FabSwingers.com forum: Mixed emotions when sharing wife

By *entnewcpl OP Couple
36 weeks ago

faversham

I absolutely love watching my wife fuck other men, not sure why but nothing turns me on more I’m completely s8 but sometimes I can’t help but feel it’s a bit wrong of me to like it , she loves it but also sometimes feels that she should not enjoy it .

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By *eeds fun guyMan
36 weeks ago

yorkshire

Maybe it is because she looks so hot you want to share her and she likes to be shared maybe too, also may think if you did not share she may let’s say wander and this way you can both have fun and keep really tight together ?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Hope I feel the same when we do.

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By *oxy jWoman
36 weeks ago

somerset

if your not sure then dont do it as it could ruin your relationship later on both should be 100% committed anything other than 100% wont work

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By *hurrock couple for funCouple
36 weeks ago

Thurrock

Would love to hear your honest opinion on my wife

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By *ark n kimCouple
36 weeks ago

Durham

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By *ark n kimCouple
36 weeks ago

Durham

I know exactly what you mean.you think why should I like this when it someone i love.

Plenty men do love it myself included.

Complicated thing the brain.

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By *ark n kimCouple
36 weeks ago

Durham

Will also say you need to have a very strong and trusting relationship.

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By *ildmanYorksMan
36 weeks ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

"Would love to hear your honest opinion on my wife "

Bring her to me and I'll show you my honest opinion of her

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By *arriedLookingMan
36 weeks ago

Dumfries

I’d love to watch my wife fucked by another man.

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By *unfun1231Man
36 weeks ago

Wrexham

Any 1 fancy chatting and swoping pictures? Message me

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By *hilledguy2020Man
36 weeks ago

Gateshead

I love to play with hot wives and have full respect for both husbanx and wife as it shows how strong they are togetherx

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By *701Man
36 weeks ago

bray

I think it's more when they look that amazing and you stand back and see them reaching them orgasms and really getting what they want it turns you on cause when your with them sometimes yous just can't always come at the same time

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By *ot_spicedCouple
36 weeks ago

Queenstown

Absolutely love watching her with someone else.

Who can't love watching their partner having lots of pleasure?

For us, it's a two way thing. She also gets off watching me with someone

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By *helroyCouple
36 weeks ago

Skegness

been doing mfm 3 sums now for lot of years love them and seeing wife getting lots of pleasure

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By *uncouplerk40Couple
36 weeks ago

"I know exactly what you mean.you think why should I like this when it someone i love.

Plenty men do love it myself included.

Complicated thing the brain."

This is it for us

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By *ee And MikeCouple
36 weeks ago

Cannock

"I absolutely love watching my wife fuck other men, not sure why but nothing turns me on more I’m completely s8 but sometimes I can’t help but feel it’s a bit wrong of me to like it , she loves it but also sometimes feels that she should not enjoy it .

It’s not jealousy just some times feel like I should not have such deviant thought about my wife lol We been doing it on and of for years so it’s not like it’s a new emotion does anyone else experience these emotions, ? "

To some in the world they probably wouldn’t understand that one minute you are at the altar in church taking sacred vows and the next you are watching your wife ride another guys cock enjoying herself.

At the end of the day I think most wives enjoy being wanted by other guys and enjoy the thrill of riding other guys cocks.

We are a cuckold couple so the idea of her being attractive to other guys has always been a massive thing for me and makes me proud and watching her get fucked is like your own personal porn movie !

Don’t worry about it and just enjoy the ride, or rather let her enjoy the ride lol

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By *ovelifecoupleCouple
36 weeks ago

North Yorks

"Will also say you need to have a very strong and trusting relationship."

That is so true, and essential!

Just love to watch her enjoy herself with a guy, a girl or a couple. Best not to over analyse. xxxx

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
36 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I love sharing my wife and being cuckolded but at the same time doubt myself as its not the normal. As a man I should be jealous and not sexually turned on by her being used by others haha its a moral dilemma at times lol

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By *irtyKittenCouple
36 weeks ago

Southampton

"I love sharing my wife and being cuckolded but at the same time doubt myself as its not the normal. As a man I should be jealous and not sexually turned on by her being used by others haha its a moral dilemma at times lol"

It's what we have been programmed to think is normal, so us swingers, wife swappers etc are seen as not normal.

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
36 weeks ago

Edinburgh

True, it doesn't phase my wife as to her, it's just sex. Obviously itssomething i would never dream of telling my friends haha.

It's what we have been programmed to think is normal, so us swingers, wife swappers etc are seen as not normal."

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By *otwifeleaCouple
36 weeks ago

West yorkshire

I think this is part of the dynamic for us. As the guy. I love it when my wife is letting her hair down and being "naughty" by breaking her marriage vows.

Its something we use in dirty talk after she has played.

Yes it's not something we would tell all our friends we do. But that feeling that we shouldn't be doing it is something we use and both enjoy that feeling. It's certainly a turn on for her too. She feels naughty before if messaging other guys. During and after the experience.

I will often say "should a married woman be messaging other guys" if she's on her phone with a guy. and she will say no. Then we end up having great sex

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By *ilyandronCouple
36 weeks ago

Bristol

It’s prob my favourite thing. Lily does a solo meet, films it and I watch back at my leisure. Fantastic. Ron.

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By *ameskathCouple
36 weeks ago

london

se love this dynamic and the reclaim is so intense

Love to chat with fellow sharers

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By *inkyRebelMan
36 weeks ago

Swindon

Watched my wife fuck another man last night, so hot

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By *23RouteCouple
36 weeks ago

Huddersfield

It’s very horny , we both enjoy it !

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

It might be symptoms like Postcoital Dysphoria? A kind of come down after sex. I get it sometimes. The thrill and sometimes risk of the act once done you get a massive guilt/low.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"se love this dynamic and the reclaim is so intense

Love to chat with fellow sharers"

We concur withi this

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

It can make a guy feel jealous afterwards for sure

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By *umagain58Man
36 weeks ago

London

Yes it’s not for all and unless comfortable doing I would not recommend. I have been swinging with and without my wife for very long time. It works well for us both. There is a thrill in taking a guys wife in front of them. In some cases they do feel guilty so best to be sure what want and like

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By *elboy1978Man
36 weeks ago

Jarrow

I would fuck someone’s wife if I had the chance to

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By *hesubtlegentMan
36 weeks ago

surrey

"Would love to hear your honest opinion on my wife "

Your profile is hidden so can’t offer an opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I'd guess it's a hang up from growing up in a vanilla society. For most here there's probably a distinct line between love and sex. One that can be happily blurred between a loving couple, but also the ability to enjoy sex for just that, sex. It's a recreational activity that can be enjoyed without the necessity for love. Only you'll know if the feeling you feel are more trouble than it's worth. Keep talking to each in the honest way you have been and you should be fine. I'd guess it's a perfectly normal way of thinking tbh.

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By *ublincouple2014Couple
36 weeks ago

city

The reclaim sex is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I adore watching Sazz fuck other men, and it makes our sex together later even better. She enjoys being enjoyed, so what's not to like!

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By *ogerroger69Man
36 weeks ago

West Yorks

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By *ogerroger69Man
36 weeks ago

West Yorks

At the end of the day I think most wives enjoy being wanted by other guys and enjoy the thrill of riding other guys cocks.

We are a cuckold couple so the idea of her being attractive to other guys has always been a massive thing for me and makes me proud and watching her get fucked is like your own personal porn movie !

Don’t worry about it and just enjoy the ride, or rather let her enjoy the ride lol

This is such an intelligent perspective and having shared my wife for 7 years I echo these conflicted emotions that go against the so called norm and our vows. Thank OP for asking this in the forum.

The replies will be divided into the thoughtful cerebrally connected couples camp and the male bulls who may have a more simplistic view.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
36 weeks ago

Manchester

A brilliant topic. Yes I am ambivalent about watching her with other guys. Seeing her being undressed by strangers knowing what they are about to do with her has me both rock hard and at the same time, dare I say it, sick in my stomach.

And at the end as I look at her lying naked and sated, covered in sweat and cum dripping from her it is overwhelming. Taking her back in the taxi with her still naked under her coat knowing her pussy is still full of cum is a very strange feeling indeed. So hard to explain.

We usually collapse immediately into bed without even showering off the body fluids. Cuddling, kissing gently and whispering quietly to each other.

In the immediate days after we don’t talk much about what happened. Particularly as I’m used to seeing her totally ignoring pre agreed limits. It’s just a case of absorbing the mental images. However we feel noticeably more loving and sensitive to each other.

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By *lippy02Man
36 weeks ago

edinburgh

At the end of the day I think most wives enjoy being wanted by other guys and enjoy the thrill of riding other guys cocks.

We are a cuckold couple so the idea of her being attractive to other guys has always been a massive thing for me and makes me proud and watching her get fucked is like your own personal porn movie !

Don’t worry about it and just enjoy the ride, or rather let her enjoy the ride lol

Have to agree as have also loved the experiences of other men screwing my wife but it does involve experiencing mixed emotions at times. Sometimes because of who was getting to ride her.

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By *r_LickCouple
21 weeks ago

aberdeen

Yes you’re right Mrs Lick felt the same, although she really enjoyed herself and had fun but the guilt set in as though she shouldn’t have enjoyed it as much and I think that holds her back a bit tbh

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By *lippy02Man
15 weeks ago

edinburgh

Love the various views on this and basically have to say I still had various pangs of emotions whether actually watching or just knowing another guy had his cock in my wife. I did no matter the feelings enjoy having them as part of the excitement and turn on of this for me.

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By *eyeYCouple
15 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

D enjoys watching me with another man or woman, but think I enjoy watching him even more! Mostly when he does what he does to me I'm almost out of it.. But when I get to witness another recipient of his attentions it's fucking hot!! 😈🥰

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By *yeSureMan
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

I want to see wife with another guy and believe the emotions will be like this.

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By *t112Man
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

Wife chat on WhatsApp pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Never had concerns

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By *ungfunfellaMan
15 weeks ago

Lincoln

Never had a problem with it n all the totally straight lads I’ve done group stuff with are not bothered either a mate of mine said it perfectly that hell we all love watching porn where we watch men naked n hard n fuck so why not in real life….

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By *hat.coupleCouple
15 weeks ago

Dartford

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By *hat.coupleCouple
15 weeks ago

Dartford

OP, it sounds to me as though you are worrying about societal norms. Its normal to feel a little taboo about these things as we've been bought up believing monogamy is right but, the way I see it as long as you are both happy and enjoying yourself, go for it!. No one is getting hurt x

Mrs x

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
15 weeks ago

Leicestershire

It's what we have been programmed to think is normal, so us swingers, wife swappers etc are seen as not normal."

That’s true. So what if we think differently from the rest? Letting your wife fuck other men isn’t hurting anyone and it’s bringing you 2 and the guys lots of pleasure. Carry on I say

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Exactly the same tbh...

Absolutely love it, can't live without it! Lol

But yes sometimes feel it's wrong with strange other feelings, not quite jealousy tho... just not sure.

Still best thing i ever get to see!

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
15 weeks ago

Port Talbot

I remember the first time we had a threesome in a club with a guy, and I remember seeing him fucking her and her pleasuring me at the same time, it was incredibly hot.

The next morning I was questioning myself over and over, why I enjoyed it so much and why I didn’t have an issue with it.

So I figured out, if I didn’t have an issue, there is no issue.

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By *un guy300Man
15 weeks ago

Carmarthen

Just remove the guilt and just enjoy it and nobody is unhappy with what you are doing

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By *asha86Couple
15 weeks ago

walsall

We love the act but not when the person we've shared with oversteps with constant messages. We like to make friends that we would meet over and over not constantly inviting new people in which has worked as they get to know what the crack is

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By *23RouteCouple
15 weeks ago

Huddersfield

A bit yes , but the thrill outweighs it by miles !!!!!

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By *elboy1978Man
15 weeks ago

Jarrow

I would like to share someone’s wife

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
15 weeks ago

Northallerton

The emotions are part of the thrill.

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By *rugent100Man
15 weeks ago

Malton

Love the idea, never made it happen yet but it's a conversation EVERY night lately and she's game now I think. Or at least says she is because she knows how hard it gets me... staying in HX1 tomorrow night so hoping she finally asks me to sort it - she did say she's been checking guys out most days so she definitely down with the concept. Maybe a random guy should chat her up in the bar tomorrow? Kind of secretly arranged opportunity to see who can pull her? If it seems spontaneous and 'by chance' it might go down easier. Worst that can happen is she says she's not interested... maybe dm me for contact details - hung guys ideally..

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By *ancs married coupleCouple
15 weeks ago

Silverdale

Same with us. It's been a long term fantasy which started with me mentioning it and Mrs has now wants to do it as much as I do. We've had a couple of 'close calls' where weve been let down last minute by single men but we do have mfmf lined up in a couple of weeks! Will be the first time I'll have seen her with another man - very horney thought but scary too lol!

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By * and BCouple
15 weeks ago

Durham

It's an awesome sight to behold

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By *arks2Couple
15 weeks ago

Warwickshire

This is us too. Talked about it so much but yet to do it, or even know how far we will let it go. Psychologically it's a huge turn on, scared if the reality isn't what we expect

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By * and BCouple
15 weeks ago

Durham

"This is us too. Talked about it so much but yet to do it, or even know how far we will let it go. Psychologically it's a huge turn on, scared if the reality isn't what we expect "

WE said from the start of our journey that we would talk about everything openly, that's what we do. We said if we did something and it wasn't for us we'd talk about it and move on without regrets, well we tried and you don't know what the outcome will be until you do. However when we decided to go to full swap and Mrs F talked about getting turned on by having one or two men fuck her we said we'd try and make it happen in a club. She was getting so turned on the night we were going to make it happen but when it came down to it she got cold feet. We went home and discussed it. She said she was so up for it but just got overwhelmed. Next visit to club arrived and we had decided if we can make it happen she'd go with it. Well with a little stumble at first with the nerves she went for it...... WOW WOW and WOW. We both came home with the biggest smile on our faces. So we'd say the reality more than lived up to our expectations. Go for it, if you don't like how it leaves you both feeling you don't have to revisit that scenario again. As for us, as difficult as it is to make happen at times, we have revisited this several times.

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By *ig and MangoCouple
15 weeks ago

Burnley

I feel exactly the same mate..

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By *ostguy321Man
15 weeks ago

Bucks

I love sharing a hot wife and knowing the husband is enjoying the whole thing as much as is she is. It's such an erotic experience for all involved

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By *emptusboth777Couple
15 weeks ago

oxford

We love the idea of this and cannot wait to share.

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By *hornleeMan
15 weeks ago

Stockton on Tees

I use to share my wive a lot when she was healthy, I can honestly say the emotions although not jealousy, use to fry my brain sometimes. The sheer anticipation of her telling me everything they did, to my cuckold duties of cleaning her up and I mean everything up. It is very hard to put into words. So yes I'm with you.

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By *oroMale41Man
15 weeks ago

Stockton on tees

Im the only guy my wife has been intimate with. I couldn't handle seeing her with another man although we do fantasise alot about other men whilst we're having sex, especially black men. It's not happened yet but if she was going to be intimate with anyone else... Then it would have to be another woman

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By *lay4RealCouple
15 weeks ago

London

Very interesting thread.

As a society, we are brought up into believing that once together, we should not have sex with anyone else and to do so is wrong or immoral. We then are conditioned to feel guilt once the marital vows are broken.

Sex can be a means to strengthen the emotional bond between a couple. Sex can also be recreational enjoyment with no underlying emotional attachment. However, we are conditioned to believe the former and not the latter, which leads to feelings of guilt and betrayal.

If you enjoy watching your wife having sex with other men and she also enjoys it, you should think of it as a beautiful shared pass-time like playing a sport. Couples should focus on what works for them and not what society dictates. As long as you have good communication with each other and agree mutual boundaries, there is no harm.

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By *izzmonkeysCouple
15 weeks ago

Liverpool

I think those feelings are part of what makes it so hot l

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By *ouple4u1Couple
15 weeks ago

epsom

The feelings don’t change, even after nearly thirty years, I still feel jealous, nervous and have a knotted stomach. But !!!

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By *efinitely MaybeCouple
15 weeks ago

Wakefield

Like many, we’ve been on the ups and downs of this rollercoaster.

Resistance from L at first, then thorough hotwife enjoyment for a good year or two, followed by guilt once we took a long-term break. Not sure where that came from on her part, but it took her a while to get over it.

My struggles were around what the hell was wrong with me for liking this? What if someone found out? How do I stop it?

Eventually I just accepted that I’m a bit of a deviant - and acknowledged that I’m one of many.

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By *iliciousCouple
15 weeks ago

Sussex/Surrey

"Im the only guy my wife has been intimate with. I couldn't handle seeing her with another man although we do fantasise alot about other men whilst we're having sex, especially black men. It's not happened yet but if she was going to be intimate with anyone else... Then it would have to be another woman"

Out of interest, what does she think of you being on here looking for couples and women?

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By *roop69Man
15 weeks ago

St Columb Major

My wife has had a few encounters with other men and I’ve come to enjoy her doing so but the first couple times was so hard for me to see her clearly enjoying other cock while I’m present

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By *eardAndBoobs69Couple
15 weeks ago

South Yorkshire

No jealousy at all with me or we both wouldn't agree to do it.i just love knowing she is happy and being satisfied off another guy other than me.you have to have a strong and trusting relationship to do it though which we have luckily.

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By *yeSureMan
14 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *t112Man
14 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *yeSureMan
14 weeks ago

Glasgow

If it’s not tried, I’ll never know

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14 weeks ago

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By *eeper ThanMan
14 weeks ago

Dartford

I don’t think you should feel bad for it everyone has there own kinks there’s no wrong or right if it’s all above board and you both enjoy it then just enjoy the moment don’t over think it you obviously have a strong relationship

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By *Xtriple7Couple
14 weeks ago

N Peterborough.

You're not alone feeling that way and must admit it's good to know I'm not the only one either.

I do feel bad sometimes, as though I'm a pest for arranging meets, even though she agrees and definitely enjoys meeting guys.

I think about packing it all in and being a 'normal'couple. But then life's short and if we're both having fun while relatively young and in good health then why not indulge?

I think as well some settings can change how I perceive swinging. A mfm meet where the guy isn't feeling great and taking one for the team can feel like we're being daft and taken advantage of. Yet a 2 woman all day gangbang where at least 30 guys attend was one of our best ever meets and we didn't feel bad at all about it after. Ymmv.

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By *ancs married coupleCouple
13 weeks ago

Silverdale

Watched Mrs for the first time tonight in an mfmf. No jealousy. Just a really horney experience. Watching her get fucked and wank him off till he came was amazing. If you love your partner, do it!

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By *obbiKentMan
13 weeks ago

maidstone

Oh I get this, but really is a gift to you both when you connect in the sharing of all she feels and desires...wow how beautiful when your partner is so alive

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By *irty-pairCouple
13 weeks ago

Essex

It’s not an easy feeling to deal with afterwards. That’s why Vixen only plays with guys we’re both comfortable with. They must be respectful, else it goes nowhere.

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By *otwifecplCouple
13 weeks ago

bham

For me. It's my biggest fantasy and turn on. It always has been. For her to have sex with other men.

That being said. I see sex and love making differently. We do things as a couple that the other men don't do. Intimate things that are just between us.

Her fucking other men for our pleasure has made us an extremely strong couple. But if I had a hint of jealousy I'd ask her to stop.

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By *t112Man
13 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *obbiKentMan
13 weeks ago

maidstone

"It’s not an easy feeling to deal with afterwards. That’s why Vixen only plays with guys we’re both comfortable with. They must be respectful, else it goes nowhere."

Definitely, has to be right for both, and understood by all

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