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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've only had 2 meets, with women and I found it ok.But do any of you get nervous when first meeting ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very very very nervous!! usually end up gibbering but hey they always wanted to come back!! its only natural to be nervous xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody terrified!!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Nope... not at all.

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

nervous excitement ...thats part of the buzz though isnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope... not at all."
Neither do I!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"very very very nervous!! usually end up gibbering but hey they always wanted to come back!! its only natural to be nervous xx "
lol well there not there for the conversation are they lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends.

I get all excited about meeting a new potential playmate that has ticked all the right boxes before the face-to-face meet, in the hope that we click.

I am not at all excited about meeting those that I would consider as friends rather than playmates, if you know what I mean!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

44 years later and i still get nervous. The day i dont get a little nervous is the day i quit. Its an excited nervous thing and if i didnt get it i would think i had become compacent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never because I am about to make some new friends, we may even have sex but that's not important, so it's the same as going to a bar really with more chance of a new friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only had 2 meets, with women and I found it ok.But do any of you get nervous when first meeting ? "

try attending some socials hun and get to know a few people .

It does help in the long run.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've only had 2 meets, with women and I found it ok.But do any of you get nervous when first meeting ?

try attending some socials hun and get to know a few people .

It does help in the long run. "
socials ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"socials ?

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Meet and greet kind of events, usually without the facilities to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unless held at chams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unless held at chams "

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Indeed!

Anyone fancy a dip in the jacuzzi?

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Kid gets more nervous than me, we know what were all there for, sitting and chatting for long periods seems to add to his anxiety, on one meet, we pre arranged for our hosts to be semi naked on our arrival, Ooo la la, what a great meet that was!!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"unless held at chams "

We're considering visiting Chams next weekend, as club novices, we're looking for someone to hold our hand

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By *igerMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Was pretty nervous but it went away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unless held at chams

We're considering visiting Chams next weekend, as club novices, we're looking for someone to hold our hand "

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Have you posted it up to see if anyone else is interested?

I have plans for the weekend already, otherwise I would join you!

Good luck!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Have you posted it up to see if anyone else is interested?"

Not yet Pearl, we'd rather go with someone we're familiar with than a complete stranger, we could be kidnapped!


"I have plans for the weekend already, otherwise I would join you!

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aww, that's very thoughtful of you, thx hun xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you posted it up to see if anyone else is interested?

Not yet Pearl, we'd rather go with someone we're familiar with than a complete stranger, we could be kidnapped!

I have plans for the weekend already, otherwise I would join you!

aww, that's very thoughtful of you, thx hun xxxxx"

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You are welcome!

Fancy joining me at the Newport one on 07 Mar 10?

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Fancy joining me at the Newport one on 07 Mar 10? "

That's a Sunday, hummm Kid has work the following day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fancy joining me at the Newport one on 07 Mar 10?

That's a Sunday, hummm Kid has work the following day "

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I could make Sat 06 Mar 10 too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was pretty nervous but it went away! "

I would love to help you make it go away hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"very very very nervous!! usually end up gibbering but hey they always wanted to come back!! its only natural to be nervous xx lol well there not there for the conversation are they lol "

well from my viewpoint, if there is no conversation there is no fucking pretty simple?? hardly going to fuck someone without speaking to them..... if thats your idea of it um all i can say is good luck....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's weird, that first meet jitters. I stand and perform in front of hundreds, sometimes thousands of people five times a week in my work without a problem. But when meeting a women or couple for the first time, I get nervous too. Not because of the probable conclusion of the meet, but I think we all have that a little voice in the back of our heads that says.. "but what if they don't like ME?" Nobody welcomes rejection... Erection yes, rejection NO!!!! But on the flip side, the first meet's a big turn on too. Personally, I like to spend some time getting to know who I'm about to have sex with. I hate meets where we're shagging within minutes of walking through the door. Feels too mechanical for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate meets where we're shagging within minutes of walking through the door. Feels too mechanical for me."

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I had one of those, wasn't that bad, except he was not a particularly attentive person, and I felt it was a bit one-sided

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"I could make Sat 06 Mar 10 too "

That'll be much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"very very very nervous!! usually end up gibbering but hey they always wanted to come back!! its only natural to be nervous xx "

Then why aren't I nervous ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you arent natural or human??? lol joking granny before the hate mail starts! u must just be one of the people who dont get nervous?? seems a bit of an obvious answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you arent natural or human??? lol joking granny before the hate mail starts! u must just be one of the people who dont get nervous?? seems a bit of an obvious answer? "

Why would you send me hate mail ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I had one of those, wasn't that bad, except he was not a particularly attentive person, and I felt it was a bit one-sided "
Think we've all had one of those!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves are what makes it fun, I've never found follow up meets to be as good because by then you know what to expect. I like the excitement of meeting and experiencing people for the very first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt?? i meant me receivin it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wouldnt?? i meant me receivin it?? "

OMG! Can I help ? Who is doing this to you ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

um i think u either poorly attemptin to rip the piss or you misplaced your hrt patch and lookin for someone to abuse?? the post was meant in jest??

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

We always get that nervous feeling...mixed with excitement and anticipation even meeting couples who we have met several times before All part of the psycological/feelings side of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"um i think u either poorly attemptin to rip the piss or you misplaced your hrt patch and lookin for someone to abuse?? the post was meant in jest?? "

How rude.

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