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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " I guess not, It would seem that some have firm feelings on gender etc, which is absolutely fair, I love just going with the flow and if that happens to involve a cock as well, then even better  | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " Nope. I stop because I am just not interested. Been told there is no such thing as straight after 6 pints of lager but again I disagree. Sober or d*unk I’m simply not interested in other guys. | |||
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"On here? Lol .. even in a group when it gets hot and heavy? " Yes even in a group. No idea why this is hard to believe? | |||
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"Why are straight people, mostly men, the only ones who ever have to justify themselves on here? If I say I'm straight it means I'm straight but yet people like to mock and say "ye right". If a woman says she is straight do people really see it as a challenge to prove to her that she is wrong? " Even after we explain it too many bi/gay guys think we are simply in denial. In the closet. Too repressed to own up to the truth about our sexual desires for another bloke. Laughable if it wasn’t so irritating. | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " I don't believe so, no I also hate bi-playful as a term A bloke chonking on another blokes cock is bi-sexual, playful or not I just think bi-playful isn't a helpful term, it's a bit of a cop out term for those that can't or won't admit to being bi-sexual Internalised homophobia runs strong on this site (and often about themselves) | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " But they are not though are they? | |||
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"They’re not. Really they’re not. A lot of people are straight. Or gay. " ^^ this. 100% | |||
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"For us, bi-playful is.. what ever happens at the time is fine. You just wouldn’t have a realTionship with opposite sex " You don't have to be in a relationship (or want one) with a member of the same sex to be bi-sexual You don't even need to be attracted to members of the same sex - you might just be turned in by having sex with them If there's a MMF situation and the blokes touch cocks or something similarly benign, it's an occupational hazard If one of the blokes slips the other guys cock in his mouth, it is a bi-sexual act - as it is for the other guy if he lets him carry on sucking It really is that black & white Believing otherwise, to me, is just kidding yourself - again probably linked to the internalised homophobia entrenched in us --- I will add the disclaimer, if two guys get it on, decide it isn't for them and put it down to experience, whilst at one point they were bi-curious, then engaged in a bi-sexual act, I think they can carry the straight mantle with them going forward | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " Could not be further from the truth, there are 100% straight men like myself, and one of the most irritating thing is people who cannot take no for a answer or try it on after boundaries are agreed. It does nothing to help improve mens reputation on here. T | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " I find it a bit strange that people believe this. There's lots of men and women who are absolutely 100% straight. My husband being one of them. | |||
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" If a woman says she is straight do people really see it as a challenge to prove to her that she is wrong? " Oh yes they do try | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " Not everyone but not all admit to it especially guys. Although hetroromantic I'm a proud cock sucker and prefer to be open about it so I can more easily meet bi couples when by myself and bi guys when with my kink partner. | |||
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"Each to their own boundaries respected but if it feels good why not? I suppose most on here are back in the day mindset just saying " Being straight isn't back in the day.. It's just being straight. | |||
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"Each to their own boundaries respected but if it feels good why not? I suppose most on here are back in the day mindset just saying Being straight isn't back in the day.. It's just being straight. " According to the ONS from the 2021 census 89.4% of the population are straight. Of course people can lie but not 89% of people. On this site, and others like it there's likely to be a higher percentage of non straight in varying degrees but it doesn't follow that everyone is a little bit bi. | |||
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"Each to their own boundaries respected but if it feels good why not? I suppose most on here are back in the day mindset just saying Being straight isn't back in the day.. It's just being straight. According to the ONS from the 2021 census 89.4% of the population are straight. Of course people can lie but not 89% of people. On this site, and others like it there's likely to be a higher percentage of non straight in varying degrees but it doesn't follow that everyone is a little bit bi." That's a lot of people for the bi mafia to convert. | |||
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"Nope, some people are straight - this is the type of statement that puts straight couples off meetings bi couples." A good point | |||
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"Each to their own boundaries respected but if it feels good why not? I suppose most on here are back in the day mindset just saying Being straight isn't back in the day.. It's just being straight. According to the ONS from the 2021 census 89.4% of the population are straight. Of course people can lie but not 89% of people. On this site, and others like it there's likely to be a higher percentage of non straight in varying degrees but it doesn't follow that everyone is a little bit bi." Where do they get this figure from though. Sure as hell they didn't ask 100% of the male population. | |||
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"They’re not. Really they’re not. A lot of people are straight. Or gay. ^^ this. 100%" Ditto this.. I find the whole assumption that not all men or women are straight to be pretty disrespectful .. It smacks of arrogance for the individual person and I say this as a bi (at times) bloke .. How we can expect those who prejudice LGBTQ to respect and accept others when some in this society who are LGBTQ don't afford the same to those who are straight..? | |||
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 exible is the term I believe, or at least that’s how Feeld puts it. It’s all a spectrum and some people are rigidly static on it whilst others are open to movement for a multitude of reasons. Just highlights the need for a clear conversation before engaging in activities, don’t want to overstep boundaries in the heat of the moment. | |||
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"Each to their own boundaries respected but if it feels good why not? I suppose most on here are back in the day mindset just saying Being straight isn't back in the day.. It's just being straight. According to the ONS from the 2021 census 89.4% of the population are straight. Of course people can lie but not 89% of people. On this site, and others like it there's likely to be a higher percentage of non straight in varying degrees but it doesn't follow that everyone is a little bit bi. Where do they get this figure from though. Sure as hell they didn't ask 100% of the male population. " I’m sure 89% of people didn’t lie - but maybe 50% did? There’s no way of knowing. Though to contradict myself - I did see a study that analysed pr0n sites and it seemed to match the results in that survey. 90% watch straight porn, 10% watching other…. Though it did have a caveat that nearly every user who had watched straight porn has also watched same-sex porn at some point | |||
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"They’re not. Really they’re not. A lot of people are straight. Or gay. ^^ this. 100% Ditto this.. I find the whole assumption that not all men or women are straight to be pretty disrespectful .. It smacks of arrogance for the individual person and I say this as a bi (at times) bloke .. How we can expect those who prejudice LGBTQ to respect and accept others when some in this society who are LGBTQ don't afford the same to those who are straight..?" Halle-fuckin-lujah! Common sense and understanding at last | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! Not everyone but not all admit to it especially guys. Although hetroromantic I'm a proud cock sucker and prefer to be open about it so I can more easily meet bi couples when by myself and bi guys when with my kink partner." I am exactly the same as above. I have also met Str8 couples. In the middle of the mfm a few hubbys have just gone down on me out of the blue. So I think many more men are curious then let on. | |||
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"Why are straight people, mostly men, the only ones who ever have to justify themselves on here? If I say I'm straight it means I'm straight but yet people like to mock and say "ye right". If a woman says she is straight do people really see it as a challenge to prove to her that she is wrong? " Yes they do. I have had several people on here telling me to be with a woman and that I won't know I don't like or dislike it until I try. The fact that I don't find women sexually attractive is ignored completely by them. I'm straight I'm not bi or bi curious and it's feck all to do with being homophobic or not open minded. It's my sexuality. It's who I am and I'm not going to pretend to be anything else to keep narrow minded individuals happy.Because that is how I see anyone who decides they get to tell or presume about others what their sexual preferences should be. | |||
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"Each to their own boundaries respected but if it feels good why not? I suppose most on here are back in the day mindset just saying Being straight isn't back in the day.. It's just being straight. According to the ONS from the 2021 census 89.4% of the population are straight. Of course people can lie but not 89% of people. On this site, and others like it there's likely to be a higher percentage of non straight in varying degrees but it doesn't follow that everyone is a little bit bi. Where do they get this figure from though. Sure as hell they didn't ask 100% of the male population. " Have a look on the ons website. I'm sure it will tell you how their stats are gathered. | |||
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"They’re not. Really they’re not. A lot of people are straight. Or gay. ^^ this. 100% Ditto this.. I find the whole assumption that not all men or women are straight to be pretty disrespectful .. It smacks of arrogance for the individual person and I say this as a bi (at times) bloke .. How we can expect those who prejudice LGBTQ to respect and accept others when some in this society who are LGBTQ don't afford the same to those who are straight..?" | |||
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"Why are straight people, mostly men, the only ones who ever have to justify themselves on here? If I say I'm straight it means I'm straight but yet people like to mock and say "ye right". If a woman says she is straight do people really see it as a challenge to prove to her that she is wrong? " Yes they do. It's the reason we no longer meet couples with a bi woman. Even if she does say 'happy to play straight '. We've had too many experiences where they just assume I'll change my mind. | |||
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"They’re not. Really they’re not. A lot of people are straight. Or gay. ^^ this. 100% Ditto this.. I find the whole assumption that not all men or women are straight to be pretty disrespectful .. It smacks of arrogance for the individual person and I say this as a bi (at times) bloke .. How we can expect those who prejudice LGBTQ to respect and accept others when some in this society who are LGBTQ don't afford the same to those who are straight..?" 100% this. | |||
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"Each to their own boundaries respected but if it feels good why not? I suppose most on here are back in the day mindset just saying Being straight isn't back in the day.. It's just being straight. According to the ONS from the 2021 census 89.4% of the population are straight. Of course people can lie but not 89% of people. On this site, and others like it there's likely to be a higher percentage of non straight in varying degrees but it doesn't follow that everyone is a little bit bi. Where do they get this figure from though. Sure as hell they didn't ask 100% of the male population. Have a look on the ons website. I'm sure it will tell you how their stats are gathered. " Yep...its from the 2021 census but think it was an optional question but it'll be as close as you can get. Think you are fined if you don't complete the census so the return rate is very high. | |||
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"Always go for it.... everyone is bi if the couple are sexy enough. Sarah xx" No! They aren't | |||
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"hahahaha brilliant.. I've not heard that one before. Sarah xx" The spaghetti one? If you use 'reply+quote' under the post you're replying to we know who you're answering | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " It's all mathematical. Statistically you'll have the Completely bi Very bi Somewhat bi Bi curious Single sexed (straight/gay)  | |||
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"Always go for it.... everyone is bi if the couple are sexy enough. Sarah xx" Really? 
You'd ignore someone's sexual orientation and boundaries if you thought they were sexy enough?
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! Nope. I stop because I am just not interested. Been told there is no such thing as straight after 6 pints of lager but again I disagree. Sober or d*unk I’m simply not interested in other guys." This. | |||
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"Why are straight people, mostly men, the only ones who ever have to justify themselves on here? If I say I'm straight it means I'm straight but yet people like to mock and say "ye right". If a woman says she is straight do people really see it as a challenge to prove to her that she is wrong? " I guess "No means, No." Doesn't apply to straight men. | |||
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"Always go for it.... everyone is bi if the couple are sexy enough. Sarah xx" Do you mean like all scousers will nick your car wheels, all black people use drugs and are yardies etc ? That sort of logic.. | |||
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"Always go for it.... everyone is bi if the couple are sexy enough. Sarah xx Do you mean like all scousers will nick your car wheels, all black people use drugs and are yardies etc ? That sort of logic.." I'd go with that all Scouse guys think they are funny | |||
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"Always go for it.... everyone is bi if the couple are sexy enough. Sarah xx Do you mean like all scousers will nick your car wheels, all black people use drugs and are yardies etc ? That sort of logic.. I'd go with that all Scouse guys think they are funny "Some of us are
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"Always go for it.... everyone is bi if the couple are sexy enough. Sarah xx" Wrong, I would never be with a woman no matter how hot she is. As others have said, this is what can put straight people off meeting bi couple's, when they assume we don't know our own minds and will change it. I have absolutely no issue with anyone being bi/gay/pan etc, but I do have a problem with those who will still try for bi play when I've made it clear I'm straight. | |||
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"If in the moment I'm not enjoying something I stop, just like I'd expect anyone else to do. Maybe I'm misreading this, but it feels like it's veering uncomfortably close to sexuality being a choice. Typically I have an issue with labels, they often restrict and force people to stay in the confines of their box. However, labels and stereotypes do have their place. Ultimately am I going to do something that I feel I'm going to regret? If yes stop, if no carry on." Well said! | |||
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"If in the moment I'm not enjoying something I stop, just like I'd expect anyone else to do. Maybe I'm misreading this, but it feels like it's veering uncomfortably close to sexuality being a choice. Typically I have an issue with labels, they often restrict and force people to stay in the confines of their box. However, labels and stereotypes do have their place. Ultimately am I going to do something that I feel I'm going to regret? If yes stop, if no carry on. Well said! " I don't care about labels, people need to grow up. We're all adults. If you're going to let a lable stop what you want to do or be, then that's you're own problem. People need to get over their own personal insecurities. | |||
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"If in the moment I'm not enjoying something I stop, just like I'd expect anyone else to do. Maybe I'm misreading this, but it feels like it's veering uncomfortably close to sexuality being a choice. Typically I have an issue with labels, they often restrict and force people to stay in the confines of their box. However, labels and stereotypes do have their place. Ultimately am I going to do something that I feel I'm going to regret? If yes stop, if no carry on. Well said! I don't care about labels, people need to grow up. We're all adults. If you're going to let a lable stop what you want to do or be, then that's you're own problem. People need to get over their own personal insecurities." I'm not sure that anyone has shown any insecurities, in fact just the opposite, it's people saying they know their own minds and preferences. Labels are useful when saying to someone what you are comfortable with rather than going into a long drawn out conversation when one word will do. | |||
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"If in the moment I'm not enjoying something I stop, just like I'd expect anyone else to do. Maybe I'm misreading this, but it feels like it's veering uncomfortably close to sexuality being a choice. Typically I have an issue with labels, they often restrict and force people to stay in the confines of their box. However, labels and stereotypes do have their place. Ultimately am I going to do something that I feel I'm going to regret? If yes stop, if no carry on. Well said! I don't care about labels, people need to grow up. We're all adults. If you're going to let a lable stop what you want to do or be, then that's you're own problem. People need to get over their own personal insecurities." The label straight seems to challenging some people. | |||
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I am just happy for people to be what THEY want, and that totally includes being straight... there's no need for any stigma about it whatever we choose.
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " No, definitely there are pure gay and pure straight people of both genders. Even more there is another controversial point that bi don’t exist and are just greedy straight or gay who can’t accept that. None of these statements are true! | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " Maybe it's not gender specific for me? But I've not met a girl that has given my the same fanny flatters as some men have...but maybe I will some day | |||
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"They’re not. Really they’re not. A lot of people are straight. Or gay. ^^ this. 100% Ditto this.. I find the whole assumption that not all men or women are straight to be pretty disrespectful .. It smacks of arrogance for the individual person and I say this as a bi (at times) bloke .. How we can expect those who prejudice LGBTQ to respect and accept others when some in this society who are LGBTQ don't afford the same to those who are straight..?" Totally agree | |||
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"Always go for it.... everyone is bi if the couple are sexy enough. Sarah xx" No, they’re not | |||
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"Actually I got a question and I dont care if it offends folks, to the men who are married but sleep with men behind their wifes back, why do you do it? Why not be truthful to yourself to who you are thats my question to y'all?" Surely it's not themselves they're deceiving? | |||
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"Actually I got a question and I dont care if it offends folks, to the men who are married but sleep with men behind their wifes back, why do you do it? Why not be truthful to yourself to who you are thats my question to y'all?" I don't see that much of a difference from married men who sleep with women behind their wives' backs. | |||
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"Actually I got a question and I dont care if it offends folks, to the men who are married but sleep with men behind their wifes back, why do you do it? Why not be truthful to yourself to who you are thats my question to y'all? Surely it's not themselves they're deceiving? " Your right they deceive everyone | |||
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"Actually I got a question and I dont care if it offends folks, to the men who are married but sleep with men behind their wifes back, why do you do it? Why not be truthful to yourself to who you are thats my question to y'all? I don't see that much of a difference from married men who sleep with women behind their wives' backs. " Oh it is different if you're a married man claiming to be straight why you sleeping with men behind your wifes back? If you want to with men thats kool be with a man but why deceive your wife and to then put her at a health risk? To me thats selfish and I dont a fuck if anyone has a problem with what Im saying its rassclart true | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " Also known as "fab straight" | |||
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"Actually I got a question and I dont care if it offends folks, to the men who are married but sleep with men behind their wifes back, why do you do it? Why not be truthful to yourself to who you are thats my question to y'all? I don't see that much of a difference from married men who sleep with women behind their wives' backs. Oh it is different if you're a married man claiming to be straight why you sleeping with men behind your wifes back? If you want to with men thats kool be with a man but why deceive your wife and to then put her at a health risk? To me thats selfish and I dont a fuck if anyone has a problem with what Im saying its rassclart true" It's a health risk if you fuck around without protection regardless of gender etc. There seems to be another issue here than is being transcribed | |||
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"Actually I got a question and I dont care if it offends folks, to the men who are married but sleep with men behind their wifes back, why do you do it? Why not be truthful to yourself to who you are thats my question to y'all? Surely it's not themselves they're deceiving? Your right they deceive everyone" Or maybe just the wife... I'm not sure that anyone else's opinion is relevant. Why does anyone think that everyone's personal life is public property? | |||
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"I'm that old fashioned kind if straight that's only attracted to women. Not into men or tv / ts. " Thank you, at least you get it | |||
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"I never use to eat peppers, didn't like them at all. Now however I do. I may stop liking them again in the future. People are fluid, always in flux. Asking me to define myself by a preference I had in the early 90s is about as productive as basing your identity on your preferred type of vegetable." Peppers are a fruit dude... be honest yo yourself | |||
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"I never use to eat peppers, didn't like them at all. Now however I do. I may stop liking them again in the future. People are fluid, always in flux. Asking me to define myself by a preference I had in the early 90s is about as productive as basing your identity on your preferred type of vegetable." I'm no expert but dietary preference might be a different ball game to sexual orientation? We are constantly told that people are "born that way", if that's true, not sure favouring a capsicum because your tastes have changed is the same as favouring a bit of cock? | |||
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"I never use to eat peppers, didn't like them at all. Now however I do. I may stop liking them again in the future. People are fluid, always in flux. Asking me to define myself by a preference I had in the early 90s is about as productive as basing your identity on your preferred type of vegetable. I'm no expert but dietary preference might be a different ball game to sexual orientation? We are constantly told that people are "born that way", if that's true, not sure favouring a capsicum because your tastes have changed is the same as favouring a bit of cock? " My point is, that many people lock themselves into a mindset but often that can change back and forth across a lifetime. Often this can happen a bit early on. I know quite a few people who came out as gay only to notice they felt bi later in life. People like Bowie came out as bi and retracted it later and said he was straight and a load of us thought we were straight until we met the right individual. The genitalia often are irrelevant. I know with age this certainly feels more true from my own life's experience | |||
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"No Im asking why men who are married to women sleep with men behind their backs but claim their straight which clearly the're not simple question really which requires a simple answer" Sure, but then you're adding unnecessary baggage onto the question. | |||
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"I never use to eat peppers, didn't like them at all. Now however I do. I may stop liking them again in the future. People are fluid, always in flux. Asking me to define myself by a preference I had in the early 90s is about as productive as basing your identity on your preferred type of vegetable. I'm no expert but dietary preference might be a different ball game to sexual orientation? We are constantly told that people are "born that way", if that's true, not sure favouring a capsicum because your tastes have changed is the same as favouring a bit of cock? My point is, that many people lock themselves into a mindset but often that can change back and forth across a lifetime. Often this can happen a bit early on. I know quite a few people who came out as gay only to notice they felt bi later in life. People like Bowie came out as bi and retracted it later and said he was straight and a load of us thought we were straight until we met the right individual. The genitalia often are irrelevant. I know with age this certainly feels more true from my own life's experience " Interesting argument. So orientation can change through evolution, environment, behavioural factors not just from birth? | |||
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"If in the moment I'm not enjoying something I stop, just like I'd expect anyone else to do. Maybe I'm misreading this, but it feels like it's veering uncomfortably close to sexuality being a choice. Typically I have an issue with labels, they often restrict and force people to stay in the confines of their box. However, labels and stereotypes do have their place. Ultimately am I going to do something that I feel I'm going to regret? If yes stop, if no carry on. Well said! I don't care about labels, people need to grow up. We're all adults. If you're going to let a lable stop what you want to do or be, then that's you're own problem. People need to get over their own personal insecurities." And this just about sums up the entitlement/arrogance/ ingonrance of some people. A label is a discription of you as a person, by trying to get rid of labels its basically the mindset that i can have anyone i want and no one should challenge me. Imagine going into a supermarket and all the food was in the same packaging how would we find what we want? T | |||
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"I never use to eat peppers, didn't like them at all. Now however I do. I may stop liking them again in the future. People are fluid, always in flux. Asking me to define myself by a preference I had in the early 90s is about as productive as basing your identity on your preferred type of vegetable. I'm no expert but dietary preference might be a different ball game to sexual orientation? We are constantly told that people are "born that way", if that's true, not sure favouring a capsicum because your tastes have changed is the same as favouring a bit of cock? My point is, that many people lock themselves into a mindset but often that can change back and forth across a lifetime. Often this can happen a bit early on. I know quite a few people who came out as gay only to notice they felt bi later in life. People like Bowie came out as bi and retracted it later and said he was straight and a load of us thought we were straight until we met the right individual. The genitalia often are irrelevant. I know with age this certainly feels more true from my own life's experience Interesting argument. So orientation can change through evolution, environment, behavioural factors not just from birth? " Yours did - over time I assume you don't find the same age bracket attractive as you once did, or constantly over your life time. What about your kinks? | |||
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"Straight guys - when your wank, does your cock feel nice in your hand? Does it feel gay wanking a cock until it comes? " Does gay not mean being attracted to another person of the same sex ? So if I wank myself that's not another person.....bit of a strange argument I think. | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " I’m bi playful in the sense I’ll have group fun with other women that includes men, I’ll kiss cos guys like it, and they can touch me. But i wouldn’t ever touch women or be interested in meeting 1:1 or dating them. Each to their own I guess! | |||
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"Straight guys - when your wank, does your cock feel nice in your hand? Does it feel gay wanking a cock until it comes? " Mate, get a grip.. Celibate people have genitals too, does that mean they're also bi curious in your opinion? Medical staff in the course of their duties touch genitals, it doesn't mean they are sexually attracted to the person.. | |||
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"Sadly no, appreciate I’m missing out but have no interest in women and am sexually repulsed by them. " Fair point | |||
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"No Im asking why men who are married to women sleep with men behind their backs but claim their straight which clearly the're not simple question really which requires a simple answer Sure, but then you're adding unnecessary baggage onto the question." I have to Im afraid because I feel people are avoiding honest discussions for the the sake of avoiding accountibility. Now just slighty coming off topic here I know someone who was with a guy and he cheated on her with another man. Obviously cheating is bad regardless who does it but with this scenario was a particular one because this guy according to her was quite or appeared homophobic so for him to be sleeping with men behind her back Im sure some of you with a heart can imagine the psychological and traumatisation she went through when finding out. In fact it was bad that she ended up harming herself. I just think when certain men who do that dont know what affect or harm they may cause simply because they're not being about themselves | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " Some people aren’t Bi… i have absolutely no interest in sexual contact with another man. Just the way im wired | |||
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"No Im asking why men who are married to women sleep with men behind their backs but claim their straight which clearly the're not simple question really which requires a simple answer Sure, but then you're adding unnecessary baggage onto the question. I have to Im afraid because I feel people are avoiding honest discussions for the the sake of avoiding accountibility. Now just slighty coming off topic here I know someone who was with a guy and he cheated on her with another man. Obviously cheating is bad regardless who does it but with this scenario was a particular one because this guy according to her was quite or appeared homophobic so for him to be sleeping with men behind her back Im sure some of you with a heart can imagine the psychological and traumatisation she went through when finding out. In fact it was bad that she ended up harming herself. I just think when certain men who do that dont know what affect or harm they may cause simply because they're not being about themselves " Men lie. Women lie. This is just called being human , many humans are secretive in their own ways / beliefs / stigma , they don’t think about damage / collateral as such until after . Being deceitful/ secretive is themselves for millions of people , it’s their personality . Cheating is cheating , the woman was pissed as she got a double whammy of him cheating and him also being bisexual so she felt lied to on two Fronts and had time wasted . If someone cheated on me it then the act of cheating is the disrespect and would result in termination of relationship immediately, not the person they cheated with affecting my view on it . | |||
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"No Im asking why men who are married to women sleep with men behind their backs but claim their straight which clearly the're not simple question really which requires a simple answer Sure, but then you're adding unnecessary baggage onto the question. I have to Im afraid because I feel people are avoiding honest discussions for the the sake of avoiding accountibility. Now just slighty coming off topic here I know someone who was with a guy and he cheated on her with another man. Obviously cheating is bad regardless who does it but with this scenario was a particular one because this guy according to her was quite or appeared homophobic so for him to be sleeping with men behind her back Im sure some of you with a heart can imagine the psychological and traumatisation she went through when finding out. In fact it was bad that she ended up harming herself. I just think when certain men who do that dont know what affect or harm they may cause simply because they're not being about themselves " But they are being themselves. It may not be the way you want them to be but far too many people spend far too much time wishing other people would be different than "themselves". | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " I have always been bu curious, love a woman to play with and love a nice big ripe juicy pair ???? | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " I am not phobic about it but simply not interested at all. I does nothing for me. However, considering the number of men who are bi on here, it almost looks like it is compulsory.  | |||
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"No Im asking why men who are married to women sleep with men behind their backs but claim their straight which clearly the're not simple question really which requires a simple answer Sure, but then you're adding unnecessary baggage onto the question. I have to Im afraid because I feel people are avoiding honest discussions for the the sake of avoiding accountibility. Now just slighty coming off topic here I know someone who was with a guy and he cheated on her with another man. Obviously cheating is bad regardless who does it but with this scenario was a particular one because this guy according to her was quite or appeared homophobic so for him to be sleeping with men behind her back Im sure some of you with a heart can imagine the psychological and traumatisation she went through when finding out. In fact it was bad that she ended up harming herself. I just think when certain men who do that dont know what affect or harm they may cause simply because they're not being about themselves But they are being themselves. It may not be the way you want them to be but far too many people spend far too much time wishing other people would be different than "themselves". " I disagree, when a guy tells you his straight but sleep with men how is that being themselves? Like I said people can be who they are without judgement if they're honest about it however I will judge you when you lie about it | |||
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"Straight guys - when your wank, does your cock feel nice in your hand? Does it feel gay wanking a cock until it comes? " Although this was just a tongue in cheek comment not meant to be taken serious, so far I've had a few guys reply privately saying they've often thought that it was a bit gay to do it. Personally , I find it's all the other cock in my life that means I'm not straight  | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " Rule nothing out... go with the flow Pm sent | |||
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! " Definitely for me and in a 3way I sucked a cock, and I would probably do again | |||
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"I do not find men attractive " Neither do I, it's more about the sex rather than attraction. | |||
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"Well there are a lot more bi guys out there than they would care to admit." Yeah! I don't know why guys say I would never ect, at the end of the day it's just sex not necessarily a life choice. | |||
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"I've had opening messages from couples telling me I'm too old and too straight for this site and I would never have any success here but if I agreed to play bi they would consider adding me to their to-do list. When I challenged them on how successful this approach was they said I was an idiot because I was the first to ever turn them down and it was my loss. In the forums I've been told numerous times that I'm afraid of my true sexuality and that I needed to stop being so closed minded and start exploring more. I often wonder if I was to contact any of those profiles making demands or telling them how wrong they were in their preferences how long it would take them to start a thread here whinging about guys not respecting boundaries? You will respect me when I say I am straight or you will get an equally ignorant or ridiculous response." Exactly this!!! And I've had multiple men and myself and None of the hats were bi or gay they simply weren't interested in the other males around except to hold my hair back hold my legs open hold the camera etc! | |||
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"On here? Lol .. even in a group when it gets hot and heavy? Yes even in a group. No idea why this is hard to believe?" does seem to be hard to believe on here, we have had straight couples where the female has been wanting ff play, and worst so far a female part of a couple in a club with no conversation or anything trying to "touch up" my lady. now weve played with bi blokes before that have respected boundaries, with no issues, but weve experienced alot of people that cant accept straight people with no interest in the same sex on here. | |||
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"Fun is fun…. I’m not shy any more… "Oh do tell | |||
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"Why are straight people, mostly men, the only ones who ever have to justify themselves on here? If I say I'm straight it means I'm straight but yet people like to mock and say "ye right". If a woman says she is straight do people really see it as a challenge to prove to her that she is wrong? " It's because most men lie on here. Alot of couples and women won't play with bi men, so alot og guys put straight instead. Straight men playing with tvs too. (Nope, your bi) | |||
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"As long as you dont touch anyone who says no and are all consenting adults it doesnt matter at all so why worry about whether someone is bi or straight. I think trying to ‘convert’ someone is absolutely wrong or accidentally on purpose touching them. If someone is bi they will discover it themselves in their own time. Just enjoy being you and respect others wishes please. " Absolutely x | |||
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"The best kind of party is when we play and bi content is there. It doesn’t matter what happens when we play, so long as it’s fun and pleasurable. Staying true to your convictions isn’t a crime. Do what you believe is right. " totally agree. Each to their own. As a bi man I am happy to play straight or bi. I will always respect people's boundaries. It's all about consent and having fun. | |||
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