FabSwingers.com forum: Are you into rough sex?

By *he love cats OP Couple
18 weeks ago

South Wales

How rough has it got and what would you like to try but haven't yet.

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By *edDevil5Man
18 weeks ago

Midlands

Love rough sex

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By *herry delightWoman
18 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I do like rough sex not pain but rough.

I would like a rough outdoor group meet unlikely but I can dream.

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By *inkyguyUKMan
18 weeks ago

worcester

I like to give rough sex if that's what they like

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By *ellinever70Woman
18 weeks ago

Ayrshire

It's not something I'd enjoy, no

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
18 weeks ago

Neath valley.

Rough sex is one thing but a guy knowing when it's reaching abuse level is another. Most ladies like to be fucked hard and thrown around a bit during sex but I had one guy pull my hair out from the roots on one meet and that did not end well for him. Guys need to realise when they are going to far rough wise.

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By *unchalMan
18 weeks ago

Dartford

"Love rough sex

Yeah. No pain or spitting or humiliation though. Happy for firm to very firm handling. Is that rough enough?

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By *itygamesMan
18 weeks ago

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
18 weeks ago

Southampton

Nope

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By *herry delightWoman
18 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

"I do like rough sex not pain but rough.

I would like a rough outdoor group meet unlikely but I can dream. "

I don't mind the odd bruise or mark but not when it's been the force of play. For example I don't mind a bit of flogging but not to the point it gets painful or brakes the skin. One guy I meet was asked to do that to someone and he said NO.

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By *ucka39Man
18 weeks ago

Newcastle

I wouldn't classify as rough play but intense most certainly adding plenty of lust sweat

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
18 weeks ago

Durham

Not into rough sex although it does have a place for many.

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
18 weeks ago

rochester

Oh god, yes please to rough sex for me. Much prefer a man to be firm with me, as opposed to being soft and gentle.

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By *he love cats OP Couple
17 weeks ago

South Wales

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By *aughtyhub80Man
17 weeks ago

Wallasey

I like rough sex and would like to find a woman who wants to let me be in full control

CNC

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By *heBlowinsCouple
17 weeks ago

West Cork

"I like rough sex and would like to find a woman who wants to let me be in full control

CNC "

This is big for us ^^

Waiting for this comment to be deleted as it's not openly talked about on Fab

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By *ampire69Man
17 weeks ago

Birmingham West Midlands

Simple you have an agreed safe word at the start

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By *oroMale41Man
17 weeks ago

Stockton on tees

I don't prefer rough sex, tends to make me cum quicker. I rather take it slow and enjoy for longer

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By *inkyCeltMan
17 weeks ago

Newport

Love strong feisty women who play rough

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By *idlandiaMan
17 weeks ago

Birmingham

Well I'd like to borrow B'Elanna Torres off Tom Paris, so maybe

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By *rincessFlirtWoman
17 weeks ago

London/Leeds

Yes has to be rough x

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By *ymbunny79Woman
17 weeks ago

sheerness

Love tough sex

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Hair pulling, hard kisses, held down with hand around neck!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

With people I trust, absolutely

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
17 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Adore rough sex but only with people I trust and who know my limits.

Not into painful sex but dominant, rough, pinned down, neck holding, hair pulling, spanking, gripping, primal, fucking take me kind of sex - hell yes!

Be prepared for a struggle though - I don't submit easily

S xxx

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By *eviant-Kinky-CoupleCouple
17 weeks ago

town

Absolutely yes! We both really enjoy the rougher play that leaves you sore for days afterwards

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By *oe buckMan
17 weeks ago

London

I had never experienced it before but I meet a lady off a dating site that was into a bit of rough sex but not pain…i really enjoyed it it was nice to be rough but followed up by kissing and being sensual etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Rough = Yes

Pain = No

Mrs

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By *entleman of FortuneMan
17 weeks ago

Hull

I enjoy it, but there is a caveat it's for her arousal, and one word and it stops. Bit of hair pulling, spanking, hand over mouth ect and deep, hard fucking, that's fine, but slapping soft choking ect, I like that kind of role play but I'm always wary of harder play. It's not always all of those I'll already be aware of what she like from previous conversations and watch her reactions to make sure she's cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Fuck yea, love rough sex

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By *entleman JayMan
17 weeks ago

Wakefield

Not for me. Frantic maybe, but rough no.

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By *arry monk40Man
17 weeks ago

Telford

Rough and verbal

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By *lutty_FetgeekWoman
17 weeks ago

Wallasey

I'm a fan

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
17 weeks ago

South West London

I am into rough sex but prefer it nice and sensual

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By *oroMale41Man
17 weeks ago

Stockton on tees

"Rough = Yes

Pain = No

Mrs "

Didn't know this was possible

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
17 weeks ago

Neath valley.

"Rough = Yes

Pain = No

Mrs

Didn't know this was possible "

If you don't grasp it then you are not a proper dominant. Rough can be good but then there are those who step it up to abuse level.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
17 weeks ago

Maidstone

Sometimes. With the right guy. Then yes please... but we also have the gentlest of sex too. I fucking love it as a package deal

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By *eart31Couple
17 weeks ago

Broxburn

Definitely a fan!

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By *ustamanMan
17 weeks ago

weymouth

Not really prefer sensual

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By *ustAnotherMan
17 weeks ago

Tam

Im usually more sensual, girl I was with liked choking and being ch. which I enjoyed but it makes me nervous.

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By *orbidden eastMan
17 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Mood depending. But yes!!!

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By *ublinstud_MisstattooCouple
17 weeks ago

City Centre

We love rough

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
17 weeks ago

Inverness

Love a bit of rough, hand round my throat and some hair pulling.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I met a girl (off here), who put her hand around my throat while I was on top of her. I done the same back, and we orgasmed together.. It was fucking heavenly!

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By *ista MrMan
17 weeks ago

Hartlepool

Yes love rough, always conscious of going to far...safe words are ideal

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
17 weeks ago

near you...

I think most girls like a bit of throw down sex but really about knowing the limits and what the sweet spot is. Lx

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By *hilswhore1000Couple
17 weeks ago

tunstall

Rougher the harder the better some times

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By *arl traceyMan
17 weeks ago

Stoke on Trent

Same here love nothing more than taking the Mrs hard bent over ,she likes it hard up her arse too !

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Wife loves to make love

I prefer to fuck

So take turns lol

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By *icentiousCouple
17 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

If the restraints attached to the tree are not taut enough to show.

Or the bed in the hotel is not destroyed enough., I’d call it , Acadia Avenue .

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By *andyman8607Man
17 weeks ago

sandhurst

It's good fun. But it's only good when it's discussed and everyone knows each others limits.

The amount of times I hear about guys who take it way to far and it ends up being anything but rough. I can understand why people are so reluctant towards having sex this way.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
17 weeks ago

Ryde

I like a bit of throat-grabbing, but only if it's my husband doing it, as actually he won't hurt me and knows exactly what my limits are.

I also like him slapping me around the face during sex, but - again - it's because I trust him and he knows how far to take it.

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By *J the bullMan
17 weeks ago

Washington

Love rough sex and more...

But always within defined limits..

and always with safe words or signals so both know if anything needs to stop..

And any goid dominant would stop even without safe words if they think a partner has taken to much!

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Bolton

I love being victim of rough sex, CNC, bandage, spanking, cbt all turn me on

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By *hilledguy2020Man
17 weeks ago

Gateshead

I like being dominant but like OP say got to know limits.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
17 weeks ago

SW Scotland

Very rough for us sometimes, hand round neck, lots of impact fun and being picked up/thrown about too

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By *uncouplerk40Couple
17 weeks ago

It’s on our bucket list. Wow loving the suggestions here

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By *entleman kinksterMan
17 weeks ago

london

"Very rough for us sometimes, hand round neck, lots of impact fun and being picked up/thrown about too"

good communication and boundaries are essential to allow all parties to ‘let loose’

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"Im usually more sensual, girl I was with liked choking and being ch. which I enjoyed but it makes me nervous. "

I listened to a news report about the dangers of choking in sex and how its easy to go wrong. Fine line between a hand round your neck and choking. It requires alot of trust that the person you are with knows the line.

I like a dominant man who is in charge... Spanking is great ... firm sex .... perhaps a little rough ...

But I was once slapped round the face during sex... it was not consensual ... I asked him not to do it again ... 2 minutes later he did it again .... 2 minutes later I was dressed and out the door.

So rough or firm or dominant requires communication and understanding of limits and consent. And trust.

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By *eliWoman
17 weeks ago

Yes I do. It's not something I'm interested in doing on a casual sex level though - for me part of the attraction of being so primal with another is that intimacy.

Being able to lean in to that with someone who truly desires me and feels comfortable enough to express that? Incredibly sexy.

I like that feeling of being thoroughly fucked, love the way my cunt eagerly clenches around someone's cock as they grip my hair that little bit tighter. How much more intense my climax is if I'm bitten at that sweet point of release, my body hyperaware and sensitive. Luckily for me I have quite a high pain threshold.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Not rough as such , a firm grip of my throat at the right time however drives me wild .

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

And the ladies too

"Rough sex is one thing but a guy knowing when it's reaching abuse level is another. Most ladies like to be fucked hard and thrown around a bit during sex but I had one guy pull my hair out from the roots on one meet and that did not end well for him. Guys need to realise when they are going to far rough wise."

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By *ubwife4uCouple
17 weeks ago

Maidstone Area.

We enjoy rough combined with slow and sensual. She likes to alternate between the two. One minute the guy is slowly building her up while kissing her all over and sensually touching, but without warning he switches to hard and rough, calling her names, pulling hair and pinning her down. If she is on her back, get a hand round her throat or if she is on her front, push her face into the bed. Switch it from caressing her to manhandling. And when she is squirting, she has a natural reflex to close her legs so it’s great when there are a few guys there to hold them by the ankles and knees to ensure they stay wide apart. But, never, never spit or slap her face.

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By *umblefunMan
17 weeks ago

London/ South East

Love it , but it’s got to have agreed limits, also really unlikely to be a one off. There needs to be time to build trust.

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By *undee2Man
17 weeks ago

Dundee

Oh yes. You are too young and innocent for me to describe my favourite scenes

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By *illedwifeCouple
17 weeks ago

Highlands

Oh yes

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
17 weeks ago

cardiff

Yes!

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By *ardleedsMan
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Defo, arse spanking, tit slapping nipples pulled hair pulled filthy slut talk. Pussy stretching anal fingering lots of licking and light biting...just need to find a willing woman now lol

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By *uietControlMan
17 weeks ago

Bath

Mostly led by mood. Sensual tends to progress to urgent and firm to bring to orgasm. And if she can take it.

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By *rbiggyMan
17 weeks ago

Yes but difficult to find someone who enjoys it rough with me being hung

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By *heBeardedOneUKMan
17 weeks ago

Huntingdon

Can't get enough of it

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By *orders-cplCouple
17 weeks ago

middx cpl

i love rough sex not into love making

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By *incloudukMan
17 weeks ago

Medway

Yeah I like watching it

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Love rough sex! My ex once said could we have normal sex, I replied we do, he said no where I don’t kick you, slap you, spit at you etc I replied vanilla absolutely never

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By *ddingextraspiceCouple
16 weeks ago

cumbria

Not too rough, just a very hard pounding

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By *mbernectorCouple
16 weeks ago

Doncaster

All depends on my mood

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By *hilswhore1000Couple
16 weeks ago

tunstall

I need some very very rough sex

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By *entmike76Man
16 weeks ago

bury

Love ot as part of a balanced diet

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
16 weeks ago

St Neots

When I first met my little slut, she expressed to me that she likes it really rough. I was obviously like, "that's hot, no probs". I just didn't realise how rough. I know how to be dominant when needed but at the same time I'm also naturally very gentle and would never like to hurt anyone so it's still something I'm working on. My slaps are probably not firm enough and my grip around her neck is probably not tight enough. I fuck her very hard though and she loves it.

- Mr S

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By *oxladMan
16 weeks ago

WORKSOP

Prefer to be passionate than rough

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By *avexxMan
16 weeks ago

cheshire

i can switch to rough sex easy

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By *ellroseWoman
16 weeks ago

Solihull

Define rough ?

There’s ‘rough’ then there’s ‘rough’

If you know you know

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By *avexxMan
16 weeks ago

cheshire

"Define rough ?

There’s ‘rough’ then there’s ‘rough’

If you know you know "
.. i know

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By *rispyDuckMan
16 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"How rough has it got and what would you like to try but haven't yet."

“I fucked her like I hated her & kissed her like I loved her”

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
16 weeks ago

St Neots

"How rough has it got and what would you like to try but haven't yet.

“I fucked her like I hated her & kissed her like I loved her”

Love that! Definitely how we do it. Unless she's asked me to spit in her face/mouth lol

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By *otwifeHusband888Couple
16 weeks ago

Within touching distance

Mrs loves it.

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By *eardedman76Man
15 weeks ago

westminster

I used to have rough fantasies about my bearded stepdad some decades ago

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By *lint-EverhardMan
15 weeks ago

Perpignan and cap

I'm not into it at all, I got sucked off by a bloke the other day and one of the reasons why I didn't enjoy it was he was too rough, Too forceful and too quick. I won't be doing that again.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Met somesome years sgo and they said they liked it rough, and i thought oh a little slap here and there and tie her up, oh no it was a whole new term to rough that i found out and it sure opened my eyes and its something ive been slowly working on but again everyone is different on how rough they like it

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By *otty BikerMan
15 weeks ago

Warrington

Love it yeah, when everyone's in the mood

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
15 weeks ago

chichester

Not really no just good all round sex is fine with me

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By *herry delightWoman
15 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I think there are lots of different levels of what people think of as rough. For example people have said that the guy in my videos is rough but I definitely won't say it was anything like rough sex.

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
15 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I'm into Boundaries and Limits it's all about TRUST and takes time to build. No BPP just mutual excitement.

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By *oe n JayCouple
15 weeks ago

Surrey

Interesting topic

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By *allandathleticMan
15 weeks ago

Asgard

As long as everyone participating is SSC and RACK aware

Other than that, just fuck hard.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
15 weeks ago

Cheshire

I like sex that’s enjoyable but it can depend on the guy or girl. Big macho bloke then I’d expect him to be assertive and manhandled me a bit. A more feminine guy less so.

I have played rough with female partners including derogatory language. But in each case it had built up over several occasions and getting to know her.

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
15 weeks ago

Inverness

Not too rough I’m only little.

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By *herry delightWoman
15 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

"As long as everyone participating is SSC and RACK aware

Other than that, just fuck hard."

SSC is a absolute MUST.

Surely the anyone participating in rough play should be RACk aware because if not then they shouldn't be participating.

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By *ustoursecret1Man
15 weeks ago

Plymouth

Love it rough

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Yes I like rough sex but not pain

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