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We are struggling to get a meet x

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By *oots11 OP   Couple
23 weeks ago

wirral

It’s been so long since we had a meet up x lots of time wasters is this a thing at the moment??

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't think so, same as always.

3/4 way attraction is hard online especially when one is missing....

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By *et and WillingCouple
23 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Weve been on and off here for about 7 years , patience is defo the name of the game. Yep lots of fakes and time wasters but it will happen. Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"It’s been so long since we had a meet up x lots of time wasters is this a thing at the moment??"

Maybe it's because you live so far away

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By *andPextraCouple
23 weeks ago

North West

The amount of people who contact us and then actually follow through with even being able to arrange a phone call is staggeringly small.

1 out of 50 perhaps?

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By *oots11 OP   Couple
23 weeks ago

wirral


"It’s been so long since we had a meet up x lots of time wasters is this a thing at the moment??

Maybe it's because you live so far away "

lol from where ????

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By *oots11 OP   Couple
23 weeks ago

wirral


"The amount of people who contact us and then actually follow through with even being able to arrange a phone call is staggeringly small.

1 out of 50 perhaps? "

Well we would back out of meeting with you guys wow xxxxx

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By *heGuesthouseYorkMan
23 weeks ago

york

And so am I too many time wasters I wouldn’t waste anyone’s time

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By *erryGoldMan
23 weeks ago

Redditch


"It’s been so long since we had a meet up x lots of time wasters is this a thing at the moment??"

I'd love to meet you if I was closer

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
23 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

Well soft swing only is a bit of a niche interest, so it's likely to take you longer to find a couple.

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By *ustAnotherMan
23 weeks ago

wherever I may roam

Well I'd not turn down meeting you guys so must be something crazy in the water up there

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By *ackal1Couple
23 weeks ago

Manchester


"It’s been so long since we had a meet up x lots of time wasters is this a thing at the moment??"

Lots of time wasters has always been a thing on fab. However with a body like yours and a lovely profile it certainly won’t be long there is a nice queue forming.

Soft swing can be great fun if you enjoy the whole social aspect as well. It’s what you make of the evening ( or daytime).

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"It’s been so long since we had a meet up x lots of time wasters is this a thing at the moment??

Maybe it's because you live so far away

lol from where ????"

From me

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By *oxy jWoman
23 weeks ago

somerset

a very high number of people on this site and others dont meet full stop and then add in those who dont play often then add in fake profiles ran by single men / or old couples profiles where there is no longer a woman involved then add is the personal stuff like sexual attraction then it becomes hard in fact we stopped looking for couples online years ago

we are lucky in that we been on the scene quite a long while and personally know loads we keep that fresh with club vist and private parties ...its the same with women as with couples too much easier to go on a night out than online..

fab for us/me is guys and again my eggs are not all in one basket so i really dont need to rely on fab ...

fab is by far the best site too so tho its hard its way way better than other sites .... another thing is most people on here are not swingers and tho theres nothing wrong with that it does make the site harder or harder to seek playmates

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By *offandTimCouple
23 weeks ago

Glasgow

The soft swap thing wouldn't put us off, in fact, some of our best meets have been like this, just a few drinks together and some naughtiness.

Personally, even if we lived closer, we probably wouldn't message you guys simply because there are no pics of your other half. Obviously you can send pics, all I mean is it would stop us messaging you guys in the first place.

Tim x

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By *inkycoupleofscotsCouple
23 weeks ago

Stirling-ish


"The soft swap thing wouldn't put us off, in fact, some of our best meets have been like this, just a few drinks together and some naughtiness.

Personally, even if we lived closer, we probably wouldn't message you guys simply because there are no pics of your other half. Obviously you can send pics, all I mean is it would stop us messaging you guys in the first place.

Tim x

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2nd that, we both like yo know who we are talking to, so if there is only pics of either m or f then we tend to leave it. been burned a few times by those sorts of profiles. (not saying you're one of them)

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"The soft swap thing wouldn't put us off, in fact, some of our best meets have been like this, just a few drinks together and some naughtiness.

Personally, even if we lived closer, we probably wouldn't message you guys simply because there are no pics of your other half. Obviously you can send pics, all I mean is it would stop us messaging you guys in the first place.

Tim x

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Theres pics of both isnt there. We say soft swing on ours but never say never. Weve only ever arranged to do a social so far on here and that was a disaster so its shaky ground on here.

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By *ornycougaWoman
23 weeks ago

MOROCCO Wherever I lay my hat

You are fishing in a small pond: no single guys, age range and soft swap. Nothing wrong with any of those requirements but it does mean you are very limited and the people you want will no doubt be very much in demand

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
23 weeks ago

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You could try and attend a few clubs, Introducing yourselves to the scene then arrange a few socials if you get along with any couples you meet

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By *ee1967Man
23 weeks ago

watford

So many time wasters.ive had 8 confirmed meets, locations times the lost. All cancel

Feeling very very disheartened

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