FabSwingers.com forum: PEOPLE WINK THEN IGNORE

By *ONTJUDGETOSOON OP Couple
35 weeks ago

suffolk East anglia

Why do people wink?

Then you send them a message and they ignore you.

It's not just guys but mainly couples.

Is it because we ask for the fem half to prove she there or even alive ????

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
35 weeks ago

Leicester

We have had couples wink us then hide their profile so we can’t even wink back.

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By *otguy555Man
35 weeks ago

Bristol

I have received winks from couples singles and everything in between. Always reply to a wink with a quick message saying hi or thanks for the wink. And no reply. I think some people are just button bashing!!

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By *ublinstud_MisstattooCouple
35 weeks ago

City Centre

"Why do people wink?

Then you send them a message and they ignore you.

It's not just guys but mainly couples.

Is it because we ask for the fem half to prove she there or even alive ????"

We don't get this either. Happens so many times. They fab our pics wink look at us and even when we reach out and message first we are ignored. And this mainly from well verified couples

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By *hrops56Man
35 weeks ago

Telford

I asked this question the other day , it's happened to me a few times .

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By *otguy555Man
35 weeks ago

Bristol

"Why do people wink?

Then you send them a message and they ignore you.

It's not just guys but mainly couples.

Is it because we ask for the fem half to prove she there or even alive ????

We don't get this either. Happens so many times. They fab our pics wink look at us and even when we reach out and message first we are ignored. And this mainly from well verified couples "
I definitely won't ignore a message from you guys x

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By *andPextraCouple
35 weeks ago

North West

Which is why we just ignore them. Send a mesaage, it doesn’t take long

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Why do people wink?

Then you send them a message and they ignore you.

It's not just guys but mainly couples.

Is it because we ask for the fem half to prove she there or even alive ????

We don't get this either. Happens so many times. They fab our pics wink look at us and even when we reach out and message first we are ignored. And this mainly from well verified couples "

Welcome to fab.

That's why I mainly just go to clubs. Cut out all the rubbish and chat to people face to face.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
35 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I don't know why people wink.

I don't even look at them any more

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By *ublinstud_MisstattooCouple
35 weeks ago

City Centre

"Why do people wink?

Then you send them a message and they ignore you.

It's not just guys but mainly couples.

Is it because we ask for the fem half to prove she there or even alive ????

We don't get this either. Happens so many times. They fab our pics wink look at us and even when we reach out and message first we are ignored. And this mainly from well verified couples

Welcome to fab.

That's why I mainly just go to clubs. Cut out all the rubbish and chat to people face to face.

Thank you

But been on this a long time now. We just delete at times. We go to events, but people are even weirder with us there. Could be cause we are pretty different looking from the rest. UK might be more for us lol

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
35 weeks ago

north of lincoln

We only tend to get winks when we post photos. We then receive a ton of messages as well. So if we see someone we like and wink back the message may then get missed. The new friends only message area is a great start to helping with messages. Next we need a filter on them for couples and single guys

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By *otguy555Man
35 weeks ago

Bristol

Literally just had a guy wink and message me and click on his profile and it's hidden

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By *ot to giggleWoman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

i forget to check them

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
35 weeks ago

Thurrock

Noticed this aswell. The other one is they message first you reply then it’s never read

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By *ee12367Man
35 weeks ago

sheffield

I’ll reply to all

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By *istr3ssWoman
35 weeks ago

Stockton-on-Tees

I don't reply to winks. If they're genuinely interested, they'll message

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Perhaps they have just bottled it. They weren’t expecting a reply in the first place and then when it happens it takes them by surprise.

I’ve had a quite a few exchanges on here which have gone well but then it just ends when it comes to talking about meeting in person. On every occasion I’ve suggested a social first for the record.

I don’t hold it against them because just being here on this site could be far outside of their comfort zone.

I sometimes think the people on here who have experience can often forget that others are trying to overcome mental barriers and it’s not actually you that’s the problem.

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