FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

Hi any advice from women as I’d love to get my wife involved in the swinging scene. Not so I get to sleep with other women (although added bonus) but I’d love to see her pleasured by different cocks.

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
21 weeks ago

Southend

"Hi any advice from women as I’d love to get my wife involved in the swinging scene. Not so I get to sleep with other women (although added bonus) but I’d love to see her pleasured by different cocks.

Obviously I'm a bloke but I'd say that with so many questions like this, the answer is open and honest communication.

It'll be hard but it's really the only way.

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By *enatton2Couple
21 weeks ago

West Midlands

We were a very long process with this. We both have a healthy appetite for sex and slowly tried new things, very vanilla at first, things like toys, outdoor, acting out fantasies and watching porn together. Then the suggestions naturally evolved into threesomes and more.

We’ve been together twenty plus years and the progression was gradual but now we are enjoying the solid foundations of our sex life. Communication the whole way too, no stroppyness if one person decides something isn’t for them. Move onto the next thing

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
21 weeks ago

Leeds

Just talk to her, be honest and open.

I wouldn't say having your own profile here flashing yourself is a great start though.

There has to be trust in a swinging relationship and communication.

Maybe watch open house or something and that'll ease the conversation.

Mrs

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By *rpeggioCouple
21 weeks ago

Baughurst

Does she want to be pleasured by other cocks? If you put it like that, apologies but it sounds like you want to have sex with other women and your wife involved also for your extra pleasure is seeing her, not necessarily for her enjoyment.

She must be interested and want to try swinging, and swapping, before anyone is having any pleasure with cocks or pussies. Is she comfortable with the idea of you fucking other women? In front of her? Or happy with you seeing her with another man?

It's all about her feelings, so they're no tip or magic trick or clever words. Have an open conversation. See where it goes, listen to what she says.

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By *oxy jWoman
21 weeks ago

somerset

op only you know your wife or should i say you should know her ... swinging couples are very together couples rock solid loving relationships that are very open with each other the fact your asking strangers for advice about your wife yell us that maybe you just dont know your wife or you do know your wife ie shes going to say no ... swinging is not something to force someone into as one thing swinging will do quickly is expose cracks in a not so solid relationship ...

your only hope is honest talks between you both thiers simply no other way its down to you two and nobody else

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By *icecouple561Couple
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21 weeks ago

East Sussex

What does she say when you discuss it with her? Take your lead from that

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By *uenevereWoman
21 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Swinging requires an open, honest and very secure relationship.

The fact that you're on here alone and asking this question of random strangers, indicates that you don't have this sort of relationship.

You should know your wife well enough to discuss your fantasies and desires.

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By *issmorganWoman
21 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Is it something she's shown an interest in op?

Only you know your wife and if it's something she'd be into.

Talk to her and ask her if she has any fantasies she'd like to fulfil. Mention you're turned on by the thought of her with other men and see what she says.

If it's a no, leave it at that as it won't be for everyone.

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By *inkycreamCouple
21 weeks ago

manchester

Better to do it now before you get a verification, and a divorce.

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