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"As a black man who has been with both white and black girls. I think it’s the individual character that determines " Exactly | |||
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"As a black man who has been with both white and black girls. I think it’s the individual character that determines " Let me know how this take works with the BBC crowd 
It’s amusing how long those BBC posts go then a black girl post comes up and it’s shut down with personality comments | |||
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"I love all women no matter the tone of the skin involved. We should remember we are all human, and we all have our own preferences." You don't love all woman though, that's why you have an age limit set on your profile. That's perfectly OK but you don't love all woman, I also suspect tgat you don't find every woman in your age range attractive and that's ok too. Mrs x | |||
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"I love all women no matter the tone of the skin involved. We should remember we are all human, and we all have our own preferences.You don't love all woman though, that's why you have an age limit set on your profile. That's perfectly OK but you don't love all woman, I also suspect tgat you don't find every woman in your age range attractive and that's ok too. I mean, I’ve got an age range set on my profile but I honestly think that I could have fun with any woman any shape any size any colour as long as they’re just as willing as I am Mrs x" | |||
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"I love all women no matter the tone of the skin involved. We should remember we are all human, and we all have our own preferences.You don't love all woman though, that's why you have an age limit set on your profile. That's perfectly OK but you don't love all woman, I also suspect tgat you don't find every woman in your age range attractive and that's ok too. I mean, I’ve got an age range set on my profile but I honestly think that I could have fun with any woman any shape any size any colour as long as they’re just as willing as I am Mrs x" I'm just messing with you, I'm just trying to point out nobody loves everyone, it's just not true. There's nothing wrong with that, it's normal to have preferences but no one likes everything or everyone in any other aspects of their lives. I just find that people say they do like everyone on here for a couple of reasons. I think they are afraid to state what they really like due to a fear they might upset some people on here for holding that belief. I think this then plays into another reason, particularly with single guys. They don't want to limit their chances by upsetting anyone, which might make them look bad and so say things they think people want to hear, coming across a bit 'virtue signally'. Just state what you are looking for, just be honest. You state you'd be okay playing with any woman so... 'long as they’re just as willing as I am'. Really??? But you pressed that age filter setting for a reason. So you'd go as high as 65?, 70?, 75?, 80?, 85?, 90? please don't tell me you want to have some fun with a 99 year old. It's OK to have a preference, to exercise your choice, everyone is here to get what they want out of their experiences. Don't worry about upsetting people on here by telling the truth, so long as you are respectful and not hurting anyone. You need to remember that if anyone doesn't like your choices they will probably not hesitate to tell you and they most definitely won't be worried to do so. Just have fun, stay true to yourself and have fun your way, not feel pressured into having fun you think is acceptable to others, Mrs x | |||
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"As a black man who has been with both white and black girls. I think it’s the individual character that determines Let me know how this take works with the BBC crowd
It’s amusing how long those BBC posts go then a black girl post comes up and it’s shut down with personality comments "Yeah defo. BBC is accepted and is a ‘thing’ and kink and preference When it’s reversed there’s a whole different mindset, weird I love all kinds of women, never really had a type as such. Been out with black and mixed race women as I have with blondes, brunettes etc Is ‘black woman/white man’ a kink or just a preference for some men The same with men into Asian women. | |||
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"Having preferences is one thing. Fetishising races - and reducing people to their ethnicities and the colour of their genitals - is another. Not going to lie: I find some of the posts on this thread absolutely disgusting. “I’d like to try X ethnicity” :vomit:" this | |||
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"I think (and I’m basing this off of convos with friends/ family) amongst Black women, there’s far less tolerance to being objectified and fetishised- especially by white men, compared to the tolerance levels amongst Black men. There’s definitely some obvious reasons for that on both sides. I wouldn’t entertain meeting with someone who would make a big deal out of my race when it’s literally the least interesting part of me." Very much this!!! Although, i’d rather know peoples stance from the off, if its just a try black women or fetish thing, let me know then i can respond accordingly. | |||
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"Having preferences is one thing. Fetishising races - and reducing people to their ethnicities and the colour of their genitals - is another. Not going to lie: I find some of the posts on this thread absolutely disgusting. “I’d like to try X ethnicity” :vomit:" You’re completely missing the point I love Scandinavian women, am I allowed to say that’s a fetish or will I be looked down upon? What if that Scandinavian was black? Or white? Would you be offended by either? I have a friend who is obsessed by Asian women, his wife his Chinese and in the 35+ yrs I’ve known him most of his girlfriends have been Japanese, Korean or Chinese It’s his thing, so what if that’s the ethnicity that he’s into - it’s his preference. Some people need to stop being so f***ing touchy | |||
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"Having preferences is one thing. Fetishising races - and reducing people to their ethnicities and the colour of their genitals - is another. Not going to lie: I find some of the posts on this thread absolutely disgusting. “I’d like to try X ethnicity” :vomit: You’re completely missing the point I love Scandinavian women, am I allowed to say that’s a fetish or will I be looked down upon? What if that Scandinavian was black? Or white? Would you be offended by either? I have a friend who is obsessed by Asian women, his wife his Chinese and in the 35+ yrs I’ve known him most of his girlfriends have been Japanese, Korean or Chinese It’s his thing, so what if that’s the ethnicity that he’s into - it’s his preference. Some people need to stop being so f***ing touchy " :says “You’re completely missing the point”, manages to not even read the first sentence of my post:  
That one has preferences is one thing. That you approach a person of your preferred ethnicities as “I want to try your ethnicity” or “I’m looking for a BBC/BWC” is debasing as you place value in their ethnicity or the colour of their genitals, and not who they are as a person. Why is it difficult to understand? | |||
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"I think (and I’m basing this off of convos with friends/ family) amongst Black women, there’s far less tolerance to being objectified and fetishised- especially by white men, compared to the tolerance levels amongst Black men. There’s definitely some obvious reasons for that on both sides. I wouldn’t entertain meeting with someone who would make a big deal out of my race when it’s literally the least interesting part of me. Very much this!!! Although, i’d rather know peoples stance from the off, if its just a try black women or fetish thing, let me know then i can respond accordingly. " 💯 let themselves be known 😂 | |||
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"I think (and I’m basing this off of convos with friends/ family) amongst Black women, there’s far less tolerance to being objectified and fetishised- especially by white men, compared to the tolerance levels amongst Black men. There’s definitely some obvious reasons for that on both sides. I’m saying all this as a Black mixed woman in a relationship with a white man 😂 I wouldn’t entertain meeting with someone who would make a big deal out of my race when it’s literally the least interesting part of me." I think this is accurate. The amount of messages we get saying “I’ve always want to fuck a black girl” I delete them immediately but if that same message goes to a black male, I’m confident the majority are asking for the address lol. | |||
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"I think (and I’m basing this off of convos with friends/ family) amongst Black women, there’s far less tolerance to being objectified and fetishised- especially by white men, compared to the tolerance levels amongst Black men. There’s definitely some obvious reasons for that on both sides. I’m saying all this as a Black mixed woman in a relationship with a white man 😂 I wouldn’t entertain meeting with someone who would make a big deal out of my race when it’s literally the least interesting part of me. I think this is accurate. The amount of messages we get saying “I’ve always want to fuck a black girl” I delete them immediately but if that same message goes to a black male, I’m confident the majority are asking for the address lol. " Absolutely yes! I can’t ever imagine that there’d be club nights devoted entirely to Black women in the same way they are for men… probably because we wouldn’t show up to it leaving a bunch of weird fantasist men on their own 🤣🤣 | |||
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"Having preferences is one thing. Fetishising races - and reducing people to their ethnicities and the colour of their genitals - is another. Not going to lie: I find some of the posts on this thread absolutely disgusting. “I’d like to try X ethnicity” :vomit:" 👍 | |||
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"I think (and I’m basing this off of convos with friends/ family) amongst Black women, there’s far less tolerance to being objectified and fetishised- especially by white men, compared to the tolerance levels amongst Black men. There’s definitely some obvious reasons for that on both sides I’m saying all this as a Black mixed woman in a relationship with a white man 😂 I wouldn’t entertain meeting with someone who would make a big deal out of my race when it’s literally the least interesting part of me. I think this is accurate. The amount of messages we get saying “I’ve always want to fuck a black girl” I delete them immediately but if that same message goes to a black male, I’m confident the majority are asking for the address lol. " And is a low life whoever would say that. I've known several black women and I love their strength of self-worth, seductive nature, love of sex and their lack of selfishness to release their firm fruitfull bodies so both have a great time. | |||
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"It does generally seem that black ladies aren't interested in white men; certainly not at the same rate white women are into black men. It is a shame, I do appreciate the darker skinned lady of all origins, had my fair share of playtime with Asian ladies but never got all the way with a black lady. " The white women that are into black men tend not to be attractive, so you neednt worry about that. Lots of black women love white cock. There are just so few of them on fab compared to white women that it makes it seem like there are none interested in white guys. I've seen several profiles from black womem at least saying "white guys only/no black guys" as well as interracial couples with a white male and black female on fab. | |||
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"I love all women no matter the tone of the skin involved. We should remember we are all human, and we all have our own preferences.You don't love all woman though, that's why you have an age limit set on your profile. That's perfectly OK but you don't love all woman, I also suspect tgat you don't find every woman in your age range attractive and that's ok too. Mrs x" Well you are definitely a little beauty xx | |||
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"It does generally seem that black ladies aren't interested in white men; certainly not at the same rate white women are into black men. It is a shame, I do appreciate the darker skinned lady of all origins, had my fair share of playtime with Asian ladies but never got all the way with a black lady. The white women that are into black men tend not to be attractive, so you neednt worry about that. Lots of black women love white cock. There are just so few of them on fab compared to white women that it makes it seem like there are none interested in white guys. I've seen several profiles from black womem at least saying "white guys only/no black guys" as well as interracial couples with a white male and black female on fab." Hmm... Having seen some of the BBC only profiles on here im not sure I'd agree that the tendency is predominantly from unattractive people. | |||
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"It does generally seem that black ladies aren't interested in white men; certainly not at the same rate white women are into black men. It is a shame, I do appreciate the darker skinned lady of all origins, had my fair share of playtime with Asian ladies but never got all the way with a black lady. The white women that are into black men tend not to be attractive, so you neednt worry about that. Lots of black women love white cock. There are just so few of them on fab compared to white women that it makes it seem like there are none interested in white guys. I've seen several profiles from black womem at least saying "white guys only/no black guys" as well as interracial couples with a white male and black female on fab. Hmm... Having seen some of the BBC only profiles on here im not sure I'd agree that the tendency is predominantly from unattractive people. " You are focussing on the body only mate... you need to look at the face. Still, when I go to interracial parties most if not all of the single women are plus sized. | |||
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