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"So what you’re saying is it’s everyone rises fault. It’s the fault of men ruining it for other men, and women getting a big ego because they get do many messages? " | |||
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"I dont get what everyone rises fault means??? Ive explained some reasons I see that make it hard...thats easy enough to get isn't it??" Instead of attributing the problem to everyone else you would be better off asking what you’re doing they maybe isn’t working. And the ratio of M/F on here is heavily against single men anyway. This get it is. It’s not that men are ruining it, or women getting a big ego (which is what you said in your post). Too many single men chasing too few single women, and this women have choices and preferences. That’s all it is. No one is causing a problem, it’s just how it is. | |||
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" No I dont think thats wholly true. I see it all the time when women put posts up saying theyre innundated with crass emails and also seen attitude shown on here as well. The original fun of beong on here seems to be gone" I’m only citing what you said. | |||
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"I think it can be really hard making contact on here. There is a lack of genuine people, I hate to say it but I think a lot of men ruin it for genuine people with their attitudes. I do think some women get a really self-inflated ego trip because of the number of msgs they get. Its not as fun as it used to be" My advice is to go to clubs or socials and meet people …. Clubs being my preference- just do it | |||
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"But how many, aftwr getting shit msgs, take the time to read others" If people want to meet single men they will read messages that look as if they're not shit. | |||
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"So what you’re saying is it’s everyone rises fault. It’s the fault of men ruining it for other men, and women getting a big ego because they get do many messages? " | |||
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"I think it can be really hard making contact on here. There is a lack of genuine people, I hate to say it but I think a lot of men ruin it for genuine people with their attitudes. I do think some women get a really self-inflated ego trip because of the number of msgs they get. Its not as fun as it used to be" The key as a single guy is standing out from the others - both when ladies are browsing and in their inboxes. Yes, other mens’ poor behaviour has an influence but in a sea of guys those ladies need to see something more. Maybe you could ask this forum whether the ladies think your profile stands out or look from their viewpoint and browse other guys profiles and see which ones you would click on. | |||
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"there is to many timewasters and fake profiles and thats just the couples " Use your gut instinct or any hidden super powers | |||
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"I don't have this problem OP. No one is making it harder. Guys with crap profiles, no profile picture, no public photos just make it easier for the rest of us. " Great profile and pics. Couldn't agree more. | |||
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"I think it can be really hard making contact on here. There is a lack of genuine people, I hate to say it but I think a lot of men ruin it for genuine people with their attitudes. I do think some women get a really self-inflated ego trip because of the number of msgs they get. Its not as fun as it used to be" Absolutely correct I don’t take this site serious it’s all a bit of fun. Just use it as wank material as you’re unlikely to get a meet with a female. If your BI no problem you can meet men all day long. If women had the same sex drive as men then there wouldn’t be a problem as the ratios would be equal. Women hold the golden ticket always have and always will because us men generally will fuck anyone women need a connection mentally then they have to be attracted and then your cock has to be the perfect size and then there is probably another 100men on here just like you. Don’t waste your time spend your energy in a club or at your local pub easier to meet someone face to face. Good luck | |||
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"Some men do really well because they make an effort, their profiles are good, their pics are good and they generally sound like decent humans. Some blokes do crap because they have zero pics or just a cock, they have negative profiles or absolutely no profile at all & put zero effort in & then come to the forums to winge about it. I wouldn't reply to a profile with no photos and negative status. You get out what you put in OP - no effort in = no effort out." I do ok without photos. Understand it means miss out on some though. I do put the effort in on chat. Used to have photos but had people using them sadly | |||
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"I think it can be really hard making contact on here. There is a lack of genuine people, I hate to say it but I think a lot of men ruin it for genuine people with their attitudes. I do think some women get a really self-inflated ego trip because of the number of msgs they get. Its not as fun as it used to be Absolutely correct I don’t take this site serious it’s all a bit of fun. Just use it as wank material as you’re unlikely to get a meet with a female. If your BI no problem you can meet men all day long. If women had the same sex drive as men then there wouldn’t be a problem as the ratios would be equal. Women hold the golden ticket always have and always will because us men generally will fuck anyone women need a connection mentally then they have to be attracted and then your cock has to be the perfect size and then there is probably another 100men on here just like you. Don’t waste your time spend your energy in a club or at your local pub easier to meet someone face to face. Good luck" A lot of men on fab will fuck anyone but that's not true for everyone. I decline more offers than I accept. Some guys know what they want and go after that. | |||
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"I think it can be really hard making contact on here. There is a lack of genuine people, I hate to say it but I think a lot of men ruin it for genuine people with their attitudes. I do think some women get a really self-inflated ego trip because of the number of msgs they get. Its not as fun as it used to be Absolutely correct I don’t take this site serious it’s all a bit of fun. Just use it as wank material as you’re unlikely to get a meet with a female. If your BI no problem you can meet men all day long. If women had the same sex drive as men then there wouldn’t be a problem as the ratios would be equal. Women hold the golden ticket always have and always will because us men generally will fuck anyone women need a connection mentally then they have to be attracted and then your cock has to be the perfect size and then there is probably another 100men on here just like you. Don’t waste your time spend your energy in a club or at your local pub easier to meet someone face to face. Good luck A lot of men on fab will fuck anyone but that's not true for everyone. I decline more offers than I accept. Some guys know what they want and go after that." Agree. Yeah has to be some chemistry as much better fun. On occasion bang and go ok when in need but much better nice connection to person meet | |||
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" Absolutely correct I don’t take this site serious it’s all a bit of fun. Just use it as wank material as you’re unlikely to get a meet with a female. If your BI no problem you can meet men all day long. If women had the same sex drive as men then there wouldn’t be a problem as the ratios would be equal. Women hold the golden ticket always have and always will because us men generally will fuck anyone women need a connection mentally then they have to be attracted and then your cock has to be the perfect size and then there is probably another 100men on here just like you. Don’t waste your time spend your energy in a club or at your local pub easier to meet someone face to face. Good luck" "Unlikely to get a meet..." Nonsense. I'm the living proof - if a blankety-blank old blank like me is getting regular playtimes, anyone can. | |||
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"I think it can be really hard making contact on here. There is a lack of genuine people, I hate to say it but I think a lot of men ruin it for genuine people with their attitudes. I do think some women get a really self-inflated ego trip because of the number of msgs they get. Its not as fun as it used to be" You’ve had 2 meets in 10 months, that’s not bad OP some been on here years and no meets. Of course there is always the guys beating them away with a shitty stick ! There just isn’t enough hot wives for us all | |||
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"It’s incredibly easy. Message someone and they message back if they like your profile and what you say - or am I missing something? " Yes you've totally missed the part where you leave your profile pic as a silhouette and then come onto the forums to moan that women aren't falling at your feet and it's all the other silhouettes fault | |||
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