FabSwingers.com forum: Initial first impressions on a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We've all been there... the anticipation of a first meet.. the first time you meet and set eyes on one another in a bar.. all be it a single or a couple..

So... how soon in your mind do you know you want them undressed and indulging in sexual activity?

I had a meet recently and within five minutes I knew instantly.. however, I also had a meet not so long ago.. where there was no chemistry, no sparks and incorrect profile information on their part... it was a case of nice meeting you but no thanks.. This time I knew instantly it wasn't going to happen!!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find this too, within 10-15 minutes you get a true feeling for a person and no matter how sexy their pictures are if they have an appalling personality then it 'I'm sorry, but not for us'!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know straight away if I want to shag them based on look if I look at them and there's no attraction I stay for one drink for manners and leave if I am attracted to them I can usually tell after a couple of drink if we click personality wise as well

By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

If its a Hell yes! Or a Damn, no! I know within a few minutes, sometimes instantly.

Its the maybe's that take a bit more working out...combination of looks, personality, chemistry, expectations, reputation, having seen them naked in pics or on cam can all play an influence. Then its a question of taking a jump and going for it, having another social...or just politely moving on.