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are the younger generation of guys getting more childish

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
23 weeks ago

somerset

now bear with me this is not an attack ive alway met younger guys along with older guys but ...

a big but nearly every message i get from guys now under 30yrs old are all childish teens type porn driven drivel some real tame some real creepy and some a real worry to be honest why so many young guys like this its deffo got worse are young guys losing touch we reality real life sex why does everything have to be so extreme or ultra out there..

mind you that last bit about why everything so extreme and ultra out there is to be honest not just younger guys its most guys but i just dont understand the childish outlook that seems to have gotten way way worse to the point im seriously thinking of upping my age limit ...

not all of course or is it just me

keep on thread i dont want dm's thanks

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By *ot to giggleWoman
23 weeks ago

Coventry

i think its a maturity thing - as much as we want to stay the same, immature things start to grate! I say its not about age but maturity .

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

We are great to meet but some of us might be really immature, maybe there just having a laugh on the site and don’t care to much or maybe there genuinely immature

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
23 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Nah.

There's childish pornfed pricks among all the generations on here

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By *hoirCouple
23 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"now bear with me this is not an attack ive alway met younger guys along with older guys but ...

a big but nearly every message i get from guys now under 30yrs old are all childish teens type porn driven drivel some real tame some real creepy and some a real worry to be honest why so many young guys like this its deffo got worse are young guys losing touch we reality real life sex why does everything have to be so extreme or ultra out there..

mind you that last bit about why everything so extreme and ultra out there is to be honest not just younger guys its most guys but i just dont understand the childish outlook that seems to have gotten way way worse to the point im seriously thinking of upping my age limit ...

not all of course or is it just me

keep on thread i dont want dm's thanks

"

It's not just men. There is a major push to infantilise people nowadays and it's creepy.

C

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

As someone who is new to this site and in the age bracket your describing that gives me little hope of finding my feet on here and I’v always been told I come across as very mature since the age of 20 or so , and I’d like to think that’s true as I’m all about respect for others and myself as you should always treat others how you would want them to treat you , but as someone said before me maybe there just taking the piss and have found themselves on the wrong site thinking anyone and everyone will just be up for a quicky no questions asked while throwing all etiquette out the window , I’m hoping to find a few people to get to know and actually get into this type of scene so hopefully not all of us are painted with the same brush and I don’t mean that as any disrespect to the op

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By *uenevereWoman
23 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

It's not an age thing, it's a certain type of man.

I'm not meeting and when I do, I'm looking to meet ladies. Despite this I mostly get messages from men who are over 40 and clearly have no clue

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By *AYENCouple
23 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

The whole site now seems to be porn fed. Guys use the site to flash their cocks and boast about how many times they can wank per day or how many times they can cum in one minute. It's really quite sad, and it probably won't change much regardless of age criteria. K.

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By *arla SwingerWoman
23 weeks ago

Somewhere

I get quite a few messages off men asking if I'm 'interested in young guys/fit young blokes'... Check out their age and they're like 35?!

So, plenty out there clearly not wanting to regard themselves as what I'd consider middle aged

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By *ostindreamsMan
23 weeks ago

London

Maybe because people aren't socialising as they used to in the past and aren't aware of social etiquette when they start chatting with others?

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Turning 33 next week, my hairline is anything but childish

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"i think its a maturity thing - as much as we want to stay the same, immature things start to grate! I say its not about age but maturity . "

And as we mature like fine wine ... the younger ones are getting relatively younger.

Mind you plenty of men-child's I their 50's.

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
23 weeks ago

somerset


"Maybe because people aren't socialising as they used to in the past and aren't aware of social etiquette when they start chatting with others?"

i think this is a problem for all as social media and smart phones rules lots of peoples lives i find people of all ages getting worse at socializing ..

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
23 weeks ago

somerset


"i think its a maturity thing - as much as we want to stay the same, immature things start to grate! I say its not about age but maturity . "

you know what i think there maybe alot of truth in that

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
23 weeks ago

somerset


"now bear with me this is not an attack ive alway met younger guys along with older guys but ...

a big but nearly every message i get from guys now under 30yrs old are all childish teens type porn driven drivel some real tame some real creepy and some a real worry to be honest why so many young guys like this its deffo got worse are young guys losing touch we reality real life sex why does everything have to be so extreme or ultra out there..

mind you that last bit about why everything so extreme and ultra out there is to be honest not just younger guys its most guys but i just dont understand the childish outlook that seems to have gotten way way worse to the point im seriously thinking of upping my age limit ...

not all of course or is it just me

keep on thread i dont want dm's thanks

It's not just men. There is a major push to infantilise people nowadays and it's creepy.

C"

i meet as many women as i do men and i meet regular and just from a swinging point i dont find younger women immature and as horny as they are not porn infected ...

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
23 weeks ago

somerset


"i think its a maturity thing - as much as we want to stay the same, immature things start to grate! I say its not about age but maturity .

And as we mature like fine wine ... the younger ones are getting relatively younger.

Mind you plenty of men-child's I their 50's."

this is very true maybe its men as a whole more so than just younger and when i say as a whole

i dont mean all before anyone gets there knixs in a twist

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
23 weeks ago

somerset


"Turning 33 next week, my hairline is anything but childish "

and whats your hairline got to do with this subject ???

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By *lackMetalMan
23 weeks ago

Centre


"now bear with me this is not an attack ive alway met younger guys along with older guys but ...

a big but nearly every message i get from guys now under 30yrs old are all childish teens type porn driven drivel some real tame some real creepy and some a real worry to be honest why so many young guys like this its deffo got worse are young guys losing touch we reality real life sex why does everything have to be so extreme or ultra out there..

mind you that last bit about why everything so extreme and ultra out there is to be honest not just younger guys its most guys but i just dont understand the childish outlook that seems to have gotten way way worse to the point im seriously thinking of upping my age limit ...

not all of course or is it just me

keep on thread i dont want dm's thanks

It's not just men. There is a major push to infantilise people nowadays and it's creepy.

C"

Major push?

It’s already happened with social media and especially TikTok.

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By *ester.jamesMan
23 weeks ago

birmingham

It’s a weird thing to see but I know what you mean. When I’ve spoke with people my age I can definitely see a large difference between how we all talk

Some keep it classy respectful and a lil cheeky

Others barely type full sentences or words and expect it to work

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By *r_LickCouple
23 weeks ago

aberdeen


"Turning 33 next week, my hairline is anything but childish

and whats your hairline got to do with this subject ??? "

I think it was meant as a joke.

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By *ony MannMan
23 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

It's possible that freely available porn has created a forlorn hope and then discovering a swinging site think its a bunch of sex mad swingers.

I imagine that after a few years that group of individuals will leave or grow up, only to be replaced by more learning the ropes.

For me, porn has had its day, when I was at school, it has no effect on me now.

Tony

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By *4bimMan
23 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

A lack of a strong father figure in a family that installs values and manners.

Possibly but I wouldn't know.

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By *oxy j OP   Woman
23 weeks ago

somerset


"Turning 33 next week, my hairline is anything but childish

and whats your hairline got to do with this subject ???

I think it was meant as a joke. "

hence the green smiley

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By *idlandiaMan
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

Limited source size and difference in backgrounds, but the guys I work with who are mid to late 20s exhibit behaviour I saw when I was 16 and its mentally painful

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By *assy LassieWoman
23 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"It's not an age thing, it's a certain type of man.

I'm not meeting and when I do, I'm looking to meet ladies. Despite this I mostly get messages from men who are over 40 and clearly have no clue"

Same I find guys over 55 the worst. Its as if they don't know how to speak to women. But the entitlement is off the scale

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By *hesubtlegentMan
23 weeks ago

surrey

No one socialises properly anymore, porn is freely accessible on the internet and most guys think that the porn approach is normal. Most are keyboard warriors that think with their cock and conclude that women here are gagging for it so would love to have a cock pic sent as it’s bound to tip them over the edge and beg for the sender to sort them out good and proper…

On the whole, the lack of respect in the real world is disappearing fast so it’s bound to be a million times worse here….

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
23 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

But haven't people over 50 always thought that people under 30 were incredibly immature?

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
23 weeks ago

St Neots


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Same I find guys over 55 the worst. Its as if they don't know how to speak to women. But the entitlement is off the scale"

We've found this too. We've actually found younger guys communicate alot better and more likely to put full sentences together

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By *uriouskinksCouple
23 weeks ago

PORTSMOUTH

This has become more of an attack on a certain age group when in fact it's men of all ages. Some of the messages we get just make toes curl. The block button comes in very handy.

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By *hipdaleCouple
23 weeks ago

Greenhithe

We find it's mainly younger guys who are very childish ie porn driven , but also get a few of the older generation the same , it's jus a shame they all look at the pictures and videos but dint read the profiles

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