FabSwingers.com forum: A bad status

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can a bad status change your mind about a person

If it’s aggressive in its nature or belittling ect.

Would you think twice about making contact?

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Yeah I've even blocked people due to their status update

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By *aughtyPumpkinWoman
over a year ago

Not Far From Doncaster

Absolutely. Profile can be amazing but a bad attitude in a status can give me a huge insight as to whether I’d feel comfortable or valued if I was alone with them

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yup absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. Sometimes people need to walk away from their device before posting…

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

I always wonder if people get turned off when I call "the slut" a slut in a status. But she loves it. And she was the one that created the account and the username!

But yeah statuses can sometimes be abit whiney which would put us off.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Stamford

Bad status writers - you know who you are.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Soho

It doesn't make me judgemental about them. Instead it's a filter for me to avoid their advances in case they've written something like "...just had my quim filled with untold spunk from the Vicar and the Bishop †, happy daze".

Each to their own but it's not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely, the moaning, whining, slagging off genders because they can't get a fuck status, the pitty parade & the general demands & negative status that just makes me think - nope not for me.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"It doesn't make me judgemental about them. Instead it's a filter for me to avoid their advances in case they've written something like "...just had my quim filled with untold spunk from the Vicar and the Bishop †, happy daze".

Each to their own but it's not for me."

You are not religious?

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By *neakypeaky30Man
over a year ago

Around

Yep.

This just in, personality counts! Sometimes it comes shining through in a bad status update...

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Soho

Each to their own but it's not for me.

You are not religious? "

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Overtly no. Ecclesiastical sex has its place though. Rest assured I do practice safe sects.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't send messages so I wouldn't be getting in touch in the first place but if someone sends me a message and I know from local updates that they are always whinging about something and complaining about men on here I wouldn't be making much of an effort to reply to them.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

"Can a bad status change your mind about a person

If it’s aggressive in its nature or belittling ect.

Would you think twice about making contact?"

Absolutely! Especially the moany ones!

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By *essTTWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Yeah I've even blocked people due to their status update "

Same

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

London

Interesting how quickly you can go off people just by their one status update.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
over a year ago

honeysuckle lane

Yeah especially statuses which I feel there not respectful about women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep it happened recently, started a chat but saw they were belittling others who had contacted them. Changed their status twice in an hour or so to do it.

Straight to #blocked

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
over a year ago

belfast

"Yeah I've even blocked people due to their status update "

I do that regularly.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Absolutely, I block repeat offenders in my local updates.

I blocked one a couple of days ago who implied all women here were sluts who wouldn't get a look in, away from fab.

The rants can be very telling.

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Yes advertising drugs hoping someone is desperate enough to shag them for some is an instant block

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By *ullyMan
over a year ago

Near Clacton

Yes it matters to me too. I don't like aggression or posturing. Not a fan of of when it's all about them and what they want! A big part of my fun is pleasing the person I'm with.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

All the time. I don't want to interact with someone that either moans about how crap Fab is and they can't get a meet, or how they need to unload in someone (anyone) now. There are plenty of others that make me throw up a little but those are my main pet peeves

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By *reedyKWoman
over a year ago

Fife

"Can a bad status change your mind about a person

If it’s aggressive in its nature or belittling ect.

Would you think twice about making contact?"

100%! Also moaning status or one going on about them leaving, but they never actually leave! Especially off putting is the men saying they need there balls drained!

personally that's not for me!

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By *ifestyle1Man
over a year ago

kent

"Interesting how quickly you can go off people just by their one status update. "

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By *ifestyle1Man
over a year ago

kent

I've updated my status. What will happen will happens

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

It certainly can...

....any which either hint or outright reveal that they use drugs - saw one recently where a woman was openly offering to fuck whoever could supply her with some "snow"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a guy message and his status was sniff!! Definitely avoided that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can a bad status change your mind about a person

If it’s aggressive in its nature or belittling ect.

Would you think twice about making contact?

100%! Also moaning status or one going on about them leaving, but they never actually leave! Especially off putting is the men saying they need there balls drained!

personally that's not for me! "

Poor guy might have had an infection

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Stamford

"Just had a guy message and his status was sniff!! Definitely avoided that "

Did his profile say 420 friendly?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just had a guy message and his status was sniff!! Definitely avoided that

Did his profile say 420 friendly?

That’s grinds my gears

“Look at me I smoke ”

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Stamford

"Just had a guy message and his status was sniff!! Definitely avoided that

Did his profile say 420 friendly?

That’s grinds my gears

“Look at me I smoke ”

Innit bruv

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By *ifestyle1Man
over a year ago

kent

"Can a bad status change your mind about a person

If it’s aggressive in its nature or belittling ect.

Would you think twice about making contact?"

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By *ifestyle1Man
over a year ago

kent

Has my profile unsecured for fab ??

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

What about the people who put phone numbers as their status?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just a status.

Passive aggressive bios on profiles can instantly make our heads turn in an opposite direction tbh

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By *ifestyle1Man
over a year ago

kent

Hard to make friends

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"Can a bad status change your mind about a person

If it’s aggressive in its nature or belittling ect.

Would you think twice about making contact?"

Absolutely, I've blocked quite a few due to their statuses

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Absolutely. Sometimes a status can tell you more about a person than their profile ever will.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Can a bad status change your mind about a person

If it’s aggressive in its nature or belittling ect.

Would you think twice about making contact?"

A status isn't even the smallest thing I would block people for...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have blocked a few for their statuses before, but we are pretty sure it's happened to us as well.

Such is life.

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By *lack beauty 35Woman
over a year ago

West midlands

I agree aggressive statues are a total put off. Or ones that moan because its a swing site they should be guaranteed sex

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By *ayPrimeMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Aggressive statues

that sounds like a nightmare!

Sorry…

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

One of the reasons I pay for site supporter pass, is so I can keep private notes against profiles….

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By *ony MannMan
over a year ago

South Newton

I have been told some of my status updates are not on perfect. As women always know better I am avoiding references to spiders, web and pounce.

What has put me off is referring to things I'm not into.

Tony

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By *ayPrimeMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I forget the status function exists half the time TBH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do wonder if I should use the status more. Can it be a way of calling out poor behaviour on here too?, or would that be moderated even if no names were mentioned?

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By *ark n kimCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes definitely,any mention of drugs,if they need their balls emptied or have a 7 day load to get rid of.horrible.

Yes and the ones who moan they can't get a meet.well fill in your bio,send a decent coherent message and don't put anything disrespectful or crass on your status,and your fortunes might change.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"I do wonder if I should use the status more. Can it be a way of calling out poor behaviour on here too?, or would that be moderated even if no names were mentioned?"

Statuses do frequently get used to call out no-shows, time wasters, and people who have sent rude and/or aggressive messages, etc...

....like here in the forums, profile names are not meant to be mentioned in statuses, but they frequently are...

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincs

Absolutely - it’s another filter.

The status bar allows people to post their thoughts/desires/advertising something. If they are using it to moan/be derogatory or cry about something/someone then it will affect their opportunities.

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By *WB85Man
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Absolutely. It's another glimpse into somebody else's world.

Status, profile pic are both big parts in my decision.

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By *equila89Man
over a year ago

Tortured Poets Department

I’ve used mine for a tarot card of the day thing lol. Never really thought about it.

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