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23 yr old male Is it wrong to think he's hot?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A 23 year old just looked at me. As he isnt a site supporter I had a little look at his pics. Hes well hot is the word to use. Fit body, but agewise is same as my daughter, so its morally really wrong. Would never meet because of that. Is it wrong to perv him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No of course not! Your child is no longer a child so 23 is an adult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop looking at my profile please

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Nothing wrong with looking

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


" As he isnt a site supporter I had a little look at his pics. "

You do know you can look without them knowing about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should it be morally wrong, he's not related to you in any way.

Your attracted to him, he's most probably attracted to you, your both adults on a sex site looking for NSA sex, wheres the problem ???

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A 23 year old just looked at me. As he isnt a site supporter I had a little look at his pics. Hes well hot is the word to use. Fit body, but agewise is same as my daughter, so its morally really wrong. Would never meet because of that. Is it wrong to perv him?"

Morally wrong? Why? Does he remind you of your daughter? What if he was 24,25,26,27,28,29,30 at what age does it become morally ok? I've always wondered about this morallity thing people attach to the age of your children. What if your daughter was 40 And he was 40 is that still wrong? These aren't all aimed at you by the way as lots of people equate the minimum age to morallity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no its not wrong, men in their fifties like women in there twenties, do you think they worry about it.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If its wrong I don't want to be right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

I look at pics and if I like, then I look at the profile

There are a lot of very attractive folk on here in their late teens and early 20s

Younger bodies in general do look better than older ones, but as we all know how they look is only part of the story.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A 23 year old just looked at me. As he isnt a site supporter I had a little look at his pics. Hes well hot is the word to use. Fit body, but agewise is same as my daughter, so its morally really wrong. Would never meet because of that. Is it wrong to perv him?

Morally wrong? Why? Does he remind you of your daughter? What if he was 24,25,26,27,28,29,30 at what age does it become morally ok? I've always wondered about this morallity thing people attach to the age of your children. What if your daughter was 40 And he was 40 is that still wrong? These aren't all aimed at you by the way as lots of people equate the minimum age to morallity."

No he doesnt remind me of my daughter it is purely the fact that he is over 20 years younger than me I wouldnt go there. If he was 40 id be 60 plus so no I dont think I would either but who knows? ask me if im still site member in my 60s lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its wrong I don't want to be right. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you find people of his age attractive, the only person you are denying is yourself and solely on the basis of a moral compass that is set around a conventional idea of what a meeting of bodies should look like.

Sometimes what you think should feel so wrong can feel so right - but only once you get over your own preconceptions.

I speak with first hand knowledge of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you find people of his age attractive, the only person you are denying is yourself and solely on the basis of a moral compass that is set around a conventional idea of what a meeting of bodies should look like.

Sometimes what you think should feel so wrong can feel so right - but only once you get over your own preconceptions.

I speak with first hand knowledge of that.

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Same age as my kids?....... But they're not my kids......no problem....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same age as my kids?....... But they're not my kids......no problem...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's hot, he's hot, regardless of his age. If hes on this site then he is old enough to be drooled over sweetie!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If he's hot, he's hot, regardless of his age. If hes on this site then he is old enough to be drooled over sweetie! "
True enough. Anyway he cant message me and I wont him plus hes not local.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Finding another human being sexually attractive is only ever morally wrong if they are under age, its the actions you take afterwards that could be classed as immoral. But I can't think of anything that you could do with him that was mutually consensual that would be wrong in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no its not wrong, men in their fifties like women in there twenties, do you think they worry about it. "

Yeah, all the time. But only worry about them being faster runners than us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A 23 year old just looked at me. As he isnt a site supporter I had a little look at his pics. Hes well hot is the word to use. Fit body, but agewise is same as my daughter, so its morally really wrong. Would never meet because of that. Is it wrong to perv him?"

Quoting and elderly Cook Islander I knew..

"If electricity comes from rapidly moving electrons, does morality come from rapidly moving morons?"

- Willy "Snapper" Tikitemi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with looking or even wanting him - you are both adults after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get why people start going on about their kids when looking for meets, if I was shagging a 20 year old the last thing on my mind would be my daughter

I wouldn't meet a 20 year old because im not sexually attracted to baby faced young lads but if I was id meet them, sod how old my kids are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should it be morally wrong, he's not related to you in any way.

Your attracted to him, he's most probably attracted to you, your both adults on a sex site looking for NSA sex, wheres the problem ???

XXXX"

Meet the guy. But don't tell yer daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some young guys like myself like older women but can see from your point

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland


"If its wrong I don't want to be right. "

Wrong

Would it be wrong to kiss?

Seeing I feel like this

Would it be wrong to try?

Wrong

Would it be wrong to stay?

Here in your arms this way

Under the starry sky

If it is wrong

Then why were you sent to me?

Why am I content to be?

With you forever

So, when I need you so much

And I have waited so long

It must be right

It can't be wrong

- It Can't Be Wrong (Frank Sinatra)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at younger and touch too......and nope I don't see anything wrong with it for NSA fun

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By *oublewodkaWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I told my eldest daughter last week that I have been seeing a guy her age. She was great about it....perhaps it's cos she knows I am open minded....perhaps cos she knows I am just sex mad!

Each to their own....as long as we are all

Consenting adults...and safe!!

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By *avindaWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

I would not feel comfortable with someone so much younger than myself, thats why l set my age range, as flattering as it is to be told how good you look.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why should it be morally wrong, he's not related to you in any way.

Your attracted to him, he's most probably attracted to you, your both adults on a sex site looking for NSA sex, wheres the problem ???

XXXX

Meet the guy. But don't tell yer daughter."
He wont ask he cant message me and I wouldnt. was just a question here really. i was just perving like you do. want bit older guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would not feel comfortable with someone so much younger than myself, thats why l set my age range, as flattering as it is to be told how good you look."
me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding another human being sexually attractive is only ever morally wrong if they are under age, its the actions you take afterwards that could be classed as immoral. But I can't think of anything that you could do with him that was mutually consensual that would be wrong in any way."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"A 23 year old just looked at me. As he isnt a site supporter I had a little look at his pics. Hes well hot is the word to use. Fit body, but agewise is same as my daughter, so its morally really wrong. Would never meet because of that. Is it wrong to perv him?"

There are quite a few young men on here with fit bodies, witty and good communicators: hot as fuck but none I find sexually attractive.

Doesn't stop me purving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A 23 year old just looked at me. As he isnt a site supporter I had a little look at his pics. Hes well hot is the word to use. Fit body, but agewise is same as my daughter, so its morally really wrong. Would never meet because of that. Is it wrong to perv him?"
are you talking about me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not wrong to perve, I do it all the time just wouldn't send them a message

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By *e nicerWoman
over a year ago

Costa del Medway


"Why should it be morally wrong, he's not related to you in any way.

Your attracted to him, he's most probably attracted to you, your both adults on a sex site looking for NSA sex, wheres the problem ???

XXXX"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morality shouldnt play a part in your decision making (to a certain extent of course). It juat becomes an excuse..if you like the pics and it gets you a bit hot under the collar; your both adults, so decision is all yours.

...and it cant have been my profile was it? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A 23 year old just looked at me. As he isnt a site supporter I had a little look at his pics. Hes well hot is the word to use. Fit body, but agewise is same as my daughter, so its morally really wrong. Would never meet because of that. Is it wrong to perv him? are you talking about me? "
not you no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Morality shouldnt play a part in your decision making (to a certain extent of course). It juat becomes an excuse..if you like the pics and it gets you a bit hot under the collar; your both adults, so decision is all yours.

...and it cant have been my profile was it? Lol"

no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this ageism is morally wrong. He is a consenting adult and not related to you at all. If you're attracted to him you should perve and if you want to meet him do so.

Men rarely have such qualms about meeting someone much younger, on the contrary they see it as a trophy.

A young, fit, hard body is very attractive, no matter how old you are.

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

send his details so i to can have a little perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this ageism is morally wrong. He is a consenting adult and not related to you at all. If you're attracted to him you should perve and if you want to meet him do so.

Men rarely have such qualms about meeting someone much younger, on the contrary they see it as a trophy.

A young, fit, hard body is very attractive, no matter how old you are."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with looking "

Nothing wrong with doing , xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with looking

Nothing wrong with doing , xx

"

No but I did have a guy under my age limit admitedly he was 30 but have found since I think he is immature from something he said to me, so its not just the fact that hes way under just also possibly immature but who knows? I wont but someone will enjoy him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flip the coin an look at the other side... I'm 27 and my mother is 53, I would have no problem meeting a woman if her age... Or older.... And I would never think about her!! Age is a number, if your attracted to them... Who cares!

But on the mother/daughter note.... That has always been a fantasy of mine! I'm sure I'm not alone with that fantasy! Xxx

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