FabSwingers.com forum: Time limit on replying to messages?

By *ongAndThick123 OP Man
24 weeks ago

Leeds

Do you believe there’s an etiquette for replying to messages? Should you respond within a certain amount of time?

I let messages build up on here for days (or weeks, on my last profile) before sorting through them and eventually replying. Though it seems that some people take offence at that.

I’m just wondering if others would find that rude?

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By *bisfunMan
24 weeks ago

sutton

I think it’s each to their own. I try to reply as soon as I can. Whatever works best for you

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
24 weeks ago

Glasgow

Whenever you want.

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By *hil most chillMan
24 weeks ago

South East & Europe

It's totally up to you, but surely you'll miss some opportunities doing it your way?

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By *eally_RosieWoman
24 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I will usually scan mine and delete any based on age, distance or anything that grosses me out. I then mark the ones I’m interested in as unread and generally get round to them with a cuppa x

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Its my profile and il reply to messages when I went if thats considered rude then tough, thats if I even reply

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By *eyond PurityCouple
24 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

It’s your mailbox - no right or wrong.

We check when we log on as we might be waiting for a reply or some new exciting person might be sending us a message.

If we were chatting and we seen someone on FAB constantly and not reply to our message then we’d assume that person wasn’t keen at all.

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By *ityguyMan
24 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I reply when ever I'm on line even if it's just a polite no thanks.

If I don't get a response from my messages I send I tend to assume there's no interest so I delete those after 2 or 3 weeks.

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By *heeseandCrackersCouple
24 weeks ago

Newcastle

It depends on the message. If we send face pics and don’t get a response of any sort after 24 hrs they generally get deleted and possibly blocked so we don’t waste our time again in the future.

Is that harsh? Seems odd to send messages back and forth regularly but the moment the face pic request goes out the conversation halts.

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