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Couples what do you look for??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
30 weeks ago

Something we have noticed/discussed recently as a couple so thought we would throw it out to the offer fab world

As a couple when you look for men women or other couples do you look for someone or people similar to your husband/wife or do you look for someone that is very different to them?

Are you attracted to someone different or do you look for someone that you think reminds you in some way of your partner whatever that might be? Interested to hear what people think?

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By *ood manMan
30 weeks ago

wsllsall

I would’ve thought most couples are looking to make new fantasies come true why look for someone is the same as your partnerI would’ve thought is about making your dreams come true most women dream of that perfect man most men dream of that perfect woman sometimes it’s not always your partner and you’ll also find 9 out of 10 men when they have sex with their partner I’m not thinking of the partner and the same with me most women when having sex with her partner I’m not thinking of my partner that thinking of a man at Work the man across the street Amanda so shopping sad but true that’s always something you know fabs is a fantasy world is a make-believe world that we buying two and we enjoy and that’s why for me you’re not looking for someone the same is the person you already live is that fantasy you’ve always dreamed of

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By *he love catsCouple
30 weeks ago

South Wales

To tell you the truth we tend to mix it up with ages, genders and looks etc.

Some of the best sex we've had has been with people that we wouldn't have gone for when we first started in the lifestyle, you can just never tell.

Saying that you still have to have a connection for it to work.

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By *emdomCouple2024Couple
30 weeks ago

dudley

Mainly good vibes, same interests and mutual attraction, we are definitely far from vanilla so the kinkier the better for us but we won't turn down fun with the right couple xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
30 weeks ago


"To tell you the truth we tend to mix it up with ages, genders and looks etc.

Some of the best sex we've had has been with people that we wouldn't have gone for when we first started in the lifestyle, you can just never tell.

Saying that you still have to have a connection for it to work."

We have varied things up as well but had a chat the other night about a lady on here that was very very similar to mrs and we laughed saying it would be like being in bed with sisters and then it sparked the question would we prefer people similar to each other or completely different…..

Doesn’t really bother us either way but it was an interesting conversation..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
30 weeks ago


"Mainly good vibes, same interests and mutual attraction, we are definitely far from vanilla so the kinkier the better for us but we won't turn down fun with the right couple xx"

Absolutely wanting them to have similar interests and desires x

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
30 weeks ago

SW Scotland

Tattoos, bright hair and a kinky outlook on sex !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
30 weeks ago


"Tattoos, bright hair and a kinky outlook on sex ! "

Love that answer! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

We lay it all out there on our profile. It's lengthy but if someone can't spare 5 minutes to read, then how do they expect an hour or so of our time. It's actually helped curb the amount of messages we were getting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
30 weeks ago


"We lay it all out there on our profile. It's lengthy but if someone can't spare 5 minutes to read, then how do they expect an hour or so of our time. It's actually helped curb the amount of messages we were getting. "

We get what people but on pricked etc meant in a way if does mrs like men on here that are similar to mr and does mr like ladies similar to mrs or do you look for someone very different to what’s already at home?

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By *emdomCouple2024Couple
30 weeks ago

dudley

In relation to this, Mr likes woman similar to Mrs.. curvy, busty, dominant all massive turns on for him, Mrs likes to find the opposite.. dominant, built/dad bod ect.. I find meeting someone different to Mr helps with the submissive side of it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"We lay it all out there on our profile. It's lengthy but if someone can't spare 5 minutes to read, then how do they expect an hour or so of our time. It's actually helped curb the amount of messages we were getting.

We get what people but on pricked etc meant in a way if does mrs like men on here that are similar to mr and does mr like ladies similar to mrs or do you look for someone very different to what’s already at home? "

I mean there are differences, there has to be, but virtues and interests need to align. The meets we have had so far have had little similarities to my husband. They've created different experiences and that is what matters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
30 weeks ago


"We lay it all out there on our profile. It's lengthy but if someone can't spare 5 minutes to read, then how do they expect an hour or so of our time. It's actually helped curb the amount of messages we were getting.

We get what people but on pricked etc meant in a way if does mrs like men on here that are similar to mr and does mr like ladies similar to mrs or do you look for someone very different to what’s already at home?

I mean there are differences, there has to be, but virtues and interests need to align. The meets we have had so far have had little similarities to my husband. They've created different experiences and that is what matters."

Interests have to align of cause or the fun won’t be as fun!

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By *ark n kimCouple
30 weeks ago

Durham

We look for people that can read.

Although it does make it easier to delete the one's that cannot read.

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
30 weeks ago

Sheffield

Mainly someone we can get on with! The social side is what will get us in to bed.

If they only want to talk filth with us 24/7 it's not going to happen, we like to be able to vibe and connect with someone before we jump in to fucking with them. Can't say we look for those who look like us as most of our meets have been very different people appearance wise to us, as long as we find you attractive then from that point of view its a go.

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
30 weeks ago

Thurrock

Looks wise we don’t have a set type and have met a variety of people it’s more down to personality and how we get on with, I think in that sense we look for people similar to us

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By *he couple nextdoorCouple
29 weeks ago

grangemouth

For us couple similar to us

Would be good to meet a couple that are like us fun social etc

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By *arriedwelshcoupleCouple
29 weeks ago

Cardiff

For us we love to meet other couples that can make good conversation and have a laugh.

Age isn't the biggest concern for us. Of course there should be a physical attraction but as long as we all get on then we can all have some fun

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
29 weeks ago

manchester

Respect and attra

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
29 weeks ago

Leicester

We mainly prefer couples although we will meet single ladies and and convincing Tgirls, we don’t mind stubble on male halves but not beards, we like to have a laugh and get on with others and hopefully find them as kinky as we can be.

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