FabSwingers.com forum: Money

By *wan64 OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Glasgow

Why do some men think it's acceptable to offer a woman money on 1st meet even though I didn't ask for it. We discussed something I might want for meet. He seemed to feel I really should take his money even though I refused it.

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By *oxy jWoman
23 weeks ago

somerset

use it as a blessing that they expose themselves rather than _iew it negative just block and be thankful you never met ... a perfect filter if you like

there will always be desperate men and indeed desperate women where money talks i think the worse ones are those who ask for gifts

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
23 weeks ago

Norwich

"use it as a blessing that they expose themselves rather than _iew it negative just block and be thankful you never met ... a perfect filter if you like

there will always be desperate men and indeed desperate women where money talks i think the worse ones are those who ask for

Igifts"

I've been asked for money after arranging meet, no go for me, blocked

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By *ove2-lickMan
23 weeks ago

Worcester

Ohhhh I spent money on hookkers

Never thought that some one asked here as well

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By *ugehandsMan
23 weeks ago

Fife/ Newcastle

The best you'd get from me is a coffee and cake.. But on a serious note why would someone make anyone feel so cheap?

Block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I've had a few opening messages saying

"How much ££?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
23 weeks ago

chichester

"I've had a few opening messages saying

"How much ££?"

Yeah I get loads of them from couples where it’s male half

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By *4bimMan
23 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

i get ones directing me to cam or onlyfans sites. lol

to good too be true comes to mind

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
23 weeks ago

Angus & Findhorn

Please report them for offering or asking for money. This includes paid content.

Thank you

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By *wan64 OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Glasgow

Don't know I didn't ask for £20 he was offering

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By *wan64 OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Glasgow

£20 to buy stocking as though I can't afford stockings

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By *wan64 OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Glasgow

£20

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By *wan64 OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Glasgow

Funny he has disappeared from site. It's just felt creepy being offered money I didn't ask for no matter the amount.

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By *pinningfasterWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

I had someone offer me BUS FARE once.

I don't have Taylor Swift money but I'm financially okay...

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By *cLovin2Man
23 weeks ago

Reading

"I had someone offer me BUS FARE once.

I don't have Taylor Swift money but I'm financially okay...

Did he include the return fare?

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By *pinningfasterWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I had someone offer me BUS FARE once.

I don't have Taylor Swift money but I'm financially okay...

Did he include the return fare?

I'd hope so! If I'm going for a shag I need at least £4.50

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By *cLovin2Man
23 weeks ago

Reading

"I had someone offer me BUS FARE once.

I don't have Taylor Swift money but I'm financially okay...

Did he include the return fare?

I'd hope so! If I'm going for a shag I need at least £4.50"

Did that include the cost of the hotel, or was he planning to get you up against the neighbours skip?

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By *pinningfasterWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I had someone offer me BUS FARE once.

I don't have Taylor Swift money but I'm financially okay...

Did he include the return fare?

I'd hope so! If I'm going for a shag I need at least £4.50

Did that include the cost of the hotel, or was he planning to get you up against the neighbours skip?

I think the expectation was that I would be visiting his HMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

It’s the normal routine of desperate older guys if they don’t give it to you direct they will do it indirectly like buying the woman drugs or lending her his car to drive.

I think it’s only the female version of said male that would accept such things.

Buckle up buckeros

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By *uri00620Woman
23 weeks ago

Croydon

"It’s the normal routine of desperate older guys if they don’t give it to you direct they will do it indirectly like buying the woman drugs or lending her his car to drive.

I think it’s only the female version of said male that would accept such things.

Buckle up buckeros "

Definitely not just an older guy thing or desperate older women who would accept.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I had someone offer me BUS FARE once.

I don't have Taylor Swift money but I'm financially okay...

I have a bus pass so no issue for me?

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
23 weeks ago

Ryde

We wouldn't dream of accepting any money!

Being offered would be a rather nice token of appreciation, but we're in it for the fun, and by the time they've travelled over to the Isle of Wight, they've probably shelled out enough!!

Nobody has come away unsatisfied, so must be doing something right - cash offered or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"It’s the normal routine of desperate older guys if they don’t give it to you direct they will do it indirectly like buying the woman drugs or lending her his car to drive.

I think it’s only the female version of said male that would accept such things.

Buckle up buckeros

Definitely not just an older guy thing or desperate older women who would accept. "

Desperate housewives?

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By *arl17Man
23 weeks ago

Central Portugal

"Why do some men think it's acceptable to offer a woman money on 1st meet even though I didn't ask for it. We discussed something I might want for meet. He seemed to feel I really should take his money even though I refused it.

Block

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By *arl17Man
23 weeks ago

Central Portugal

"We wouldn't dream of accepting any money!

Being offered would be a rather nice token of appreciation, but we're in it for the fun, and by the time they've travelled over to the Isle of Wight, they've probably shelled out enough!!

Ha ha...

Nobody has come away unsatisfied, so must be doing something right - cash offered or not!"

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By *4bimMan
23 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

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By *4bimMan
23 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"I had someone offer me BUS FARE once.

I don't have Taylor Swift money but I'm financially okay...

I have a bus pass so no issue for me?"

i bet if a guy put on his status he had a spare taylor swift concert ticket he would not just get money offers.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Central

"use it as a blessing that they expose themselves rather than _iew it negative just block and be thankful you never met ... a perfect filter if you like

there will always be desperate men and indeed desperate women where money talks i think the worse ones are those who ask for

Igifts

I've been asked for money after arranging meet, no go for me, blocked"

Report anyone asking for money

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By *ontroselad69Man
23 weeks ago

Montrose

My wife has a OF we do t advertise it on here but don't see why u can't when daily guys offer us cash for sex or her pants. I fact why ain't we millionaires yet lol happy Friday folks

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"My wife has a OF we do t advertise it on here but don't see why u can't when daily guys offer us cash for sex or her pants. I fact why ain't we millionaires yet lol happy Friday folks"
hahaha babe

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"use it as a blessing that they expose themselves rather than _iew it negative just block and be thankful you never met ... a perfect filter if you like

there will always be desperate men and indeed desperate women where money talks i think the worse ones are those who ask for

Igifts

I've been asked for money after arranging meet, no go for me, blocked

Report anyone asking for money "

Does that include those seeking contributions for assignations that take place in a travel tavern?

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By *wan64 OP Woman
22 weeks ago

Glasgow

Oh he had the hotel

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
22 weeks ago

Leeds

Some guys think every woman wants money, they know nothing about women.

On my couples profile we've had messages offering money & they seem annoyed when you decline.

I'm not for sale, I'm not a product to be bought.

Least they show their true colours and head straight to the block list.

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By *cLovin2Man
22 weeks ago

Reading

"Some guys think every woman wants money, they know nothing about women.

On my couples profile we've had messages offering money & they seem annoyed when you decline.

I'm not for sale, I'm not a product to be bought.

Least they show their true colours and head straight to the block list."

What sad pathetic person tries this. The thrill is surely in the chase and partnership, you can't buy it off the shelf at Tesco

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By *lofeldMan
22 weeks ago

Redhill

It's not acceptable on any meet. In fact, its pretty tragic.

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
22 weeks ago

Norwich

Sadly some on here demand money after arranging a meet, I declined the offers!!!

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By *ickie76XXXMan
22 weeks ago

dartford

I was actually thinking about something similar the other day. I’m pretty sure the code word “visiting” means someone is a sex worker. I could be wrong and not sure.

I obviously think offering anyone money is insulting but I was wondering if anyone had found themselves in a position where they have met and then the other person/persons demanded they paid?

Is this even a thing? I hope not but it crossed my mind that I suppose it’s possible without knowing if someone was misleading and duped you.

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By *oyandJulieMan
22 weeks ago

blackburn

I've heard that this happens but I've never been asked yet for money and been on here for a few years

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