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"Nothing ventured and all that. "Absolutely next time will have to say something we didn’t even mention it to each other while out but back at hotel both wished we had.. and ever since then wondered would she of said yes was she hoping for something like that to be offered unfortunately we will never know now although whenever we have a night off we go to the same bar in Cambridge hoping to see her again haha | |||
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"Haven't tried, but curious as to what the responses might be. " Exactly same here hence why we asked to see what responses people may of had? | |||
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"Have a little signal, a phrase, so that you two know what the other is thinking. "This will defiantly be something we do in the future… Have to admit would love to be approached by a stranger who likes the look of us come over chatted bought us a drink we buy them some the convos get flirty till they say would you fancy coming back to ours/mine or can I come back with you this evening type scenario massive fantasy of ours | |||
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"I am trying to pluck up the courage to talk to a delivery driver as I’m sure they’re on here " Had a few very nice delivery drivers come to us however with kids at home slightly more difficult haha | |||
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"I used to work at foxy adult cinema in Bilston, I often see men who used to go to cinema in pub or out and about with wives,kids, grandchildren I never say a word not even hello, unless they speak first, do talk to a couple who used the cinema when we bump into each other discretion is the key" We would never approach or want to be approached if our with our kids but when alone just the two of us then and advances are welcomed haha | |||
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"Been approached quite a few times from couples and guys asking if we'd like to join them for fun xx " Did they know you were swingers anyway? Or no idea just a random approach | |||
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"Ive been approached and I’ve also approached guys. I love telling them what we do and watching there faces x "I would guess from your photos you don’t get turned down either haha I bet the reaction must be a huge turn on too if positive of cause  | |||
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"Ive been approached and I’ve also approached guys. I love telling them what we do and watching there faces x "That's the bit T loves... Seeing their face when she tells them what we get up to!! | |||
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"T has approached guys whilst out, and told them she's a swinger. They've always been very surprised when she's said hubby is cool with her being out and having a flirt! She's also gone out with out with the female half of our old neighbours who were also a swingers. The 2 of them in a nightclub certainly caused bit of a stir amongst the vanilla guys lol " I bet they did! Does she ever do it when out with you too?? | |||
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"I've had a couple of experiences on nights out with ex-colleagues where upon reflection I realised they were suggesting something and I was oblivious. I was unaware at the time, but now know 1 was attempting to be unfaithful and 1 was actually a swinger but was too coy to ask me outright. " Well with a stranger you would never k ow if they are being unfaithful to be fair colleague yes suppose you would… We were too coy to ask we flirted with this one lady but of us she was back with us too we should of just asked her back massive regret now but can’t go back in time next time it happens one of will have to pluck up the courage suppose for us it’s the potential rejection would be embarrassing at least on here for example you get chatting and agree to meet think that’s why the stranger in a bar/club scenario is suck a turn on | |||
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"Ive been approached and I’ve also approached guys. I love telling them what we do and watching there faces x
That's the bit T loves... Seeing their face when she tells them what we get up to!! "Assuming lots or some flirting has happened before she tells them? Or is she straight out your hot we are swingers let’s all fuck haha | |||
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"We've been approached a couple of times. They didn't say they were swingers outright but it was pretty clear. We weren't interested for various reasons whichafe it slightly awkward " That would be awkward… but at least your getting some interest without asking for it no harm in saying no thank you! X | |||
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"Lots of flirting x "Can certainly see how they would be happy to flirt with her and welcome her advances and approach her as well very attractive looking lady! X | |||
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"We've been approached a couple of times. They didn't say they were swingers outright but it was pretty clear. We weren't interested for various reasons whichafe it slightly awkward That would be awkward… but at least your getting some interest without asking for it no harm in saying no thank you! X " Absolutely no harm at all. | |||
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"We've been approached a couple of times. They didn't say they were swingers outright but it was pretty clear. We weren't interested for various reasons whichafe it slightly awkward That would be awkward… but at least your getting some interest without asking for it no harm in saying no thank you! X Absolutely no harm at all. " Those your keen on happy days hopefully naughty fun follows those your not it’s still very flattering  | |||
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"I’ve had a few conversations with vanillas, but like responses on here, it’s lead to nothing, but u can see some are very interested in the subject… one conversation in a bar with a lady off here, who was out with friends but again nothing came of that.. but hey ho, onwards and upwards "Absolutely we were keen to see what others thoughts were and what experiences they have had if any.. been some interesting answers and if anyone sees is out in Cambridge one night providing we aren’t with kids of cause feel free to come chat… | |||
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"Couldn’t think of anything worse, I’m on a mission when I’m out n about" Fair enough | |||
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"Hubby's mate figured out we were a little open. Ended up with a threesome once he go courage. Never had a meet without site or people have flirted with before hand x" We wouldn’t play with anyone we know away from here if that makes sense this is a private part to our lives if you get what we mean | |||
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"Hubby's mate figured out we were a little open. Ended up with a threesome once he go courage. Never had a meet without site or people have flirted with before hand x We wouldn’t play with anyone we know away from here if that makes sense this is a private part to our lives if you get what we mean " Totally understand and agree. But he is hot and after a few drinks and some begging couldn't help it. Only did it once with him but always wants another go but have said was a one off lol xx | |||
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"P has done it four times on a girls night out. Two singles that came back for an mmf,(one very successfully and the other not so much) and two guys so P could have her airtight and skiing fantasy fulfilled but they bottled it when the taxi pulled up outside our house but at least she got a free ride home "From your pics I would say they seriously missed out!!! | |||
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"Hubby's mate figured out we were a little open. Ended up with a threesome once he go courage. Never had a meet without site or people have flirted with before hand x We wouldn’t play with anyone we know away from here if that makes sense this is a private part to our lives if you get what we mean Totally understand and agree. But he is hot and after a few drinks and some begging couldn't help it. Only did it once with him but always wants another go but have said was a one off lol xx" Haha that’s fAir enough has he been ok with the one off must be hard if you see them regularly and they know you are active swingers xx | |||
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"No, because I'm not a wierdo." What would make you a weirdo? | |||
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"Just wondering have anyone just approached random stranger/strangers in a bar or club (not a naughty one) and told them your swingers and had any joy? And on the flip side have you ever been approached in a bar or club by someone/couple who have told you their swingers and asked you back to theirs? We got chatting to a lady once in a bar she was there alone but never asked when back at our hotel we both said we should of bitten the bullet and just asked her to come back to our hotel! " Sort of yeah. On a night out I got chatting to some guy in a club. My friends vanished. So I started flirting with this man. He said he wasn’t interested in guys, but would consider it if I found a woman. So I went on the dance floor, started dancing with this woman and told her the deal. That I want to go back with her, and there’s another guy too. She was up for it, I introduced him to her and we all got along great and were up for it… we hopped in a taxi and you can guess the rest. Had similar happen with two women too, though they were the ones who came up to me. | |||
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"I was on a stag night in Manchester and in a lap dance bar, when I spotted a hot couple sitting at one of the tables. I thought I’d test the water so sat at table beside them. Very soon we were having a chat and the husband just came out with “do you want to fuck my wife”? That was us off to their apartment for the next couple of hours. Little did they know (or did they) that I knew their game from the start "You played them at their own game and all won | |||
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"Yes On our last night out, my husband went to the bar and was immediately greeted by a women in a group, he stood at the bar talking for 5 minutes then called me over, I had then realised he had already explained to her that she was of interest to him for some ffm fun She was a very attractive blond which isn’t out normal type but to be fair she stood out Turns out she was local to us and had never played in a ffm situation but had wanted to for a while I return to my seat as I left my coat and bag and let him carry on for another 5 minutes to seal the deal We had an amazing night and she very much enjoyed herself after returning to ours
Sometime thing arise from different situations "Th female half is always getting approached when we're on a night out, especially when I have to leave her to go to the bar to order drinks or toilet | |||
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"We have had someone be as direct as ask us straight up shall we have a threesome then unfortunately he was way to young and into the Mr " How young was he your a young couple yourselves he must of been mad not to want to have mrs involved too very sexy looking lady | |||
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"We have had someone be as direct as ask us straight up shall we have a threesome then unfortunately he was way to young and into the Mr How young was he your a young couple yourselves he must of been mad not to want to have mrs involved too very sexy looking lady " Probably about 18/20 | |||
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"We have had someone be as direct as ask us straight up shall we have a threesome then unfortunately he was way to young and into the Mr How young was he your a young couple yourselves he must of been mad not to want to have mrs involved too very sexy looking lady Probably about 18/20 " Ok if he had been interested in both of you rather than just mr would you of been more interested? Or is that way too young for you guys ? | |||
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"We have had someone be as direct as ask us straight up shall we have a threesome then unfortunately he was way to young and into the Mr How young was he your a young couple yourselves he must of been mad not to want to have mrs involved too very sexy looking lady Probably about 18/20 Ok if he had been interested in both of you rather than just mr would you of been more interested? Or is that way too young for you guys ? " Thats just way too young for us my son's twenty Plus the Mr is entirely straight so it's a hard no | |||
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"We have had someone be as direct as ask us straight up shall we have a threesome then unfortunately he was way to young and into the Mr How young was he your a young couple yourselves he must of been mad not to want to have mrs involved too very sexy looking lady Probably about 18/20 Ok if he had been interested in both of you rather than just mr would you of been more interested? Or is that way too young for you guys ? Thats just way too young for us my son's twenty Plus the Mr is entirely straight so it's a hard no " Fair enough don’t want to be in bed with someone same age as your kids | |||
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"No but I did pick up a guy in a lift between the 38th and 9th floors once - so maybe that counts! "Wow that’s either a very slow moving lift or you move incredibly fast haha x | |||
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"Am not really a swinger as much as am just a guy who likes women and nice sex , prefer a fwb if a can more than anything tbh , previously had one , a find approach girls in public to chat up / hook up lol can be effective in long run but a can see how those on here properly within the lifestyle may not be able to do that " When we were both single had no problem approaching people in bars or clubs etc but for some reason find it more difficult as a married couple to do so | |||
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