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Partners who endup leaving you for someone they played with

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By *oroMale41 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Stockton on tees

Hi everyone

How risky is swingers lifestyle?

Has a partner ever left you for or had an affair with a swinging partner?

I'm wondering if the saying "those who play together, stay together" is actually true.

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By *hil most chillMan
24 weeks ago

South East & Europe

Pretty sure the phrase is "those who gay together stay together"

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
24 weeks ago

Herts


"Pretty sure the phrase is "those who gay together stay together""

Easy to confuse lube and glue in the dark

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By *ikesEmBigMan
24 weeks ago

Herts

I've been offered a few times. There are a lot of couples who really aren't that secure on here. But that's life in general too be honest. But I'm always getting approached by the female of the couple wanting to meet without him

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
24 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If they're gonna cheat and leave you when you're swinging together, they definitely weren't going to be loyal and committed while pretending to be monogamous either

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By *oroMale41 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Stockton on tees


"I've been offered a few times. There are a lot of couples who really aren't that secure on here. But that's life in general too be honest. But I'm always getting approached by the female of the couple wanting to meet without him"

This is when it gets dangerous I guess. Imagine explaining to someone why you broke up, we were swingers playing with another couple and then my wife ended up leaving me for him.

Some people say swinging makes their relationships stronger, but I guess that's just a way of proving to their self that what they are doing is right

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By *otwifeHusband888Couple
24 weeks ago

Within touching distance


"If they're gonna cheat and leave you when you're swinging together, they definitely weren't going to be loyal and committed while pretending to be monogamous either "

Exactly this x

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By *ikesEmBigMan
24 weeks ago

Herts


"I've been offered a few times. There are a lot of couples who really aren't that secure on here. But that's life in general too be honest. But I'm always getting approached by the female of the couple wanting to meet without him

This is when it gets dangerous I guess. Imagine explaining to someone why you broke up, we were swingers playing with another couple and then my wife ended up leaving me for him.

Some people say swinging makes their relationships stronger, but I guess that's just a way of proving to their self that what they are doing is right"

It's the same with the safe sex brigade who ask to go bare the minute you get your clothes off

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By *ellhungvweMan
24 weeks ago

Cheltenham

The great things about fab wives is that you can hand them back at the end of the evening.

I think if you are secure in your relationship then fab is great. If you have weaknesses then fab will find them out.

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By *oroMale41 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Stockton on tees

I have had male partners with erection issues message me to ask if I can fuck their wives as they can't fulfill the needs, these have been some of my best fucks. I think the feeling of the next man's wife ditching him for me is a turn on. Of course I'd never want to affect a couples relationship is real life though

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
24 weeks ago

Portstewart

We would say that it's never been a thing for us just make sure that you are always communicating with your partner and it wouldn't be an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"If they're gonna cheat and leave you when you're swinging together, they definitely weren't going to be loyal and committed while pretending to be monogamous either "

This is 100% correct. If they leave, they take their issues elsewhere! Move on and rebuild… and change the locks

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By *hat.coupleCouple
24 weeks ago

Dartford


"I've been offered a few times. There are a lot of couples who really aren't that secure on here. But that's life in general too be honest. But I'm always getting approached by the female of the couple wanting to meet without him"

With a cock that big I'm not surprised!! but as a seriously devoted woman I just could not nor want to leave my husband. I'm ridiculously happy with our current set up. I love seeing him with other women and joining in. I'm not concerned my husband is going anywhere as he isn't the type of guy to even look at other women. Joining this lifestyle was all my idea as i came out as bi and wanted to have fun with ladies as I hadnt been with a woman before. I'm not even interested in playing with other men I'm that happy with him, he's a lucky man really x

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By *ikesEmBigMan
24 weeks ago

Herts


"I've been offered a few times. There are a lot of couples who really aren't that secure on here. But that's life in general too be honest. But I'm always getting approached by the female of the couple wanting to meet without him

With a cock that big I'm not surprised!! but as a seriously devoted woman I just could not nor want to leave my husband. I'm ridiculously happy with our current set up. I love seeing him with other women and joining in. I'm not concerned my husband is going anywhere as he isn't the type of guy to even look at other women. Joining this lifestyle was all my idea as i came out as bi and wanted to have fun with ladies as I hadnt been with a woman before. I'm not even interested in playing with other men I'm that happy with him, he's a lucky man really x"

You flatterer. Sounds great

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By *issmorganWoman
24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple and we both meet together and seperately.

Jack more than me, but that's my choice.

We've been together 8.5 years, never any cause for concern or drama.

He always tells me if he's chatting to someone or he'd want to meet them and I'm good with that. I'll even speak to the lady or couple to confirm it if they prefer to.

It may be different for us as we met on fab as singles and wanted to stay in the lifestyle.

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By *oxy jWoman
24 weeks ago

somerset

strong loving together couples are the core of swinging its only those who swing for the wrong reasons like trying to repair sex life or marriage that most often fail

swinging is not a trend its a lifestyle and for very together couples ... but as in vanilla life affairs will alway happen when things are missing within your relationship.... swinging repairs nothing it will expose those who are not quite together

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By *ablo_UKMan
23 weeks ago

Derby

Good advice

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By *hoirCouple
23 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"Hi everyone

How risky is swingers lifestyle?

Has a partner ever left you for or had an affair with a swinging partner?

I'm wondering if the saying "those who play together, stay together" is actually true."

I've had a few play pals who left their husband. It happens.

C

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