FabSwingers.com forum: How many sexual partners have you had?

By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

What's your age and how many people have you slept with? Apparently the average is less than 5!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

37.

Lots

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By *bione_1Man
41 weeks ago

Broxbourne

"37.

Lots

Good girl x

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By *ueerKinkyCoupleCouple
41 weeks ago

Cambridge (She/They And They/Them)

About 150.

Dee

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"37.

Lots

Good girl x"

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
41 weeks ago

Northampton

Erm, over what time period?

Over a weekend? 4 each, so we’re definitely below the average

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By *hong80321967Man
41 weeks ago

Wakefield

Not enough

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
41 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'm 67 and I don't know how many. More than 10 and less than 50.

Mr N is 66 doesn't know how many. More than 10 less than 500.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Around 40

Lost coubt after 20

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
41 weeks ago

tamworth

I think around 20 for me, before swing I was at 5.

For him, 7

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By *riel13Woman
41 weeks ago

Northampton

51...more than that

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By *elloWoman
41 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"What's your age and how many people have you slept with? Apparently the average is less than 5!"

Had lots in my 20s and 30s but 40s have been rather dry, which I am making changes to rectify

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By *agatoXXXMan
41 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

I used to have a wooden headboard on my bed, but I whittled it away carving notches in it.

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By *agatoXXXMan
41 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

"I used to have a wooden headboard on my bed, but I whittled it away carving notches in it.

With hindsight, maybe I shouldn't have used a chainsaw.

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Bodmin

I have never counted them

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

The average is different for men and women. Last I looked it was something like 7 for women and 9 for men. It's also different results in different countries.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Might have to sit this one out!

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Three Men including husband.

Five other women.

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By *ellinever70Woman
41 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I'm 53

More than some, less than others

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

36.

Not sure, somewhere between 30 and 40? More to come I hope!

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
41 weeks ago

somewhere

More than 100 but less than 200

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By *om and kellyCouple
41 weeks ago

dundee

well over 100 in our swinging life.x

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"well over 100 in our swinging life.x"

damn that much

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By *ursecretmissionsCouple
41 weeks ago

Essex

Way too many haha

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By *rispyDuckMan
41 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I’m still a virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"The average is different for men and women. Last I looked it was something like 7 for women and 9 for men. It's also different results in different countries. "
, that's not what I thought it would be, thought it would be the other way around, interesting.

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By *he Gentleman 4uMan
41 weeks ago

Aston

Age 43 and 18 partners

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By *ananas57Couple
41 weeks ago

lake ariel

Let’s see my age times 3 divided by the square root of 2= I’m no good at math

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By *ellhungvweMan
41 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"Apparently the average is less than 5!"

I assume that is a monthly average?

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By *ealitybitesMan
41 weeks ago

Belfast

Still in single figures

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

5 in a week?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

I gave up keeping count. What's the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

25+ 1 every 2 years of my lifetime! Doesnt seem a lot does it?

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
41 weeks ago

Maidstone

I'm 50 and absolutely no idea. I've forgotten any that haven't happened within the last year... well because I'm getting on a bit... so no idea. Some. I'm going with some. Final answer.

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By *orace99Man
41 weeks ago

York

55 and a mere four.

I feel like.i have been missing out on the good times

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Aged 53 and 4. I am very careful.

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By *ogan2099Man
41 weeks ago

Colchester

Low to mid 20’s genuinely unsure how many

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By *enStarrMan
41 weeks ago

Lancaster

About 6? Aha

Not many to be honest

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By *WB85Man
41 weeks ago

Staffordshire

In the vanilla world.....2.

In the swinger world....4.

38 and it appears I need to up my game.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
41 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Aged 53 and 4. I am very careful."

Going by that logic I'm not careful at all

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By *nj6969Couple
41 weeks ago

Grimsby

No comment.... X

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
41 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

Bugger knows lol

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By *ony MannMan
41 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal// Andover

65 and about 70 partners

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By *mbernectorCouple
41 weeks ago

Doncaster

I think around 150

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By * and RCouple
41 weeks ago

lincoln

Never started counting.

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By *bzpinkWoman
3 days ago

Chesterfield

Only 6 and 1 from this site lol

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
3 days ago

Bristol

A gentleman never tells 🤔🤣

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By *eo369Man
3 days ago

Sleaford

I'm 56 and have had sex with about 40 women

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
3 days ago

Bristol

Genuinely not a clue, not sure I'd remember them all if I tried.

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By *_2025_uniWoman
3 days ago

cambridgeshire

41…and 17

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By *966world2000Man
3 days ago

Pontefract

Just this week ? Lol

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By *attyyy3Man
3 days ago

Edinburgh

Just one for me...the wife

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By *ot MediterraneanCouple
3 days ago

Bedfordshire

"Just one for me...the wife"

Lost count years ago

The wife is close to more women then men

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By *WeePurpleDragon.Couple
3 days ago

East Lothian

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By *atte Lover 82Man
3 days ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

42 years old and it's in the low 20's

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
3 days ago

Ipswich

Absolutely no idea, nor care really. Just keep on increasing it 🤣

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By *onnachakeaneMan
3 days ago

Dundrum

And you?! Do you concur with these figures….. 😉

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By *alsaman15Man
3 days ago

Market Drayton

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By *regS332Man
3 days ago

st austell

Only 9 but that's ok 😁

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
3 days ago

Manchester

I'm 37 in a couple of weeks and I don't know the exact number, somewhere around the low 20s I think but I stopped counting when I started swinging.

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By *he Boy of WonderMan
3 days ago

Glasgow

I couldn’t tell you the spot on figure but I am around the 60-70 mark for full sex, oral would be far higher.

For a borderline ginger that’s not bad, most have been willing too (joke joke)

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By *oneyVWoman
3 days ago

Cirencester

5!!!!! Wow

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 days ago

Central

2 or 3, a day on average?

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By *uninlondon69Man
3 days ago

Tower Bridge South

I'm 50 and probably around 60-70 privately. If you add in gangbangs I've been part of then it's easily 200+

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By *otAndSharedXCouple
3 days ago

Downham Market

Between 25 and 30 for me.

Ryan 40+

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
3 days ago

london

140-160

I was holiday rep for a few years in the early to mid 90’s in Kavos and Skiathos. D.

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By *ucknutMan
3 days ago

durham

55 and over 50

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By *end1Man
3 days ago

southend on sea

Is it bad that I actually kept a book n yes I've still got it giving marks. And where I met from other dating sites etc. I'm up to 103 so far😊

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By *onnachakeaneMan
3 days ago

Dundrum

If you need a volunteer to level up those numbers 🤣😆😉

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By *elloWoman
3 days ago

alpha centauri

"What's your age and how many people have you slept with? Apparently the average is less than 5!

Had lots in my 20s and 30s but 40s have been rather dry, which I am making changes to rectify "

41 weeks after posting this and my digits have gone up by only 2

For lent I'm giving up being so hard to get

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By *xfordjohnMan
3 days ago

Oxford

Sleeping with? Literally - just my three wives.

Had sex with? About 20 women and 6 or 7 men but as I'm in my early 70s it's a bit hard to remember exactly........

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By *ucka39Man
3 days ago

Newcastle

Above 20 but below 30 and how many times 😂 triple figures

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By *erry2020888Man
3 days ago

stockport

25 for me

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By *orthernLight101Man
3 days ago

Lancaster

Only 6, but a fun 6 nonetheless

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By *g1115Man
3 days ago

sheffield

Between 10 and 20

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By *hriss920Man
3 days ago

Watford

Only one since 16 until 32. But unfortunately broke up before 2 months

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By *auraLoves2020TV/TS
3 days ago

Didcot

"What's your age and how many people have you slept with? Apparently the average is less than 5!"

well I guess I'm over average... but still nowhere near enough people have fucked me yet.

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By *haz46Woman
3 days ago

Stockport

lost count but probably over 200 had lot when at uni and holidays

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By *uenevereWoman
3 days ago

Scunthorpe

Slept with or had sex with?

Slept with, as in sharing a bed overnight, not necessarily sexual, probably 5.

Sex - it depends on your definition. If I only include penetration by a partner, 20+. If I include all sex acts, a lot more.

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By *iding DirtyMan
3 days ago

Swindon

"Slept with or had sex with?

Slept with, as in sharing a bed overnight, not necessarily sexual, probably 5.

Sex - it depends on your definition. If I only include penetration by a partner, 20+. If I include all sex acts, a lot more."

I think in probably about same for slept with

Sex - 15 for sexual partners

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By *mizhereMan
3 days ago

chinnor area

Tried to count the number of women the other night was into 45 plus

Men a lot more

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By *raverage2025Man
3 days ago

Surrey

20ish

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By *igad999Man
3 days ago

wolverhampton

Quite a lot for me

Wife only 3

Partner before me, then me and then my mate we played with ages ago

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
3 days ago

here there and everywhere

6men, 3Women… just turned 40

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By *pslad99Man
3 days ago

colchester

51 and partners 11

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
3 days ago

wonderland.

Slept with probably 8, had sexual contact with.. a lot.. into 4 figures

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By *J-87Man
3 days ago

Donington

Double figures. Could be 10, could be 99......but it's 10!

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By *l chapo123Man
3 days ago

Costa del sol

What's the highest so far

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By *fffunCouple
3 days ago

Never you mind

1 and married to them for the last 20 yrs

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By *fffunCouple
3 days ago

Never you mind

Probably be the lowest number on here

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By *ktg-bseTV/TS
3 days ago

Ipswich

I’m average then, I can’t handle more than 5 cocks at once. Sorry to disappoint

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By *dfabMan
3 days ago

Dunboyne

More than my age now at 56

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By *igboobstCouple
2 days ago

barrow

45 no idea

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By *ingleopenbimaleMan
2 days ago

stockport

Age 45 here and had 5 sexual partners

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By *hgoonthen74Man
2 days ago

Sheffield

100 +

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By *aveing funCouple
2 days ago

Wolverhampton

Doesn’t matter how many it’s not regretting any of them

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 days ago

Cheltenham

More than my age.

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By *elboy1978Man
2 days ago

Jarrow

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By *ilva69Man
2 days ago

stockport

Wow ! Erm

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By *nthehillscouple2024Couple
2 days ago

hants

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
2 days ago

furnace

Too many to count

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By *ecky and justCouple
2 days ago

Godalming

Early 50’s and stopped counting a long time ago.

Easily over 100

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
2 days ago

Bedale

For me, I'd guess about 80. Stopped counting in the mid 60s which was a few years ago and things have slowed down since then. Age 39.

For Lucy, from prior information I'd guess about 25, age 42

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By *otlovefun42Couple
2 days ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

I suppose the definition of "sexual partner" is important on this one. Does it mean only fucked or does only sucked, licked, wanked and fingered Etc. come into it?

Anyway actually fucked.

Mrs. Well over over 400 during our swinger club days plus around 20/30 before so I'd say 500 ish.

Mr. Probably just over 200 I did try to count a few years ago and got to 180 but I'd probably forgotten a few and had a good few since.

If I tried to add all the non fuck ones I've no idea where the number would go but well into 4 figures between us.

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