, the bull talking to the hotwife and cuck as he does his job of servicing the hotwife.

Cuckolding can be an exhilarating experience for all concerned."

totally agree

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By *ulian701Man
2 weeks ago

Bicester


"If the couple are happy with what's going on, isn't that all that matters?"
it is, a bull who listens to a cuckolding couple's needs and desires is important

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By *ulian701Man
2 weeks ago

Bicester


"Just because the Hotwife enjoys it doesn’t make her a hotwife , a normal woman can enjoy a straight fuck but it’s not cuckolding though

I don't think we should be gatekeepers of how folks conduct their sex life "

exactly,its a totally personal experience a cuckolding couple and their bull and should be so

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By *ock4marriedwifeMan
3 days ago

Leeds

For me the main turn on is taking control of the wife while cuck watches from the corner and be allowed to dominate the wife.

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By *ings Road GentlemanMan
3 days ago

Kings Road, Chelsea.


"Please see our profile , we have had 3 regular guys over nearly 15 yrs so difficult to find the right guys/groups even when we have a detailed profile with limits and requirements "

What’s a shame you are miles away from london.

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By *etitehotwife4uCouple
2 days ago

wirral

None exist it seems local and gets it

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By *londeandhubbyCouple
2 days ago

Kent


"None exist it seems local and gets it"

Yep and if they do they are of low calibre! Need to be at least as attractive as hubby...

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By *lippy02Man
1 day ago

edinburgh


"For me the main turn on is taking control of the wife while cuck watches from the corner and be allowed to dominate the wife."

Yes this is an extremely horny experience and situation for us cuckold to enjoy

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