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By *arkhelga OP   Couple
20 weeks ago

leeds

Does anyone wink anymore, do you reply with a wink,wink and let someone knowX

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By *ikesEmBigMan
20 weeks ago

Herts

I'm always winking..but I think I've misread this

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By *coobyABCMan
20 weeks ago

Aberdeen

If I get winked at, I will check out their profile and wink or fab something back!

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By *arkhelga OP   Couple
20 weeks ago

leeds

Not many it seems, we've been winking furiously this morning X

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By *r John WickMan
20 weeks ago

The Continental

I do occasionally, if I see that someone is open to them as an icebreaker.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
20 weeks ago

Next Door

I rarely look at my winks and hardly ever wink at a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

If they are being accepted & we like them why not..

Helps break the ice..

Mrs..

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By *andb69Couple
20 weeks ago

leeds

We do. It just means we appreciate what we see.

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By *educerMan
20 weeks ago

Brentwood

It shows initial interest, if reciprocated then message

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By *heelerMan
20 weeks ago

Northants

I think a wink is a notification that you are interested and like the look and the profile of the person you winked ,if they are interested a wink back or a message and communication will result.

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By *r Black 85Man
20 weeks ago

nottingham


"Does anyone wink anymore, do you reply with a wink,wink and let someone knowX"

Just winked you guys

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By *agnar1980Man
20 weeks ago

Poole

I wink as an icebreaker, if I get a wink back then I’ll send a message but think that’s a confidence thing with me

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
20 weeks ago

Stourbridge


"Does anyone wink anymore, do you reply with a wink,wink and let someone knowX"

Yes I wink and I am happy to receive them( I never do but used to as a couple))

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By *umalotagainMan
20 weeks ago

a town called malice


"Does anyone wink anymore, do you reply with a wink,wink and let someone knowX"

Of course I wink, just can’t wink at you again for another week

C xx

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By *azzolatinoMan
20 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

I wink all the time as I don’t like to pressure anyone with messages

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
20 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I've had a couple of meets that started as winks so fully open to winking, I just don't get it when blank profiles wink

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By *RcoupleCouple
20 weeks ago

Manchester

I see winking as a sign of appreciation

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By *xOxonguyMan
20 weeks ago

Oxford

I wink as an ice breaker. If get one back or a profile view I'll then message

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By *ractorlad3800Man
20 weeks ago

derbyshire


"I wink as an ice breaker. If get one back or a profile view I'll then message "

I do the same as this good to know if the other person is slightly interested

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By *aomilatteCouple
20 weeks ago

Midlands

We'll look at a profile of anyone that winks, if we're interested we'll wink back. We've had a few meets that have started that way, though many don't follow up with a message.

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By *herry delightWoman
20 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I just delete them now and then, never look at them, don't see the point of them.

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By *rBobbMan
20 weeks ago

Birmingham

I haven't used the wink for initial contact for a while as I didn't really get a responses or initial winks.

I mainly use it when there are games going on in the forum and it is just a bit of fun.

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By *hinstrapMan
20 weeks ago

Barnsley

I love a good wink. It's like hey . I'm interested. Check me out. Great to break the ice. Is always win.k back or message .

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By *upcake and wandmasterCouple
20 weeks ago

long eaton

Even though our profile says we ignore them, they still arrive by the dozen.

Makes it easy to tell who couldn't be bothered to read the profile.

So, they have a indirect use to us.

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By *lthomasMan
20 weeks ago

Wolves

I wink

Fab the pictures I like, wink if I like the profile/ people. And stated as that on my profile incase done looks if I wink.

Always reply with a thanks if I get winked at

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By *ilfAndDilf24Couple
20 weeks ago

bolton

We always wink if we like the look of someone, if they return the wink then we send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I wink at everyone who complains about recieving winks.

It is odd when you do the wink tennis then they don't reply to an opening message. Oh well.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I send a wink on a very rare occasion.

Whenever I receive a wink, I always reply with a wink or a message, then get nothing back

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
20 weeks ago

Thurrock

We like the wink system it’s a good way to gauge interest, if someone winks us and we like their profile we will happily send an introduction message and go from there

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By * and BCouple
20 weeks ago

Durham

We don't use winks. If someone winks us it tells us they couldn't be arsed to read our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Being a newbie it’s a decent way to kick off & gauge interest… that said being a newbie is half the issue. You get limited winks back & get little to nothing back when messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I have to agree with the last post. It's a mine field on here when a newbie . Sometimes you forget and wink once you've read a profile then immediately regret it cause you know it's probably going to get you blocked. Still learning the ropes still working toward verifications

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
20 weeks ago

shankill

I wink away. If I get blocked fine, if I don’t, also fine.

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By *ap-scarCouple
20 weeks ago

Sleaford

We do wink...it means we like what we see and if we get one back then we message.

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By *il-redWoman
20 weeks ago

Glasgow

I get that many winks I can't keep up so I mostly ignore them.

Exception to the rule being women/couples. If I'm actively searching for potential play partners, I'll send them a wink to let them know I'm interested. If I get nothing back within a week, and I'm still interested, I'll just message.

So much to keep up with on here that I don't read too much into them!

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By *eaSlutsCouple
20 weeks ago

Glasgow

We still use the winks as a way of showing interest or not. If we get winked and the profile is appealing, we wink back. If we wink someone and they reciprocate, we'll follow up with a wee message.

C x

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By *airybobMan
20 weeks ago

Telford

I still like to wink but very rarely get a response and that’s a view of my profile never one back

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"We still use the winks as a way of showing interest or not. If we get winked and the profile is appealing, we wink back. If we wink someone and they reciprocate, we'll follow up with a wee message.

C x"

Same here. Also saves time by knowing that if you get a wink back then there is some form of interest and then the messages start flowing

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By *agicfingers1Man
20 weeks ago

near Brighton

I wink as a initial icebreaker and to show appreciation and interest. But it's rarely reciprocated

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By *el13ABCMan
20 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Always wink when I see someone that catches my eye

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By *ynecplCouple
20 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If we wink and they wink back we message them to start a conversation.

If they wink us if we are interested we will wink back and hope they will follow up with a message.

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By *bxanfCouple
20 weeks ago

Freddy Fazbear's Pizzeria, Stourbridge

We wink if we want to show interest but be casual about it.

If we get winked by couples we will send a message back

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By *ouple3334MFCouple
20 weeks ago

birmingham

We appreciate the wink system think it’s a good way to show interest and if you get one back more often than not your message will be read and receive a reply

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By *elshnewbies69Couple
20 weeks ago

cardiff

We wink to show that there is an interest on our part and are open to chatting and see where things go

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By *elboy1978Man
20 weeks ago

Jarrow

I wink very rarely get a wink

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By *orthernbanterMan
20 weeks ago

Wakefield

I wink and if I receive one back then I know there interested

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By *laytonAMan
20 weeks ago

Newport

I wink most times unless profile explicitly calls out not favoured or checked. If I really like someone will follow up a day or two later with a message or sometimes skip the wink and go straight in with a message.

If I get a wink in return of a wink I message straight back.

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By *alentedfMan
20 weeks ago

Near Newbury

I like to think of a wink on here as the same as a cheeky smile.

Often send a cheeky wink and always reply to them.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
20 weeks ago

Leeds

We wink occasionally and I'll respond if someone winks who we like the look of.

Mrs

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By *rispyDuckMan
20 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Im a winker

If they don’t respond to wink I don’t message makes things easier

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Central

I wink a lot and respond to them

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
20 weeks ago

Gloucester

We wink to show interest. If we get one back we will then send a message. Seems that a lot of people don’t use them however

Kink (Mrs)

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By *oozleMan
20 weeks ago

high wycombe

I normally wink if I interested and then, if they take a peek at my profile I will send a nice pleasant message to see if they would like to chat.

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By *h-why-notMan
20 weeks ago

Isle of Wight

I wink as a sign of appreciation and as an ice breaker. If i get a wink back then will send a message

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
20 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

We like the wink system and always return the gesture if there is mutual interest

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By *inkyguymkMan
20 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

Admittedly, I'm a bit of a winker. I think it's probably more polite from a single guy. Women and couples inbox must get bombarded from single guys, so it's a way of showing interest. It's very rarely reciprocated unfortunately

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Bolton

I'm old fashioned so I use winks as a way of initial flirting

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By *aabmanMan
20 weeks ago

bognor regis


"Admittedly, I'm a bit of a winker. I think it's probably more polite from a single guy. Women and couples inbox must get bombarded from single guys, so it's a way of showing interest. It's very rarely reciprocated unfortunately "

I agree entirely

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