FabSwingers.com forum: the catch ?

By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Ok what's the con ?

message a profile . Reply said horny now , then sends post code saying come over now .

now its pretty unlikely to be genuine so what do you think the motive is ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well nobody knows do they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask for a phone number and watch them go quiet.

As for motivation, who knows, no one will ever publically admit to doing crap like that so why speculate. And if you think that it's fake then just block and delete.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

They have run out of milk so are going to ask those who answer to stop off at the shop on the way over....

Or possibly just causing mischief on a boring bank holiday afternoon.

Or they are horny and want someone to come round now.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

If its real, why send post code?

Maybe they get off on watching you walk up and down street trying to figure out which house to go to...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Timewasters.....don't bother. When they contact you again and say 'oh why didn't you turn up, we was waiting naked for u', you can say 'because you were too stupid to tell me your house number so I didn't bother".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or you're being used in a prank-the person you're being messaged by is actually sending you round an ex's/enemies house to scare the crap out of them

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or, it was a genuine offer. And they've got sick n tired off waiting on you and invited someone else, because you chose to post on here, asking an inane question rather than go and meet them! Enjoy your afternoon.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Or, it was a genuine offer. And they've got sick n tired off waiting on you and invited someone else, because you chose to post on here, asking an inane question rather than go and meet them! Enjoy your afternoon.

He couldn't. He doesn't know the house number. Would you travel to a road on the offchance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He couldn't. He doesn't know the house number. Would you travel to a road on the offchance? "

I'd have mailed them back asking for more details. I certainly wouldn't jump right into the forums asking if i should or shouldn't go!

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By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Now who is jumping in ? Did i say i was asking advice , did i say i had just done this ? No ! I sent my no , no text or call, i asked for house number , was asked where i am , replied saying about 2 miles away , so far no reply !

i will reliterate , i have no need for advice , just throwing this out there as conversation piece x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now who is jumping in ? Did i say i was asking advice , did i say i had just done this ? No ! I sent my no , no text or call, i asked for house number , was asked where i am , replied saying about 2 miles away , so far no reply !

i will reliterate , i have no need for advice , just throwing this out there as conversation piece x

And i was participating in said conversation piece with a view. Then, someone else participated with a question, and i answered him.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a sort of conversation. We could talk about cock sizes instead.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok what's the con ?

message a profile . Reply said horny now , then sends post code saying come over now .

now its pretty unlikely to be genuine so what do you think the motive is ? "

it could be qenuine, not everyone wants to spend ages chatting some are just looking for a quick shag

You never know till you try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i will reliterate , i have no need for advice , just throwing this out there as conversation piece x

I wouldnt worry about that one...on most threads he jumps in very negative at any posts

argumentative some peeps are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread won't last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i will reliterate , i have no need for advice , just throwing this out there as conversation piece x

I wouldnt worry about that one...on most threads he jumps in very negative at any posts

argumentative some peeps are"

Aaah, so its now being negative to say that a user may be genuine?? Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He couldn't. He doesn't know the house number. Would you travel to a road on the offchance? "

The problem with this site is because people are so fixated on time wsters when they do get a genuine offer they are always in two minds

I remember a while ago I booked a hotel to meet a guy who canceled the meet last min so I looked for someone else to meet, id been chatting to a guy on and off for a few days and I mailed him asking if he was free and if he wanted to meet explaining the situation and he agreed to meet but never turned up, when I mailed him the next day asking where he had got to he told me he had never had a woman mail him on here before and felt it was a wind up so he didn't bother going, then went onto asking if I really did have a hotel and was I being genuine

I think that happens a lot, men see it as to good to be true so probably is a piss take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would at least want a phone number so I could be sure it wasn't a geeza and enough of the address so that I did not have to knock on every door in the immediate vicinity. Probably tricky explaining to strangers that I'd come for a shag, and yes it's true as I have the postcode. The next step from there is to fuck Fab off and just take to the streets door knocking and offering your services until you get your end away or end up in A&E. It is all very well talking of time wasters and people refusing genuine meets when offered on a plate, but I'd need slightly more of a guarantee before venturing out with a trusty postcode.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Tease them....Your a time waster

Offer it on a plate....Your fake

just cant win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i will reliterate , i have no need for advice , just throwing this out there as conversation piece x

I wouldnt worry about that one...on most threads he jumps in very negative at any posts

argumentative some peeps are

Aaah, so its now being negative to say that a user may be genuine?? Lol. "

never said anything about that...i just made comment on something id noticed on many threads from you that u jump in and always have a tone and negative, but thats my observation..maybe its how its written and read

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By *onboy777Man
over a year ago

Newark

Nothing ventured nothing gained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok what's the con ?

message a profile . Reply said horny now , then sends post code saying come over now .

now its pretty unlikely to be genuine so what do you think the motive is ? "

Its a case of "Never you mind where I live, call round and shag my wife" - Yeah, right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i will reliterate , i have no need for advice , just throwing this out there as conversation piece x

I wouldnt worry about that one...on most threads he jumps in very negative at any posts

argumentative some peeps are

Aaah, so its now being negative to say that a user may be genuine?? Lol.

Or maybe its because when reading a text, the context of it doesn't come across the same as if it was actually being said if you know what i mean?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Nothing ventured nothing gained

I used to be on a sex site that specialised in 'meet now' messages and I used the facility successfully a couple of times. If I am horny then sometimes waiting a couple of days just doesn't help.

Having said that, I did give out my address. Helps people find me.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I so love handbags at dawn x

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By *onboy777Man
over a year ago

Newark

"Nothing ventured nothing gained

I used to be on a sex site that specialised in 'meet now' messages and I used the facility successfully a couple of times. If I am horny then sometimes waiting a couple of days just doesn't help.

Having said that, I did give out my address. Helps people find me.

It normally helps to give your address out as its hard work knocking on doors in a big city and wastes time when you could be having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess they could tell who you were, the bloke walking up and down the road with a semi!

best get a phone number first!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Nothing ventured nothing gained

I used to be on a sex site that specialised in 'meet now' messages and I used the facility successfully a couple of times. If I am horny then sometimes waiting a couple of days just doesn't help.

Having said that, I did give out my address. Helps people find me.

It normally helps to give your address out as its hard work knocking on doors in a big city and wastes time when you could be having fun

My address is so hard to find we've lost takeaway drivers several times. If it was for a shag though I'd make sure they could find me.

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By *onboy777Man
over a year ago

Newark

"Nothing ventured nothing gained

I used to be on a sex site that specialised in 'meet now' messages and I used the facility successfully a couple of times. If I am horny then sometimes waiting a couple of days just doesn't help.

Having said that, I did give out my address. Helps people find me.

It normally helps to give your address out as its hard work knocking on doors in a big city and wastes time when you could be having fun

My address is so hard to find we've lost takeaway drivers several times. If it was for a shag though I'd make sure they could find me.

Maybe you should only order takeaways off here then they would find you and you'd get some nourishment

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By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Oddly enough the profile went off line

of course no one knows and it certainly does not matter however my guess is the same as the female profiles who display mobile numbers asking for phone sex ie they are playing a prank x

now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ?

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By *onboy777Man
over a year ago

Newark

"Oddly enough the profile went off line

of course no one knows and it certainly does not matter however my guess is the same as the female profiles who display mobile numbers asking for phone sex ie they are playing a prank x

now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ? "

Been sent a few fake numbers in the past not off here least it keeps them amused

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Now we shall never know! I suppose she went away because her 1st ever meet never turned up!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oddly enough the profile went off line

of course no one knows and it certainly does not matter however my guess is the same as the female profiles who display mobile numbers asking for phone sex ie they are playing a prank x

now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ? "

I invite people off here in to my home. I accept the "risks" etc (I know many will say "well you have been lucky so far") but have done so on and off for years and trust my instincts. I also never give my house number, just a postcode until they are in the street. That way, if they are time wasters they don't know where I live!

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By *onboy777Man
over a year ago

Newark

"Oddly enough the profile went off line

of course no one knows and it certainly does not matter however my guess is the same as the female profiles who display mobile numbers asking for phone sex ie they are playing a prank x

now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ?

Well said but being a man women want an address so they can let someone know where there going and before they enter the lions cage as so to speak

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ? "

And who in their right mind would go to a strangers house? Its a risk we choose to take on here and seems to pay off most of the time.

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By *onboy777Man
over a year ago

Newark

"now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ?

And who in their right mind would go to a strangers house? Its a risk we choose to take on here and seems to pay off most of the time."

You get a feel what the person is like chatting on here or via text and a lot of people have a social meet somewhere public first to make sure there meeting someone sane normal and with out a straight jacket

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By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Oddly enough the profile went off line

of course no one knows and it certainly does not matter however my guess is the same as the female profiles who display mobile numbers asking for phone sex ie they are playing a prank x

now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ?

not sure how it mitigates the timewasters cant see how it avoids meeting a stalker type either ,bear in mind in my case there had been zero conversation . I was not suggesting it wrong to invite to house after a period of getting to know and a phone call or two

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ?

And who in their right mind would go to a strangers house? Its a risk we choose to take on here and seems to pay off most of the time."

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By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ?

And who in their right mind would go to a strangers house? Its a risk we choose to take on here and seems to pay off most of the time.

really !? You endorse , inviting complete never spoken a word sex crazed strangers to your own private home address ?

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By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Bearing in mind that is the exact equivalent of leaving your address in a random public place with cum fuck me on it

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over a year ago

"Oddly enough the profile went off line

of course no one knows and it certainly does not matter however my guess is the same as the female profiles who display mobile numbers asking for phone sex ie they are playing a prank x

now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ?

I find it quite odd that now we are all grown up we forget that some of us in our youth probably met someone at a nightclub, party etc and had sex with them the same night....no worries of strangers, stalkers, wierdos etc at the time! I accept with age comes caution and I am aware of some awful experiences some people on here have had, but we all have our "ways" and should stick with what is comfortable and works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you looked at the postcode on google maps...may have been the middle of nowhere. Either that or the google camera car may have caught a scantily clad hottie stood at the door waiting to flag down approaching cars!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ?

And who in their right mind would go to a strangers house? Its a risk we choose to take on here and seems to pay off most of the time.

really !? You endorse , inviting complete never spoken a word sex crazed strangers to your own private home address ? "

I prefer hotel meets now but I've had men round with very little prior chat beforehand yes. I am not sure I need to be lectured on this site of all places about it though.

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By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ?

And who in their right mind would go to a strangers house? Its a risk we choose to take on here and seems to pay off most of the time.

really !? You endorse , inviting complete never spoken a word sex crazed strangers to your own private home address ?

I prefer hotel meets now but I've had men round with very little prior chat beforehand yes. I am not sure I need to be lectured on this site of all places

about it though."

there seems to be confusion between

very little ie some communication and zero ie none !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oddly enough the profile went off line

of course no one knows and it certainly does not matter however my guess is the same as the female profiles who display mobile numbers asking for phone sex ie they are playing a prank x

now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ?

Same here. I give a postcode, to give an idea where I am, but house number goes by text, not on here. I certainly find this seperates the 'serious' from the less so. Its amazing how many go 'quiet' after you explain that to them!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ?

And who in their right mind would go to a strangers house? Its a risk we choose to take on here and seems to pay off most of the time.

really !? You endorse , inviting complete never spoken a word sex crazed strangers to your own private home address ?

I prefer hotel meets now but I've had men round with very little prior chat beforehand yes. I am not sure I need to be lectured on this site of all places

about it though.

there seems to be confusion between

very little ie some communication and zero ie none !"

You must have had some communication with the other person for them to send you their postcode.

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over a year ago

"now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ?

And who in their right mind would go to a strangers house? Its a risk we choose to take on here and seems to pay off most of the time.

True, but would you go if you had never spoken to the person and just had a postcode? Going to a stranger's house or inviting a stranger to yours is always risky, but no harm in mitigating that risk with a conversation on the phone or maybe if unsure a public meet first, or going to a club etc.

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By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"now lets just for a moment say genuine , who in their right mind would invite a total stranger into their home ?

And who in their right mind would go to a strangers house? Its a risk we choose to take on here and seems to pay off most of the time.

really !? You endorse , inviting complete never spoken a word sex crazed strangers to your own private home address ?

I prefer hotel meets now but I've had men round with very little prior chat beforehand yes. I am not sure I need to be lectured on this site of all places

about it though.

there seems to be confusion between

very little ie some communication and zero ie none !

You must have had some communication with the other person for them to send you their postcode."

that is what im telling you all lol no

it went

me hi Blah Blah Blah , hope i can tempt

you

her now

me maybe what would you like to know

her gives post code

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 hours ago???? I think you may have missed the opportunity

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By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Opportunity ? Seems the profile in question has been blocked by admin x

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Ok what's the con ?

message a profile . Reply said horny now , then sends post code saying come over now .

now its pretty unlikely to be genuine so what do you think the motive is ? "

I always insist on a number I can call. If not then no meet. Simple as.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

i will reliterate , i have no need for advice , just throwing this out there as conversation piece x

And i was participating in said conversation piece with a view. Then, someone else participated with a question, and i answered him. "

You weren't participating you were criticising without the full facts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i will reliterate , i have no need for advice , just throwing this out there as conversation piece x

And i was participating in said conversation piece with a view. Then, someone else participated with a question, and i answered him.

You weren't participating you were criticising without the full facts."

Was i? Oh i'm sorry. But the op didn't give out the full facts in his original post, and only added the fact that he sent his number and little details like that, AFTER i posted. So how could i NOT post without knowing the full facts?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

i will reliterate , i have no need for advice , just throwing this out there as conversation piece x

And i was participating in said conversation piece with a view. Then, someone else participated with a question, and i answered him.

You weren't participating you were criticising without the full facts.

But the FACT was that he did say he only got a postcode. Calling his question 'inane' was not particularly nice and very judgemental. From what he said in the original post I instantly thought it was not a genuine offer and took it as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i will reliterate , i have no need for advice , just throwing this out there as conversation piece x

And i was participating in said conversation piece with a view. Then, someone else participated with a question, and i answered him.

You weren't participating you were criticising without the full facts.

And thats your right, to 'instantly' think that the offer wasn't genuine is your prerogative. Whereas, its MY prerogative to say that maybe, just maybe, it was genuine. Some of us on fab actually believe in giving the benefit of the doubt UNTIL PROVEN otherwise.

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