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By *he couple nextdoor OP   Couple
40 weeks ago

grangemouth

Why do men message

You make it clear bi males

You chat like, dislike

Anything they want to try

Then you find out it's bs

Go message a couple who do not want bi males

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By *rKinksMan
40 weeks ago

Alton

Increasing the number of couples who might say yes to a meet.

Then they hope once they are there with their cock out the wife won't be able to resist their magnificent member to the point she'll ignore her husband cock and sexuality

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By *eilandChazzCouple
40 weeks ago

Gloucester

100% we get LOADS of pretend "bi" guys that are so obviously straight or so little bi experience it's beyond belief !

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By *ickedwillyCouple
40 weeks ago

Bangor

Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked.

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By *he couple nextdoor OP   Couple
40 weeks ago

grangemouth


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. "

We are the same men starting before I join in x

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By *omblingFreeCouple
40 weeks ago

The Village

yes the amount of men pretending to be bi is really making things difficult here. I say men. they're boys really aren't they. should go back to scrumping

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
40 weeks ago

SW Scotland

Been the opposite for us, met a few couples with a straight male and they’ve then said that their bi.

Our biggest problem is finding couples with a genuine bi fem that give as well as receive.

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By *he couple nextdoor OP   Couple
40 weeks ago

grangemouth

Why lie

You are or not

The guys that say straight but bi

Guys saying no but straight

Sent home x

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By *r imp miss minxCouple
40 weeks ago

Colchester


"yes the amount of men pretending to be bi is really making things difficult here. I say men. they're boys really aren't they. should go back to scrumping"

. Ahhh… those were the days!!

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
40 weeks ago

Stafford

We don’t pretend to be anything other that bisexual x

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By *ickedwillyCouple
40 weeks ago

Bangor

There’s only one way to play and it’s to be totally honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Unfortunately its the way that online sites go .... people lie and think once they are through the door and in person you won't turn them down ...

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By *ommenhimCouple
40 weeks ago

wigan


"Why lie

You are or not

The guys that say straight but bi

Guys saying no but straight

Sent home x"

Haiku?

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By *ennylewis2016Couple
40 weeks ago

Birmingham

Almost.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Chichester


"Unfortunately its the way that online sites go .... people lie and think once they are through the door and in person you won't turn them down ...

"

Pretty much

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By *ennylewis2016Couple
40 weeks ago

Birmingham

It’s so annoying when single guys say they’re bi but their profile says straight. Then they say they don’t want people to know. Yeah, move on. Haha.

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By *he couple nextdoor OP   Couple
40 weeks ago

grangemouth


"It’s so annoying when single guys say they’re bi but their profile says straight. Then they say they don’t want people to know. Yeah, move on. Haha. "

I don't mind to much

As long as when they message they say

And to what level

But guy messaged

I said profile says straight

He said am bi

Ok so what do you like and dislike so we see if we are ok

What would I have to do

Or I'm a little bi

I have touched

Or I receive only but don't do anything back

Or yes all in no limits

Well actually I have never been with a guy and it's not for me

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By *wingnswitchCouple
40 weeks ago

NEWARK


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. "

100% we have had 4 'straight ' guys message us this morning when questioned about this are miraculously bi but when told they wouldn't get near Mrs until they had or been sucked by Mr block us or dissappear off the fab universe is unreal

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
40 weeks ago

Glasgow

Some guys message us with straight on their profile claiming to be bi. We think they think they have to be bi to play with us, or at least have access to her.

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By *imfucktwoMan
40 weeks ago

here and there

What if you’re somewhere between straight and bi? I’d say I’m more partially orally bi, as in happy for a guy to suck me but not so sure the other way…

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By *hristopherd999Man
40 weeks ago

Brentwood

I'm bi curious and want to try sucking cock with a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"What if you’re somewhere between straight and bi? I’d say I’m more partially orally bi, as in happy for a guy to suck me but not so sure the other way…"

You need to be honest about it so that a couple/ person can decide if you are right for them.

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By *raigxMan
40 weeks ago

Northampton

Just as bad couples who are ‘straight’ then, following a bit of chat, declare he’d like to try with a man or first meet will be with him only…

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I’m happy to reveal all in chat. There’s no point in lying if you’re going to meet someone.

Besides which it’s all part of the fun…..

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By *rKinksMan
40 weeks ago

Alton


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. "

Sounds like a great start to the evening.

Its also hard to find couple interested in more than just oral between the guys

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Chichester


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked.

100% we have had 4 'straight ' guys message us this morning when questioned about this are miraculously bi but when told they wouldn't get near Mrs until they had or been sucked by Mr block us or dissappear off the fab universe is unreal "

lol chancers are funny

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By *issy_named_cTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. "

This is a good rule

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By *rAngryPantzMan
40 weeks ago

near you.

Possibly open to the idea of it, but unsure of their boundaries, how ‘how bi’ they’re interested in going?

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By *hristopherd999Man
40 weeks ago

Brentwood


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked.

We are the same men starting before I join in x"

I'd be ok with that, bi curious looking for my first experience with a couple

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By *igtone2310Man
40 weeks ago

Beverley

I didn't realise it was so hard for bi couples, i'm bi and open for everything but it's so hard finding bi couples in Hull area, good luck guys xx

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By *ackformore100Man
40 weeks ago

Tin town

I'm not seeing why so fussed. You swapped some emails and realised they weren't for you... Next.

People don't do things exactly as you wish they would. That's life.

It's not speed dating.

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By *obyorkMan
40 weeks ago

Keighley


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. "
Sounds a fair test

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By *outhessex14Man
40 weeks ago

basildon

I have also found some guys are bi until they have had a wank and then suddenly they are straight again it's very annoying on the sister site to this when looking for guys

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By *awpleasureMan
40 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

I've met straight couples and when I've got there, they've said hubby is bi but they keep that part private.

So it does work both ways.

Male play first will always sort out the fakers.

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By *wingnswitchCouple
40 weeks ago

NEWARK


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked.

100% we have had 4 'straight ' guys message us this morning when questioned about this are miraculously bi but when told they wouldn't get near Mrs until they had or been sucked by Mr block us or dissappear off the fab universe is unreal

lol chancers are funny "

Absolutely they are x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Chichester


"I have also found some guys are bi until they have had a wank and then suddenly they are straight again it's very annoying on the sister site to this when looking for guys "

Ahhh the male post nut clarity

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By *ooster7Man
40 weeks ago

west yorks

I make a point of getting the guys cock in my mouth as soon as I can . I like to make eye contact with her as he grows in my mouth.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
40 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I've met straight couples and when I've got there, they've said hubby is bi but they keep that part private.

So it does work both ways.

Male play first will always sort out the fakers. "

This is definitely a thing with couples - hiding male bi predilections (the wife always declares openly bi in the profile). I’m fine with it though - it’s always a great time with completely uninhibited play.

The Straight males attending club Bi nights really kills the vibe though.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
40 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Possibly open to the idea of it, but unsure of their boundaries, how ‘how bi’ they’re interested in going? "

They’re going to want to pound your crinkly little star until you cry, it’s not worth it mate

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By *he Silver FuxMan
40 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Just as bad couples who are ‘straight’ then, following a bit of chat, declare he’d like to try with a man or first meet will be with him only…"

Have you not been on this site for long?

^That’s a single guy with a fake couples profile

“Yeah, first meet will be with just me” LoL!

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I think a big part of the issue is that the options Bisexual or Bi curious are a bit glib.

I really enjoy orally bi play with couples but I'm not attracted to men or wish to meet them alone.

So I'm not Bisexual, not curious (I know what I do and don't like), but orally-bi or hetero flexible aren't options.

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By *heSchwingersCouple
40 weeks ago

Essex

We've found lots of straight guys (fab-straight) are more bi than the bi guys. Sure there are lots of guys pretending to be anything other than what they are — couples, straight, single, clean, STI free, etc.

I find that labels can be a hang up for some people. Bi is a spectrum not an all or nothing. Only like giving oral, thats bi. Only like receiving oral, thats bi too. Only like seeing him fuck your beautiful wife, eeeh the Jurys out. You decide what is right for you. Forget the label if that helps.

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By *ighFlyerSissyTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Midlands


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. "

This is the way! Also a huge turn on too if your actually bi

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By *ichael_OxlongMan
40 weeks ago

London


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. "

This is the easiest way to flush out the fakes.

Veris also help.

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By *imfucktwoMan
40 weeks ago

here and there

Yeah best to do the sucking first before your sucked, or all goes wrong!

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By *tirling DarkCouple
40 weeks ago

Stirling

We stipulate that they will be fucked/pegged by us both before any contact with Ms. Soon sees off the time wasters.

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By *awpleasureMan
40 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield


"We stipulate that they will be fucked/pegged by us both before any contact with Ms. Soon sees off the time wasters. "

I'd love that but most bi couples in my experience want a top guy to fuck them both

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By *ams12345Man
40 weeks ago

london

Love playing with a bi couple! There’s just so much to do lol

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By *xfordrobbieMan
40 weeks ago

oxford

It’s blokes like that who ruin it for us genuine bisexual guys who equally enjoy the gay side of sex as much as straight sex

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By *ohn oneMan
40 weeks ago

hotel Cricklewood

[Removed by poster at 03/06/24 18:36:16]

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By *me2u2Man
40 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. "

Good idea

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By *oxy jWoman
40 weeks ago

somerset

bi guys ......

there are a huge section of bi guys who swing that are bi to attract couples where the aim is the female with very little to offer bi wise

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

See I say bi curious as I’ve never done anything with a guy. But I never got the lying about it. Especially since if stuff does start happened. How do they expect just going no is gonna work for them

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked.

Good idea "

Yep

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By *oxy jWoman
40 weeks ago

somerset

we meet bi guys we wont meet bi oral only must be bi tops thats how we sort bi guys for us / hubs totally not interested in bi oral only would rather just seek a st8 guy ...but saying that they lie about that one too lol cant win unless you get your selection process correct

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By *nebworthMan
40 weeks ago

Knebworth


"We stipulate that they will be fucked/pegged by us both before any contact with Ms. Soon sees off the time wasters. "
Sounds like a fantastic meet. Yes please.

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By *algraMan
37 weeks ago

Colchester

I agree with the guys playing first .. besides it's horny playing with Mr as Mrs watches

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By *rpeggioCouple
37 weeks ago

Baughurst


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. "

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That's a good way to deal with it, but by then they have wasted your time if they chicken out of it because they are not bi.

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By *ornishboy88Man
37 weeks ago

Penryn

As a man who has recently delved into bi oral, I already get enough messages from gay guys on here even though my profile says straight. If I change to bi I think I’d be inundated!

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By *ev_1Couple
37 weeks ago

Bickliegh

We get the opposite op not looking for bi men but bi men messaging to say they can play straight

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By *tirlingbenMan
37 weeks ago

stirling


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The Straight males attending club Bi nights really kills the vibe though.

"

Absolutely this. Bi nights should be pretty much anything goes but the straight (frigid) guys totally ruin it.

Maybe they should have to suck a cock at the door before being allowed in?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Do you think it’s inexperienced guys that are curious/ think they’re hetexible but actuallly aren’t when it comes down to it/ chicken out of the fantasy? Or just straight guys lying?

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By *nkedguy777Man
37 weeks ago

Manchester

So I've been with quite a few t-girls and I've been lucky enough to have a fantastic meet with a bi couple were they both sucked my cock before he lay underneath her as I fucked her doggy,I kept pulling out and fucking his mouth then he guided me back into her pussy, after id cum he cleaned my cock and then her pussy

But i have no intention of sucking a cock,I'm not ruling out maybe wanking a cock but sucking a cock just isn't for me

So does that mean I'm not bi,bi curious or am a just pretending

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
37 weeks ago

Stafford

We can’t quite work out his thread and we are very bisexual

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By *antricTrystCouple
37 weeks ago

Pershore


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked.

This is the easiest way to flush out the fakes.

Veris also help."

Must start doing this, so difficult to know how bi guys are or fakers.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Here's my take. It's hard enough as it is for us guys to find a couple. If your profile says straight, they want bi. If your profile says bi, they want straight. It's a no win situation which I have come across time and time again.

If I met a.bi couple I would be more than happy to demonstrate before touching the wife.

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By *punfun432Man
37 weeks ago

Ancaster

Asking guys to kiss the male as well as suck , sorts the wheat from the chaff

If any females want to see their hubbty penetrate and ejaculate into another fella who may be on all fours with his tongue feverishly going down on her, then I am more than happy to undertake a full battery of bi guy tests - kiss him? blow him? rim him? bring it on

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By *acky RacersCouple
37 weeks ago

Lincoln


"Do you think it’s inexperienced guys that are curious/ think they’re hetexible but actuallly aren’t when it comes down to it/ chicken out of the fantasy? Or just straight guys lying?"

All of the above...

The thing is, our time is limited so we like to know that everything will click, so to speak...we often find a no pressure social sorts that out beforehand because we can be clear about what we're looking for and also hear what they're seeking but a lot of 'single' guys can't manage that...while everyone has to start somewhere, we are looking for someone who knows what they're doing or at least is clear about what they want. It gets a bit tedious to always have to take the lead.

Since getting back on the horse together, we've found couples at bi nights at clubs is the way ahead for us...last one at VA was really good fun and we met some awesome people

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

If we are meeting a bi guy we make it clear that J will be watching and using toys while myself and the guy go at it. We also make it clear that if they are not willing to reciprocate oral on me before/after I give it to them, the meet will end.

Keeps it clear up front and shock 90% leave you on read

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By *acky RacersCouple
37 weeks ago

Lincoln


"Here's my take. It's hard enough as it is for us guys to find a couple. If your profile says straight, they want bi. If your profile says bi, they want straight. It's a no win situation which I have come across time and time again.

If I met a.bi couple I would be more than happy to demonstrate before touching the wife."

But your profile says straight so we wouldn't even get off the starting blocks...

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By *iker JackMan
37 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Not sure if this has been mentioned already but there still appears in some cases to be a huge stigma associated to bi men.

Bi woman or bi curious seems far more acceptable than a bi man and many profiles state no bi men whereas I’ve not seen one saying no bi woman.

So I am sure, and sadly so in the 21st century, that men still feel a need to hide that. Are they being true to themselves or are they hoping they will find a better chance of a meet with a single female?

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By *lixir of lifeMan
37 weeks ago

knob Creek

Many guys believe admitting they’re bi reduces the chance of a meet..

I’m bi and proud..

But bi males and bi male couples are still discriminated against on here..

I’m friends with and regularly chat to fully bi couples and they tell me about some of the disgusting messages they get..

But it seems cool to be a bi female, when most are pretending just to please hubby or gain attention..

They wouldn’t dream of dating another girl or have one on one private meet with another girl ..

Site full of double standards..

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
37 weeks ago

Ipswich

Bi and proud here, we only meet openly bi people as that's what we want.

The number of times we get guys who'll "let Mr suck his cock" is unreal. Just no idea of the way an all in mmf / mmff works in the slightest, and TBH totally disrespects us as a couple IMO, just to try and get their leg over with the Mrs, who actually has no interest in 1 on 1

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By *cnugatugMan
37 weeks ago

Chatham


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. "
I'd absolutely be delighted to

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By *he Silver FuxMan
37 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"So I've been with quite a few t-girls and I've been lucky enough to have a fantastic meet with a bi couple were they both sucked my cock before he lay underneath her as I fucked her doggy,I kept pulling out and fucking his mouth then he guided me back into her pussy, after id cum he cleaned my cock and then her pussy

But i have no intention of sucking a cock,I'm not ruling out maybe wanking a cock but sucking a cock just isn't for me

So does that mean I'm not bi,bi curious or am a just pretending "

No, it tells us why you are Bi yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"We stipulate that they will be fucked/pegged by us both before any contact with Ms. Soon sees off the time wasters. "

That sounds wonderful

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By *lexV16Man
37 weeks ago

Welling


"Why do men message

You make it clear bi males

You chat like, dislike

Anything they want to try

Then you find out it's bs

Go message a couple who do not want bi males"

I really struggle to believe there are straight guys pretending bi to get to a pussy. I asked few of my gay friends if in hypothetical situation where they fancy a guy cock a lot and in order to get to suck it they need to lick his wife pussy. Guess what? 100% said no way they’ll go down on a woman to get to a cock they like.

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By *ookingforfun9970Man
37 weeks ago

wilts

I mean you’d definitely find it during a meet if he isn’t bi lol probably make a run for it

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
37 weeks ago

The north east

Found this happening a lot when I was on here with my old fuck buddy. We only wanted bi guys and you’d either get guys lying about being bi or potentially worse, you’d get guys saying “I’m not bi but you can suck my cock”

Used to really wind me up.

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By *rKinksMan
37 weeks ago

Alton


"We stipulate that they will be fucked/pegged by us both before any contact with Ms. Soon sees off the time wasters. "

Keep seeing "test" like this on this thread. Where are you couples these sounds like a dream fantasy

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
37 weeks ago

Ipswich


"Why do men message

You make it clear bi males

You chat like, dislike

Anything they want to try

Then you find out it's bs

Go message a couple who do not want bi males

I really struggle to believe there are straight guys pretending bi to get to a pussy. I asked few of my gay friends if in hypothetical situation where they fancy a guy cock a lot and in order to get to suck it they need to lick his wife pussy. Guess what? 100% said no way they’ll go down on a woman to get to a cock they like. "

This is the issue. They say they will to get the meet and then refuse or expect to just get out of it in the play.

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By * D 777Man
37 weeks ago

bathgate

Im straight an enjoy looking at bi couple profiles etc . The thought of all sharing gets the juices flowing ,so i think i'm curious to actually giving it a go .

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By *exysoldier90Man
37 weeks ago

Suffolk


"Why do men message

You make it clear bi males

You chat like, dislike

Anything they want to try

Then you find out it's bs

Go message a couple who do not want bi males"

I consider myself bi, although tend to change my profile depending on whether I'm looking to meet men or women as my mood changes daily lol

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By *harleyPMan
37 weeks ago

Bucks

I was never bi or close to it before . The lifestyle has opened my horizons and I now prefer meets with couples in a bi scenario. Even enjoy sucking cock now which I would never have even thought about before. Only works with a female in the room though. Not into meeting men alone. Do enjoy naughty daytime chats and wanks about it though.

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By *heshireguy99Man
37 weeks ago

Northwich

It makes it more difficult for genuine bi guys to meet couples

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By *ickingdelightMan
37 weeks ago

Cotswolds

Like most things a few spoil it for the rest of us…

I flip between straight or bi curious on profile and my profile text explains why if people read it…

Bi curious, as want to explore but shy nervous to just do it with anyone and 0 experience. So technically straight but not bi either…

Frustration is some couples won’t meet as they only seek straight guys and rightly so some couples won’t meet as they want someone experienced.

Fact of life - life isn’t fair, but it’s sunny

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By *ravelling ChappieMan
37 weeks ago

Stroud

I consider myself bi. Have tried many things, and realised I am only attracted to guys sexualy. I have no interest in meeting a guy 121, and state as much. I am NOT open to being persuaded! I know what I like, and that includes when I want to play with (another) cock!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
37 weeks ago

Cheshire


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked.

We are the same men starting before I join in x"

What naked woman ? I’m enjoying myself here lady.

Actually agree, would love to see the face of the straight guy suddenly with a cock thrust out in front of him.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
37 weeks ago

andover

We’ve had it where the guy wouldn’t even look at hubby, gave the talk but when it came to it was obviously “pretend” bi to try and fuck wifey. Needless to say it didn’t happen

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

On the flip side of this we have encountered bi females where they are definitely more into my husband then me, couples to looking for a bull

To service the wife with his big cock apparently bi fems

I might add that could be the main attraction

9”+ and girthy

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By *orphia2003Woman
37 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

When playing in a couple, we've experienced straight men claiming to be bi but who aren't. Straight men who wanted no interaction with me, but was happy to suck him and be sucked back.

Bi women who are only doing it because it gets him off.

Pillow princesses who are happy to receive but not reciprocate.

Straight women who have had no problem with me playing with them orally and strap-on fucking them.

Also had women seeking FF who after much chat, suddenly have a male they want to be somehow involved.

Women who turn out not to be women

Couples who are just single guys.

Just be bloody honest FFS.

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By *ensualgent38Man
37 weeks ago

London, Edinburgh

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By *ensualgent38Man
37 weeks ago

London, Edinburgh

I think they can tell just how much fun bi people are. More intimate,

More erotic, and more exciting than anything else I have ever enjoyed.

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By *ackformore100Man
37 weeks ago

Tin town

It's interesting how excited some people get about dictating how other people must declare their sexuality and behave whilst declaring how open and tolerant they are

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By *rKinksMan
37 weeks ago

Alton


"I think they can tell just how much fun bi people are. More intimate,

More erotic, and more exciting than anything else I have ever enjoyed."

Couldn't agree more bi threshold m threesomes just feel so much more relaxed and passionate

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By *azzler2Man
37 weeks ago

halifax

I am top only with men but do like oral but say from start I do not take so everyone knows from the start so the couple can make up there minds if they want to play

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By *oxy jWoman
37 weeks ago

somerset

if we meet via our couples account and wanting a bi guy then he must be fully bi ie fucks sucks and kiss we only meet fully bi guys not fab bi guys who think a little suck here n there is enough so fake thankfully there are some very very hot fully bi guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

On the converse

I struggle to find local bu couples - maybe this is why - maybe they’ve given up looking because of so many let downs

Anyway . Kent bi couples

I’m here and always hopeful

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By *MandMMCouple
37 weeks ago

Welwyn


"It's interesting how excited some people get about dictating how other people must declare their sexuality and behave whilst declaring how open and tolerant they are"

This is not about people declaring their sexuality. It's about people being honest, and not lying to get sex.

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
37 weeks ago

coleraine

Our profile states quite clearly bi play is sought. So we get loads of messages from straight men who want the wife but might be persuaded to be slightly bi if somehow we can convince them well enough during the meeting

Time wasters loads of them

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By *nkedguy777Man
37 weeks ago

Manchester

I've been completely honest about my sexuality,as I've said further up the thread,I'm bi curious been with a few TVs and had a fantastic meet with a

bi couple,I'm not interested in sucking a cock I may possibly play/wank a cock

I've had my cock sucked plenty of times by TVs and the guy from the bi couple

So does that mean I'm not going to have any meets with bi couples because I won't suck cock? Possibly but not all bi couples are after that,as I've said I have had a fantastic meet with a

bi couple and from the start we all knew exactly what the situation was and everyone was perfectly fine with it

So not all bi or bi curious guys have to suck a cock to prove their bi in my opinion

As I've said I'll probably not get many if any meets with bi couples but that's fine

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By *arkVanilla85Couple
37 weeks ago

Crawley West Sussex

We are genuinely bi and found it soooo hard to find another genuinely bi couple.

We get many messages from single straight guys saying they are Bi but when this is unpicked they don't like to touch or be touched by a man.

It's very frustrating, I'd love nothing more than to see my my partner get lost in a genuine bi man.... any on this thread cab message us x

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By *wingAway79Couple
37 weeks ago

Surrey

Something that really annoys us, don’t pretend, no one ever falls for it x

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By *poolGuyMan
37 weeks ago

Liverpool

I am bi and it's on profile. Have met men and women 1-2-1 and MM couples. I always make it clear whatmy interests are and what I like/dislike finding it useful before meeting. Maybe because I don't give a guy oral is the issue for many MF bi couples but then that's my preference.

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By *xstevenxxMan
37 weeks ago

dublin


"I've been completely honest about my sexuality,as I've said further up the thread,I'm bi curious been with a few TVs and had a fantastic meet with a

bi couple,I'm not interested in sucking a cock I may possibly play/wank a cock

I've had my cock sucked plenty of times by TVs and the guy from the bi couple

So does that mean I'm not going to have any meets with bi couples because I won't suck cock? Possibly but not all bi couples are after that,as I've said I have had a fantastic meet with a

bi couple and from the start we all knew exactly what the situation was and everyone was perfectly fine with it

So not all bi or bi curious guys have to suck a cock to prove their bi in my opinion

As I've said I'll probably not get many if any meets with bi couples but that's fine "

I don’t suck cock - don’t mind me being sucked

Ask me to fuck ur husband no probs. I always do a social and can show videos of me with face showing my bi side that works for me

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By *andyel73Man
37 weeks ago

Leyland


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. "

I love a meet like that nothing better than greeting s couple like this. Definitely breaks the ice

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

The problem is that people are too loose with the definition of bisexual. Is a man bi if he is only willing to receive oral from a guy but not give it? If so, then he isn't really pretending by calling himself bisexual. He's just not into the same bi stuff as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"The problem is that people are too loose with the definition of bisexual. Is a man bi if he is only willing to receive oral from a guy but not give it? If so, then he isn't really pretending by calling himself bisexual. He's just not into the same bi stuff as you."

Also, there isn't much of a difference between a man giving oral to a guy and a woman giving oral to a guy. So you aren't missing out on much if a "straight" single guy refuses to give the man oral instead of the woman in the couple.

Of course, things like gay anal sex can only be performed between two men. But as far as I am aware that isn't at the top of the priority list for meets for bi couples.

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By *rtist with museCouple
37 weeks ago

Eastbourne

This is the very reason we have given up trying to find bi single guys - we now only play with both bi couples where we make clear MM/FF isnt taboo - its one of the best ways to swap x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
37 weeks ago

Cheshire


"The problem is that people are too loose with the definition of bisexual. Is a man bi if he is only willing to receive oral from a guy but not give it? If so, then he isn't really pretending by calling himself bisexual. He's just not into the same bi stuff as you."

It’s a good point actually as I’m not able to have anal sex, so does that mean I’m not fully bi.

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By *nkedguy777Man
37 weeks ago

Manchester


"I've been completely honest about my sexuality,as I've said further up the thread,I'm bi curious been with a few TVs and had a fantastic meet with a

bi couple,I'm not interested in sucking a cock I may possibly play/wank a cock

I've had my cock sucked plenty of times by TVs and the guy from the bi couple

So does that mean I'm not going to have any meets with bi couples because I won't suck cock? Possibly but not all bi couples are after that,as I've said I have had a fantastic meet with a

bi couple and from the start we all knew exactly what the situation was and everyone was perfectly fine with it

So not all bi or bi curious guys have to suck a cock to prove their bi in my opinion

As I've said I'll probably not get many if any meets with bi couples but that's fine

I don’t suck cock - don’t mind me being sucked

Ask me to fuck ur husband no probs. I always do a social and can show videos of me with face showing my bi side that works for me "

Exactly the same for me, glad I'm not the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. "

Exactly our rule.

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
37 weeks ago

Hyde

I am absolutely sick to death of this happening.

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By *imfucktwoMan
37 weeks ago

here and there

Have had the one bi mmf experience and think I went too far the other way, spent a lot of time sucking dick!

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
37 weeks ago

Hyde

We prefer fully bi because when we have a meet, we want everything to be fluid and we can all fully play with each other. Just flows much nicer.

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By *_k_86Couple
37 weeks ago

sussex

Frustrating as fuck

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By *imfucktwoMan
37 weeks ago

here and there


"We prefer fully bi because when we have a meet, we want everything to be fluid and we can all fully play with each other. Just flows much nicer."

Well it was a very wye opening experience when I tried. And it was really relaxed and fluid, things went a lot further than I had expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

We get the fakes messaging all the time. As soon as we tell them it will be guy on guy to start they soon disappear.

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
37 weeks ago

Northern Ireland


"What if you’re somewhere between straight and bi? I’d say I’m more partially orally bi, as in happy for a guy to suck me but not so sure the other way…"

You just say exactly that early on in messaging. It's fine to have your preference and limits. Open and honest communication is best.

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
37 weeks ago

Leeds


"We get the fakes messaging all the time. As soon as we tell them it will be guy on guy to start they soon disappear. "

This is probably a good way, being upfront about it

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
37 weeks ago

Northern Ireland


"I've been completely honest about my sexuality,as I've said further up the thread,I'm bi curious been with a few TVs and had a fantastic meet with a

bi couple,I'm not interested in sucking a cock I may possibly play/wank a cock

I've had my cock sucked plenty of times by TVs and the guy from the bi couple

So does that mean I'm not going to have any meets with bi couples because I won't suck cock? Possibly but not all bi couples are after that,as I've said I have had a fantastic meet with a

bi couple and from the start we all knew exactly what the situation was and everyone was perfectly fine with it

So not all bi or bi curious guys have to suck a cock to prove their bi in my opinion

As I've said I'll probably not get many if any meets with bi couples but that's fine

I don’t suck cock - don’t mind me being sucked

Ask me to fuck ur husband no probs. I always do a social and can show videos of me with face showing my bi side that works for me

Exactly the same for me, glad I'm not the only one "

As long as you are clear that's no problem. Recieving Oral and topping for MM is fine and say my limit is I don't give oral to males. That's perfectly valid.

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By *ackformore100Man
37 weeks ago

Tin town


"It's interesting how excited some people get about dictating how other people must declare their sexuality and behave whilst declaring how open and tolerant they are

This is not about people declaring their sexuality. It's about people being honest, and not lying to get sex. "

No it's not. Check the title of the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I have changed my profile to straight too many wannabe bisexual guys, some in couples so I give up

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
37 weeks ago

Hounslow


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked.

Exactly our rule. "
we're more than happy to do that.

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By *oxy jWoman
37 weeks ago

somerset

people can be whom ever they want to be but stop lying or trying to fool others if your bi but wont suck cock then make sure your open about it so others can make a real decision rather than waste someones time ...

its always been clear that there is a group of not so bi guys who use it to get near the woman thats always been the case but lets be honest they are very easy to spot or catch out ... i think if your bisexual then you should say that your top/bottom /vers ... suck/dont suck .... kiss dont kiss so ...theres also such a thing as being bi but only meet femboys/cd/tv/trans again just a different side .... no one is saying your type of bi is wrong what they are sayting is be truthful because not everyone is looking for your type of bi ..

same with everything on this scene be open be honest dont try to deceive

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By *lexm87Man
37 weeks ago

Various


"Just as bad couples who are ‘straight’ then, following a bit of chat, declare he’d like to try with a man or first meet will be with him only…

Have you not been on this site for long?

^That’s a single guy with a fake couples profile

“Yeah, first meet will be with just me” LoL!"

"first meet will be with just me". First meet, only meet, then blocked. See also, 'oh, she didn't feel well at the last minute, but I just happen to be here with lube...' and, of course, 'you wouldn't know her, she goes to another school'.

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By *elrose57Couple
37 weeks ago

reading

what you have to remember there are many dick heads around and here is no different,

we have had the message willing to give it a go, so many guys think there the bee and end all to it all, and so blinkered and up there own arse's, this is why we meet up for a drink first , you can workout the pricks, this is why we look for long term fun and games with lots of naughty rumpy pumpy

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By *punfun432Man
37 weeks ago

Ancaster

there are many 'straight' guys who are - or have potential to call themselves bi to some degree. Prob as many as there are women who dabble.

The problem is many won't be honest about it and still say 'straight' which makes them appear untrustworthy and struck off many bi couples list

The other type which is way more visible but I actually think is in much smaller numbers are the straights who are straight but pretebd to be bi to get off with the female.

They are scum obviously, but why are the previous lot scared to say they are bi? It's usually because :

1. Don't want to out themselves to offline friends who may see it

2. Couples/Women who continue to discrimninate against bi guys, even if their 'bi-ness' is irrelevant to the meet.

My advice is to add a second profile for your bi self, perhaps a bit more locked down thab your straight (bs) self but would enable you to get the contacts you want, have better meets and build credibility.

Secondly, treat the 'no bi men' as the bigoted diosaurs they are. You didn't miss a great chance to fuck sone hot girl....you actually dodged a bullet and don't have to keep perpetuating some lie to someone who is't worth the effort and can instead find a way more grounded, kinky, modern and probably intelligent hot girl who will be great sex PLUS they will be down with the other stuff you'd like to try.....

it will snowball quickly and everyone is happy. Even the bigot who unknown to themselves, have been fucking bi guys all thge time....

Plus as an openly bi guy (well as far as sex meets go, I'mj more trad romantically) and as part of openly bi couples, I've never heard any nasty comments or received any abuse. I've read abuse in forums and stuff but not personally. So the stigma in the first place is largely imagined - it's just that people act on it and all these probs arise

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By *lexm87Man
37 weeks ago

Various


"there are many 'straight' guys who are - or have potential to call themselves bi to some degree. Prob as many as there are women who dabble.

The problem is many won't be honest about it and still say 'straight' which makes them appear untrustworthy and struck off many bi couples list

The other type which is way more visible but I actually think is in much smaller numbers are the straights who are straight but pretebd to be bi to get off with the female.

They are scum obviously, but why are the previous lot scared to say they are bi? It's usually because :

1. Don't want to out themselves to offline friends who may see it

2. Couples/Women who continue to discrimninate against bi guys, even if their 'bi-ness' is irrelevant to the meet.

My advice is to add a second profile for your bi self, perhaps a bit more locked down thab your straight (bs) self but would enable you to get the contacts you want, have better meets and build credibility.

Secondly, treat the 'no bi men' as the bigoted diosaurs they are. You didn't miss a great chance to fuck sone hot girl....you actually dodged a bullet and don't have to keep perpetuating some lie to someone who is't worth the effort and can instead find a way more grounded, kinky, modern and probably intelligent hot girl who will be great sex PLUS they will be down with the other stuff you'd like to try.....

it will snowball quickly and everyone is happy. Even the bigot who unknown to themselves, have been fucking bi guys all thge time....

Plus as an openly bi guy (well as far as sex meets go, I'mj more trad romantically) and as part of openly bi couples, I've never heard any nasty comments or received any abuse. I've read abuse in forums and stuff but not personally. So the stigma in the first place is largely imagined - it's just that people act on it and all these probs arise"

"it will snowball quickly and everyone is happy". Nicely worded!

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By *oxy jWoman
37 weeks ago

somerset


"there are many 'straight' guys who are - or have potential to call themselves bi to some degree. Prob as many as there are women who dabble.

The problem is many won't be honest about it and still say 'straight' which makes them appear untrustworthy and struck off many bi couples list

The other type which is way more visible but I actually think is in much smaller numbers are the straights who are straight but pretebd to be bi to get off with the female.

They are scum obviously, but why are the previous lot scared to say they are bi? It's usually because :

1. Don't want to out themselves to offline friends who may see it

2. Couples/Women who continue to discrimninate against bi guys, even if their 'bi-ness' is irrelevant to the meet.

My advice is to add a second profile for your bi self, perhaps a bit more locked down thab your straight (bs) self but would enable you to get the contacts you want, have better meets and build credibility.

Secondly, treat the 'no bi men' as the bigoted diosaurs they are. You didn't miss a great chance to fuck sone hot girl....you actually dodged a bullet and don't have to keep perpetuating some lie to someone who is't worth the effort and can instead find a way more grounded, kinky, modern and probably intelligent hot girl who will be great sex PLUS they will be down with the other stuff you'd like to try.....

it will snowball quickly and everyone is happy. Even the bigot who unknown to themselves, have been fucking bi guys all thge time....

Plus as an openly bi guy (well as far as sex meets go, I'mj more trad romantically) and as part of openly bi couples, I've never heard any nasty comments or received any abuse. I've read abuse in forums and stuff but not personally. So the stigma in the first place is largely imagined - it's just that people act on it and all these probs arise"

so if you dont want to meet bi your a bigot ??? sorry but thats just wrong everyone has aq choice and if one does not want to meet bi then thats there choice to be respected tho we all know in truth if you swing then 100% youve met bi but that says more about those who lie than those who say no to bi men..

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By *luebudsMan
37 weeks ago

Walthamcross

Love to meet a couple like you. Wish my wife had some adventure in her. Play alone doesn't help. But versatile guy here if ur ever in Hertfordshire. X

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By *ister_EMan
37 weeks ago

Hayling Island

Got to love Fabs! Str8 people pretending to be bi and bi people pretending to be str8...

Just say what you like on your profile and have done! If str8 couples don't want to meet me because I ocasionaly have sex with guys then it's their choice!

Equally I'm not going to jump through hoops to 'prove' my bisexuality before meeting a couple.

I'm happy to only play with the hubby while the wife watches if that's their kink, but I don't do the whole "meet with him alone first " thing. Just to prove that I'm Bi

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By *oxy jWoman
37 weeks ago

somerset

another thing lets be clear about swinger bi and real life bi are two compleatly different things .... not to tar all with the same brush but swinging bi tends to be erm whats the word ''tame'' sometimes very ''fake'' as a fully bi woman all my sexual life t find real bi / lesbian ladys do it for me so much i dont look for bi fems online ... hubs is very much the same bi all his sexual life finds bi/gay guys away from the scene more real ...

as said not all but enough to stop looking online im here for guys onlys even with them i finde most away from online i get fed up with lies people not being who they say they are using pic 10/20 years old lie after lie just to get in your knickers find it all abit sad

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By *luefire2Couple
37 weeks ago

just somewhere around here

Simple....the guy has to suck my Husbands' cock and play with him before he even gets to touch me! I can tell a fake guy by the way he sucks cock!

Mrs R

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By *imfucktwoMan
37 weeks ago

here and there


"Simple....the guy has to suck my Husbands' cock and play with him before he even gets to touch me! I can tell a fake guy by the way he sucks cock!

Mrs R"

Sounds a bit like an assessment centre. You must suck cock, and if it’s not good enough, no thanks

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By *erry bull1Man
37 weeks ago

doncaster


"Simple....the guy has to suck my Husbands' cock and play with him before he even gets to touch me! I can tell a fake guy by the way he sucks cock!

Mrs R"
no problem there mrs R

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By *poolGuyMan
37 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Simple....the guy has to suck my Husbands' cock and play with him before he even gets to touch me! I can tell a fake guy by the way he sucks cock!

Mrs R"

What if he says your husband must suck his cock first?

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By *luefire2Couple
37 weeks ago

just somewhere around here


"Simple....the guy has to suck my Husbands' cock and play with him before he even gets to touch me! I can tell a fake guy by the way he sucks cock!

Mrs R

What if he says your husband must suck his cock first? "

Then that's what will happen, my Husband is 100% genuinely bi...not sure what your point is?

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By *poolGuyMan
37 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Simple....the guy has to suck my Husbands' cock and play with him before he even gets to touch me! I can tell a fake guy by the way he sucks cock!

Mrs R

What if he says your husband must suck his cock first?

Then that's what will happen, my Husband is 100% genuinely bi...not sure what your point is?"

Your statement of he has to suck your husband's cock but didn't mention reciprocal.

A bisexual is defined as

"A person who is sexually or romantically attracted to both men and women, or to more than one sex or gender."

Not what sexual activities that person does or does not do.

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By *luefire2Couple
37 weeks ago

just somewhere around here


"Simple....the guy has to suck my Husbands' cock and play with him before he even gets to touch me! I can tell a fake guy by the way he sucks cock!

Mrs R

What if he says your husband must suck his cock first?

Then that's what will happen, my Husband is 100% genuinely bi...not sure what your point is?

Your statement of he has to suck your husband's cock but didn't mention reciprocal.

A bisexual is defined as

"A person who is sexually or romantically attracted to both men and women, or to more than one sex or gender."

Not what sexual activities that person does or does not do.

"

So,take a look at our profile, my Husband is actually attracted to both sexes.....jeez...all I did was pass my opinion on filtering out the fakes! Go start an argument with someone else #bemorekind

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By *unessexcoupleCouple
37 weeks ago

Essex


"Simple....the guy has to suck my Husbands' cock and play with him before he even gets to touch me! I can tell a fake guy by the way he sucks cock!

Mrs R

What if he says your husband must suck his cock first?

Then that's what will happen, my Husband is 100% genuinely bi...not sure what your point is?

Your statement of he has to suck your husband's cock but didn't mention reciprocal.

A bisexual is defined as

"A person who is sexually or romantically attracted to both men and women, or to more than one sex or gender."

Not what sexual activities that person does or does not do.

So,take a look at our profile, my Husband is actually attracted to both sexes.....jeez...all I did was pass my opinion on filtering out the fakes! Go start an argument with someone else #bemorekind"

We play bi

But feel the same lots of guys just want to get to the mrs so we actually like this way of ing out straight guys

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By *obbiKentMan
37 weeks ago

maidstone

Good news, is sometimes bi attraction is hard to hide when there

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By *bcplCouple
37 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

We have the opposite problem guys say they are straight then start asking about hubby and if he will do bi play

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By *ayFUN2Couple
37 weeks ago

Leicestershire

Not just guys! So may pillow princesses too!

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By *helovesitwetCouple
37 weeks ago

brighton


"Why do men message

You make it clear bi males

You chat like, dislike

Anything they want to try

Then you find out it's bs

Go message a couple who do not want bi males"
it's the men who pretend to be straight that is the issue ..thier profile says straight then they have verifications from men and tvs ..they are ruining this site

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By *umagain58Man
37 weeks ago

London

Sorry to hear of these problems. I am always clear saying what I like or not. Not into anything heavy but Bi top mmf for me is very nice with attention from two and also returning the favour. Why waste peoples time with a load of nonsense. Yes it’s happened to me as well and sadly lots of others. Really don’t understand what they get out of it. Please do say if you are one of them and why do if you brave enough

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Maidstone


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. Sounds a fair test "

And this is the absolute truth...

I love watching men having fun together... So when looking for a third, my "bi-test" is to say he's got to put in the passion with him, and if I'm sufficiently turned on, then I'll join in... So many stop responding at this point....

... Next! ...

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By *leasureman123Man
37 weeks ago

Manchester


"Not just guys! So may pillow princesses too! "

Thats true so many fake bi women too

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By *enelope2UWoman
37 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Bi doesn't equal sucking a dick though maybe he wants to be the pitcher and have his dick sucked by a man and is attracted to doing the same with a woman..

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By *acksmith22Man
37 weeks ago

cannock

Bi male here, all was open about what I like and looking for from a possible meeting.

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By *londebiguyMan
37 weeks ago

Southport


"Why do men message

You make it clear bi males

You chat like, dislike

Anything they want to try

Then you find out it's bs

Go message a couple who do not want bi males"

I've no idea shy bi couples don't either meet with just the men first or meet and the wife just watches and is out of bounds.

Surely that sorts out the fakes?

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By *londebiguyMan
37 weeks ago

Southport


"Bi doesn't equal sucking a dick though maybe he wants to be the pitcher and have his dick sucked by a man and is attracted to doing the same with a woman.."

That really is not fully bi.

Lots of men are happy to get a bj off anyone at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"Bi doesn't equal sucking a dick though maybe he wants to be the pitcher and have his dick sucked by a man and is attracted to doing the same with a woman.."

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Fully 100% bi

But prefer not to label it...

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By *ighFlyerSissyTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Midlands

More than happy to suck first

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By *eechyweechyMan
29 weeks ago

Saltburn-by-the-Sea

100% genuine one here

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By *ighFlyerSissyTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Midlands


"Fully 100% bi

But prefer not to label it...

"

Happy to have you prove it I’ll let the forum know if he’s lying haha

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By *ickie76XXXMan
29 weeks ago

dartford

Is it just me and please excuse my ignorance but how does someone “pretend” to be Bi?

Do you mean in terms of just when they message you then?

I consider myself bi and I’m pretty sure there was never I’m just pretending stage along the way

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By *ionycusMan
29 weeks ago

Babylon

Bi doesn't mean you're gonna suck every cock , just like straight doesn't mean you'll fuck every pussy. If someone told me I had to suck cock to get at some pussy , unless it was Raquel Welsh in her prime , they can f off .

In saying that i understand the annoyance in people misleading you.

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By *ackformore100Man
29 weeks ago

Tin town

This seems to be a bit like the definition of free range. What we definitely need is more labels and then we need more people to police, approve and enforce those labels. I'm sure that way happiness lies. And if someone accidently touches s cock they have to declare it, provide evidence and apply for their new label.

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By *aveonMan
29 weeks ago

Dartford

Crazy that people chance the situation for couples that clearly want bi

I’m bi, love nothing more than bi couples and welcome bi couple situations, just for me the totally fluid way of having open fun between people regardless of gender is simply perfect

How can people think that they can fake that !

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By *rPotatoheadMan
29 weeks ago

Boston


"We get the opposite op not looking for bi men but bi men messaging to say they can play straight "

Each to their own but I don't really see why this is a thing?

As a genuine versatile bi guy (as in I suck cock and will also be fucked if the mood takes me), it also doesn't mean I either want to, or have to play with every guy I see.

Just like women don't necessarily find all men attractive, newsflash but I might not find your husband attractive!

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By *ipsforlipsMan
29 weeks ago

Midlands


"I think a big part of the issue is that the options Bisexual or Bi curious are a bit glib.

I really enjoy orally bi play with couples but I'm not attracted to men or wish to meet them alone.

So I'm not Bisexual, not curious (I know what I do and don't like), but orally-bi or hetero flexible aren't options. "

I think this is a key point, sexuality isn't linear. While some people may fit into box A, B, or C, some will want to be in more than one box, and others will be one box but may dip into another partly, or in different situations.

My understanding of the rainbow of the LGBTQ+ community is partly to reflect the many types of sexuality.

Sadly the world of Fab is Stright, Gay, or Bi, any fludity or trying to answer the closest to where you may be will brand you a fake or a liar. In an online community that is open about many things, I can't help but feel this is a pity.

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By *obbiKentMan
29 weeks ago

maidstone

For me it is all about the people I meet, and the way we are all feeling, just open to all, and it all works out fine

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By *ackformore100Man
29 weeks ago

Tin town


"I think a big part of the issue is that the options Bisexual or Bi curious are a bit glib.

I really enjoy orally bi play with couples but I'm not attracted to men or wish to meet them alone.

So I'm not Bisexual, not curious (I know what I do and don't like), but orally-bi or hetero flexible aren't options.

I think this is a key point, sexuality isn't linear. While some people may fit into box A, B, or C, some will want to be in more than one box, and others will be one box but may dip into another partly, or in different situations.

My understanding of the rainbow of the LGBTQ+ community is partly to reflect the many types of sexuality.

Sadly the world of Fab is Stright, Gay, or Bi, any fludity or trying to answer the closest to where you may be will brand you a fake or a liar. In an online community that is open about many things, I can't help but feel this is a pity. "

And some may like to try different boxes at different times and some may move from one box to another and back again... Fucking liars.

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By *awpleasureMan
29 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

In my experience most bi couples

want a top bi guy to fuck them both or at least just the male whilst she watches.

For a bi male who is more bottom with guys, it's virtually impossible to find a bi couple where male is vers or top

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By *he original SinTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Dover Kent

Basically it's simple all guys lie be they straight or bi, depends on who they are meeting, you will never know that's a fact.

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By *chupforitMan
29 weeks ago

Peterborough


"Basically it's simple all guys lie be they straight or bi, depends on who they are meeting, you will never know that's a fact."

Not all. There are still some genuine guys on here.

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By *acavityMan
29 weeks ago

Redditch


"people can be whom ever they want to be but stop lying or trying to fool others if your bi but wont suck cock then make sure your open about it so others can make a real decision rather than waste someones time ...

its always been clear that there is a group of not so bi guys who use it to get near the woman thats always been the case but lets be honest they are very easy to spot or catch out ... i think if your bisexual then you should say that your top/bottom /vers ... suck/dont suck .... kiss dont kiss so ...theres also such a thing as being bi but only meet femboys/cd/tv/trans again just a different side .... no one is saying your type of bi is wrong what they are sayting is be truthful because not everyone is looking for your type of bi ..

same with everything on this scene be open be honest dont try to deceive"

I agree. People should use words.

I generally play with feminine people, whatever they have inside their underwear. It's what I find attractive.

I have a fairly well defined type of masculine men I find attractive (quite specific and exclusive)

But I will play with men I normally wouldn't look at, if a lady is present.

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By *unning onCouple
29 weeks ago

leatherhead


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. "

I like this policy for so many reasons

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By *unning onCouple
29 weeks ago

leatherhead

Bex and I met with a 'bi guy' a while back for a casual pre-fuck drink. When I discreetly put my hand on his crotch he nearly jumped out of his skin!! He admitted to never being with a guy before despite proclaiming he was fully bi. That said, he came round and was soon sucking on Mike's cock like a pro. What's the moral to that story!?

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By *udist2ukMan
29 weeks ago

chudleigh

It’s odd that even here bi guys still have a stigma. I admit I am bi. It’s why I am here. But I see guys who meet loads of couples. Some stating “definitely no bi guys” , and I can see that they have met guys that have approached me. Sadly they better by lying than I do.

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By *erICorknowCouple
29 weeks ago

cork

Herself loves being with women I don’t know how she’d be seeing me with a guy but I’ve told her I’d like to!

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By *DboxcoupleCouple
29 weeks ago

wigan

They are trying there luck just to get with the lady, if only they give orally to both.. Soo much more fun to be had..

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By *erICorknowCouple
29 weeks ago

cork

Agree 100%

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By *m3232Man
29 weeks ago

maidenhead


"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. "

The best way to out the clowns

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